Chapter 729: Sublimation
Zhao Mingyang knew that he had used too much force and used it in the wrong place, and he had committed this special professional habit again, and he was generating electricity again.
Xu Tiantian's mother took the lead in breaking the atmosphere, and soon mediated, Zhao Mingyang also mediated, and quickly switched identities, why do you want to continue, Xu Tiantian will have no home, Xu Jianye Wanheng will not want it, as long as Zhao Mingyang's life is left for the rest of his life.
"Xiao Zhao, what do you plan to do in the future?" Xu Tiantian's mother's words have multiple meanings, it is a deep pit, if Zhao Mingyang says wrong, it is easy to offend his mother-in-law and disgust his mother-in-law.
Knock on the blackboard: Why does everyone like to say that looking for a daughter-in-law first depends on who the mother-in-law is, and what is the mother-in-law talking about first?
First, the children's education of the Oriental family is basically the mother's education, the male protagonist and the female protagonist within the family division of labor, if you find that your mother-in-law is a low-quality person, then you can be sure that your girlfriend may have hidden a lot when she is with you, and her behavior and habits can basically be found from her mother.
If your mother-in-law is very good, then you have to please your mother-in-law at this time, do you have any skills to please your mother-in-law? That's true.
For example, your father-in-law likes to talk and laugh, and likes to talk about the world, you just need to be mature and steady, and you can be cautious in your words and deeds, because your father-in-law thinks that he is familiar and humorous, and he may be upset in the eyes of your mother-in-law, and he will feel that he loves to brag and is not serious, because after getting along for a long time, the original advantages have become disadvantages, and the mother-in-law hates such a son-in-law, and does not want her daughter to find a test with her.
After the first impression is passed, the next thing is to do what he likes, this is very simple, your girlfriend usually likes to eat what to use, most of them will reflect her mother's preferences to you, remember not to talk too much with your father-in-law, you can after marriage, try not to do it before marriage.
Because a man understands a man very well, what virtue do you have, he may see it clearly after getting along, he is hostile to you, you are here to rob his little padded jacket, if the father-in-law takes a fancy to the son-in-law.
The daughter and the mother-in-law basically don't like it, because the father-in-law must want to find a really honest person for his daughter, and this kind of person is basically a shortcoming in the eyes of women.
Mu Ne is sluggish, does not know how to be romantic and has no opinions.
This is also why Zhao Mingyang doesn't want to please Xu Tiantian's grandfather, and he doesn't want to talk too much to Xu Qingming, it's better to pretend to be drunk, for fear that the other party will see something, as for Xu Tiantian's father Xu Jianye, Zhao Mingyang can't talk nonsense with him, and he will try not to socialize with him.
This method can be used not only for this, but also for work, for example, if your boss is a female boss, you see what kind of man she hates the most in the company, you just have to do the opposite.
It's to be the ideal type of the other party, and you can even hear her complain about what kind of person her husband is from your female boss's conversation, and you can do the opposite.
"The Exotic Reclamation of Vegetable Skeletons"
The question asked by Xu Tingting's mother seems to be nothing, but in fact, there is a hidden mystery, if Zhao Mingyang pretends to say that he likes a peaceful life, then people may really let Zhao Mingyang live a peaceful life, you can marry Xu Tingtian with peace of mind, you are in the master.
If Zhao Mingyang talks about it, it will make people think that he is a person who wants to achieve a career and wants to use the Xu family to take the position.
This scale, Zhao Mingyang must sublimate it a second time, remember what he said before? Everything is philosophical, philosophy is omnipotent, it can break everything, what is philosophy? It is thinking, it is deep thinking, it is a kind of in-depth interpretation and so on, it is not something that can be explained clearly in a few words, it is the high latitude of the spiritual world.
Zhao Mingyang looked out the window and said: "My left brain and right brain are fighting every day, they want to convince each other, but in the end no one can convince them, they want to get out of the body, so that there is no need to argue."
It is fortunate to be born in this era, but it is also very pitiful and pathetic, there is money to buy everything you want, including feelings, but the sad thing is that no one cares about yourself anymore, what do we really want, what do we want to get? Now no one cares about talent, only your financial resources.
Sometimes I was forced to have social phobia, I was afraid of the thunder and lightning outside, and the voices were all discussing how to make money, what car to buy, what watch, who to make friends with.........
Auntie, I really don't know how to answer this question you asked me, I am very nostalgic for my childhood, nostalgic for my old life, at that time I remember that the neighbors were discussing what to eat today and what they were going to do tomorrow, and people's eyes seemed to have light.
I miss my teacher in the afternoon classroom, a beam of light hit her face, she told us ancient poems, and did not let us make up the lesson, who did not study well, she took the initiative to put the poor study under the podium, and then after school to make up for the poor student.
