"Instead of counting on others, you should count on yourself." Nan Sheng looked at the apple in his hand: "Whether it's complaining or cursing, it can't solve the problem that I urgently need to solve right now." ”

"How are you going to solve these problems? I know that this is not a big problem if you can solve it with money, but the problem is that you don't have any money, where are you going to get this money? ”

"Borrow." Nan Sheng nibbled on an apple: "I think it's more reliable to find Mr. Ma than to find a scumbag." ”

"That's what I said, but how do you pay it back after you borrow it?" Tang Yan sat down: "Otherwise, I'll borrow you a little first." Although I don't have much in my hand, I'm not in a hurry to let you pay it back, you can give it to me when you have enough in your hand. ”

"Thank you Tang Yan, but I want to solve these things by myself." Nan Sheng looked at Tang Yan sincerely: "If divorce is the path I have to choose, then from now on, I will try to solve all kinds of difficulties I will encounter for the rest of my life, including financial." I can't always rely on you, I always rely on you like this, I always feel that I still have a way back, so when can I really be alone. ”

"There's got to be a process for everything."

"But the process is also divided into beginning, middle, and end, isn't it? I'm at the beginning right now. Nan Sheng grabbed Tang Yan's hand: "Believe me, I will definitely not let myself fall like this." ”

"Trust you, of course I have to believe you! Who are you, you can't beat Nan Sheng. Tang Yan held her backhand: "Promise me, don't brace hard, if you need to find me as soon as possible." I don't have much to offer, and I can't help much, but I promise that I will never leave you. ”

"Stop! Hurry up and pause, if your husband hears what you just said, he may not know what he will think. ”

"He can think whatever he likes, and how can men understand the sincere friendship between women. They are all friends of wine and meat, and those who have wine and meat and delicious food are called brothers, and when you are down, you look at it, and you can't wait to be far away. ”

"You're too subjective, aren't you?" Nan Sheng slowly looked at Tang Yan's home, a decent two-bedroom and a living room, which was simply and warmly furnished, "Your home is so clean!" ”

"Your family is not bad, with two children, it is already rare to be able to tidy up the house."

"My house is pretty neat, huh?" Nan Sheng shook his head: "Sometimes when I think about it, I also think that I am not such a qualified wife and mother. ”

"What is qualified and what is unqualified?"

"Take good care of the children, clean the house cleanly, and cook delicious meals."

"And then? Have a successful career and make a lot of money every month? Tang Yan gave Nan Sheng a roll of his eyes: "If you really have such an excellent and perfect woman, do you think she will willingly live in such a small two-bedroom and two-living room." ”

"Didn't you?"

"Of course not, you are a fairy when you think of us women." Tang Yan snapped her fingers: "This woman is the same as a man, she is 24 hours a day, and she only has such a head and two hands. This takes care of the children, cleans the house, concentrates on cooking, and earns money to support the family, which does not require time and energy. You see my house is clean, right? I'm telling you, it's not my credit alone. ”

"Your husband did it with you?"

"He really didn't help me with housework, but he didn't bother me with the food, drink, and Lazar at home." Tang Yan continued: "Don't talk about anything else, just talk about cooking this night, if he doesn't take the initiative to take care of the children and help them with their homework, I can't make a dinner that satisfies both their father and son." Why? Because you have to be distracted all the time, you have to take care of the food in the pot, and you have to go out from time to time to show the child homework, and the result is that the meal is not done, the child is not closed well, and the homework is not tutored well. ”

"You can't use one mind at the same time."

"It's not that you can't use it, but you can't use it twice, because you can't be separated, you're not a superman." Tang Yan made a move to split herself: "Anyway, I'm not that powerful, before my child was born, I made an appointment with him for three chapters." I understand that he works hard, and he also needs to understand that I am difficult in parenting, he can not help, but he can't pick and choose to block me. If I am asked to do the housework, he will have to take care of the children, and if I am asked to take care of the children, then he will have to share the housework. This child is not mine alone, and the family is not mine alone, and he cannot just ask me to sacrifice and dedicate and enjoy the fruits himself. ”

"Would he like it?"

"If he doesn't want to do anything, I'm not asking him to help me share it all day." Tang Yan wrinkled her nose and said: "Of course, you can't force him when you ask him to do things, you have to use some thoughts, such as being coquettish, complimenting, and praising him hard." My husband brushed the toilet at home, because I praised him for his strength, brushed cleaner than me, and came with a fragrance after brushing, although he complained, but every time he would take the initiative to do it, as the days went by, it became a habit. ”

"I made it all by myself." Nan Sheng said: "Every time I ask him for help, he either pushes back or says that I don't know how to feel sorry for him, saying that he is tired from working all day and has to work for me when he gets home." Over time, I won't bother him, and I will do everything myself, but it is true that as you said, I can't do everything. ”

"He said that you don't know that if you feel sorry for him, you will have a weak heart? Then why don't you ask him if he knows that he feels sorry for you? What does it mean to work for you? When you work, that house is yours alone? You, you, you're just too used to him from the beginning. A few of these spoiled children know how to be grateful and know how to give back, all of them are white-eyed wolves who can't be raised. ”

"You're right, I'm too used to him."

"What can I do if I'm used to it? Of course, it was to get rid of it in time and give this spoiled child to the junior. Tang Yan covered her mouth and smiled: "Okay, okay, I won't joke with you." This man is like a child, some can be taught, and some are not taught well by how you teach, don't be too hard for yourself, and don't take it too seriously. ”

"Don't talk about that, it's better to think about how to make money first." Nan Sheng got up and shook his arm: "It's much more terrible to have no money than not to have him, think about it, before I nodded and agreed to be his girlfriend, I didn't live a good life by myself." ”

"To put it mildly, I saw on the Internet a few days ago that the slogans of the Civil Affairs Bureau have changed, saying that marriage is not necessarily happy, single is not necessarily unhappy, one person is born, and two people cannot be left when leaving, love is a luxury, and it is okay not to have it." Tang Yan patted Nan Sheng's shoulder with a serious look: "The house is here, the child is there, as for this man, it doesn't matter if you want it or not." ”

"That's right, but Tang Yan, you must promise me that your marriage will be happy and satisfying, and you have to make me believe that there is a good marriage and a good home in this world."

"Okay, I promise you." Tang Yan stretched out her little tail finger and hooked it with Nan Sheng: "Like we agreed when we were children?" ”

Nan Sheng smiled and shook his little tail finger: "Pull the hook, hang yourself, you can't change for a hundred years." ”

When the tail finger was released, Tang Yan touched her nose and asked: "I can understand the hook, what's going on with the two words hanging?" ”

"I don't know, maybe we learned it wrong when we were kids."

"I guess I learned it wrong."