"Mr. Zhao, you said that the people in the East are sophisticated, or that the people in China are sophisticated, and they have left Huaxia, is it still useful? Also, what would happen to the world if there was no capital? 「

This is a question from the students to Zhao Mingyang, which is indeed a question worth exploring, and this is also the fun of Zhao Mingyang as a teacher, because the students ask questions, the teacher gives answers, and many times, the teacher will also passively learn some new things and ways of thinking.

The classroom is a place where people can speak freely, there is no interest here, everyone is arguing for their own opinions, one side needs to persuade the other, and in this kind of argument is a collision of ideas.

This is why many world-class companies are now changing their offices to a family and campus style, that is, the design style of the office is like a home design, or the same as in a school classroom.

Then a giant company may only have a few dozen people, and the rest are all outsourced, and these dozens of people do not have a clear division of positions, and their daily work is freely discussed.

There is a premise here, these dozens of people are all elites, and their free chats are the presentation of new ideas.

Of course, this is rarely seen in oriental enterprises, which is why when students raised this question, Zhao Mingyang found it interesting, in fact, most students have an established cognition, including ordinary people, the East and the West are completely different.

Zhao Mingyang also thought so in his previous life, but he doesn't think so in this life.

Especially this student is from Huaxia, Zhao Mingyang has seen his student status, he came here to study, he is a very good student, after all, he can go to school in Dongjin University, and those who are admitted are also scholars.

This person is a student of biology, he knows that Zhao Mingyang is from Huaxia, so he raised this question, which is also targeted, maybe he hates some of Huaxia's sophistication practices, or maybe there is another purpose, to make Zhao Mingyang ugly, although this person was born and raised in China, but not necessarily Chinese, it may also be R himself, because their parents may be descendants of R, and they did not return to R.

This matter starts from decades ago, a group of people who were defeated in the R war left their children behind when they fled, and then a group of people came to recognize their relatives, some returned to the R book, and some did not go back, and these people have returned some one after another over the years.

Zhao Mingyang put his hands on the podium and said: "In fact, the international community thinks that Oriental thought will be regarded as some ideas that extend from China, including Japan, South Korea, Singapore, Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam and other places, which are either mostly inhabited by Chinese or deeply influenced by Chinese culture.

People are sophisticated, respect for teachers, and orderliness of the young and old seem to be only available in the East, which is what many people think.

If you want to talk about Asia or even the East, why do you only think of China? Because Huaxia has a complete system with a thousand-year-old heritage.

And the ideas that extend from the Chinese system to Japan and South Korea seem to run counter to the West, isn't it, they always emphasize equality and freedom, parents and children don't need so many rules and regulations, and superiors don't need a sense of distance.

Huaxia's set of sophistication is useful in Japan and South Korea, but it seems to be useless in Europe and the United States.

But it's not that human feelings are useless, it's that the way is wrong.

Let's put it this way, the Chinese people's sophistication must not be universal in the world, but it must be useful, because the underlying logic of the sophistication of human feelings is the exchange of emotions and interests, but the manifestations of each region are different.

If you can't recognize this and say that this set is useless, then you are the bottom of the world forever, understand?

For example, if you encounter a problem, you go to consult your teacher or other industry-related personnel, and they tell you the answer, and you get it, then the next time the other party asks you a question, or asks you to do a small favor, do you help or not?

If you refuse, the other party will not look for you next time, but if you still go to someone, they can also refuse, this is because you are asking unilaterally, of course, the teacher can answer some questions about your profession, this is an obligation, but what if you ask the teacher to help you with something other than the obligation?

The teacher helped you, and then asked you to do something for him, like running an errand or something, do you want to go? You go, it's an exchange of interests, you use your time and energy to help the teacher do these things, if you help the teacher clean the office, and the teacher invites you to a cup of coffee to thank you, then the cup of coffee will evolve into an emotional exchange.

It is not appropriate to use the metaphor of a teacher here, but what I want to say is that the exchange of interests and the exchange of emotions have always existed, but in different ways.

The things that this classmate thought of and the questions he asked were actually that he had not exchanged emotions or interests with others.

The results in the early stage were due to your own exams, but it can be seen that you have no friends, you are lonely and proud.

