Hao Ren pulled Zhao Mingyang to sit in a corner where no one was around, and ordered two glasses of ice American, Zhao Mingyang knew that this kid must have made some new progress, so he was like this, and he was afraid of being found out that he was walking a road of no return, afraid of being told that an honest man had rebelled, morally he was still afraid and afraid, afraid of being known about what he was doing again, afraid that others would know that he was no longer the honest man that everyone seems, good boy.

"What's wrong?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.

"That~ I'm in a stalemate now, according to what you said, I went to add a lot of WeChat that sells clothes girls, as well as cosmetics, I bought more than 30 boxes of film in my house, and I also signed up for a marriage agency, and others introduced me to a girlfriend, and I didn't refuse to come.

But I'm feeling so busy now, there are several more on the Internet, I looked at it, there are already more than 40 women, how do I proceed next. Hao Ren looked at it and said inattentively.

Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren with a shocked expression, this guy wanted to die in one bite, he didn't follow what he said, but wanted to cast a wide net.

"There are so many women, is there one you like, but you didn't make an appointment?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked.

"Yes, there is a fellow villager introduced by my aunt, we met a few days ago, and the other party didn't contact me, what should I do? I asked the other party to come out again, but they didn't come out. Hao Ren said.

"So what do you mean now? What do you think? Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren and asked, what does this kid want?

"I want to see it everywhere with the one introduced by my aunt, after all, the other party's education is not low, he looks good, and his family conditions are good, but she doesn't care about me, it's not that she doesn't care, she just likes to ignore it, you understand?" Hao Ren looked at Zhao Mingyang and asked.

"Yes, I know exactly what you mean, I want to think about it." Zhao Mingyang looked at Hao Ren, he moved back and looked at Hao Ren carefully.

Hao Ren was a little creepy by Zhao Mingyang, what kind of eyes are this, a little unnatural.

"Your first impression of the blind date is not good, whether it is your dress or your chat topic, it is wrong, so people will refuse you to come out for the second time, in fact, you can promise the matchmaker to come out on a blind date, most of them really want to find a partner, and why didn't she continue to date with you after she came out, have you thought about it?

To put it simply, I didn't like you, I have a very bad impression of you, if the other party continues to chat with you and doesn't block you, or wait for you to stop talking to her, she can tell her family, it's not that I don't talk, it's that the other party doesn't talk to me, wait for you to give up first, and give the matchmaker a face.

There is also a possibility that the other party is hanging you and continuing to look for you, which is more common, commonly known as riding a donkey to find a horse. And what do you do? It's not that I'm in a hurry to meet her, but to pack myself first, get a hairstyle, go buy a nice dress, and when you buy clothes, it's best to find someone to accompany you to buy.

Otherwise, you will be tricked by the salesperson to buy clothes that are not suitable for you, clothes, pants, shoes, you must match, you can't have bells and whistles, don't be reluctant to buy clothes for yourself.

I don't know how to wear, the most conservative way is a suit, shirt, leather shoes, etc., which will be matched, just choose according to the figure, skin color, and hairstyle, you make this clear first, and then we will take the next step, remember, try to find someone to accompany you to buy clothes, and the other party had better have some clothes? Don't buy it yourself, you won't have any clothes when you look at it. ”

Hao Ren nodded, finding that his clothes were indeed relatively simple, and he didn't pay attention to this detail.

Zhao Mingyang continued: "The topic, this is the most difficult for otaku to break, but sometimes you can try to avoid the topic when you meet, that is, don't look for places like cinemas and cafes, and directly switch scenes, such as going to ski resorts, amusement parks, bungee jumping, and going to places where most people may not go, but where they want to go, these places can increase interactivity, and they are very time-consuming, most of them are far away from the city."

You can go and buy a used car, and if you really want to be in a relationship, it's better to go and buy a used car. ”

Hao Ren looked at Zhao Mingyang and asked, "Is this necessary?" ”

"It's still quite necessary, if you don't buy a second-hand car, you rent a car, or take a taxi all the way, try not to take a bus with a girl and squeeze the bus, there will be a very poor experience, and buy a second-hand car, because most boys have a general economy, and they can't buy a decent model for 60,000 or 70,000 yuan to buy a new car.

You can choose some models within ten years, this choice is much greater, don't do a second-hand car credit loan, I'd rather add a few thousand, the interest on the credit loan is too high, of course, you can buy a car in this way when you don't have money, it's best to ask the interest clearly before buying a car.

Find a good appearance, the interior can be transformed by yourself, nothing more than a seat cover, a central control LCD screen to improve the next grade, second-hand cars, find some popular models to buy, the future maintenance cost is low, two or three years will lose twenty or thirty thousand, these two or thirty thousand are also used for your love investment, or your own car, so it is not afraid of losing, this is the cost of love.

After buying a second-hand car, you can choose more dating routes that are convenient for you, rather than driving for you to install something, after all, within 500,000 are actually family cars, and when you drive a car, you feel that people are basically younger brothers.

After choosing the dress and dating venue, continue the appointment, and prepare a gift for her this time when they meet, and this gift is skillful. ”

"What trick?" Hao Ren asked seriously.

