Therefore, Xia Wei and Hai Yipeng got married and sent an invitation post, forgetting that they were close friends when they were students, especially in college, not only sent invitations and posted conditional conditions, but also called one by one, and some of them couldn't get through the phone for special reasons, and they also wrote letters to show their solemnity

Of course, this kind of friends who can make them call and write letters in person are also friends in their hearts, even if there are thousands of mountains and rivers, they will definitely come, otherwise this invitation post is not a happy post, but a red bomb

This classmate from Lancheng is Xia Wei's roommate in college, in their dormitory, Xia Wei is the fifth, usually calls each other according to the ranking, Xia Wei calls her the second sister, and the second sister calls Xia Wei the fifth

Although the ranking of the second sister is a little embarrassing, she has the most calm personality in their dormitory, and Xia Wei is bunk bed

In the most difficult time when Xia Wei was misdiagnosed, broke up with her boyfriend, and finally gained and lost, and was made a joke by fate, this second sister has always been like a mature and stable eldest sister by her side, when she is sad, when she is desperate and giving up hope, when she cries bitterly, when she does not dare to be sad in front of her parents, the second sister's shoulders are stronger and more reliable than her boyfriend's shoulders, and the arms of the second sister are warmer and wider than her boyfriend's arms

After graduation, the second sister first returned to her hometown to be a teacher, and later the parents of the second sister invested in a small agricultural project in Lancheng by chance, and the second sister's family also moved from their hometown to Lancheng, and the second sister was admitted to the civil service of Lancheng, and now works in the Lancheng Education Bureau

Although computers have only entered people's lives for a short time, and computers are still treated as large items in ordinary people's homes, the Internet era has opened the door in front of people

With the Internet, they are connected to each other, and compared with the slow way of writing letters in the past, the way of contact is much more timely, closer and faster

Xia Wei: Since the car accident, the whole person has a little bit of a sense of enlightenment, from her mind to her concept, she has become cheerful, she used to close herself off, and although she cherished the friendship of the past, she was not active enough, and after falling in love with Hai Yipeng, her whole person became enthusiastic again

Although friendship can be said to be a thing that can not be seen for many years, and when it is needed, it is also necessary to entrust the aftermath of thousands of miles, but in the final analysis, the feelings of ordinary people need to be maintained, whether it is family, friendship or love

God has given the fate, through the bloodline, environment, time and other conditions, so that people become relatives, friends and lovers, but this fate needs to be taken seriously and cherished, so that there is a share, otherwise this good fate has also become a bad fate, and sometimes the relatives turn against each other and become enemies, and they are more ruthless than the enemy

Due to Xia Wei's self-isolation after graduation, although many friends from the student days did not lose contact, they have to say that the relationship is indeed not as close as when they were in school

So after falling in love, Xia Wei also began to communicate frequently with her friends again, not to mention the Internet era, even when information is inconvenient, as long as you want to communicate, each other's feelings will be closer

So as soon as I heard that Xia Wei was going to get married and was choosing a place for her honeymoon, my friends began to hook up and seduce them on the Internet, and they all said that our family is good here, our family is wonderful, we have good wine and good food here, you don't have to worry about food and accommodation, and you can meet old classmates who haven't seen each other for many years, so let's have a good chat

Xia Wei is like this here, and Hai Yipeng is like this

And they are all studying this major, most of the students come out to do this major, they are all in this major, they can just accompany the old classmates to have a good time during the holiday, and even the tour guide is saved

But in the end, it was Lancheng, where the second sister's classmates were located, that won the best

According to the second sister, Lancheng is located in the south of the Yangtze River, it can also be regarded as a water town, there are small bridges everywhere, there are mountains on the side of the city, it can be called a beautiful mountain with clear waters, many plum trees on the mountain, Xia Wei and Hai Yipeng went to see when they were on their honeymoon, there are not many new buildings in the plum blossom city, it is better to retain the old-fashioned buildings of Jiangnan houses, and if you want to experience the original life of the small water town in the south of the Yangtze River, it is really suitable to Lancheng

The pace of life in a small town is always slower than that in a big city, and this slow and leisurely state of life is just right for newlyweds like Xia Wei and Hai Yipeng, who are fresh and comfortable

For the people of the Northeast who are located in the severe cold, the soft wind blowing in the south of the Yangtze River just after the Spring Festival, looking at the plum blossoms in the mountains, rocking a small boat, sleeping in a bend of the green stream, and tasting the authentic small bridges and flowing water that have not been transformed by the tourism economy, the taste of the people is still very tempting, not to mention that you can also have a good meeting with the second sister for many years after graduation

