679, the fate of book friends

This year's family trip has left many good memories for the book friend's family, and also made the book friend finally have a long-lost relaxed and happy year over the years, and at the same time, it also made her taste the sweetness of travel and aroused her interest in travel

The second year, unfortunately, the book friend still did not solve her own personal problems, although last year the family spent the Spring Festival in the form of travel, but this method can only deal with a year, for the older generation, let them spend the holiday outside every year, it is still a little uncustomary

So the book friend can only go out to travel alone for the New Year, because after this year's observation, she found that if she appeared in the family party, because of the ready-made mark characters there to poke everyone's words, it was inevitable to circle around her, but if she was absent, everyone would definitely not forget her, and she would inevitably have to take her out and talk about it, but because she was not present, she lost the target person, no matter how much she said, it was limited, compared to the two, her presence not only could not reduce the pressure of her parents, brothers and sisters being persuaded to be advised, but increased the firepower and pressure, when she was not present, they could be more relaxed

In this case, she still escaped, and after the New Year, she will touch her home and reunite with her family, as for the Spring Festival, she pondered that if she still mixes with her boyfriend next year, then she will travel alone

Although the essence of the book friend is still a dead house, you can make an excuse to say that you go out to travel, in fact, you live in your own house, but when it comes to the Spring Festival, after all, it is different from the usual person to stay in the room to eat and drink, although it looks good, but after all, the taste is a little lacking in taste, and she has been studying and working for so many years, she really hasn't gone out to have a good time, plus the first year of traveling with her family, she also swam out of some taste, so in the second year, she simply learned from a good MLM traveler, and found a good place for a single woman to travel alone for the New Year, and relax by herself

As for the parents, brothers and sisters at home, how to explain to relatives and friends, it is also a ready-made answer, saying that this child has studied for a few years and learned a more foreign major, so now the personality is more trendy, avant-garde hobbies, speaking of which is also relatively tall, a little in love with travel, but usually busy with work, has not been able to spare time, so to catch up with the Spring Festival, finally have a holiday, so they want to go out to play, they think about this child has been working hard outside all these years, and it is not easy, and when the year comes, they agree to let her go out and give herself a vacation

The book friend joked to herself, she didn't know whether to thank her hometown for the custom of early marriage, or to complain about those enthusiastic and broken mouths of the seventh aunt, eight aunts, third aunts, and second uncles, so hard to let her a dead house, give up the "great" plan of packing and going home to eat and wait for death, and was forced to be motivated, forced to be self-reliant, forced to stay in the big city to develop, forced to fall in love with tourism, and forced a house to shrink into an independent elite

At that time, many book friends who were chasing the article together sighed with empathy, saying that the book was too inspirational, and the leftover girl was really a strong person in this part, especially this insistent attitude towards marriage and feelings, and the spirit of being responsible for oneself is worth learning from all older men and women

There are also many older young women among the book friends

Probably most of the people who like to soak in the Internet to chase the article are more homely, and the result is that they have become leftover men and women voluntarily or involuntarily, and the living circle is relatively small, and the chance of encountering sex is naturally relatively small, so they are also deeply touched by the problem of forced marriage and passing the New Year

Everyone sighs at the same time, but also feel that this Spring Festival in the name of tourism to escape the endless blind date and in the name of care is a more feasible trick, the premise is that you have a more enlightened family or have a relatively large courage, otherwise it is quite difficult to implement, the book friends at that time sighed a big spit out a handful of bitter water, the topic unconsciously like Sun Dasheng's somersault cloud crooked to 108,000 miles away

Chasing the text is sometimes like this, turnips and cabbages have their own love, some of the text is dead and alive, and they can't read a word, and some of the texts are difficult for others to swallow a word, but they can read it with relish, people who like to eat radishes will always meet in the radish field, and people who like to eat cabbage are always met in the cabbage field, looking down and not seeing, looking up, seeing going around and around, and many book friends will be familiar with each other

An Ran, this person is sometimes more lively in the second dimension than in the third yuan, sometimes he has a convulsion, and he likes to hook up with someone or something under the text, sometimes he thinks this book friend is interesting to talk about, sometimes because they have similar tastes in reading books to each other, and recommend a new article to each other...... Anyway, there are various reasons

