After the party ended, Zhang Wenhao left with Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying.

On the way, Guan Juer has been silently observing Qiu Yingying, and found that she has been in a state of dissociation, probably because she has not recovered from today's events.

So, Guan Juer asked out loud: "Yingying, let's just a few of us now, can you tell me what your mood is like now?" ”

Qiu Yingying, who was wandering outside the world, listened to Guan Juer's words, came back to her senses, thought for a while, and said.

"Guanguan, in fact, I feel a little unreal now."

"Why?"

"Actually, after what happened before, I don't have hope for such things as feelings. I even thought that it would be nice to live alone. ”

"Later, I learned that the affairs of Mr. Bao's family are actually a little afraid of starting a family with another person in the future!"

"However, I didn't expect to meet Hu Zhenting, he would give such a promise, although I agreed just now, but I still have some apprehension in my heart!"

Listening to Qiu Yingying's words, Guan Juer was a little distressed, and at the same time, he was even more resentful of the white scumbag before, if it weren't for him, such a cheerful Yingying would not have this thought!

She thought for a while, but she didn't think of other better words of comfort, so she could only pale and comfort: "You can't think like that, Yingying, what a good girl you are, how good a person you are, you are worth it!" ”

"You can't feel sorry for yourself!"

Zhang Wenhao, who was on the side, glanced at the two people sitting behind him, thought about it and said, "Xiao Qiu, are you a little afraid that there will be another person involved in your future life, or rather, are you a little afraid of marriage?" ”

Qiu Yingying thought for a moment: "Indeed, every time I think of living with another person after getting married, and at the same time facing all the things brought by another person, family, and relationships, I feel a little irritable!" ”

After listening to Qiu Yingying's words, Zhang Wenhao knew what the situation was: "In fact, there is nothing to fear about marriage!" ”

Guan Juer and Qiu Yingying listened to Zhang Wenhao's words and looked at him in unison.

Both of them want to know Zhang Wenhao's views on marriage, especially Guan Juer, after all, the two are about to get engaged, although she is very happy, but she is still a little apprehensive in her heart.

Zhang Wenhao organized the language and continued: "Actually, I think marriage itself is a conspiracy. ”

"That is, the two of you have a common will to move forward, and this matter can be agreed upon through communication."

"And then there's another thing, does marriage have to be the same?"

The two listened to Zhang Wenhao's words and were stunned for a moment, yes, is marriage the same?

I only heard Zhang Wenhao continue: "That's it, I think the reason why I am afraid of marriage is because your marriage is like that." ”

"Do you think that you have to meet that standard, is that a clear, immutable standard? Can you create a new standard with your one? ”

"Actually, marriage is ultimately a matter of two people, and it may also be a matter of two worlds, it depends on how the two of you cooperate."

"If the two of you can come to an agreement, then marriage is possible and not so scary."

"But if you can't agree on this matter, he's probably quite scary."

"Because you have to live under the standards set by others, to play a little, and then, you may often accidentally step on the minefield, then this life is quite terrifying!"

After saying this, Zhang Wenhao stopped squeaking, knowing that these words were enough for the two girls to reminisce for a while.

After a long time, Guan Juer said: "Actually, I was also a little scared before. ”

Well, Zhang Wenhao didn't expect Guan Juer to say it, in fact, he always knew it in his heart, because there are very few girls who don't hesitate in their hearts when they know that they are going to get married.

Qiu Yingying was also a little surprised, because, in her opinion, the relationship between Guan Juer and Zhang Wenhao is so stable and so compatible, she can't imagine that Guan Juer also has this mentality.

When Guan Juer saw Qiu Yingying's expression, she knew that her words made her a little surprised, but she still continued.

"I actually had a lot of ideas about my future marriage, and I used to think about what I would do after I got married, and who we would be like to be."

"I subconsciously set a standard for my own marriage, which is actually not the true thoughts in my heart at all, but my family, relatives and friends, who took the initiative to live and passively instilled it in me."

"So, I subconsciously have some resistance to marriage."

"Every time I attend a wedding and listen to the wedding vows, I don't actually feel that it is a touching thing, and even feels a little terrifying!"

Zhang Wenhao listened to Guan Juer's words and smiled: "That's right, so am I!" ”

Guan Juer looked at Qiu Yingying's puzzled expression and explained, "What do you think, what does the marriage vow say?" Say what 'it doesn't matter if you are hired or rich, whether you are healthy or sick. ’”

But most of the people who said this couldn't do it! Most of what I saw was 'flying separately when disaster came'! ”

As he spoke, he looked at Zhang Wenhao, who was driving.

smiled and said, "But, today, the writer woke me up." Yes, I've always used other people's lives as a template, and I have a fear mentality, so why not make my own standards? ”

"I decided to start changing from the wedding vows and no longer say those words that grow old together!"

Qiu Yingying was a little curious: "Then what do you want to say?" ”

Zhang Wenhao was also a little curious about what kind of oath Guan Juer could come up with.

Guan Juer thought for a while and said: "I decided that the only reason to move towards marriage is 'I cherish this moment, because for cherishing this moment, I hope we have a future worth cherishing!'" ’”

After speaking, Guan Juer looked at Qiu Yingying: "Yingying, if you and Hu Zhenting are really together in the future, you must also know that your union is because of each other, not because most people are married, so you must also get married." ”

"On this point, you have to be clear yourself, and at the same time, you have to come to a consensus. Only then will it be possible for you to set your own standards. ”

Looking at the solemn Guan Juer, Qiu Yingying was taken by her serious actually, and nodded meaningfully.

Zhang Wenhao listened to Guan Juer's words and smiled happily, what is the happiest thing, that is, you have met a girl you like, and at the same time, this girl also likes you, and you not only have the same feelings, but also have the same three views.

At this time, Zhang Wenhao is even more looking forward to his life with Guan Juer in the future.

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