Xiao Wu said so much in one breath, which shows her determination not to want to get married.

When the people present heard her great story, although they did not agree with her opinion, they could not refute it, because she was telling the truth.

In today's society, the relationship between husband and wife is not exactly what Xiao Wu said.

Later, it was Gao Da Niang who said, "That's not all like that, you see, your brother and sister-in-law, and those of us, which one is not a happy marriage and a happy life?" Although the kind of situation you mentioned also exists, it is not absolute, most couples in this world are still happy, otherwise they are all as miserable as you say, who would still get married? ”

Xiao Wu said, "Auntie, what you said is right, what I said about this situation is indeed not absolute, but you can't deny that this is a common fact." ”

"It is said that people's hearts are separated by their bellies, who knows what kind of man they will meet? If I can live a good life alone, why should I risk the rest of my life? ”

"How many women in this world are full of expectations and fantasies about marriage before marriage, but after getting married and having children, they were hit hard by reality, but the wood is already in the boat, and the children are born, even if they regret getting married, there is no way to change the status quo."

"In the end, I can only compromise with life and live a life of compromise, I believe that at least half of the ten women think so, so I will not repeat their mistakes......"

At this time, the waitress who was serving the food behind them suddenly interjected, saying, "That's right, girl, you are really an understanding person, just like I thought!" It's a pity, by the time I figured out that Wei'er came, it was already late, and the children were both gone, if I hadn't had children, I would have divorced him eight hundred years ago, women, marriage is to find guilt for myself, I regretted it later, why didn't I think about it at the beginning, why did I marry him? ”

Hearing the waiter's emotion, Xiao Wu smiled slightly, and said to everyone, "Listen, I have met a bosom friend, I believe that what this eldest sister said is definitely the voice of most married women comrades." ”

Han Mingxiu said, "If you don't want to be bound by your family and don't want to take on the responsibilities of the family, then of course it's better not to get married, otherwise if you get married in order to get married, it will also cause pain to your spouse, children and yourself." ”

"But if you are willing to take on the responsibilities of the family, and you are willing to pay for the family, of course, it is better to get married, how can people live well when they are young, but the saddest years are the saddest! If you are sick and can't take care of yourself when you get old, you don't even have someone to take care of in front of you, and no one knows about being lonely, starving to death and dying of illness in a nursing home, then it's really pitiful. ”

Xiao Wu still insisted on her own point of view, she said, "If you have children, you may not be able to provide for your parents, now they are all a family of children, each of them is used to being like their ancestors, they don't come to gnaw on the old, and they are expected to support the elderly!" Let me see, it would be nice to have two or three out of ten children to support their parents. ”

"Anyway, I've thought about it, when I'm too old to take care of myself, I'll end myself with sleeping pills, so I won't lie in bed and wait for death, as for what happened after me......"

Xiao Wu spread out his hands and said in a chic manner, "Everyone is dead, what do you care about?" ”

Han Mingxiu said, "This, you still have to wait until the day you get old, if you still think like this when you get old, then you haven't lived in vain in your life, but if you regret it, want to change your mind temporarily, and want to get married and have children, then you don't have to rush." ”

"I won't regret it, I have long decided to live a lifetime alone, enjoy my own life, I believe that my life will not be worse than yours, and my happiness will not be less than yours." Xiao Wu said confidently.

Sister He Li said with emotion, "What I heard you say just now makes sense, I don't even know who to say it to." ”

Han Mingxiu said, "It does make sense, there is no right answer to this question, it's just that individuals have different attitudes towards life, whether they choose to get married or choose to be single, it is a personal choice, there is no right or wrong, we should all understand and support." ”

When Xiao Wuyi heard this, he was immediately happy, and asked Han Mingxiu, "Sister-in-law, do you support me in this way?" ”

Han Mingxiu said, "Although my sister-in-law hopes that you can get married and have children, since you have decided to be single, my sister-in-law still respects your decision." ”

Xiao Wu said gratefully, "Thank you sister-in-law for your understanding, don't worry, I will live happily for the rest of my life." ”

Xiaoqiu and Xiaosi still don't agree with Xiaowu's decision, but seeing that their sister-in-law supports Xiaowu, they trust their sister-in-law more than their own judgment, so after seeing that their sister-in-law also agrees with Xiaowu's choice, they don't say anything more......

After this topic passed, everyone focused on Aunt Zhou again.

"Aunt Zhou, when will Siyuan get married? I haven't seen Duoduo for a long time, why didn't you bring her here today? Mrs. Gao asked with concern.

Before, after a period of contact, Aunt Zhou recognized Huahua as her daughter-in-law, so she took her out to get to know everyone, so Aunt Gao and they all knew Huahua and liked her very much.

At the mention of flowers, Aunt Zhou couldn't help but feel frustrated.

Since this girl moved out, she has not come back once, she called several times, this girl always said that she was busy, and I don't know if she was really busy or because her son was sick, and wanted to ...... with her son Huang

However, based on her understanding of Duoduo in the past few months, Duoduo should not be the kind of person who can't share ups and downs, and has to run first if it is a little difficult......

But since he is not that kind of person, why is he alienated from their Zhou family and refused to come to the door again?

She and Lao Zhou are very satisfied with Duoduo, Duoduo This child has a good personality, lively and cheerful, enthusiastic and generous, full of positive energy, the most important thing is that he is simple-minded, there are no stubborn eyes, get along with such people, not tired!

They originally planned to let the two children get married this year, but they didn't expect that their son had that problem, and as a result, their desire to hold their grandson was disappointed, not only did their wish to hold their grandson fail, but even their desire to marry their daughter-in-law was hanging in the air.

I don't know why, she and Lao Zhou always feel that Duoduo wants to talk to her son Huang.

But when I think about it, I think it's unlikely.

In addition to the fact that the son has a little problem in that aspect, the rest is top-notch in terms of education, appearance, work and ability, and how many celebrities in the capital want to marry into their family, and Xiao Zhou can't look down on it.

And Duoduo is the daughter of an overseas Chinese, there is no power in the family, there is no money, and she herself is not very outstanding, how can such conditions not look down on their baby son?

Besides, it's not that my son's disease can't be cured, maybe he'll be cured in one go! With such good conditions, it is said that women with long brains are reluctant to be yellow.

……

Just in the confusion of whether the flowers were going to be with Xiao Zhouhuang, Aunt Zhou was naturally unwilling to answer when she heard others ask about the flowers.

"Uh...... We are not in a hurry, it is estimated that when Jet Cui and Niuniu get married, they will be about the same. She didn't know.

Aunt Gao didn't know what she really thought in her heart, and when she heard her say that she would let Xiao Zhou and Duoduo get married next year, she said, "Jet Cui and Niu Niu are not big yet, your Xiao Zhou is in his early thirties, let me see, I will be able to do it on New Year's Day." ”

Sister He Li also helped on the side, "Yes, Xiao Zhou is really not small, Zhang Shuqi in our unit is the same age as Xiao Zhou, and now the children are in elementary school, auntie, you better do it early, we are all waiting to drink his happy wine, and we are all waiting to see through it......"

Aunt Zhou tugged at the corners of her mouth, and said with a dry smile, "Maybe young people think differently from us, they both said that their careers have just started, and they don't have the heart to get married at this time, thinking about getting married when their careers are stable." ”

Han Mingxiu said, "That's fine, start a business first and then start a family, many promising young people are doing this now." ”

Mrs. Gao said with emotion, "The times have really changed, and we were not at all the same at that time, we used to pay attention to starting a family first and then starting a business, but now it is just the opposite of our time, starting to start a business first and then starting a family, it seems that we old guys are really going to be eliminated by society."