"I also think it's scary." Nan Sheng set his eyes on Xiaobao, who was trying to climb in the ball pool: "Maybe you're right, there is true love between the two of them." ”

"If you really don't really love them, let them go." Zhou Wei sighed: "True love is nothing for a while, but true love is rare for a lifetime." Take me and my ex-wife, who also regarded me as true love when she married me. As for me, of course, it was because I loved her that I chose three media and six hires to marry her home. As a result, the marriage broke up within two years. ”

"Why did you divorce your ex-wife?"

"The reasons are complex, and there are many aspects." Zhou Wei said: "One is that there is less gathering and more separation, and the feelings are slowly fading. One is that the family has a heavy burden, and all the work inside and outside the home is counted on by her as a woman. This is a little princess before marriage, and an old nanny after marriage, which woman can stand this psychological gap. There is also a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. ”

Zhou Wei sighed twice: "I just said that I work on the construction site, and I may not be able to go home once a month." My ex-wife lives with my mother with their children. What did my mother say? I don't have any bad intentions, but I'm stubborn, plus the family conditions are not good, and I am thrifty, so I don't fit in with my ex-wife in terms of life details. ”

"That's normal." Nan Sheng said: "Why haven't you considered bringing your ex-wife and children to the construction site to live with you. ”

"I thought about it, but my mom is not old, and I also hope that my ex-wife can stay at home and help me take care of my mother."

Nan Sheng shook his head when he heard this, but he didn't speak.

"I also knew that I didn't think it through, and when I was with Julie later, I tried to avoid mixing her affairs with my mother's affairs." Zhou Wei said: "In addition, I also learned the lessons of being with my ex-wife. In addition to calling Julie and sending videos a lot, I also send her gifts every now and then. Afraid that she would not get along with my daughter, I kept putting my daughter on her mother's side. But it turns out that this gentleness and thoughtfulness is given to the wrong person, and it is really given for nothing. Someone who doesn't love you, no matter how much you give, she takes it for granted. ”

"Since you know that you are wrong, and since you have the heart to correct it, why don't you go back to your ex-wife?" Nan Sheng asked: "There is no principled mistake between you and your ex-wife, and the marriage should be salvageable." ”

"Once this person's heart is cold, he can't cover it hot."

"When I first divorced, I was stubborn, I felt that my ex-wife didn't know how to cherish it, and I felt that I was so good to her, how could she still be dead and alive."

"My mother also persuaded me, saying that no matter how good the second-married daughter-in-law is, it is not as good as the child's own mother, and said that I should go to my ex-wife to admit my mistake, but I don't want to, I want to wait for my ex-wife to admit her mistake to me. waited left and right, but waited for the news that she was engaged to someone else. ”

"I didn't believe it when I first heard the news, I didn't believe it, I thought she loved me so much, how could she accept other men. Later, I believed it, but it was too late for me to believe it, and she was already someone else's wife. I remember that it was very cold that day, and there was still a light rain in the sky, and I drove to her house overnight and shouted like a madman downstairs at her house. Later, she came out and asked me what I was doing with a cold attitude. ”

Zhou Wei took out the cigarette case and was about to smoke, when he heard the sound of children playing, he remembered that this was a playground, and silently stuffed the cigarette back.

"I've never seen her like that. Even though we had quarrels, cold wars, and separations when we were together, I had never seen her look without me in her eyes. Zhou Wei pointed to his pupils: "It's really not you in my eyes." ”

"I was in my early thirties at the time, and I had some experience and self-control, but when I saw her like that, I lost control. I tried to rush over and hug her, but was pushed down by the man who rushed out from behind her. At that time, the weather, that situation, it is no exaggeration to say, it was exactly the same as in the TV series. ”

"It's a pity, life is not a TV series, and she didn't push her remarried husband over like in the TV series, ran over to help me, or affectionately told me to let me go back. She just glanced at me coldly, and dragged her remarried husband home. ”

"I can't figure it out, I can't figure out why she treated me like that, I even thought that even if she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't care about me anymore, she has to think about our daughter. I sat downstairs for most of the night, I watched the lights in their room go out, I imagined her with another man, I felt so uncomfortable, I wanted to take out my heart, liver and lungs. ”

Nan Sheng listened quietly without saying a word.

Zhou Wei continued: "I sat downstairs until dawn, staggered into the car, and was going to go home, but I drove to her parents' house by mistake. When I saw my former parents-in-law, I cried, and the crying neighbors came out to see the joke. ”

"You probably want to find an answer."

"Yes, I'm just looking for an answer, to find an answer to why my ex-wife doesn't love me and doesn't wait for me. When I met my former parents-in-law, I kind of understood. It's not that my ex-wife didn't wait for me, but she waited for me and didn't come, and gradually, her heart died. I also asked my parents-in-law, doesn't my ex-wife have any thoughts about her daughter? ”

Zhou Wei held his daughter's teacup on the small table.

"My mother-in-law said, what are you thinking about? said that when we just divorced, my ex-wife missed her daughter, and she was going crazy thinking about it. But I wouldn't let my daughter see her, and my mother wouldn't let her go back to see her. All the things she bought for her daughter were thrown out by my mother. Not only that, but my mother also taught my daughter, saying that my ex-wife didn't want her anymore, and let my daughter, who had just learned to speak, call my ex-wife a bad woman. ”

Zhou Wei sighed: "Before I lost my ex-wife, I didn't think it was a big deal, I felt that the old man also had a temper, and it was understandable that the old man wanted to be angry." As for the words I taught my daughter, they were just casual words, and they couldn't affect her mother-daughter relationship with her daughter. Later I learned that the more things you don't care about, the more it hurts. ”

"It's no wonder that your ex-wife doesn't remarry you."

"Will you forgive your ex-husband and remarry him?" Zhou Wei asked: "If he broke up with Julie, would you still choose to be with him?" ”

"No way to forgive." Nan Sheng shook his head lightly: "I saw him with other women, I saw him protect other women in front of me, I saw the bed they slept in together, I saw their clothes hanging together, I saw the look without me in his eyes, I have no way to forgive and start over." As you just said, once people's hearts are cold, they can't be warmed up. ”

"Have you ever thought about remarrying? Have you ever wondered what kind of man you will find again? Zhou Wei looked at Nan Sheng: "Or, will you consider me?" I don't mind that you have two sons, and with my current financial situation, it shouldn't be a problem to raise them. ”

"I can't be someone else's stepmother." Nan Sheng shook his head and smiled: "I can't even take care of my own two sons, and I don't have the confidence to take care of other people's daughters." Besides, I don't believe that anyone else can treat my child as if it were their own. ”

This marriage