Compared with the old qualified big family, the Wang family's tutoring is not systematic, imperfect, and scientific.

This is the conclusion reached by making an all-round comparison with the surrounding families that can be called 'valves' after the nine-catty voyeur incident.

Before learning art, there is a gap between this nine catties and wealthy children of the same age. The so-called etiquette, with etiquette, etiquette overview is superficial, from a movement and a line to moral education, including conduct, mentality and character, all-round teaching. According to the age of nine catties, it is already late, and other families have started since their children learned to speak.

The behavior of nine catties is described by the norms of this era as a lack of courtesy and less education. This is not how to scold me for being a father, but the 'rites' of this preschool education include a series of rigorous and scientific children's sexual enlightenment education. For large families, reasonable sexual enlightenment education is an important part of wealthy family education.

Parents rarely come forward to speak, and they will not squeak because of their children's curiosity, and when they reach a certain age, they will appoint an unmarried woman with a certain amount of common sense to enlighten their children. The age should not be too old, I asked, five-year-old children should be exposed to these slowly, and the initiation teacher chooses girls between the ages of ten and twelve to be the most suitable, and the two can achieve the purpose of promoting mutual understanding through growing friendship and extensive contact in daily life.

And that's just the first part. It is still very far away from the healthy growth of children into newcomers in the Tang Empire, and greater investment is needed. It's not that parents can teach how they want, nor is it that Ying can fight as much as they want, and it is not a talent who is raised as he wants, but a murderer and a loser.

I'm ashamed, I don't dare to ask, and if I ask again, people should point at my nose and scold. The Wang family's upbringing style is simply a waste in the eyes of others, sorry for the ancestors, sorry for the descendants, sorry for the head of state, sorry for the people in the back, sorry for the left...... (make up words)

I'll change people and ask for advice, at least I don't care about being despised when I communicate with Lanling. I was used to being careless, and I had never observed how Lanling cultivated sugar cane. I have never cared about the virtues of the teacher of Sugarcane's other homework, but there is one thing that I know is that Sugarcane has not yet begun to receive sexual enlightenment, he is smaller than nine catties, and he has not yet paid attention to these tiny links, and raising a few wolves is a drudgery.

"Of course there are." Lanling looked gloating, "What's the matter?" Know what to ask? I thought your children were planning to herd sheep. Actually, it's very good, the virtues of the old Wang family are carried forward from you. It is also unique to pass it down from generation to generation. ”

"Don't make a fuss, ask you honestly, it's not that you don't understand!" It's okay to bully the common people, but it's too much for you to laugh at and insult the officials of the imperial court, and it's not for your Li family to cultivate talents. What's the point of gloating?

"What did you do earlier? Etiquette teacher? Lan Ling laughed, I don't know what crazy she smoked, what happened to me?

"Teacher! I've always called it that, ridiculous? ”

"Don't laugh at the salutation. I've been used to it for a long time. Lan Ling's eyes rolled flexibly, and he said with an expression that was about to pit me again: "I know someone who is highly respected, if Lang Jun doesn't dislike it, I will introduce you to you." ”

"What do you mean? When did you become so kind? After looking at it for a long time, he couldn't see any flaws, "I'm in a hurry, don't play tricks on me, don't let Jingzong be that number." "Say yes in advance. Those who are sanctimonious are not allowed to enter the door, and those who are too stubborn and rigid are not allowed to be accepted.

"Should you ask for a long time? Turn you pick? It's okay if people don't pick on you. Not to mention the little marquis, even today, the saint has to sit in front of them and listen to a few words when he invites these people. To teach children, you must first know what kind of character parents are. From the prince to the teacher, down to the grass people, the same regulations are not something that you can invite if you are financially strong. ”

"Why did I invite a master back to the house?" I was a little reluctant to listen. Although there are not many, there are indeed such people who speak unpleasant words. This kind of person can't even find fault with peeing. Temper yourself like a robot, think about the sudden multiplicity of this at home...... It's scary. It is incompatible with the atmosphere of the royal family.

