474, parental effort
An Guoqing said and lit a cigarette. Took two puffs. He continued. "How can a person be so smooth in this life. Who doesn't have a time when the mountains are high and the water is low. There is a door that can be taken anywhere. Supporting one's own craft is the foundation of survival...... It doesn't matter what kind of craft it is. That's right. Those college students don't learn crafts. Call...... Skill. It doesn't matter what it's called. Running on the mountain. Fall by the tree. When do you have to rely on yourself? Let's worry about it again. I can't take care of her for the rest of my life. As for starting a family. Our girl is so promising. Good temperament. She looks pretty too. Many recruits are rare. Jieyun's kid is not lucky. And a lot of good guys. What are you doing so much? ”
Talking and talking. Uncle An trembled with great confidence again. The look on his loyal and honest face on weekdays at this time is called a dew.
Li Caifeng originally thought that what he said was quite reasonable. But as soon as I heard the latter words. The more I listen to it, the more it tastes wrong. A lot of good lads. You think your girl is a fairy. But that's it. At first, she still had the energy to bury him. It's really too lazy to say it now.
After An Guoqing said this. Li Caifeng put aside her daughter's suspicious relationship with the little one first. The two began to wholeheartedly ponder the application and employment issues of their children's future majors.
on this question. An Guoqing and Li Caifeng were very frightened.
They don't have a high degree of education. The people I usually come into contact with are also big and coarse. In the past, I thought my daughter was good at studying. I will be able to go to university in the future. It seems that subconsciously thinks directly. To go to university is to have a chance. Just don't worry about work.
Although the times are constantly evolving at a rapid pace. And they, along with some middle-aged people of the same era, are just passively letting all kinds of new things move forward in the torrent of time. Hurried footsteps. But what is swirling in my mind is still the old old vision and old thinking.
And Enron's change came so suddenly. For An Guoqing and Li Caifeng. It's as if her daughter has suddenly grown up. Parents don't have to worry about anything. The study also changed from the original middle school to the middle school, and the results of the middle school were suddenly admitted to the provincial key middle school.
Now An Guoqing and Li Caifeng came back to their senses and found out. I was just busy with pride. is only thinking that my daughter will definitely be able to be admitted to university. But I didn't think about it. There are also majors in college.
Now college graduation is not included. In the future, you will have to rely on yourself to find a job. They can't stand it for their parents. There are no reliable relatives and connections in the family. The daughter can't count on the family at all in this regard.
It's not just about thinking about what kind of study will make it easier to get a job. You still have to calculate the things you learned. Looking for a job is not exciting...... That's the big problem. The old idea was too simplistic.
But all they knew was that it was serious. It is a major event related to her daughter's life. But let them say one, two, three. I really don't understand. I don't understand it at all.
I don't understand it. Despite feeling uncultured. There is an unattainable attitude towards knowledge. An Guoqing and Li Caifeng never thought about letting go of this matter at all.
How can that be. The matter of his own daughter. For them, even the king of heaven and Lao Tzu can't compare to the height. When people's parents don't help staff officers in this kind of thing. Think about ruts. Gatekeeping. What are you doing with them? furnishings.
It is out of this extreme distress for the child. The idea of being responsible for your child. An Guoqing and Li Caifeng took all the energy they could in this matter. Doing their own thing. Even if it may be useless. Even if such an effort seems so clumsy to many people.
to these things. Previously they did not understand at all. Then go for it. Find out. Only understood. Got it. can help her daughter get an idea. to be able to help.
I don't know what to be afraid of.
Learn.
You can't open your mouth under your nose. Ask.
A lot of the time. A parent's love for their children can always make them do things that they would not normally be able to do.
Like what. Some parents who don't know anything about Go accompany their children to study in interest classes. In order to let children learn chess better. I was stunned to be able to memorize the chess game taught by the teacher on the spot from beginning to end without understanding it at all. When I went home, I helped the child review.
There are also some pairs of music. Fine arts. Parents who have no foundation in English and other arts and subjects have no foundation at all, and accompany their children all the way to gnaw little by little. Little by little.
In the end. Children may learn and forget. Instead, the parents learned the piano, chess, calligraphy and painting.
The same goes for An Guoqing and Li Caifeng.
The two recopied An Ran's thick notebook word for word from beginning to end. He also asked his daughter to print out the documents stored in the computer.
