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"Wow. Enron. You're really set up when you talk about it. It's more detailed than my mother's special training program. Also troublesome. Sounds hard." Zhou Fanghua sighed. Then he said with some hesitation: "I'm afraid I can't do it."
This concern of hers is actually Enron's previous concern.
And. Zhou Fanghua's situation is not the same as her.
She is a person who has experienced a new birth. Adults who have experienced the hardships of survival. The time that was wasted in a past life. Wasted energy and opportunities. As well as all kinds of difficulties and ups and downs, there are unforgettable experiences and memories.
So she's in the implementation of the plan. The determination is also greater. It's also more motivating to persevere. Reality educates people more than anything else. Motivate people.
She nodded in understanding, "It was really difficult at first. But you can also make it easier to start with. Set yourself some small goals first. Like what. The first three days. You just have to stick to a period of time every day and stick to writing out a part of your winter vacation homework. Instead of coming together to assault. If you can hold on for three days. It's time for the fourth day. You'll be able to build on that. Set aside another hour to review the homework you learned last semester. Or preview your homework for the next semester. Or strengthen and consolidate your weak points in learning. Or study a subject that interests you. And so on for another three days. On the seventh day. You'll be able to add the same plan. Like what. Take a little time out of it every day. Come and do what you're interested in. And so on for three days and three days. From easy to difficult. From shallow to deep. It's actually easier. In this process from easy to difficult. You can also make adjustments anytime and anywhere. The most important thing is that. These plans and the experience in the implementation of the plan. Gains and impressions should be recorded seriously. Don't overload items at once. so as not to put too much burden on yourself. Let yourself feel tired and bored. This feeling is the most undesirable. But don't be too polite with yourself either. It's time to grit your teeth and hold on. You have to make up your mind to grit your teeth and persevere. Just stick to it for a month. You basically don't feel how difficult it is. Meantime. You can also make plans when making plans. Give yourself plenty of time to play, too. Don't think of these plans as a burden. There will be less boredom in my heart."
Listen to her in such detail. The resistance on Zhou Fanghua's face was really gone. All of a sudden, he seemed a lot more relaxed: "Hmm. You say so. I have the bottom in my heart. Doesn't that sound like a hard job?"
"It wasn't that hard. It's just a plan or something. Listen to bluffing." Enron nodded in agreement: "And. This plan is your own initiative. It's not the same feeling as an aunt. One is more autonomy. The degree of freedom is also greater. You can do whatever you want."
These words obviously won Zhou Fanghua's heart even more. She nodded her head non-stop: "Yes. You're right. I ordered it myself. At least this makes me feel a lot more comfortable when I think about it. And. The degree of freedom is a lot higher."
"So autonomy is not the same as not being in one's own hands. More flexible. More freedom. By the time it's done. You'll also feel more accomplished." Enron said this. Suddenly, he smiled slyly: "Actually, the plan itself is not the focus and purpose of my proposal. The focus of my suggestion is still that sentence. Get your records right. Record all your impressions and gains and losses. The more detailed, the better. And then we can achieve our purpose."
"Huh." Zhou Fanghua's eyes widened: "That's right. That's right. Hear you say so much. I almost forgot what we wanted to say in the first place. I almost thought you were my mother's guy. They came to persuade me to surrender. What about the rebels and revolutionaries?"
An Ran couldn't cry or laugh. Raise your hand and give her a little bit: "Phew. You stinky girl. You really think you're a member of the Communist Party or something. My aunt and I are Japanese devils or Kuomintang."
Zhou Fanghua smiled very doggedly: "Where is it. You are my ally. My allies~"
That cute and flattering look. It's almost no tail. If any. This chick is also going to take it out and shake it at Enron.
An Ran's eyes squinted angrily. It is also more useful: "Hmm. That's quite pertinent. This girl doesn't care about you villain."
Zhou Fanghua continued to say something nice: "That's . . . Is that. Enron's classmates are the biggest and have a lot of people. So. You'd better tell me quickly. What is our purpose? I'm dying."
An Ran laughed all of a sudden: "Silly boy. Our goal, of course, is to solve your exam stress once and for all."
Zhou Fanghua heard this, but immediately squinted at her and pouted. Whispered dissatisfied: "Hey, hey. Comrade Enron. You're so unreasonable. Still teasing the little ones. People are already so pitiful. Why are you so unsympathetic? You tease it again. I'm going to cry."