Lan Ling smiled again, "Don't talk nonsense with you, don't you work hard if you want your child to be good, there are so many good things in the world that you want to stand on?" He soothed his fingers and sighed lightly, "Actually, it's not all good, compared to other chairs, Duwa likes you the most, is it really a good thing to have a wealthy family?" You weigh it and think about it, and look for me. ”

"I'm his dad! Less chaos than outsiders. ”

It is necessary to weigh and weigh, in order for the Wang family to stand for a few more years in the future, should it be necessary to give up the beautiful childhood of nine catties, three or four? Sugarcane is younger than nine catties, but it is indeed earlier than nine catties. If the two of them stand together, sugarcane will attract outsiders to like it than nine catties, and they are hesitant!

"Then please." When Ying heard me say this, she immediately made a decision. "I don't think the master is picking on our family, but we have to pick on him. Whether it's good or not, whether to keep it or not, whether he says it or not, let's have the final say. ”

"It must be a good place." It's good to be able to ask Lanling to say yes, I firmly believe in this. But this is also what I am most worried about, because I have a slight deviation in the understanding of whether Lanling is good or not, and in the future, the child will not be what I imagined, and I may complain about Lanling.

"Who is it?"

"I didn't ask," I don't like to ask the teacher's name the most, from the beginning of the first grade of primary school to the graduation of college, I can remember the names of three or four teachers, and they don't necessarily teach me, they are all names, and all men ignore them.

"Why don't you ask? Let's have a bottom in our hearts. "Mr. Ying complained that I was careless, and what I could say was definitely a big man with a good reputation in Beijing, and I could understand how much I had contact with in private.

"Think about it again, the child is still young." After so many days of communication, Ying also realized her mistake. In this regard, both husband and wife are more honest, I admit that it is impossible for me to raise a successor to feudalism, and Ying also knows that it is wrong to beat children frequently, but there is no way to correct it.

Ying is worried about where to find a suitable girl to accompany Jiujin, there are a lot of families, and it is easy to say that it is easy to serve people by cutting off tea and water, but it becomes difficult to really involve Jiujin. This one is too tall and the other is too thin, and he is not a daughter-in-law, but a little female companion.

"That's not what I said." Ying is already familiar with the market, "It's not a daughter-in-law, but it's not a maid." The childhood sweetheart is big, and the nine catties are in love, and the girl naturally falls into our Wang family. Although it can't be a main room. But for a nominally nine-pound person, the Wang family has to give the girl's family a gift, and they can't be treated badly in the future. ”

I can't accept it in my heart. This education method is relatively new to me, a five-year-old fart child, and then prepare a living textbook, and a childhood sweetheart, why didn't I have this treatment when I was a child? I wore open crotch pants and ran all over the street, and the little girl smashed stones when she saw Wang Zihao coming. When there were few pomegranates on the tree, they planted accusations against me, and ran to sue my parents, and then saw that I was very upset.

There is a world of difference, and the superiority of feudal society is all reflected in the nine catties and one person. It's strange to say, why didn't Wang Xiu's parents arrange one for the baby? It seems that the Wang family's education method has always been so rough and not refined, so Wang Xiu came out of the loser.

"What do you want?" Ying looked at my expression and guessed a clue, and muttered to herself: "The second elder has passed away for many years. It's not good for the husband to complain anymore. ”

"What are you complaining about?" Psychological imbalance leads to a lax tone, "I don't want it!" ”

"I know," Ying easily grabbed the handle, and sneered: "Xihan has time, at this time he should know everything." You don't need to find someone to bring it, right? ”

"Huh! As soon as you say that, I really have to study systematically, or I won't trouble my mother to find one for my father and son. For the husband not to pick, take advantage of the nine catties to pick. ”

"Go. Not serious! Ying smiled and clapped her hands, "If I don't grind my teeth with you, I have to find someone to take advantage of." ”

"Wait," ignoring an important link, the key to happiness in a lifetime. Called Zhu Ying to discuss seriously: "I'm just worried, it doesn't matter if our family finds a few girls to accompany Jiujin, just in case our baby is old and marries a careful-eyed mother-in-law, such as you." What if the two of them don't wait to see each other, what should they do if they are angry? ”

Ying nodded with a serious face. "It's a problem, the concubine body actually ignored ......"

