There was a father and daughter at the next table where Zhao Mingyang was eating, and after a while, a boy came, wearing a school uniform, the boy was a little restrained and scared, especially in the face of the short-haired middle-aged man who threw himself at him, the boy lowered his head and did not dare to face the middle-aged.

The boy didn't know where to sit, so he stood there helplessly, and the middle-aged man looked at the boy and said, "Sit down, sit next to my daughter."

The boy deliberately kept a certain distance from the girl, and after the middle-aged man drank a mouthful of noodle soup, he put down his chopsticks, picked up a napkin and wiped his mouth and said: "I have no objection to you falling in love, at the age of the beginning of love, I came out to talk to you, I didn't go to the teacher, I didn't go to your parents, I know that if they know about this, they will criticize you at most two sentences, the more criticism and opposition, the more you may have to resist."

The middle-aged man's daughter and the boy didn't speak, they were silent, Zhao Mingyang was at the same table with them in the restaurant, and the boss was busy in the kitchen, so Zhao Mingyang heard very clearly at this time.

Mainly at this point, it's almost ten o'clock, and basically no one comes to the noodle restaurant to eat, most of them go to food stalls or barbecue restaurants.

The two teenagers should have just finished self-study at night, and the middle-aged looked at the two and said again: "I am also from the past, there is a good saying, the favorite person in life stays at the age of seventeen or eighteen, because most people will never get it, they can't forget it, so they often remember this beauty, and love at this age is the most innocent and pure.

But as a parent, a father, I want to think about my daughter's health and future, you can rest assured, I will not stop you from falling in love, and even I wish you a good love, girl, you don't have to lie and lie to me in the future, and you don't have to go out on Saturday to meet this kid, you can be generous when you fall in love, nothing is unpleasant.

But there is a premise, you are in your second year of high school, and you are about to be in your third year of high school, one in liberal arts and one in science, and you think about each other every day, and it is really a waste of time to run to see each other after class, and it will affect your emotions, and ultimately affect your studies and future.

On Saturday, you can make an appointment to watch a movie, how nice is that, the premise is that from this time onwards, you have to maintain the top 20 in your class, which is not a high requirement, right? If you fall out, sorry, your short-lived love ends here.

Let's put it this way, I'll just transfer my daughter to another school, and I'll never approve of you being together, because you can't even make promises to me, let alone love."

The two teenagers glanced at each other, neither expecting the middle-aged man to say this.

Zhao Mingyang thinks it's very interesting, this father's idea is very unique.

"Okay, go back, give you time to think, you kid must send my daughter home safely, her mother is at home, I'll go back later, I hope you all give me an answer when I get home, either promise to maintain the top twenty, or separate as soon as possible." Said the middle-aged.

The two teenagers were a little confused, but they didn't expect that the middle-aged people didn't object or criticize at all, which made them a little overwhelmed, the two got up and left with their schoolbags, Zhao Mingyang looked at each other, this brain circuit is very novel.

When the two boys left, another middle-aged man with glasses came in and said, "My son and your daughter are gone?"

"Gone." Said the short-haired middle-aged.

"What did you tell them?" The middle-aged man with glasses sat down and asked.

"I said let them fall in love." Said the short-haired middle-aged.

"No, Lao Li, are you crazy, I asked you to persuade them away, my son said that he didn't listen, I was afraid of causing a backlash, so I asked you to say it, scare and scare them, why do you still support it?"

"What a merit, you are still a university teacher, why are you so pedantic, how do you teach your students, I will say that your university is not as good as ours." The short-haired man laughed.

"Fuck off, our school is much better than your school, why are you comparing with us, wait, why are you talking about this, I'm talking about children, children, falling in love, affecting learning, early love!

You actually let them continue to talk, Li Shanhe, you are crazy, you are really crazy, you support this, your daughter." The man in glasses scolded angrily.

"I'm not crazy." Li Shanhe said.

"You're not crazy? Don't you know what falling in love means for children at this stage of learning? If they don't get into college, do you know how serious the consequences will be? That's a matter of their lives, can you take that responsibility? You can't afford it." He Gong said.

"I know, how I don't know, you and I both know that the two of us just changed our fate because of the college entrance examination, came here from a small county town, settled down and worked here, without the college entrance examination, we may only be in that place for the rest of our lives, and without the college entrance examination, we would not be able to live today.

But what a merit, you have to be clear, the times have changed, in the past, the sunrise and sunset rested, as long as the lazy sleep must be said to be a lazy man, all kinds of slander, staying up late is not hard to read is shameful, people who go out at night are basically said not to do good deeds.

You're a university teacher, don't you know that times have changed? Now a lot of people have to work night shifts and sleep during the day, do you think they're at fault? Are they slouches? For example, some young people are now playing game live broadcast at night or something, they just have a different schedule and rest than others, but game live broadcast is also their type of work, they like this job and can still stick to it, did they have this kind of job in the past? Not really.

