797, silos and communication
To exaggerate, if you change someone like Sherlock Holmes who is particularly good at analysis and observation, you may not be able to see the specific age, height, education, personality, hobbies, and ...... of this woman who makes the fishband Wait a minute
No wonder An Ran once saw in the travel brochure that wrote about Jinyuan fishbands that it was old, that is, when every household still hung cloth fishstreamers, some daughters-in-law liked to stand outside the door and look at the fishstreamers hanging in front of the door, and you can see how the daughter's needlework is doing, and the people who raised their daughters like to let their daughters make a few strings of colorful fish flags to hang outside the door during the New Year when their daughters grow up, suggesting that there are boys of the same age around us, and our girls are skillful
Enron didn't have a pair of Sherlock Holmes's sharp eyes, but she who often did handicrafts could also see that these fishstreamers were all hand-sewn Not made of sewing machines With se, it is both bold and spicy, and very harmonious and beautiful, and the style is exaggerated and cute, and each fish is fatter and fresher than other people's paper fishstreamers Just for this, Brother Rooster likes this colorful fish streamer very much, and he praised this fish streamer is good, generous, and festive, and the most important thing is that it is auspicious and hurried
An Ran silently turned his head full of black lines, and said in his heart, Sure enough, no matter what topic you start with, you still have to end with eating
Now that she saw the rare cloth fishstreamers, Mrs. An, who likes to collect small cloth heads, naturally couldn't let go of this rare opportunity, first holding the camera and taking a picture of a few strings of fishstreams at various angles, and then she couldn't get enough of giving her family a picture of the string of fishstreams
When I was shining on Zhao Xiaopang, the courtyard door was suddenly opened with a creak, and behind the door, an old lady in her seventies looked at An Ran and her party at the door in a daze, especially Zhao Xiaopang, who was posing for the fish flag, and the Ontario photographer who was pouting his ass and concentrating on taking pictures
It was Enron who reacted first, and quickly stopped what they were doing
An Guoqing and Li Caifeng were also a little stunned and a little embarrassed, anyone who saw this kind of tourist behavior during the New Year in this era felt a little strange, and as a person who made strange behaviors, he also felt a little uncomfortable
As for Enron, the four of them, let alone three cheeky, even Enron himself is already familiar with how to deal with this situation
Enron's familiarity with this situation is not entirely due to her growing cheeks, but more because of ...... Her hobbies have always been more special, and they are still the kind of special that deviates from the party, and in a rough nutshell, she herself is so cute that she wants to live and die, and others can't understand her cuteness no matter how hard they try
Therefore, she has been in a state of incomprehension for many years, and has often been used with a kind of "she's not sick", "I don't think this is anything rare", "I really can't understand this 'female neurosis'", and so on
For the word "calm", Enron's personal understanding plus explanation is "broken jar and broken", that is, since the explanation is also a white interpretation, then Suo Xing does not explain
And she's also found that a lot of times when you don't explain it, you don't get people to look at it, and if you explain it, you get despised
Not explaining is not the same as not acting At the same time as not explaining, you have to make a kind of forked state Once this state is mastered, it is best used for those who don't know your details Not only do they not think you are a female neuropath, but they think that you are unfathomable, but you are unpredictable
Enron's state of "breaking the can but not breaking it" and "you don't understand, I haven't explained it yet" is not a day or two to develop
Its important formation began when she and Wu Zerong wandered around Jinling City and picked old houses for photographing
Whether it is the owner of the old house that was photographed, or the old neighbors around who watched and took pictures, most of them are strange about the strange hobbies of these two children, you say, so many new houses are not photographed, what are they doing when they are about to collapse, and the beautiful big girls and young men on the street are not photographed, how can they be picked on these old men and old ladies who are so old that they are about to lose their scum, and they are not good-looking at all Although they are photographed, there are still people who are very happy to listen to their nagging about those past things, but such a strange heavy taste is still very puzzling to the uncles, aunts and grandparents who have old ideas
And most of these old people are more stubborn, but it's understandable that people's ideas are not formed in a day or two, a year or two, and when an idea has been formed for decades, you just want to turn people around in one sentence or two sentences, and you know that it is neither realistic nor possible when you think about it with your feet
