"Well, you should go to grandma's house first."

Zhu Wenwen reacted in a timely manner, and hurriedly waved his hand to let his son go out first, and Zhu Cong also reacted at this time, what he just said seemed to be a little inappropriate.

He was afraid that he would be beaten.

When even if you run out,

I didn't forget to close the door when I left.

At the same time, Xu Ping's eyes were already slightly red, and she was even more emotionally broken, and said with a crying voice:

"Why am I so unlucky, I gave birth to such a pair of children who are not worry-free, other children's children are good at learning and learning, successful in their careers, and some children are already able to play soy sauce, which is like my family, if you don't study well, you can't study well, and those who don't obey are disobedient.

I can still hurt him by him.

He just poked me in the heart.

What am I trying to do all my life? ”

Zhu Wenwen hurriedly stepped forward at this time, hugged his daughter-in-law from behind, and persuaded in a soft voice:

"Okay, okay, it's okay, it's okay, the kid is just quick to talk for a while, don't be angry, just think that we created sin in our last life and owe them both."

"Bah, you've done iniquity.

I have created iniquity to marry you, and I have given birth to these two. ”

"Okay, okay, it's the sin I created, you were a bodhisattva in your last life, and you saved me from this sin, but I didn't expect to sink into the sea of misery with me.

Don't be angry, don't cry.

This kid is really not good, let him go back to a secondary school or higher vocational school, learn skills and not starve to death.

He has never had a good time since he was a child.

I think it's just not good at learning, maybe it may have something to do with the fact that we only gave birth to him at the age of forty, after all, doctors don't say that children born at an advanced age are probably not as good as children born at the age of twenty or thirty. ”

……

Under Zhu Wenwen's appeasement, Xu Ping's emotions finally eased a little, and she was no longer as excited as before.

The two were finally able to sit down and talk calmly.

"Are you really going to let him go to secondary school or vocational high school?"

After getting angry, Xu Ping still had to think about her son's future and asked worriedly. In her mind, vocational high school is what those who can't get into an ordinary high school have to study, although her son just can't get into an ordinary high school, but she undoubtedly still wants to struggle for her son a little more, and even has the luxury of hoping that maybe after going to high school, the child's grades will be better.

But Zhu Wenwen shook his head directly at this time:

"I just thought about it, maybe we should have recognized the reality a long time ago, and we should have recognized the reality that Zhu Cong's kid is not a reading material, since the first grade of primary school, his grades have gradually decreased with the increase in the difficulty of textbooks, and he has not done less homework on weekdays, let alone addicted to games or anything.

If his grades in the past were very good, because he played games or the like, or didn't pay attention to studying, etc., which caused his grades to decline, then we can still think of a way.

Let him go to an ordinary high school and work harder.

Maybe there is also a certain opportunity to go to college.

But this kid is obviously not. ”

"That's all there is to his grades, there is no hope."

"It's better to let him go to vocational high school to learn a skill, and compared with vocational high school, there is also an advantage that if his academic performance is really improved in the future, it is not that he has no chance to take the college or college promotion.

There is a professional skill that has not improved in academic performance.

That's not like you can't find a job, it's not.

It's the best I can think of. ”

While comforting his daughter-in-law just now, Zhu Wenwen also thought about the child's affairs by the way, and really felt that there was no need to force some things.

Since the child is really not capable of going to an ordinary high school, why force him to go to it, can he improve his grades or be admitted to college, people still have to be realistic.

You also have to be a little self-aware of your child.

If the child is good, if he can't do it, if he can't do it, he has to force the child to do it, it may not be for the good of the child, but it will harm the child.

Parents must accept that people are different.

There are gaps that cannot be bridged by effort.

"But it's a shame.

None of the children of his relatives of the same generation were not admitted to ordinary high schools, and I can accept that the child is mediocre, but he is no longer a mediocre problem.

He and his sister were both born to the same parents.

Why is there such a big gap in learning? ”

Xu Ping's unacceptability is mainly due to the fact that she had a daughter before, and her academic performance is usually very good, if the academic performance of the daughter in front of her is also like this, she is definitely much easier to accept.

"No matter what, we have to accept it."

Immediately afterwards, there was a long period of silence, silence, and even trying to accept.

After they completely accepted the matter and made a decision for Zhu Cong, they discussed the other child in the family again, that is, Zhu Xin, and then shared with each other the relevant information they had learned recently.

"Why do you say she's so ruthless, if she doesn't contact, she won't contact, isn't it all for her good?

That's almost six years.

I'm afraid her kids are already in school, right?

Can't we be soft every time......"

When it comes to her daughter, Xu Ping is still worried, because after all, her daughter is not like her son by her side, she can see it every day, and now she doesn't even know where her daughter lives, and the few things she understands are basically just a little information revealed by her daughter's circle of friends.

At this time, it may be because she has already compromised a lot with her son, so she can't help but want to continue to compromise, and she still misses her daughter a little in her heart.

I said that we can't give in every time.

But the word bar already means that she is shaken.

"It's really a debt to children, I said a few years ago that the girl is more stubborn than you, and you keep saying that you have to compromise with us and apologize to you, but you have forgotten that there are many infatuated parents, and the heart of being a child is really hard, but it is much harder than our parents.

So, forget it.

I'll go back and contact my daughter, just like last time, I'll contact my daughter first, and then you don't talk about her, ease the relationship between them.

If only the girl was willing to come back.

Don't urge her to go on a blind date, or expose her past scars or something, pretend to be deaf and dumb and leave her alone.

Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and she is not a child.

It's already thirty years old, so it's okay to love it, as long as you don't break the law and commit crimes, okay? ”

Zhu Wenwen could also clearly hear the regret in his daughter-in-law's words, so he immediately pushed the boat down the river and said that he would be the icebreaker.

At the same time, he didn't forget to tell his daughter-in-law that when the relationship between mother and daughter eases up, don't meddle in things.

Let it be as your child loves.

Whoever manages it, but he takes revenge.

"Got it," Xu Ping replied helplessly, .......