And this book friend who was forced to become an elite by the marriage age was because of her "inspirational" experience, which made An Ran feel impressed, although she was a useless dry girl, she was thrown out of the street by others in terms of heart, I don't know how many streets, but due to the common characteristics of older women and young people, in her heart, she also unilaterally gave birth to some sympathy for the same disease, and because of the similar taste, and a little smell of the same meaning, in short, she belongs to the idle and remembers some of the little things of the two-dimensional sesame mung bean very clearly, and when she meets an acquaintance, she sometimes takes the initiative to go up and talk about a few words

At the end of the year in the blink of an eye, An Ran met a new writer who was chasing after him, and met the book friend again, and came forward to talk to her and asked her if she was going to travel to other places this year, whether she had any plans for the New Year, or what good news she had

Don't say that she really asked this question, the good news, the book friend said with emotion, it is not easy to accept your auspicious words, brother, I can finally go home for the New Year this year

Obedient and listening, An Ran immediately asked, saying this, this year is mixed with a boyfriend

The book friend first sent a sweaty expression, and then said, isn't it, it's not easy to finally get mixed with a boyfriend, just in time for the New Year, the two went to both parties' homes to meet their parents and relatives, and established a relationship in front of their parents

An Ran was happy for her, she knew that the book friend was very serious about her feelings, and she was in such an environment, and it was not easy to persist for so many years to find a compatible other half, so she gossiped and asked her what kind of person her boyfriend was, how did the two meet, where was his hometown, where did he work, whether he was handsome or not, whether he was handsome or not

If it is a chatter that someone in the third dimension is convulsed, then the problem of the second dimension is particularly significant

Book friends laughed, talking about this person, you probably have a little impression, do you remember how I thought about going out to travel for the New Year to avoid the "kind" care of relatives and friends around me?

An Ran Bei'er didn't hit a single and immediately replied, remember how to remember, remember, but clearly, it's not that you collected all kinds of evasion methods, tried one by one, and found that they were not very good, so that you met a travel friend later...... Speaking of this, An Ran's heart suddenly trembled, classmate, your boyfriend is the one who kissed for seven days during the seven-day New Year's holiday

The book friend posted a thumbs up emoji, praised her for being smart, and corrected her, saying that her donkey friend and boyfriend said that the way of blind date is not called rushing to death, that is, rushing to the scene, and wanting to die

An Ran quickly typed and said, don't care whether you rush to the scene or die, it doesn't matter at all, what matters is how the two of you hook up together

The book friend said that it was very simple, in fact, on the Internet, she and this travel friend have known each other for several years, and they have met together because of the exchange of how to escape the New Year's pay attention to personal problems, and they are all older men and women, young people still have more common topics, and later there are good things to build a group to communicate, how to effectively deal with the uncle, aunt, father, mother, all kinds of care for personal problems, the two of them are so good that they both joined the group, in fact, into the group, how to effectively communicate the trick of the "right thing" I don't talk about it, most of the time is nonsense, anyway, older men and women, young men and women, because they have a common experience, together there are quite a lot to talk about, book friends and her travel friends, male friends are often in the group, donkey friends often show off, he recently went to some place during the holidays to visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and how to fight guerrilla warfare with his parents in the name of this, book friends, because gradually under his brainwashing, became interested in traveling, from time to time to ask him for some experience in this area, listen to him tell some of his travel experience

Slowly, the two began to talk about topics privately, starting from the initial trip and expanding to other aspects

However, both of them are adult men and women, although they have a good impression of each other in their hearts, they are not in a hurry to develop from the second dimension to the third dimension

In this way, the gentleman's friendship was as light as water, and after chatting for more than a year, the two of them really established the foundation of trust, and the topic began to develop from the second dimension to the third dimension little by little

Then the two found out that they thought that the distance between Tiannan and Hainan was not expected that they were actually in the same city, and the school they originally studied was still neighbors, maybe when the two had passed by on the road countless times in their college days, and maybe they met each other in the streets and alleys of the city for more than a year

An Ran also sighed, this is really fate

Isn't it fate?

Although their hometown is not the city, they both work, live, buy a house and buy a car here, they struggle here, put down roots here, and will continue to live