"Online shopping, you buy something online to send to the girl, the price is controlled within five hundred, the girl refuses, you can return it, or change it to give it, the gift will always make people like it, don't give what you like, give the girl what you like, such as lipstick, perfume, bags, of course, if you accidentally meet a fish farmer, you can also take the next step.

Of course, the matchmaker who is generally known to introduce, there are few fish farmers, after all, they all know the roots, at this time you don't need to talk too much about your family, there is no need to brag, because the matchmaker has said, if it is introduced by the matchmaking company, you can add oil and vinegar to blow it. ”

Hao Ren took out his mobile phone and asked, "Let me remember, if I meet a fish farmer, what will I send?" ”

"Giving jewelry, such as rings, necklaces, jewelry, these are generally divided into two kinds of gifts in love, one is that you give each other bags, shoes, mobile phones, most of which are not easy to recover, of course, lipstick or something, the amount is small, you don't need to recover.

But if it is a ring like this, it is a gift for the purpose of marriage, simply put, it is in the form of an engagement bride price, if the other party does not communicate for this purpose, or does not perform this aspect, it is not for the purpose of marriage to hang you, and then suddenly break up with you, this kind of can be returned, so give gifts, you can send lipstick, perfume, and 1,800 bags in the early stage.

Later, you can directly send some precious jewelry, so that even if you divide it, you can also ask for it back, this boundary depends on how you define, three gold jewelry in our concept is to prepare for marriage, and to send lipstick These are gifts between couples.

There is another point, that is, you can ask the woman to express the address, directly express to her, and the payment information is paid by your own account, the other party signs, each time the signature is flow, you can call it out, when the time comes, as a voucher, bank transfer is more reliable than cash, as long as you do not transfer 1314,520,999,9999 such numbers, such as 1000,500, strictly speaking, it is not a gift, and it can be recovered in the name of a loan.

Of course, to buy gifts online, it's best not to buy expensive ones, a gift is multi-purpose, for example, some gifts buy one get one free, you buy a gift can be given to two people. ”

Hao Ren poured a breath of cool air and looked at Zhao Mingyang and said, "Who fell in love with you, it's really a blood loss!" ”

Zhao Mingyang→_→

"Hold the grass! I'm giving you popular science, what do you mean, am I that kind of person? I've always been sincere and unreciprocated in love, without any routines. ”

"The weather forecast says there may be thundershowers today, this is the thunderstorm season, you should be careful when you speak." Hao Ren took out the weather forecast and showed it to Zhao Mingyang with a serious face.

"Fuck off! Lao Tzu was never afraid of thunder, so he hurriedly said that he would go back to work after speaking.

Your question now is, how to get along with this blind date, it's very simple, you treat her as a fish in your fish pond and feed her regularly, you can understand this feeding and send messages regularly, let her know your existence, and enrich your circle of friends, such as sending photos and videos of you going skiing, going to the library, letting her know your dynamics, chatting and chatting, you are dating, once it doesn't work, twice.

During this period, you still continue to go on blind dates, continue to date other girls, as long as she agrees to come out, then you have to be prepared, the second time if she has a good impression of you, the third time it is not difficult to make an appointment, during this period, you must play the role of licking the dog, coax her happy, what is your ultimate purpose?

You have to be clear, whether you are challenging yourself to have fun, or for the purpose of marrying her, you have to grasp this boundary, and the scale to grasp is to meet your parents, if you don't want to get married, try not to take it home to see your parents, there are many people.

As for your 40 or so friends, send group messages directly, have you had time to eat recently? Reply to yours, you can come out, chat directly, chat out for dinner, don't come out, edit to a group first.

If you can make an appointment, you will carefully dress yourself up to go on a date, accumulate experience, fail, change the next appointment, succeed, try it if you fail once, don't worry about the long time, pay attention to time management, there are so many girls, don't hang on a tree.

Okay, you can now send a message to the girl who rejected your second appointment, what is the starting point, in the way of asking for advice, ask her what to send to older women's cosmetics, you don't understand, you want to give your seventh aunt and eight aunts or your mother's birthday gifts, make up one yourself, you don't understand, she can give you some advice.

Wait until a few days later when you receive the goods, take a photo and send it to her, make sure you listen to her purchase, send her a thank you message, say that the other party is very happy to receive the gift, and find out the other party's strengths, such as occupation-related, if it is a medical-related job, consult medical-related questions.

With the excuse of thanking the other party for answering a help for you, invite the other party to come out and invite the other party to dinner as a thank you, or give her a gift as a thank you, it won't seem so embarrassing, what will be there in the future, you are asking me, let's go back first. ”

Hao Ren was playing with his mobile phone while bowing his head, Zhao Mingyang got up and went to buy a few cups of iced coffee to take home, and suddenly heard several women whispering at the counter.

Zhao Mingyang didn't want to hear it, but when he suddenly heard Xia Xiaomeng's three words, he paid more attention to it.

"It's a big deal today, how did you say Xia Xiaomeng provoked that female devil?"

"Poor, a little girl, she was scolded in public, if I were her, I would be embarrassed to continue to stay in the company, and I would be called garbage."

"Who said it wasn't, this still requires a public review, I don't know if she will write a review·····"

"I heard that it was disgraceful to buy a female devil, and it was debunked by Xia Xiaomeng, so I was furious."

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