606, the change brought about by hobbies
Of course. This arrangement is not something that can be mastered from the beginning. A little bit of self-summary is needed. Revise. Adjust. Meanwhile. It is also necessary to have strong self-control. Someone has done such calculations and statistics. When you keep a record of what you do and how much time you spend each day. will find out. There's very little time to really do things. And a lot of time is wasted in unnecessary procrastination. Time is wasted in a great deal at this point and that point.
Enron is also in the midst of rebirth. In the face of a heavy study load and an increasingly colorful spare time. Little by little, I gradually realized the importance of time management.
Make the most of the procrastination and wasted bits and pieces. And make reasonable arrangements. In fact, there are many things that can be done. That's more than you think. And then persist for many years. You will find out. You treat time sincerely. Time will also be sincerely rewarded to you.
Take the calligraphy as an example. Actually, during normal classes. Enron only spends ten minutes a day purely practicing. Weekends are twenty minutes. Even the most time in the winter and summer vacations. It's only half an hour.
Brush words don't look like fountain pen words. Write it seriously. One word takes a lot of time. Ten minutes. Practice seriously. It's only a few words to write. It sounds like a joke. There are even foolish errands. Suspicion of formalism.
Someone once said to Enron. If you want to practice calligraphy well. Practice to get results. No matter how busy the time is every day. At least an hour or more should be squeezed out to practice calligraphy. Otherwise, it will be in vain.
When Enron heard these words at the time. I also have some doubts about my own practice. But let her take more time. One is that it will disrupt her other schedules. Second, she doesn't want to spend more time on calligraphy.
Later. She met her calligraphy teacher, Liu Yunxuan. Ask him about this question.
Liu Yunxuan listened to her thoughts and confusion after that. Asked her a question. Why the hell do you want to practice calligraphy.
Enron didn't want to lie. And she is not the acting school like Jiang Jieyun and the three of them. Even lying doesn't look like it's true. So I was a little embarrassed to tell the truth. Tell me bluntly. My hobby of calligraphy is actually not really a hobby. I just want to develop some specialties or something. She's singing and dancing or something. Neither. Fine arts and sports can't be taken either. In the future, if you can write two brush words and say it, it can be regarded as a façade. And if by the way, there is a little promotion of the pen word. It's also a bonus. I really didn't want to write it to any extent. It's just that later it was written. Just write a little taste.
Listened to her thoughts. Liu Yunxuan didn't look down on her, this was not a grandiose purpose. Instead, tell her. What the man said at the beginning was not unreasonable. But this matter has to be divided into how to look at it. Other words. It depends on how you interpret the phrase "practice to get results". I just want to enrich my spare time. Find yourself something to do. I still want to practice very well. Be sure to figure out your goals. If you just want to enrich your spare time. Ten minutes a day. Persist for many years. Write a little more beautifully. Enough to achieve such a goal. If you want to practice, you can really get your hands on it. Then of course the longer you practice, the better.
And then. Liu Yunxuan gave his own example and said. In fact, the length of each day is real. There are two things that you can't ignore if you really want to make progress. First. Be really attentive when practicing. Second. Persistence is victory. This is the eternal truth.
Since then, An Ran has firmly remembered these two things that Liu Yunxuan taught her. Ten minutes a day. Even if it's a cold and fever. Or even traveling in the field. She will also carry a clean brush. Practice with water on the table. All these years down. Her words can't be said very well. But it is true that you can get a preliminary layman.
So. This is evident from her example. A lot of times the lack of time is just an excuse or an excuse. It's not that it can't. And don't want to.
Before being born again. Enron never felt that hobbies were a necessity in life. After being born again. There is no clearer sense of its importance. But she still has to admit it. After cultivating various hobbies. Her life seemed to be so much richer all at once. Even she, who is not very sociable, has a hobby. The circle of life has expanded a lot invisibly.
But when she watched her mother's transformation and comparison before and after having a hobby. It was only then that she really clearly and intuitively perceived how important a beneficial hobby is to a person.
