But this harmony did not last long.

Xu Ping and Zhu Wenwen have completely accepted the fact that their daughter is pregnant unmarried, has a child, and even takes care of the child alone, and basically does not mention these things when chatting to avoid hurting the girl.

But others don't have that kind of awareness.

The day after Ding Yun returned.

I heard that someone in the community was discussing that the unmarried pregnant daughter of the Zhu family came back with a child with an oil bottle, and I am afraid that she really can't get along outside.

At the same time, they are also "enthusiastic" to worry about others.

"I just heard about it a few years ago, but I didn't expect it to be true, she really brought a child back, she took a child before she got married, who did she marry back?"

"I'm afraid I can only marry a second marriage, otherwise it is estimated that only the old bachelor can accept her."

"Or be a stepmother."

"What if she gets married outside?"

"How is it possible, if she gets married outside, even if she doesn't come back for the wedding, she has to take her parents over for the wedding, and if she is going to get married, can her parents quickly refute the rumors?"

"Eh, it's really inappropriate.

If my daughter dares to do this, she will get pregnant before marriage or something, it's strange if I don't break her leg, what if I study well and go to college, I am not as sensible as my daughter who did not study in high school, and it is good to get married and have children and have a baby now. ”

"What was her daughter called in ancient times, she was called an illegitimate daughter in ancient times, it was despicable, and the hukou was released over the years, otherwise her daughter couldn't even get a hukou, it was really anyone!"

"Don't say anything too ugly."

"What's wrong with it, we didn't spread rumors, is it fake that she gave birth to a child or is it fake that she is not married?"

"yes, she dares to do it and still let people say it?"

"That is, now, the concept of the clan is not so deep, in the past, if there is such a girl in the family, the daughter of the whole family will not be able to marry for more than ten or twenty years, and even those who have nothing to do with their family in the village will be affected, and they will be accused of having a bad family style and a bad atmosphere in the village."

"Oh, what are you talking about other people's family affairs so much, and it doesn't hinder you, besides, that girl is not like this because she was deceived, even if you want to say it, you should also talk about her ex-boyfriend!"

"But we don't know her ex-boyfriend!"

……

Although their words were not said in front of Ding Yun, but there was a small shop downstairs in her house, and the door of the shop was an important place for those people to play cards or chat, and they didn't whisper with their mouths and ears, but almost shouted with a loudspeaker, so Ding Yun in the house heard it clearly.

But Ding Yun was helpless against them.

Because she couldn't rush down and beat them.

And these are also the reasons why Xu Ping and the others thought it was good for their daughters to leave their hometown, living at home would inevitably listen to these gossips, and even it was not easy to tear their faces with them, and they were basically strangers when they went to other places, so it would be better after all.

Originally, Xu Ping thought that it had been six years since the incident, and the residents in the community should forget about it, but they didn't expect to come back with the parties.

They brought up the matter of that year again, and even spread the content of the discussion to their granddaughter.

This really made Xu Ping, who also found out about this situation, angry to death, and wanted to rush down and fight with them, but in the end he was stopped by Ding Yun.

Because this kind of thing is like the mouth of the people.

The mouth of the people is more important than the Sichuan.

It is not a crime for them to discuss in private, but if they go down and fight with them, they really violate the public security punishment regulations and cannot be stopped.

But because of this, whether it was Ding Yun or Xu Ping, their mood was obviously a little low, and at the same time, Ding Yun could better understand why the original mother would desperately prevent the original body from leaving the child, and the dilemma that the child needs to face to stay may not only be money and energy, but the greater pressure may not come from herself.

It's from the outside world.

Although many people say that they don't need to care about other people's opinions to do what they think is right, this sentence is easy to say, and it can be said after touching the upper and lower lips a few times, but it is not easy to really do.

Who can really not speak out of the unexpected world at all?

Sometimes parents urge marriage, or even force their children to learn to enroll in cram schools, etc., to a large extent, it may not be that they think so at the beginning, but because of the discussion of the outside world and the persuasion of others, as well as the emotional impetus that others do, and if they don't do it, they seem to be lagging behind, and parents will actively transfer this emotion to their children, turning it into urging marriage or enrolling in cram school.

"Mom, I'll go back in a while.

I can't afford to provoke me, I can still hide, I don't care about myself, I'm afraid that the child will accidentally hear it and it will affect her.

I don't want my child to have low self-esteem because of me.

I've told you where I live now, if you miss me, you can go see me when you have time, to be honest, I don't really want to come back for the New Year, so let's talk about the New Year this year, I'll come back if I'm free, otherwise you can take Zhu Cong to me for the New Year.

I fully covered the cost of the journey. ”

After persuading Xu Ping, Ding Yun had to make such a decision, even if she didn't think about her own feelings, she had to think about her daughter, even if her daughter might not understand these gossips now, but she still didn't want her daughter to hear it often, or live in an environment where people around her have been gossiping.

There's no way she's going to get rid of all these neighbors.

Or knock them halfway and teach them a lesson.

Besides, she didn't plan to stay here for long in the first place, so avoiding them was the best option.

And Xu Ping felt that she could understand her daughter, so she didn't ask why, but nodded directly: "It's really not good for children to hear it."

In the future, you will come back when you are free, if we are free, we will see you, I will retire next year, if you don't have time to take care of the children, I can go back and help you take care of the children, anyway, I don't dare to expect anything from your brother in his studies, but I can worry a lot less. ”

"When you retire, live for yourself.

There's no need to find trouble for myself anymore, I'll take care of the child by myself, anyway, she'll be in elementary school next year.

Not so hard to take care of.

And the child is also sensible and not troublesome.

If you want to go out and play, when you retire, I'll sign you up for a tour group, and you can go with the tour group.

Anyway, you just have to have a good time.

I'm doing well, nothing happens. ”

Ding Yun did not say that she had opened two companies, because the source of her entrepreneurial funds was not easy to say, so she only said that she had an easy job, earned a lot, and it was easy to raise a child by herself.

And Xu Ping, at this time, waved his hand again and again:

"No, no, what kind of travel, if I go on a trip, what will happen to your father and your brother?

They are not yet allowed to starve to death at home.

I'm not at home for two or three days, they can make the house like a kennel, forget it, I'm just working hard, that's it, you stay at home, I'll go downstairs to buy groceries, and I'll be back later! ”

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