The discussion hurts all over the body, and in the end, the topic is not settled. He Ying stood at the door to breathe in the fresh air, and when she met the second lady in the courtyard, she was shouting to the two maids, it was the little marquis who was tired of writing and wanted to eat some special snacks, and hurried to prepare Yunyun.

The couple glanced at each other, but they didn't say anything, but they didn't see Ying give Zhang Luo any more personal girls for nine catties. I was forced to go to Tianfu Temple by Liu Renliang. I forgot all about finding a etiquette teacher for Jiujin.

Tianfu Temple is located in the northwest of Chang'an, on the edge of Jingyang, a temple left over from the previous dynasty. It is said to be a temple. There is no incense for a long time, and only some broken eaves and broken walls lie on the top of the desolate cliff. At the same time as the Xuanwumen Incident, a tragic battle was going on here, and the impression of the local elders was that about 10,000 people had died, but as far as I know, it was far more than that. The guards against the elite, the guards of the prince's brigade disappeared here, and the so-called Shandong good man Qin Shubao was the initiator of this massacre, and the invincible old hero suffered a small setback here, full of heads and scars, and he was lying on the sickbed for ten years.

The temple property has long been deserted, the dry grass beach in a radius of more than ten miles is inhabited, no one likes to get close to here, one is haunted, not to mention farming, is to take two steps to take a shortcut are palpitations. From time to time, a strange-looking canine will come running at you, hunching its teeth at you. With a wave of his hand, "Take it!" ”

The strong wind in the ears suddenly sounded, and the two ladies and a wild brick went over, seeing ghosts, seeing Buddhas and shooting Buddhas.

The development of agriculture and weaving is too fast, the school building in Chang'an has been cramped and crowded, and it is facing enrollment in the spring.

There are landlords of land near Chang'an, and they are not satisfied with a few places. After repeated meetings and research, it was finally decided not to continue to expand on the original site, but to find a beautiful environment and excellent location in the suburbs of Chang'an as a new park, and move there together with weaving, while Chang'an was left as a scientific research and office space, and not to set up teaching tasks.

The plan must be submitted to the relevant departments for approval, and I have always doubted whether the review process was cheated by Lao Liu himself. In the morning, the school site was selected by the Agricultural Science Institute, so that the local departments fully cooperated and did not slack off.

Choosing a place and building a house, I generally don't care about this kind of thing, and Chang Gui takes care of it. He is an expert in land, whether it is to build a college or farming, I am relieved, who knows......

Looking at the terrain in the distance, I suspect that this guy has taken advantage of others. It doesn't matter if you're far away, the farther away from Chang'an, the better, the students have no other interference, and they are committed to their studies, anyway, as a leader, I won't come often. But you can't choose to stage a ghost movie in an ownerless grave. In case a few hazelnuts climb on campus and come out and kill two students, who will bear the responsibility? It's not okay to be bitten to death by a wolf.

"Lord Superintendent," Chang Gui rushed over, waving his arm at me with a meritorious expression. He is an expert and has a surname of Chang, so it makes sense to change his name. It is bordered by the Jing River on the left and the cover hill on the right, and is located at the intersection of the east and west roads. The transportation is convenient, and the environment is beautiful, right?

That's right, that's right, so I had to nod.

The land is fertile and the water conservancy is convenient, which is convenient for the smooth development of various experimental projects of agronomy. Especially the terrain here is open and flat, and the establishment of a new park can save a lot of flat land ramming costs, which can be described as an excellent location, right?

That's right. Of course, it is flat and open, but it is not open enough to accommodate 10,000 people to fight at the same time? Literally couldn't fault it, although I didn't care how much money I saved, nodded.

"Are you satisfied?" Chang Gui pinched his hands excitedly, this was his first great contribution to the position of young eunuch. If the history of the old campus in Chang'an is written by me and Liu Renliang, the new campus will be opened by Chang Shaojian to open this new chapter.

