Chapter 156: Adults should also prevent addiction
But Shen Meilan, who was already addicted to this, couldn't listen to Tan Qingqing's words at all.
No, Shen Meilan still has a talisman or something like that in her hand. It is estimated that it was given to Shen Meilan by the old way just now.
"Mother, what Qingqing said is right. What the old Tao told you, we can also speculate if we push it ourselves. Why spend the silver taels for nothing in order to seek comfort in the heart? ”
But these words did not get Shen Meilan's approval.
Shen Meilan said instead.
"But that's right. He also gave me an elixir, saying that as long as I eat it, I will be able to prevent poison from all poisons......"
……
Tan Qingqing snatched the pill, put it on the side of his nose and sniffed it.
Immediately scolded out.
"Heh, the elixirs refined by these people are all highly toxic mercury refined from sulfur and cinnabar, and whoever eats them will be reincarnated early."
"Auntie, in Taoism, because of the importance of the principle of mutual growth and restraint of the five elements, a lot of toxic metals will be added to the elixir. This is eaten, not to mention becoming an immortal, it is not bad if you don't die early. So listen to me, aunt, if you want to take care of your body, exercise more, go to bed early and get up early, isn't it better than anything else? ”
Who knew that Tan Qingqing's head was instead patted by Shen Meilan.
"What do you know? You haven't refined an elixir. ”
Tan Qingqing's head was beaten, and his face was full of dissatisfaction, "Auntie, it's okay for you to believe in Taoism, but don't believe in Taoism." The Tao is nature, what is teaching? Someone is in control. Once a person intervenes, it evolves into the flesh. What is the word for meat under the word house? It's rotten rot! In today's society, isn't it just who has the stronger ability to control minds, and who can PUA better than whom? Once people are involved, many truths are all poor information that has been exaggerated and confused by others, and it is actually far from the actual information. ”
"How can you be such a smart person, so confused?"
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Tan Qingqing chattered endlessly, and persuaded bitterly. But Shen Meilan still thinks that Tan Qingqing is a little kid. Many masters don't understand the truth, how can Tan Qingqing, a person who has never practiced in the temple and Taoism, know about it?
"Okay, since you are powerful, then tell me, how much have you read the Dharma and Taoist books?"
Well?
Why do you ask her this?
Tao Ruoling on the side was busy saying, "My mother has recently been obsessed with Buddhism and Taoist books. There is also a huge bronze Buddha statue enshrined in the house. If it weren't for the cost of crossing the golden body of the Buddha statue, my mother was afraid that she would be able to take out all the family resources, just to cross the golden body for it. ”
Tan Qingqing, "......"
Tan Qingqing suddenly felt that he couldn't be so dead in the matter of preventing addiction. It's the same for adults, to prevent addiction.
"I haven't read a single Dharma or Taoist book."
Tan Qingqing said, "But I know that all the truths that can't be obtained from nature are PUA." And aunt, is it any use for you to hammer that wooden fish every day and read scriptures? You can withdraw from the wisdom you learn from the book! Why should the practice be rigid to formality? Auntie, no matter how many Buddhist beads you rub and knock on the wooden fish many times, the subordinates you have dealt with will not stop resentment towards your aunt because you have recited the Buddhist scriptures a few more times...... "The bell must be tied to the bell, if people really feel guilty about something, it is better to face it directly." Isn't this better than chanting the sutra every day?
Shen Meilan was originally walking towards the courtyard of the pilgrim's back house.
But Tan Qingqing's words suddenly reminded Shen Meilan.
The people she disposed of......
She will sort out the list of suspicious people in the near future. She wanted to see which one of them didn't have long eyes and dared to do this to her.
Especially the matter of this trip to the Lingyin Taoist Temple. Anyone who has ever interfered in this matter will be put on the list by her!
This Shen Meilan went back to the house in a hurry.
The people who were left in place were a little inexplicable.
Tao Ruoling was even closer to Tan Qingqing and pulled the corner of Tan Qingqing's clothes, "Qingqing, let me ask you a question, what is PUA?" ”
Tan Qingqing had long known that these two little sisters would ask this question.
So she had the answer ready a long time ago.
"PUA was originally meant to be a scumbag who deceived a woman's body. Now it has a broad meaning - to provide the other party with much-needed emotional value, and gradually capture the other person, so that others are willing to pay for their own interests as the ultimate goal. ”
"You can also understand it as, hunting."
Tan Qingqing said, "Although human beings have evolved, they are different from animals. But when human beings have moral constraints, clothes to cover their bodies, and human dignity. It naturally distinguishes itself from animals. ”
"It's just that hunting is in the nature of animals. It will still be hidden in the depths of the human heart. The herbivore will be hunted by the carnivores, and the carnivores will be hunted by those who are stronger than him. It's just that in human society, the gameplay will be slightly more civilized. It won't be like an animal, grinning directly, and flesh and blood will fly directly on the food plate. ”
"But after mentally controlling others, I said, I did everything for your own good. Why don't you listen to me? What else can you do without me? You're a complete piece of waste, and only I'm willing to tolerate you and love you. You're so bad, you can't find the value of existence in other people, only I can give you this self-affirming value. ”
"You see, when you fall into this logical loophole, you are mentally controlled by this kind of person."
And mind control isn't just limited to lovers. Religion, teachers and students, parents and children, businesses and consumers...... And so on and so forth. ”
"Anyway. Mind control is everywhere. What we can do is to train ourselves to be strong. Otherwise, life is full of temptations and traps. If we can prevent one, can we also prevent thousands? ”
Tao Ruoling and Tao Manning were almost shocked by Tan Qingqing's words.
They were exposed to the concept of mind control for the first time.
So they want to know more.
"Are there any concrete examples? Parents and children, also exist in this unhealthy relationship? ”
"yes, of course." Tan Qingqing said, "Many parents want to tie their children firmly to their side. Once the children are not satisfied with their parents in something, their parents will say, "If you do this again, I won't love you anymore." Isn't this still the reality of control in the name of love? ”
"That'...... This can't be said either, and that can't be said either. If Man Ning and I have children in the future, how should we educate our children? ”
"That's right." Tao Manning also followed Tao Ruoling and echoed on the side, "Children are young at the beginning and need education. If we say something wrong here, won't it affect the child for the rest of his life? ”
Facing Tao Manning and Tao Ruoling's questions, Tan Qingqing's answer was also very pertinent.
"Respect is a prerequisite for children. Children should not be treated as accessories to adults. And then there'......"
Speaking of this, Tan Qingqing paused for a while, "Everything in Yuzhou City needs to be studied in advance. To be a carpenter, you have to learn. To be an official, you have to go to school. Cultivating the land, to learn. However, as a parent, there is a lack of coherent learning conditions. Everyone seems to have acquiesced, as long as people give birth to children, they will educate children. I don't think that's advisable. ”
After talking for a long time, Tan Qingqing was also thirsty.
And she didn't want to say any more.
asked Tao Ruoling and Tao Manning if the topic was too far away. I forgot what I wanted to ask at the beginning, it was obviously PUA, not children's education.
"And aren't we talking about Taoist temples and scriptures? Why is the topic suddenly so far away? It's all about educating children. Why, you haven't married yet, so you want to have a big fat baby, and let the big fat baby play with you? ”