What you hate is not the sophistication of people, what you hate is that you don't have sophistication, because now you define people who are better than you as being able to make sycophants and understand the world.

Have you ever thought that there is no one who can communicate with you, at least here, who is less capable than you, but everyone may be exchanging something, and you are not willing to exchange with people, so it makes you have some emotions?" Zhao Mingyang wrote this on the blackboard and looked at the boy, who was a little overwhelmed and speechless by what Zhao Mingyang said.

All the students seemed to understand, but they didn't.

Zhao Mingyang wrote the word public wisdom on the blackboard and said: "The difference in public wisdom is also a cultural difference, Oriental people know that human feelings are useful and can help themselves in some links, while most people in the West do not understand this, but a few people do.

The proportions are different, is the West fair? If fairness, how can there be rich areas and credit schools? How can you get a letter of recommendation to go to school? How could there be a hundred-year-old family?

Can you say that these things have nothing to do with human feelings? This group of people understands the sophistication of human feelings, but they are hidden, not straightforward, and do not let others know, but as long as they reach the elite level, they will be self-taught, so the gap between the rich and the poor in the West will be so big, because ordinary people do not even have the opportunity to touch the sophistication of human feelings.

Therefore, most ordinary people in the West do not understand this, and only know that simple buying and selling, that is, the currency transaction mode, and do not have a clear understanding and cognition of emotional exchange and interest exchange.

Not to mention that the West does not have human feelings, this is a big misunderstanding, but the way of use is different, the underlying logic is the same, the West is only a few people understand, and the East is mostly understood, so there is no need to be so implicit, the value is not great, which is why many people in the United States do not like Asians.

Why not? Because Asians can quickly become elites in the United States, because Asians know the underlying logic of human sophistication, and in a different way, they can instantly obtain wealth through this underlying logic and live in the rich area.

This made Lao Mei's group of bottom-level mentality collapse, they were jealous, so they hoped that the students who raised this question would not learn from Lao Mei's bottom.

Finally, I will say again, the underlying logic of human feelings, you must be clear about this, do not look at the bad side of this thing, deny it is useless, but study what its underlying logic is and why it can always exist.

Tell me what would happen if there was no capital in the world? What will happen? Isn't there an answer if you look at the history of the past, in the past when the word capital did not appear, what was it like, you can go and see, there are all of them, it makes no sense to say too much, capital is not a good thing, but it has a sanctimonious order.

Everyone wants to live in a perfect world, where everything is beautiful, then this world must not be beautiful, why? Because people in this world have no emotions, they are all the same as robots, as long as there are emotions, there will be differences, and it is impossible for everyone to have one thought.

What you can do is to use what you have learned to make this world a better place, but know that it can never be perfect, unless human beings have no emotions, such as those of you here, can you give your possessions to those who need them for free?

You won't, right, because reason tells you that this is not a cost-effective thing, because you also have to think about your future life, and you are already calculating the pros and cons, so the difference between you and capital is nothing more than that

You don't have that opportunity to get the greater good, do you?

Some people will always whimsically say that if they are rich and powerful, they will not be like that, it is because you have no chance to touch it, just like if you win 10 million, if all the assumptions are to glorify others and ugly yourself, then this is the most terrible thing.

To observe, why people change, because of what becomes like that, why do you want to do that, will you become like that, when employees always think about how to fish, from employees to bosses think about how not to let employees touch fish, different positions, ideas must be different.

Remember, yes, because the position and type of work are different, how can you do the same?"

"Teacher, I want to ask, will the world be a better place?" asked a girl standing up.

"As I said, this world is imperfect, but as long as you are strong, the world you see, the people around you are good, because no one dares to show the bad side in front of you." After Zhao Mingyang finished speaking, he took the lesson plan and left, the students' thinking is very interesting, they always want to change the world, do they have so much ability? I can't change myself, and I still want to change the world.

Zhao Mingyang made an appointment with Eiko Ito for dinner, Eiko Ito had already entered the family company at this time, she was an internship at university this year, and went directly to her home company for an internship for a few months, and now she is working as a management post in the branch.

When Zhao Mingyang saw Eiko Ito again, she had already changed from JK to a standard white-collar outfit.

With shawl hair, a white shirt and a black suit with black high heels, he already has the appearance of a manager.

