Zheng Xiao shrugged his shoulders without changing his face, "Don't you think it's too early for my mother to worry about this kind of problem?" She wishes I thought so now, after all, I don't have the slightest intention of early love, and my heart is so strong, which is definitely good news for parents. ”

An Ran had reservations about this, after all, in Aunt Zheng's heart, it was always inevitable to have a stumbling back on her daughter's non-ladylike temperament, otherwise she would not have come up with such a ...... A chic way to tease Zheng Xiao, so when she heard Zheng Xiao's remarks just now, what she thought was going to be difficult to say. Even if you don't want your daughter to fall in love, but because of the unique and particularly masculine reason of "fear of trouble", I'm afraid it's difficult to make Aunt Zheng feel pleased, right?

An Ran put the thoughts of this little old lady into Aunt Zheng'er, and felt that it was necessary to care about his friend's plans and thoughts on future love and marriage issues, "Just let me worry about it, but I still want to ask, you are so afraid of trouble, if you really want to fall in love and marry in the future, what should you do?" She looked Zheng Xiao up and down, "Or do you want to be single or unmarried in the future?" ”

"I haven't thought much about this yet, it's too early to think about it, right? However, when you ask this, I don't think it's bad to be single. Zheng Xiao habitually tapped his lips with his fingers, "You also know the nature of the work of the criminal police, I am not the kind of person who will take care of the family in the traditional sense, and besides, I entered into marriage early, husband, children, and relatives or something, when I think of those things, I am so big, and sometimes I have to sacrifice my career, it is simply the destruction and destruction of human nature." It's better to live freely alone. You can devote yourself to your work, and you can get used to doing something when you are free. All in all, I don't think I'll have the consciousness to take on family responsibilities for a while. So......" she looked at An Ran and said with a serious expression, "I especially wanted to ask you before, are you ready to bear all the effects of early love?" Are you ready for a successful early love, and it is very likely that you will marry early? Are you ready to take on the responsibilities that come with early marriage? After early marriage, is it possible to have children early? ”

An Ran looked at Zheng Xiao with a worried and implicit worried gaze, hugged his friend, and smiled softly, "Thank you, I almost have some mental preparations." Now I am indeed in early love, but I can't say what early marriage and early childbearing will be in the future. I think that no matter whether you marry early and have children early, or marry later and have children later, as long as you get married and have children, you will encounter your own problems. Early marriage and early childbearing will certainly occupy a lot of energy, and may have a certain impact on future studies and careers. But what if you marry later and have children later? Does it have no impact on your career? For example, getting married in your thirties, having children, being an older mother, and being an older woman are also very headaches in terms of energy, body, life, and work. So, since there are problems in the morning and evening, just go with the flow and find a way to solve the problem according to the specific situation. ”

"Looks like you're really thinking very clearly." Zheng Xiao listened to An Ran's words, thought for a moment, and exhaled, "Listen to what you say, I think it's really ...... It's more troublesome. ”

"Huh?" An Ran didn't expect her to say so ...... The sun is shining and positive, how can she feel more troubled instead? What's the idea?

No, An Ran clicked her lips, blinked again, recalling the conversation between her and Zheng Xiaoshicai, how did she think about it, how did she feel wrong, and there was a ...... in a trance Yes, a sense of dislocation.

It's as if the positions, mentality, speech, and way of thinking of the two people are reversed.

Zheng Xiao should always be the one who is positive in everything, can always see the bright and upward side in adversity, always has a sunny heart in his heart, and is full of enthusiasm for any difficulties encountered.

I am the one who always thinks about things very badly, always thinks of the bad aspects at the first time, always worries about such and such problems, and keeps making up for infinite brains in worry, exaggerating small problems into big problems in imagination, and finally being annoyed by this, and even holding back and giving up on the spot.

One is a sunny and confident actionist, and the other is a pessimist who grinds and grinds, but looking back at the previous dialogue, why did he suddenly have a feeling that Sunflower Zheng Xiao was being taken on by himself?

"What are you looking at? My eyes were almost on my face. Zheng Xiao stretched out his finger and nodded at An Ran's forehead, tilting his head and looking at his face carefully.