Another thing that prompted Xia Wei and Hai Yipeng to make this decision was that Hai Yipeng's three good buddies in college had two hometowns in Jiangnan, and one followed his wife to his father-in-law's house to attend his sister-in-law's wedding, and the cities were not far from Lancheng, so they could get together at that time

Another reason is more embarrassing, the second sister stated in the roommate group that no one is allowed to rob her of the fifth child, and she urgently needs the fifth child to save her from fire and water

for wool

The second sister claims to be a free female bachelor at present, and she enjoys celibacy, but the parents and brothers of the second sister can't enjoy the fact that there is an older female bachelor in the family

What to do

What else can I do

Blind date

The second sister is calm, what is calm, in Xia Wei's words, it is the first performance, that is, she is not in a hurry, she is not angry, and she has a special idea in her heart

I'll tell you my attitude, but if you have to force me to go on a blind date, I'll go, but don't blame me for not saying hello, obviously I'm not happy, you have to force me to be like, then I have to passively resist

What is more unfortunate is that the second sister is the mother of the second sister with this temper, which is also the common characteristic of this tempered mother and son, that is, they are not angry, but they have special resilience

So the two of them faced each other to see who was calmer than whom

The two of them were calm, but the father and brother at home couldn't hold their breath, and let them say that the two of them are turtles, and the two turtles can pretend to be dead better than anyone, and the result is really compared, neither of them will die, and these bystanders are in a hurry to die, okay

So the father and brother broke out, and they couldn't let the two of them compare anymore, they really decided to win or lose, and the second sister was also the oldest, so what was the point of winning or losing

The father and son are happy people, in addition to mobilizing relatives, neighbors, friends, colleagues and other social relations, but also to the leaders of the second sister's unit, greetings, special statement, we give gifts and others are different from those who bribe, we are asking the organization to help us solve personal problems with our particularly calm "turtle show".

In the era of the second sister's parents, to solve the marriage problems of older men and women, not only relatives and friends to help, but also the help of the trade union, think of a way, the organization to find a way, relatives and friends resources are only the people around them, the organizational resources are more extensive, that year, an important work of the chairman of the trade union is the main group of comrades blind date, when the work is not busy, the chairman of the trade union of the two units meet to calculate, the hands of the delay can not solve the personal problems of the older youth, hurry up to the two units together to do a social party, tea party and other large-scale blind date activities, anyway, the number of people is large, do not ask for each can match the eye, but can match one, one is a can solve the pair, is a pair

This is the norm during the Chinese New Year, from the generation of the second sister's parents to the generation of Enron's parents, many young men and women have solved personal problems in such blind date activities

To say that most of the trade union leaders in the past were still very responsible, at the same time, this kind of blind date activities are led by the leaders, in line with the attitude of being responsible for their own employees, we must understand the personal situation of the employees of the other unit, at least we can have a general understanding

Another is the past trade union leaders, in addition to engaging in blind dates, there is also a job is to coordinate family conflicts, two people quarrel, family disputes, he is in charge of this matter, so to a certain extent, after the blind date is introduced by the organization, if the two get married and there is a conflict, the organization will also engage in after-sales service

Generally, when we buy household appliances, we like to buy big brands, big brands for woolen quality, reputation is on the one hand, another important reason is that the after-sales service of big brands is good, household appliances, even if scientific and technological progress and people's living standards improve, their prices are not pro, compared with clothes and food, the price is not pro, just buy a problem, the general people can not afford to toss, if unfortunately buy an unreliable brand, three days two ends of the problem, more unfortunately, the manufacturer either pushes two, six, five simply can not find the maintenance point, or there is a maintenance point, but from you thousands of mountains and rivers, the maintenance is powerless, then you can only tearfully solve the nearest maintenance money, is a good large amount of repurchase, not cost-effectiveIt's not cost-effective to repair, and it's a dilemma and a pitfall

On the other hand, the big factories and big brands that dare to do a good job in after-sales service generally speaking, the quality is also relatively reliable, and people make money by buying products, and they are not professional maintenance factories that make money by maintenance

From this line of thought, the trade union organizations that dared to carry out after-sales service in the era of marriage relations were still more responsible and prudent in introducing blind dates, otherwise the introduction was unreliable, and the problems of unmarried young people in the other party unit were not clearly understood, and the employees of their own units unfortunately encountered counterfeit and shoddy products, and more unfortunately, the fake and shoddy products really let their own employees buy them home, and even more unfortunately, this fake and shoddy products really had problems with the use of their own employees, and their own employees came to you when they turned back, and you are not responsible for after-sales service