"Let me ask you a question, is the reason you want to find a girlfriend physiologically or psychologically." Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.

Hao Ren asked puzzledly, "Does this matter?" ”

"Important, very important, you have to figure this out, in order to effectively chase girls, first of all, physiologically, I can tell you clearly, it may be very fast to fall in love.

And psychologically, you may not be able to fall in love once in your life, and that's the difference. Zhao Mingyang said.

"What does this mean? Why is there such a big difference? It's a world of difference, don't you all say that children make choices? I'm an adult, can't I have them all? Hao Ren said.

"No, 99% of people can't, let me tell you, physiological needs, you can lower the standard to the other half, then your chances of success will definitely be greater.

Psychological needs, it is too difficult, first of all, you will not compromise on the standards of the other half, most people regardless of men and women, the requirements for the other half must be good-looking, have a figure, preferably talented, and understand you, basically a person who is infinitely close to perfection.

Such a partner, first of all, you look in the mirror and look at yourself, are you worthy? What are your core competencies compared to other men?

Are you good-looking? Is it in good shape? Is the talent great? Is there a nine-figure or eight-figure wealth balance? Is there even a seven-digit number?

Without these, it will be difficult for you to fulfill your psychological requirements, and the only possible way to do it is when you are a student, you may find a girl who is better than yourself, and it will be difficult to graduate from the sky.

So, if you want to be satisfied with your psychological love, this is very difficult, but not impossible, even if I teach you by hand, it will take you a long time to achieve, but when I say to achieve it, I mean close to your psychological needs, not to fully meet the conditions.

For example, the object of many men's dreams is a fairy sister, so how to do it? Non-fairy sisters are not in love? Isn't that a thing that is destined to be beaten off?

After talking about the psychological, let's talk about the physiological, which is also the routine operation of many Aquamans, but this is the only way for many people to fall in love, it depends on how you look at and understand.

To put it simply, physiological needs are not brainy, and you don't need to think about it so much, such as the other party's family background, the other party's past, the other party's appearance and figure, etc.

You will lower your standards infinitely to pursue such a person, and what is your purpose? Get her as a person and meet your own physical needs.

There is a very big potential risk in this premise, and it is also the reason why many people directly overturn the car, do not pay attention to safety protection, have offspring after a moment of happiness, and there is no way back, so the premise of physiological needs is to go out and hide a smurf in the phone case, and put a few spare ones in the clothes, as long as you don't win the bid, then there are many choices.

Many people who have never been in love are basically at this stage, that is, they do not do safety protection for the first time, and then they get married. ”

Hao Ren listened, opened the notes with his mobile phone and began to record, Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and said: "Don't do it, it's useless if you do it, turn off the mobile phone, this is a private topic, if someone listens to it, it will be troublesome, you know about it, don't let the third person know, understand?" ”

Hao Ren nodded, looking left and right, and always felt that many people pricked up their ears and stared around them.

"Then I'll choose the physical one, and leave the psychological one to my unicorn arm." Hao Ren said.

"Physiological, are you sure?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.

"Sure." Hao Ren said.

Zhao Mingyang thought for a while, looked at Hao Ren and said: "Physiologically, as long as you master a skill, you are thick-skinned and not shy, and there is basically no problem."

For example, if you go to a shopping mall on the street to buy clothes, will the female shopping guide sell desperately with you? So what should you do? ”

"What should I do?" Hao Ren said.

"Add the other party's WeChat, the other party will generally let you add the company, if you don't give you personal, she can't sell to you, and a lot of them will add WeChat to you.

For the sake of performance, you will chat after adding WeChat, all kinds of appointments to invite each other to dinner, you add ten female shopping guides WeChat, about out to eat five, then from these five appointments to eat, chat, you know how to get along with girls, choose from these five people to the next step of chatting, shopping, try to hold hands, as long as you hold hands, on behalf of the other party does not reject you, in the tentative next step.

And generally girls can promise to go out on a date with you alone, all of them have a good impression of you, if you date a girl for the first time, the second time you can't make an appointment, you are basically dissatisfied with your first date, you are trying it, the third time if the date comes out, it is to give you another chance, this opportunity to seize, must make the other party satisfied.

If you go to appointments for consecutive dates and suddenly don't come out, it is basically certain that the other party may have a new goal.

If you keep dating but don't let you go any further, you're using you as a spare tire and an ATM.

You have to learn to analyze the thoughts and motivations of girls in order to achieve a quick and effective relationship.

I don't mean to let you stare at the female shopping guide in the clothing store, but an example, it may also be selling tea, cosmetics, mobile phones, etc., these are service-oriented industries, you add WeChat, the probability of rejection is relatively low, and the success rate is relatively high.

Then you cast a wide net, and when you succeed in this step, you are not afraid to be alone with girls, and you will have experience after more dates, and you will know how to get along with women quickly.

The one you made an appointment with in the early stage must not be the best looking among all shopping guides, it may be the kind that looks very average, so you need to adjust your mentality, whether you can accept it, if you can, then take action.

If you accept and do all of the above, you will be considered a big step of success, then the next step, the netizens who chat online, directly ask out to meet, most of this group of people are active online, in fact, many have social phobia.

And as long as you make an appointment, all the initiative is controlled by you, and the success rate is very high.

If you still want to flirt in reality when chatting online, the safest way is to find a local matchmaking company, pay the membership fee, and let the other party desperately introduce you to the blind date.

What exists here is the first step, lower the aesthetic requirements, quickly have a relationship with the other party, open low and go high, when you have talked about more than two girls who have had intimate contact.

You can aim for girls with good family backgrounds or good figures, and during this period, you have basically mastered the steps of how to routinely fall in love.

And all this requires you to be thick-skinned, such as the first step to add a female shopping guide WeChat, and make an appointment to eat, many people don't dare, shy, but as long as you do it, the first time is jerky, the second and third time, and the fifth time.

You basically control the rhythm of the chat, you can throw topics after topics, arrange the routine process of two people together, give each other the best experience, and know what to say is easy to make girls happy, and what to say will make girls angry.

You just need to find something to make the other party happy, the core is physiological needs, and the girls who have been asked out again and again in the early stage can give you accumulated experience.

As long as you have been in love more than three times, congratulations, at this time, you can go low and go high, to seek higher quality, such as satisfying your psychology, the blind date object only finds a blind date that meets your psychological standards, some girls in the network, and you have a good chat, can reach spiritual resonance with you.

As long as you know what girls like, give them what they like, and make them happy, coax them, and the girl will go to the hotel with you soon and don't resist.

Sometimes it's not necessarily money, appearance and figure, many Aquamen look average, have an average figure, and have no money, why can girls like it?

Because they can coax, cheat, and put their minds to it, and the skills of falling in love can be improved, the results of once or twice and three times are not the same, as long as you have been in love twice, you will basically not worry about not having the other half in your life.

I'm talking about intimate contact, platonic love, that's not called love, at most I found a friend. ”