This is even more important for ordinary people who work just to earn a living. It's often hard to feel heartfelt enthusiasm just to feed a family. Aside there is a great future. Capable talents. A lot of people are doing nothing at work. There is no hope of promotion. Only feel one for the profession. Even burnout on life.
Then. A heartfelt hobby can bring you a lot of things.
A hobby. Even if you're not good at it. But it must be a genuine preference. The kind of love that is not mixed with a little utilitarianism. Can find an outlet for your inner stress. It can also give the soul a haven of rest.
For this. Nowhere is it more obvious than in Liu Yunxuan. He just used writing calligraphy as a way of spiritual repair. When happy. When frustrated. Sad. It's a way to calm yourself down.
There is also an important point. That's the sense of accomplishment.
Everyone needs a sense of accomplishment. That's an affirmation of self-worth. It makes people look forward to life from the heart. There is no substitute for any emotion. Love. Family affection is beautiful though. But it still can't erase the heavy sense of satisfaction that the realization of self-worth can bring.
For some ordinary people who are hopeless in the workplace. This sense of accomplishment is achieved almost without a source. And a heartfelt hobby can easily make up for this.
From Li Caifeng's body. An Ran clearly saw what a beautiful and obvious change a seemingly small sense of accomplishment would bring to an ordinary person. It's like the best cosmetics. It can make people instantly radiant. Can be given a perhaps lack of ability. People who lack eloquence with great self-confidence. Let her clearly feel her strength. Greatly stimulate her potential. Make her a good communicator. Able to speak well.
Meantime. This heartfelt love for a hobby. It also gives people a lot of things. Like what. Love makes people no longer afraid of failure. Become tenacious. Persistent. Although there are many setbacks, there are no regrets.
Sometimes. This self-confidence. Take it easy. Tenacious. How to communicate...... The beneficial changes that come with hobbies don't just happen when you're focused on hobbies. They're like universal skills. It's not just about the hobby itself. As you get more and more comfortable with these skills. They will gradually have a subtle impact on your relationships and work.
A beneficial. A hobby that people love can have such a big impact on a person. And sometimes this influence is not limited to itself. When a person's mindset changes. He will be more positive about his life. Pressure. Difficulties and families. He will pass on this positive energy to his family and relatives and friends around him in his words and deeds.
Of course. Enron's above feelings are all emphasizing the positive effects of hobbies. Concrete implementation at everyone's time. It depends on how you treat it properly. How to make it as useful as possible. Produce a better change.
Li Caifeng is currently getting these good changes from her hobby. It's unintentional. And Liu Yunxuan in a long time. Have realized the great benefits that hobbies bring to themselves. Start consciously making it work bigger.
That's how most things in the world are. All have their multifaceted nature. Hobbies are the same. There is a good side. There is also a bad side. Someone draws strength from a hobby. Some people are discouraged. There is no distinction between priority and priority. It's up to people to use it. Take advantage of it. Look at it. Treat it.
An Ran felt that he was watching the changes that his hobby brought to his mother. After recognizing the benefits of this. You should also treat your hobbies from the original unconscious obedience instinct. Gradually towards conscious. Better development to make use of them. Let them play a bigger and better role in their own lives.
But how do you make them work? Enron didn't think about it for a while.
I have a new perspective on life. Enron naturally doesn't keep it in his heart like he did before he was reborn. She now has several ways to express and share this insight.
First. She will translate these insights into words. It's not just a process of documentation. It is also a process of self-grooming. Combine those bits and pieces. It has not yet been possible to organize and fuse the fragments of ideas that have not been better formed. Make them more organized. More logical. Theoretical and practical. When these ideas are effectively translated into words. When it falls on paper. Not only can they make her perception more complete. It has become a valuable asset and nourishment in her life. Meantime. These words will also add more ideas and material to her future writings.
Second. Ever since I had a boyfriend. An Ran was gradually developed into a habit by Jiang Jieyun's family. What do you have in mind? I always want to share it with that guy at the first time. The two of them snuggled up to each other quietly. She always likes to lean on his shoulder. He likes to hold her hand. Stroking her hair and back of her shoulders. She whispered slowly. He listened silently. She sometimes stops. Ask for his opinion. He sometimes asks questions and suggestions.