This kind of child, on the contrary, has the most innocent childhood and adolescence, does not need to think too much, what age to do things, when it comes to the need for them to change their identity, the family will quickly help them change, they are carried by someone.

For example, Eiko Ito went to work at the grassroots level and quickly adapted to everyone's lifestyle and behavior, but it is very difficult for this group of grassroots employees to quickly learn to deal with the people above, because the higher the up, the higher the threshold.

For example, the simplest, international vision, this thing is so simple that ordinary people will never have it in their lifetime, why? I have never been abroad at all, and I may have traveled abroad on a cheap basis and worked as a low-level laborer abroad, and I have no experience of living in other countries, nor have I been in contact with a group of elites abroad.

This thing needs money to pile up, whether the rich second generation goes abroad to study or travel, they are taking the money to try and make mistakes to understand the customs and customs of various countries, the key is that they are not only in one country, but many countries travel and live, travel around the world, which is impossible for ordinary people to achieve.

Of course, the shortcomings of the rich second generation are also very big, that is, the ability to resist pressure and easy to insist on not listening to others, they must be familiar with the field in order to show their own advantages, once the business jumps out of the familiar field of the family, the most unacceptable thing is failure, will only fall deeper and deeper to prove themselves, without any scruples to do, most of them end in failure.

Eiko Ito met Zhao Mingyang downstairs in their company. The two had a meal at a Western restaurant.

Eiko Ito looked at Zhao Mingyang and smiled, "Mingyang-kun is still so handsome."

"Look at you, you've already entered society, why do you still love to tell the truth so much, you have to know how to be polite, and I'm not only handsome, but also very good, you know." Zhao Mingyang said.

Ito Eiko was suddenly red-faced and kicked Zhao Mingyang under the dining table with her bare feet when Zhao Mingyang said, Zhao Mingyang looked at Ito Eiko and said, "What's wrong? Got out of bed and didn't admit it? Aren't you going to say you're responsible for me?"

"Mingyang-kun!" Eiko Ito glared at Zhao Mingyang angrily and said with a flushed face.

"Look at you, why can't you make jokes when you go to work, I haven't heard you say something inappropriate for children." Zhao Mingyang picked up the knife and fork and said.

"It's private, it's public." Eiko Ito said with a red face.

"You can't do that, if I talk to you here like this, you can't stand it, so what do you do if other people tell you some colored jokes? Others may make fun of you like this during a banquet, and you will be passive.

You have to know that in the business field, there is always a group of old men who are old

Lust likes to make jokes that they think are funny, and they make fun of young girls like you, so what are you going to do?" Zhao Mingyang looked at Eiko Ito and asked.

Eiko Ito asked with a blank expression, "What should I do?"

"Learn to divert the topic, never think about going back and changing yourself to make this kind of joke, you can't stop it, more than one person will do this, you can't joke with the other party, if you do, the other party will think that you are easy to get, it is the kind of fun that opens.

If you can't inquire, then you must not go to see each other by yourself, take someone to talk to each other, if it is a wine table, there are many people, then change the topic, such as the other party makes color jokes, directly say that the other party is using a bohemian appearance to cover up the feelings of loneliness, and begin to lead in another direction, so that the other party can hear that you don't like this and praise the other party.

Or transfer the contradiction, see the person brought by the other party, such as the young and handsome person who looks younger than the other party, say that he likes this kind of young and handsome little brother, ask the little brother if he is married, and say that it is a pity to get married, and he wants to introduce the little girl in the company to him, and he said that he is not married and says that he will introduce the little girl of the company to the other party.

Let this person steal the limelight of the person who makes color jokes, come to an invisible step, come to a comparison, and create a gap between them, what people hate the most is to be compared by others, especially under the premise that they do not have an advantage, such as appearance and figure.

In the future, there will be more customers, and there will be people of all shapes, and beauties like you are most likely to meet a group of old critics and admirers, if you seem to say a few words, you will blush and be shy and overwhelmed, they will only have to inch in, you know.

You have to make them fear you, and if they can see in you that they are sophisticated and not immature, they will respect you for three points."

"Understood, I'll remember, the person you asked me to help you check found it, do you want to see it?" Eiko Ito said.

"Hmm." Zhao Mingyang said.