When I came home this year, a relative's child wanted to move forward, and the child's parents gave the teacher a supermarket card.
I wondered, why can anyone be a teacher now? We don't get that, now the teachers are labeled, and most of them are a group of people who have been teachers in vain and mixed into the team.
They are for money, everything is about money, not really want to teach and educate people, children are likely to be influenced by this group of people, I think it is the atmosphere that makes all this.
What kind of life do I want? Actually, I have an immature and naïve idea, I want to have a lot of money, but I don't love money, I don't have much interest in money, I want to build some art galleries, to cultivate some people who really love music, love to write, love to paint, and give them more opportunities to show their talents.
Let them lead everyone to pursue art again, recognize the importance of knowledge, value talent, don't look at financial resources, don't pay too much attention to the outside.
I think this is the cultural invasion of foreign countries, they bring in all the bad things, and make everyone realistic and impetuous.
I want to use my limited ability to bring more people to change their values and atmosphere, but I know that this is like a fool's dream, if I can't change, then I'm ready to become a teacher, at least then, I can change my students, within a limited scope, to help a group of people establish correct values.
Perhaps, this is also my final life, I am taking the teaching certificate, in the future, maybe I will stand on the three-foot podium, tell the people in the audience, always believe that knowledge changes fate, never look at money, to replenish more spiritual food, not to be a person who goes with the flow. ”
You see, the pattern was directly opened, and finally returned to education, especially Xu Tiantian's mother is a scholarly family, and the content of their family's discussion is most likely value-oriented and that people nowadays don't love talent and financial resources.
In their opinion, all making money is vulgar, and the richness of the spiritual world is really rich.
Especially Xu Tiantian's mother, she doesn't worry about eating and drinking, so most of the time is to cultivate hobbies and pursue art.
This is the reason why the relationship between her and Xu Tingting's father gradually cooled, Xu Tingting's father only thinks about continuing to make the company bigger and stronger, and his outlook on life is to look at money, and Xu Tingting's mother is not worried about no money at all, so she wants to supplement her spiritual food, so at this time, the two are actually not in the same thought.
Zhao Mingyang grasped this point, so he said this, Zhao Mingyang said this idea, Xu Tianting's mother had also considered it, but it was fleeting, but Zhao Mingyang actually showed that he really wanted to do it, his eyes were very firm, Zhao Mingyang was not for money, but to change the atmosphere.
Especially Zhao Mingyang's last sentence, if he can't change anything, he will become a teacher and help the children he educates to establish correct values, which is very recognized and praised by Xu Tiantian's mother, because Zhao Mingyang at least has a high level of thought.
Zhao Mingyang's set of words can 100% fool Xu Tiantian's mother, this is the ultimate form of speech summarized by Jack Ma at his peak in the next three or five years, but Zhao Mingyang used it first, and the pattern will go up.
Thoughts should be sublimated, don't think about the ego, think about what I can do for the society, don't always think about what others want to do for me.
Is two billion a lot? Is my Zhao Mingyang trying to make money? Is it the people who need these two billion? Is it greedy for your Xu family's financial resources?
No! I want to have a greater ability to help more people, I want to change the atmosphere and change the incorrect values, I don't talk to you about what I want, I just talk to you about values, you want to deny me, you are the person who I said in my mouth to love money, all Leeds first superficial people.
Xu Tiantian's mother definitely can't recognize this, this thing is reducing her identity and taste.
If it's an old lady, just spray Zhao Mingyang, don't fix these empty heads, do all the, you don't care about money, then you give me your money.
"Xiao Zhao, I didn't expect you to have this idea, so what step do you think you should start to change?" Xu Tiantian's mother asked Zhao Mingyang.
The two chatted for more than half an hour in the next time, and they were still unsatisfied, Xu Tiantian's mother was not as expected by Zhao Mingyang, it seemed that Si Swen was actually an old Wenqing who had no worries about food and clothing, and moaned without illness, an old troll, she sprayed a lot of social chaos, and criticized a lot.
To put it bluntly, she has never been beaten by society, and she was born to be a carefree lady.
She is now engaged in education, but she is doing the part of Chinese studies, to put it bluntly, in fact, it is still for profit, but she refuses to admit that she is the same as the person she hates the most and looks down on.
Zhao Mingyang can only echo her, touting that she has done something very meaningful, but she needs to spread the Chinese culture and let more people pay attention to it.
One said and one praised, there was no unpleasant chat, and when Xu Tiantian came back, he saw the two of them chatting so happily.
I don't know if I thought that Boya had met the child period, Xu Tiantian served Zhao Mingyang food, after eating, Zhao Mingyang and Xu Tiantian's mother started chatting again, Xu Tiantian seemed to be redundant, Xu Tiantian could only peel fruit and pour water for the two of them to drink, and let them continue to blow.
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