An Ran had a straight face: "Who teased you. I don't know the hearts of good people. Comrade Zhou Fanghua. How can you misinterpret the minds of your allies like this?"
Of course, Zhou Fanghua didn't believe her: "Look at it. Look. You're still pretending. I'll admit that your approach to planning is good. Seems to make sense. But that's the same as we said earlier. What does it really matter to solve my exam nervousness. Look. These are two completely unrelated things. Tell me about it. What the hell is the connection here?"
An Ran smiled and nodded obediently: "Okay. Good. Comrade Zhou Fanghua. Don't be in a hurry. Don't be in a hurry. My contact will come right away."
Zhou Fanghua chased her anxiously: "I'm in a hurry. I'm in a hurry. So please. Comrade Enron. Hurry. Happy. Immediately. Right away. Say it."
An Ran really said happily this time: "I'll ask you. Why are you nervous as soon as you take the exam?"
Zhou Fanghua didn't think her question was very painful. Rolled his eyes angrily: "Of course it's because my mom scares me every time. If I don't do well in the exam. She's going to put a mandatory control program on me......" said that. She seemed to have a bit of a thought. Eyes lit up. stared at Enron tightly: "What do you mean......"
An Ran nodded: "That's right. That's what I mean. Instead of letting your aunt come and implement a mandatory plan for you. It's better to start from the beginning. We'll take the initiative into our own hands. After all, their own life and future. You have to arrange it yourself. It's more fun to make your own decisions. You're right?"
Zhou Fanghua nodded vigorously in agreement: "That's it. You don't know. As soon as I heard my mother say that she was going to enforce the control on me. Implement the special training program she has developed. It's so annoying that I can't do it. I always feel that I can't get angry. But as soon as you said I'd make my own plan. Little by little, step by step. I feel much more comfortable. Looking back. I don't think my mother's plans are actually that hard to accept. There are also some of them that can really play a big role. It's really helpful for me. But there are quite a few that don't suit me at all. I can't tell her yet. The more the protest is ineffective. The more annoyed I became. And then I was very stressed about her plan."
"Take control of your own life. The initiative to plan for the future is really only one aspect of my proposal." Enron waited until she finished speaking. Understandingly, he patted her on the shoulder. continued: "Actually. I've heard you talk about your aunt's life experience or something. It's also quite touching. This may sound a little sour to speak. But it is indeed a pity for the hearts of parents in the world. She's so serious about making plans. Follow behind you for supervision. Not for anything else. Just out of care and love for you. It's like a big bird taking care of a small bird. I can't wait to arrange every step for you. Don't want you to miss out on any opportunities. Make any mistakes. lest it will make you suffer more in the future. suffer more."
This remark. Enron said empatheticly. Deeply experienced. As a born-again comer. She can fully understand Zhou's mother's hard work and intentions. In the original sense of the word. She was right. It's just a little blunt in the approach. The communication with Zhou Fanghua is not enough. As a result, her daughter's heart has a great resistance to her plan.
It's just that Zhou Fanghua is a very well-behaved and obedient child. I don't want my mother to be angry and sad. I can only keep suppressing this dissatisfaction and resistance in my heart. Keep all the stress in your heart. But there is no channel or method to dredge this pressure.
Slowly this pressure builds up more and more. The accumulation is getting bigger and bigger.
Eventually, it turned into her disgust and fear of exams.
"yes." Zhou Fanghua also flattened her mouth helplessly: "I know she is for my good. Always treat me like a child. I don't have to worry about anything. She has to arrange them one by one to feel at ease."
An Ran shook his finger: "So. The focus of my suggestion is that you develop a plan for the implementation of the implementation notes. First of all, let her see this series of changes in you this holiday season. See that you can organize your life in order. See that you are unconsciously changing and growing every day. It's all getting better little by little."
"Wait until this holiday is over. If you can achieve good results and progress. I think you'll be able to take that notebook of planned execution. Sit down and have a good talk with Auntie."
"Let's talk about it. With my mom."
Although with Enron's explanation. Zhou Fanghua has been constantly expressing his approval. Nodding from time to time. But when she heard Enron want her to sit down with her mother and talk. She still felt instinctively afraid.
"Don't dare." An Ran looked at Zhou Fanghua with a flat mouth. I think the expression of the wrinkled face is quite cute. Asked with a smile.