When business is quiet. The husband and wife held a set of materials and read and studied them seriously. Have a stack of paper on hand at all times. A pen. If you don't understand something, write it down. Or ask about Enron. Or ask a customer who comes to the store.
There is a lot of traffic at the lottery station. Although there is no too high-end social class. But after a long time, you will find out. There are still a lot of people from all walks of life. Many questions can be obtained from them in first-hand detail. Direct. Fresh answers.
Of course. There are also some answers that are not so reliable. For example, for some less popular subjects. The customers in the store are not usually reached. The knowledge of them is nothing more than hearsay. This is an exaggeration. Ill hearings makes ill rehearsing. The information given is outrageous.
Whether it's reliable or not. Still unreliable. As long as you hear the answer. An Guoqing and Li Caifeng both sincerely thanked them one by one. Then record this information in a categorical manner. Together.
It doesn't matter if it's useful or not. Collect it first. I'll show it to the girl. See what she's interested in. Let's study it then.
In this way. An Guoqing and Li Caifeng are like two hard-working ones. Always be ready to store the winter food like ants. Keep asking. Listen. Collecting. Recorded. Tidying up......
Until one day. A large notebook was handed to Enron.
"What is this?" An Ran took the notebook, which was almost as thick as a brick, and was a little unresponsive for a while. Curiously looking at his parents.
"Oh. Haven't you been planning to volunteer lately? Didn't you ask me and your mother to make a copy of the things you found yourself last time? We're studying those things when we're idle these days. Oh. I don't know if I don't see it. I was shocked to see it. Only then did I know that there was a lot of knowledge here. There are a lot of things we don't understand. Those subjects in college. A lot of people haven't heard of it. Just follow these old customers in the store to inquire. It's all written down here. ”
An Guoqing held the iced mung bean soup sent by his daughter and drank it. Finally. Wipe your mouth. Again. "Anyway. Your mother and I don't understand. Nothing else can help you. What do people say? Let's just write about it. Useful or useless. Just look at it as a reference. There's something unclear. You write it down again. I'll ask your mother about it later. ”
An Ran was stunned when he heard it. It took a moment to be under Li Caifeng's impatient urging. Sit at the table. I lowered my head and slowly flipped through it.
An Guoqing and Li Caifeng were busy again. When they're idle again. Time has passed for quite some time. Turn your head. I found that my daughter was still in that position. Sitting there with my head buried and watching.
An Guoqing is not very confident in the information and information he has collected. Asked. "Huh. Xiao Ran. I remember these things with your mother. It's kind of useless. ”
“…… Well. Quite useful. Enron responded in a low voice. The voice is a little hoarse.
"Hey. That's fine. An Guoqing smiled contentedly.
An Ran stood up violently. Place the notebook on the table. Keep your head down. Hurried upstairs.
Li Caifeng was taken aback by her sudden movement. Asked in a loud voice behind her. "Huh. You kid. This hair is stunned. Why are you going? ”
“…… I...... Toilet. An Ran's voice floated down the stairs muffled.
She opened the door in twos and threes. rushed into the bathroom. The door slammed shut. With your back against the door panel. Tilt your head. Tears. Beside oneself.
Enron always thought that she knew how deep her parents' love for her was. How generous. How accommodating. But when she closed her eyes at this point. I remembered the dense ones I had just seen. Not pretty handwriting. Even the popular simplified white characters of the folk; Those may not be systematic. The classification is also not scientific enough. but also well-organized materials and information; Those are after the information. Tiny. Emphasis in small print with red pen. Feelings. Prompt; The one that was bound thickly. When you have dictionary-like notes. She still understood. I still know so little. It's so shallow.
She knows that her parents have always been frontline workers. In the early years, the condition of the factory was not good. There is also no guarantee of working hours. They were young when they entered the factory. There is a lack of self-protection consciousness when working. A pair of hands are already tired. Coarse joints. Stiff fingers.
I don't usually see anything. I don't feel like I'm doing some general hard work. But if you have to do something delicate, you will find that it is very difficult to bend your fingers. I can't do it. Therefore. An Guoqing and Li Caifeng often laugh at themselves. The two of them are the lives of the resistance to hardship. Do rough work. It takes more effort to get them to write than to do hard work. The usual running account in the store. The words are also bold. It's like a jujube pit.
However. These are the two pairs of hands. I wrote such a neat and thick notebook one by one. It's just these two pairs of hands, which are constantly marked in more detailed small print behind those messages. Prompted.