Can't kill the lazy people who sleep with a stick, there was not so much nightlife in the past, but relatively, there was a mixed flow of people at night, I don't deny that there are all kinds of three religions and nine streams in it, so I decided to take my daughter to the bar to have a good look, and she will be curious to meet people in the future.

I have to take my child to the scene to see and tell her some routines, so that she can be more vigilant in the future, the more I hide it and don't tell them, the more curious they are to try to explore, the easier it is to be deceived, and I have to tell them something that they can't do and why they can't do it.

Your son secretly went to the Internet café, you are going crazy, your daughter-in-law even thinks that the sky is falling, you take your son to go openly, tell him what kind of people are on the Internet now, and there will be time to go online in the future, but many people are happy at this time, drop out of school to go online, and what life is like in the end, you have to tell him.

Just like falling in love, does it really affect learning? You tell me that those unrequited lovers playing with crushes will affect their studies? That's even more willing, just thinking about the mess every day, it's even more terrifying.

Besides, is your son a heinous man? Is my girl a bad girl? No, the two of us are classmates, and the two children have been playing together since childhood, and they can be said to be childhood sweethearts, so why don't we guide them correctly?

Both of them may not know whether they are suitable for each other or not, but if we forcibly break up, then they will hate us for the rest of their lives, and in the future, they will find that the other half is not as happy as the other party, and they will resent us for ruining their love, can you afford to pay the responsibility?"

He Gong was silent for a long time when Li Shanhe said this, and he really didn't know what to say.

Because He Gong couldn't refute every word Li Shanhe said, because what Li Shanhe said was objective.

"Let's put it this way, we both attach great importance to reading to change our fate, we feel that we have created such good conditions, our children will definitely be better than us, their foundation is better than ours, but the reality is different, we must be prepared that children will not be able to surpass us in their lives.

You teach physics, I teach history, let's put it this way, we must not be as good as our children at our age, their knowledge must be far beyond us, but they must not have as many opportunities as us, how many of us are in school at that time, how many are in school, and when we go to college, it will be an iron rice bowl, package distribution, participation in work package housing, you let us buy a suite in Shencheng now, can you afford it or can I afford it? Unaffordable.

So I also hate the advice that experts give to young people, how many of them are related to their majors when they graduate? How many units are assigned after graduation, most of them are thinking about how to buy a house, how many people can't stay in big cities, I and you are graduating now, we may have to go back, a house will stump us, aside from the era and the advantages of the big era of experts is a group of parallel goods, last time there was a program invited me to give a lecture, a lesson for young people, I directly refused, for fear of being said to be an expert.

I told your son and my daughter to keep the top two in the class

ten, they are allowed to fall in love, otherwise they will directly transfer my daughter to another school, so that they will not be able to talk in this life.

Their school is not bad, and it is a Shencheng household registration, to put it bluntly, the pressure is much less ruthless than other peers, keeping twenty, it is not difficult to go to 211, and it is not difficult to read at the end of 985, after all, there is a great advantage.

I just want them to study on a campus with a relatively good learning atmosphere, I say ugly, even if they go to the university where we teach, they are not the pride of heaven, they may work a little better and easier than most of their peers after graduation, but it is not too easy.

They will also have children in the future, we are likely to help them buy a house, your house and my house, now a square is about 1560,000, your family has 128 square meters, our family is about the same, even if it is 130 square meters, according to 150,000 calculations, what merit, our house can be sold for 19.5 million, is this our own efforts?

It can only be said that a small part, our biggest advantage is to take advantage of the big era.

We belong to the elevator upstairs, how many of the young people you want today, as far as the graduates of your school and our school can buy a house in the area where we live in Shencheng?

Thirty percent of the down payment will be six or seven million, how many years will it take to graduate from the salary in January to reach forty or fifty thousand, even if you don't eat or drink, it will take more than ten years to afford the down payment, and you must also consider that the rate of housing price appreciation is several times higher than the growth rate of wages, and ten years of saving money may not be enough to pay 10% of the down payment.

In this case, if you don't make tens of millions of dollars at one time, don't want to buy the house we live in now, or the children have money in the family, it's not that the children want to gnaw at the old and need the help of their parents, but if it were us, we would be the same as the children now.

Our children said that we will not help them buy a house in the future, you let them buy a house by themselves, to be honest, just like my daughter and your son, it is no problem to buy a house, maybe buy a small apartment in the suburbs of Shencheng, and have to be in debt for 30 years, and they will never be able to go back to the place where they grew up and lived.

In fact, the suburbs of Shencheng and the urban areas of third- and fourth-tier cities are not too different, just like the third ring road and the fifth ring road in the imperial capital, which are two concepts.

If you can't see this clearly, you have become a university teacher in vain, you have lived in vain all these years, you have read so many books in vain, don't expect too much from your children, just be healthy and happy, it's good to leave a good memory in your youth, what is the purpose of taking a good university entrance exam in college?

In order to have a better experience of college life, in order to talk about a few high-quality relationships, don't wait until you graduate from college, you haven't talked about a single love, and finally fall into a big fight, then you will lose blood.

