"Jingci is here, don't be polite, sit down!"

Although Empress Dowager Zhang said this, Ding Yun still bowed, and then sat down to the left of Empress Dowager Zhang.

Some people say not to be polite, but in fact, it is a reason not to give gifts to some people, he can not accept it, but you can't not give it, otherwise you have to remember you.

Ding Yun still has this awareness.

"You're really, so you don't have to be polite, you still abide by the rules, unlike some people, just let her come over on the fifteenth day of the new year, she really only shows up on the fifteenth day of the new year, and she usually can't see her at all!"

Needless to say, the so-called people in the mouth of the Empress Dowager Zhang undoubtedly refer to Empress Sun, who was promoted from a concubine to a wife, and directly said that she didn't want to see her, so that she didn't have to come over every day to hurt her eyes and ask for peace, just come to the fifteenth day of the first month.

As a result, Empress Sun really only came to the fifteenth day of the first month.

She wasn't happy again.

It can be seen that as long as you don't like someone or something.

Then whatever the other party says and does is wrong.

Ding Yun didn't feel good about this point and commented directly, so he just smiled and expressed his approval.

And Empress Dowager Zhang didn't chase this point and said in depth:

"Don't talk about the bad guys.

This time, the mourning family called you over, mainly to tell you about Shunde, Shunde is not young this year, thirteen or fourteen years old is time to see others.

You're her birth mother after all.

So I want to ask you what are your thoughts?

When the time comes, I can also help, lest the queen not care, Shunde is the eldest princess after all, and the mourning family doesn't want him to be unhappy in the future, I think you should be about the same, I don't want Shunde to find a colt you don't like.

So let's negotiate.

Also find a wishful man for Shunde! ”

"Thank you Queen Mother for worrying, it's just that it's too early to see people now, she's still young!"

Ding Yun was habitually a little embarrassed.

In her opinion, how could her daughter, who is also the age of a junior high school student, look at others so early?

And Empress Dowager Zhang waved her hand and chuckled:

"You, this parent, when you look at your own children, you naturally always feel that your children are still young, and they are still children, but thirteen or fourteen years old is not young.

I don't know how many families got married at the age of fourteen.

For the sake of Shunde's body, it is naturally no problem to get married later, but no matter how late it is, it can only be sixteen years old at most, and when it is eighteen years old, it will be a big girl.

At that time, it will not be easy to look at others.

Now look at each other and pick up, look at it, first set a marriage, prepare for two or three years, sixteen or seventeen years old wedding is just right, you don't always feel reluctant to let your daughter leave.

When this woman is old, she will always get married.

It's not good for the child to drag it out for a long time. ”

"Because of the reason why the horse can't be an official, it's impossible for us to pick from the top of the list, we can only choose from the military generals and nobles, or ordinary people's families.

I'm afraid that those who are really capable will not sign up.

So we don't have a lot of choice.

You can only pick the appearance and pick the character! ”

In the end, Empress Dowager Zhang was a little emotional and pity, but it was a pity that her own granddaughter couldn't choose a particularly good grandson-in-law, so she could only follow the rules and pull out the general among the short people, which really made her feel a little sorry.

The horses of the Ming Dynasty are not allowed to be officials, and they can only be rewarded with a fictitious position, and this horse is basically equivalent to entering the army, so anyone who is somewhat sure of himself will not want to be a horse, plus the selection of horses is voluntary, and only after signing up can he be selected.

And those who are willing to be sons-in-law these years.

And there can be a few good ones.

So the quality of the alternate colts is really poor.

"Alas, thank you Queen Mother for worrying.

It's really hard to pick a horse, and the really good ones are basically not willing to be a horse, and it's difficult to pick out a good one if you're willing to be a horse, if it's possible, I still hope to pick a son of a military general and a noble family in Shunde.

It would be better if the knighthood on his body could be higher. ”

Ding Yun hasn't figured out how to break the game for the time being, and he hasn't figured out how to make his daughter happier, so of course he can only say the best result under the existing circumstances.

At this point, the princess has only three options to choose from.

Honorable, military and civilian.

If you choose a military household or a civilian household, in the case of the other party's low status, they probably have no right to speak, and in the end it is very likely that the princess's mansion will be controlled by the female official's mother, and the princess will have to get the permission of the female official's grandmother if she wants to meet with the horse, and if the situation is worse, there will even be an extreme separation marriage in which the princess's mansion is inhabited by the concubine, and the princess returns to the palace to live.

But if you choose a noble, even a nobleman with a relatively high status, such as the son of a certain national government.

Then the princess will be free.

Luckily, the emperor felt that for the sake of the face of the lord of the country, he could not let his son live in the princess's mansion like a princess, and the princess might even live in the princess's mansion like a normal daughter-in-law.

In this way, not only can the husband and wife be together for a long time.

The privileges of female officials and mothers will also be suppressed.

It is precisely because of this consideration that Ding Yun will specially mention Xungui, and now he is just looking at each other, there are still two or three years before the specific wedding, and she doesn't believe that she will not be able to think of any way to break the situation in two or three years.

So that's it for now.

"The mourning family also felt that they still had to pick a nobleman.

The identity of ordinary civilian households and military households is too low, how can they be worthy of the respect of the princess of Shunde, let alone the eldest princess of Shunde, if the identity and status of the object she is looking for here are too poor, how should the princess in the back choose, but the mourning family is worried that Xungui is not very willing.

There are only a few top nobles in the DPRK, and few of them are age-appropriate, and even if they are of the right age.

I'm afraid they don't want their son to be in trouble.

The other nobles still dislike them a little, and the most important thing is that those nobles will never agree to let their own sister-in-law, Princess Shang, but the second son of the concubine.

The mourning family is worried that it has been raised.

It is said that many of the sons of the noble family in the capital have a bad reputation, almost all of them are the sons of gentlemen, and it is said that many of them do not even recognize the elders of their wives' families, but they are familiar with all the women in the Qinglou by heart, and they are like a stream.

Alas, forget it, let's go back and let the Ministry of Rites screen first.

The mourning family will send someone to deliver a message to those noble families, but when the time comes, whether they are willing to run for election or not, it will be difficult for the mourning family to guarantee, and they can only do their best to obey the destiny of heaven.

Don't worry, I'll call you to pick it up when the time comes.

The mourning family tried not to let the queen interfere in this matter. ”

Although it is a good choice to pick the heirs of the noble family, but those nobles are willing to take out the heirs carefully cultivated by their own families, Princess Shang, it is estimated that even if they are willing, they will only pick some unsuccessful ones.

Even if she is the queen mother, she can't force the Xungui family, so the queen mother Zhang didn't dare to guarantee Ding Yun.

I can only say that I tried my best.

On the contrary, she didn't let the queen interfere in this, and she was much more confident in what she said, after all, she was a mother-in-law.

After talking about looking at the colt.

The Queen Mother pulled Ding Yun and said a lot of other things.

even said a lot of things that were not convenient for others to know, and almost regarded Ding Yun as a tree hole to talk to.

Because she knew that Ding Yun would not talk nonsense.

Maybe that's why she's willing to help the original.

Who doesn't want to have someone who can confide in all their secret things without worrying about leaking secrets.

Ding Yun didn't need to say anything at this time.

Just cooperate and be a quiet listener.