"I think ...... What you just said didn't look like you would say, it felt like stealing my lines, I just didn't expect you to have such a ...... Well, it's not positive enough. An Ran chose to say what she thought calmly, she wanted to know what was the reason for Zheng Xiao to say such a thing.

An Ran's words made Zheng Xiao stunned for a moment, and then clasped his lips with his fingers, and said thoughtfully, "Speaking of which...... I would have these thoughts about marriage or something, and I guess it was a patchwork of things from east to west. It started with the impression I had when my parents were forced to separate from each other when I was very young. Because of the recollection, her speed of speech became slower, "At that time, it was a long time before our family had the opportunity to reunite for the last time, even if we met, the taste was actually not pleasant, happy and bitter, and every time we met, my mother had to cry a lot." At that time, she was so thin that she always had to write long, long letters to my father, reluctant to spend more money, only eating the simplest meals, just to save the money and mail it to us, and always insomnia, thinking about what we thought...... In short, she suffered a lot at that time. Of course, my dad was the same. So, that's probably the initial impression of marriage. ”

"That's all there ......"

"Nope. And my grandparents, my grandfather's house is in Xiangyungang...... Oh, you know Xiangyungang, right? ”

"Yes." It is a coastal city in a neighboring province, and now it is not famous, and after more than many years, it seems to be fully engaged in tourism, and it belongs to the kind of tourist city that emerged later, but because it is not illegal to promote or position anything, it is always tepid, and has not received any decent development. However, although it sounds like a neighboring province, it seems to be quite a long distance, but it is actually quite close to Jinling, and if you take a long-distance bus, it will take more than half a day to arrive. Many of Ann's colleagues who came to work went there during Golden Week, and the response was generally not very good. And it's still far from being developed, so when they choose the purpose of their trip, they haven't set their sights on it. "It's not too far from us, I haven't heard you say it before."

"What is there to say." Zheng Xiao smiled bitterly, "You don't know, the big mess in my grandfather's house, my uncles' families are very non-stop, so my grandfather and grandma, and my mother, it's really heartbreaking for them." She sighed heavily, and the annoying past that came to her mind made her frown and shake her head, "In the end, my grandfather and my grandmother almost died on this. ”

"Ahh An Ran was really surprised at this moment, and in an instant, many plots of the bloody family ethics dramas that he had watched came to his mind, and his expressions were unpredictable.

"No, it's not as scary as you think." Zheng Xiao is worthy of being a future police talent who has been deeply influenced by his grandfather and father, and through An Ran's chaotic facial changes, he easily saw through her mental activities that over-made her head, "Seriously, it's just that the cause of their death has something to do with those family conflicts, but my mother has never been able to let go, so after the incident, they almost didn't get along with my uncle very much." She shook her head, "Actually, it's not a big problem, it's all trivial, but over time, sometimes it's more difficult to resolve than some big contradictions." So, you see, hemp is not troublesome? ”

For this point Enron is very agreeable, don't underestimate some small contradictions in daily life, many couples break up, husband and wife divorce, the reason for family disharmony finally gives a vague personality discord, in fact, how many of them are accumulated by some small things, just like the idiom, a thousand miles of embankment collapsed in an anthill. The process of quantitative change is very long, but qualitative change is often only in the blink of an eye.

"So, you feel like you're troubled about relationships and marriages for these reasons?" Something like a childhood shadow or something?

"That's part of the reason. In addition, I have not included these in my goal plan for the time being, and my main goal now is to move towards becoming a good criminal policeman, and I am far more interested in criminals than in men. Doesn't it mean that relationships and marriages have to be managed? My enthusiasm is not on that, I refuse to work it, I am not responsible to anyone, just to conform to a popular need, others fall in love with me, others get married and I get married, whether I need it or not, don't you think it's stupid? ”

"That's right!" An Ran nodded heavily, with a heart full of concern, sometimes people are in a hurry to fall in love, and the motivation and reason for getting married in a hurry is not because they have met someone they like and want to live with the person they like, but because they are forced by social pressure, or they are afraid of loneliness, and they feel that the time is up, they should fall in love and end up single, out of a herd mentality, in her previous life, to a certain extent, she is also a member of the victims, but she has not succeeded in getting rid of singleness.