So no matter how hard Enron and Wu tried to explain their brain cells and their inflexible lips, they couldn't make them understand why they chose these subjects
At that time, Enron really had a deep understanding of what "men and women come from different planets", "everyone is an island", etc., which sounded like a pain in literature and art, but at some times, it was a very reasonable sentence, God, why is it so difficult to communicate and understand each other
The unity of the inhabitants of the rabbit star is serious When a rabbit is already a strong endurance and a dead knock When two rabbits are together, they inspire each other It is really a dead knuckle
At that time, Enron's face had not yet begun to develop rapidly in the direction of thickness, and the lips and tongue were in a completely clumsy stage, and the vocabulary was far less developed than it is now
As for Xiao Wu, hehe, in front of him, An Ran's pitiful and barren level can be a diplomat, so I really don't mention it
The two stupid bunnies really racked their brains and struggled to explain their purpose
But the result is that they are on Hainan Island, and the grandparents and grandparents are all located on the treasure island of Taiwan, which is really separated by mountains and rivers and across the strait; although these two sentences, Mr. Rabbit, Miss Rabbit, are always looking forward to the reunification of the two sides of the strait, but the helpless reality always fills people's hearts with infinite sorrow
In order to explain their shooting purpose and alternative hobbies, both of them were so tired that dogs climbed rabbits, gasped and red-headed, and almost frothed at the mouth of their tongues, but the aunts and grandparents looked at them with kindness and joy
I don't know how Xiao Wu understands it, anyway, An Ran thinks that the two of them are probably a good entertainment, these uncles and aunts and grandparents, look at these old men and old ladies, and make them happy...... How "toothless" it is, uncle, don't be happy anymore, take it easy, look at your dentures, you're going to laugh off, I'm all worried for you
Although the two of them explained in a mess, and the more they explained, the more confused they became, and after explaining, An Ran felt that not only the aunts and grandparents couldn't understand her words, but even she herself felt that she couldn't understand it, and her brain and tongue were all messed up into a pot of two-rice porridge that had been boiling for three days and three nights
But what she and Xiao Wu didn't expect was that although they couldn't explain clearly, the grandparents and grandparents who couldn't understand them but were very understanding helped them come up with a reason, "Hehe, today's children have learned a lot of knowledge, and they are literate, and this cultural person is different from us old men and old ladies who don't understand anything."
An Ran and Wu Zerong were embarrassed when they heard that they were "educated" both of them
β¦β¦ It's all about where and where
Serious Xiao Wu disagreed with the reason that the grandparents and grandparents gave them, although they were so stupid that they wanted to live or die, but they still had to try to explain it again, and they were stopped by An Ran in time
Through that incident, Enron also understood a truth: Sometimes, communication is not something that you can communicate successfully if you want to, it is not enough for both parties to have the heart to communicate, it is restricted by the life experience of both parties, hobbies, education level, cultural background, personality, and so on
In many cases, it is necessary to fully or to a large extent to understand and even need to be ripe for a variety of conditions and opportunities such as time, place, and people to achieve relatively ideal results, not just hard work
And because of this, Enron began to accept those cute and simple aunts and grandparents came up with excuses for their weird hobbies To put it bluntly, after you have worked hard, when others still can't understand your hobby, it's better to find a lofty excuse for it, and then although I am ashamed in my heart, I don't pretend to be extremely calm on the surface, and I have a pair of "Girl, I'm such a bullshit, so high-end, it's not something you ordinary humans can understand" "You don't understand me, it's not that my hobbies are weird, it's that you don't have culture." And so on
Sometimes, that's how things are, it's obvious that it's wrong, it's you who is wrong, but your face is very natural, calm, and completely refuses the eyes of others, and after a long time, it makes others have feelings like "it seems that there is nothing wrong with him doing that, it turns out that I think too much" or "people must be justified in doing that, it's just that I see a lot of weirdness" and so on
Here's a bad example
An Ran remembers that in his previous life, when he was idle with others at a forum, he had heard people compare the attitudes of Chinese and Japanese towards cultural export
The man said that China went to perform theatrical programs abroad, and he was afraid that the old man would not be able to understand it, so he had the idea of sincere communication, and felt that it should start from simple to complex, starting with the easy-to-understand and lively monkey show
Derivation. Ink. High. Small. Say. Netγ