You see the student who graduated from the school next door, who had a successful career in his thirties, had never been in love once, and was finally deceived by a woman with a slightly beautiful condition, why? has no experience in love, the most important thing for contemporary young people to learn is to fall in love.

A marriage is likely to ruin a person's life, and the reason why my marriage with yours is still beautiful is that we get married to college classmates, we understand each other, have a common discourse, and appreciate each other, which is our own choice, it's better than not liking to live together reluctantly at the beginning, and finally leaving."

He Gong was thinking about Li Shanhe's words, the boss walked to the table with a dinner plate, chatted with them in an authentic Shaanxi X accent, and made home-cooked food specially for them, and the three of them opened a bottle of wine and chatted with a Shaanxi X accent.

It turned out that these three people were fellow villagers, Zhao Mingyang got up and said, "Don't mind adding me a place, I benefited a lot from hearing the two brothers chatting just now, I didn't mean to listen to it, please forgive me."

I don't eat you for nothing, I know the rules, I've brought wine."

"What do you mind about, don't mind, let's have a drink." The boss said.

"Okay, I'll go to the car to get alcohol, don't worry, I live around here, don't drink and drive, don't drink while driving." Zhao Mingyang walked out after speaking, and chose two bottles of liquor in the cigarette hotel next door, not choosing too expensive, one bottle is more than 200, if you go directly to Moutai, it is estimated that this wine will not be comfortable to drink.

Zhao Mingyang took the wine and two packs of Yuxi for more than 20 years, and used what cigarettes and what wine for any occasion.

"I didn't eat in vain, this

The wine was given by someone last time, I don't usually drink much, and I don't know how, mainly because I want to drink when you get together, or I feel a little bit of friendship and nostalgia when you get together." Zhao Mingyang said as he opened a bottle of liquor.

"You say you, we have wine here, what do you spend, this wine is a lot of money." The boss said.

"I don't have much money, I poured it for a few old brothers, how many of them are fellow villagers?" Zhao Mingyang asked.

"It's not, from a county town, they came out together, these two are still university teachers, but they were the top liberal arts and science champions we had there, very good." The boss said to Zhao Mingyang with a proud thumbs up.

"What kind of cow, the hero doesn't mention the courage back then, there are more people than us cattle in Shencheng, and the county champion is here. If there are not 10,000, there are 8,000, it's not worth mentioning, it's nothing more than a mixed meal, nothing else, just a teacher.

Little brother, don't let me open a noodle shop, he is amazing, this façade room is his, there are two houses here, he is a chartered public." He Gong took a sip of wine and said.

"Yes, we were a middle school back then, he was one year younger than us, and then this kid came to Shencheng after finishing middle school, worked as a chef for a few years, and just caught up with the entrepreneurial tide, he opened a noodle shop early, and made a profit of thousands of yuan a day, at that time, many people in Shencheng had a monthly salary of only 1,800, and some people in other areas had a monthly salary of only 2,300, what a concept, it was a non-stop customer, at that time, there was no private noodle restaurant that he caught up with the wave, he was only twenty years old and became the boss, and we were still in school, Our children have graduated from college now, and our child is only a sophomore in high school, and he is ahead of us in everything.

At that time, the house price here was 1,0100 square meters, and his daily turnover was basically one square meter. Li Shanhe pointed at the boss and smiled.

"Boss, you turned out to be a charter man, disrespectful." Zhao Mingyang looked at the boss and said.

"Hey~ I'll catch up with the good time, when I bought this façade house to find someone to buy, otherwise I can't buy it, in the early nineties, I spent five thousand to find someone, I didn't look for someone, I couldn't buy a house here, the number of places is limited, the landlord on this street belongs to me is the most ordinary, the rest are either rich or expensive, and buying this house is more than 5,000 square meters, at that time, you think about it, it's not cheap, so it's not cheap to say that the house in a good location.

My father told me that when I make money, I will first buy a façade house, and then I will have money when I open the door.

I didn't think about anything at the beginning, I didn't know what to do when I made money, so I bought a house, thanks to the good time, when a bowl of noodles for three yuan was eaten by outsiders, and they came to do business and travel or something, and a bowl of beef noodles for five yuan was the best to sell, and it started selling three or five hundred copies every day.

Seriously, at that time, it was easy to make money, after all, there were few competitors, and the customer flow was large, but it was also chaotic, and many ruffians would rip off the bamboo.

I've only been making money for five or six years, and then there is more and more competition, and my business is getting worse and worse, and now my daily turnover is not as good as one-tenth of what I used to be, but I'm also ready to retire, and fortunately, I didn't invest indiscriminately and bought a house."

Zhao Mingyang chatted happily with a few people, chatting about everything, and also talked about buying a car.

He Gong said with a smile: "Look at people now, many people's underlying logic is wrong and cannot be broken through, and those who finally reach poverty have not been able to break through, and this is something that an economics teacher in our school has discussed with me."

"What logic?" Li Shanhe asked curiously.

But Zhao Mingyang has been observing this He Gong, he has an impression of this person, because one of his future research directions is very powerful, and Zhao Mingyang deliberately approached them when he saw this person appear.