"You look at it. Although it is not worth saving so much money, the things that can be dug up are all selected for people to pick a piece of good land and then bury it carefully. Don't let the students come over, and it's hard to sleep and eat. "In this era, it doesn't matter if you believe in ghosts and gods first, you can respect this. You can't say that if you are engaged in natural science, you will casually expose people to the wilderness. I saw this meeting in Lintong that year, and the bones and stubble in the village next to the Mausoleum of Qin Shi Huang were all the remains left by prisoners of war when they repaired the mausoleum, and it is said that there were more than 400,000 people. The contractor team took the truck to pull the N car from the infrastructure, said to bury it, fell down halfway, and the roller was pressed into the end of the ground after a few times, and the engineering team was not killed by the locals. The public anger was committed, and in the end, the infrastructure project was also ruined.

Be careful not to let the locals look down on you. Regardless of whether there is a head or not, a big ceremony must be held to invite people out of the underground to relocate to a beautiful place, a large-scale demolition project must be carried out, and the locals must be invited to participate, so that winning the hearts of the people is conducive to the development of the college.

"Try to hire people locally. The wages are not stingy. Respectfully, please invite local officials from Jingyang to come over to supervise the inspection. No matter how small the grade is, you must treat others as parents and officials, and don't look at no one under the royal banner. Let the local people think that this school was built for them by the royal family. In this way, they will support you, and the government will treat you as an institution under their own jurisdiction, and feel that this school park is their local ground, not a burden. ”

Chang Gui has little knowledge, he can't think about these things, and it's all inconsequential and trivial things, but he can't take care of the words, and the negative impact will be difficult to eliminate for a long time.

It's like Li Shimin, no one dares to mess with him, right? But in order to expand the Xingqing Palace, the local people despised it for many years, and the royal family was embarrassed to build it, and the unfinished project was thrown away for more than ten years. It wasn't until Li Zhi became a nouveau riche that he took money to quell the bad influence of his father's reckless actions back then, and now the third phase of the Xingqing Palace project is so luxurious and wasteful, no one blames it, why? It shows that Li Zhi has more experience than his father in this area.

I didn't believe in this thing originally, I used to watch TV and felt that the emperor liked to do anything, not when Lanling complained that he really didn't know the royal family and was embarrassed, sometimes I felt that the feudal society was still quite cute. The Wang family is so powerful, killing a few cows, there are small officials and officials who are not able to do enough to investigate, although the money steward scares people, but the seriousness is admirable; Ying is cautious and domineering, but she has to be careful when she gets a piece of land, for fear of ruining her reputation; Old man Cheng is used to being unreasonable, but the surrounding Zhuangzi admires Lu Gong and does not complain; The bloody wind and rain of Cui Zhang's family did benefit the small groups attached to Cui's family, and the Cui family from Chang'an to Saiwai was a golden signboard with a good reputation.

Even Xu Jingzong, an old official fan and a wealth fan, when it comes to who's knowledge, he can immediately deign to bow down, some people are not used to accusing Lao Xu of hypocrisy, Xu Jingzong tepidly explained, this is a salute to learning, and the master of learning is naturally responsible; If you're not convinced, you can also come to a place worthy of my salute?

Think about these people, Li Yifu, who was scolded as a traitor in the history books, Xu Jingzong, who was labeled as a traitor, Li Jingxuan, who relied on his wife all the way to speculate and play camps, and Li Zhi, who was ridiculed for being weak and cowardly...... And so on, I feel sorry for others. The incompetent emperor and countless traitorous ministers also replaced the prosperous and prosperous ministers with loyal ministers and did not enter the **?

It's good, maybe it's because the mood has suddenly improved, and everything is pleasing to the eye, because I decided to find a good teacher for Jiujin, at least I have to learn the morality of sanctimony, and I can't be so monkey-like with my father.

"Really thought about it?" Lanling seemed to be holding back a smile, and my good mood suddenly felt a little bottomless.

"Think about it, don't fool me!" Clenching one's fists and not being good at using force does not mean that one rejects the use of force.

"Don't fight, don't fight."

Lanling was ready to dodge at any time, and I knew there was no hope. "Serious, you're sorry!"

"I think you know."

"You know what?"

"Like you, big and small, you can ask for any chair from outside, but this 'etiquette' will never invite outsiders. I don't understand this, do you want me to teach you the truth? ”

Nodding, "Yes!" ”

。 Three Heads M.