Chapter 371: Low-level Herb and Wood Cultivation Furnace (11)
However, no matter how much they quarreled with each other, in the end, they still didn't get a result, and they couldn't make either side give in.
Because neither of them thinks they are at fault.
And how can they give in to each other?
Ding Yun and her parents generally feel that not to mention that women should reduce their daily housework when they are pregnant, or even stop doing housework, even if they are not pregnant, then the woman who goes to work should not take on all the housework.
They feel that this is beyond doubt, and there is no need to refute it, but anyone who is reasonable and has a fair and just mentality should support this.
And Lin Guihua thinks that it is a matter of course for women to undertake all housework, even if she is pregnant, because she came over like this back then, she went home to do housework after doing farm work, isn't it equivalent to the current female white-collar workers who come back to work and do housework?
She was more than eight months pregnant and cooked for the whole family, one child was born in the kitchen, one child was born at the door, and the other was born when she was fetching water by the well in the backyard.
Hasn't it been the same all these years?
For many years, the daughter-in-law has become a mother-in-law.
Why should her daughter-in-law be blesser than her!
This is only one aspect of the concept incompatibility, not to mention the next birth of children, whether to have a second child, whether to serve the confinement child, whether to resign to be a housewife, whether to take care of the child as a father, etc.!
Don't talk about arguing with each other for an hour, even if you quarrel for ten days and ten nights, I'm afraid it's impossible to convince each other!
I have to say......
It's really not noisy, I don't know, I'm scared when it's noisy.
After arguing like this, they realized how inappropriate the two families were, and how mismatched the three views were.
After an hour, Ding Yun was too lazy to continue arguing, so he simply gave an ultimatum, that is, the request she had planned with her parents before, first verbally told Lin Guihua, and then sent a copy of the recording to Zhou Junyu.
After doing that, they started to pick people up.
No matter how fierce Lin Guihua is, it is not a Chu overlord Xiang Yu who can beat dozens or hundreds, with the efforts of Ding Yun and his family of three, they were quickly kicked out, but this is not the end, and later they still turned to the property security at the door, so they finally drove Lin Guihua, who was kicked out and kept knocking on the door to make noise, and even kept saying all kinds of unpleasant things.
Kick out the gate of the community.
and is on the list of unwelcome visitors.
It wasn't until the sound outside the house completely disappeared that Ding Yun and her parents couldn't help but breathe a sigh of relief.
The man is finally gone.
If they don't leave, they feel like they're going to collapse.
I have never seen such an unreasonable, unwavering person who feels that he is right and right.
"Xiaoyu, you don't feel uncomfortable, right?"
Although there was almost no substantial pushing and shoving between each other just now, the mood swings were still quite large, so after the house was a little quieter, Huang Pinjuan looked at Ding Yun's stomach with some worry, for fear that she would have a fetal gas.
"Mom, I'm fine, don't be angry."
Over the years, Ding Yun has never seen anything strange, and people like the original mother-in-law are not particularly outrageous among the people she has experienced in the past, so it is naturally impossible to get angry because of this, or even have a fetal gas.
Not only was it fine, but she also comforted her mother.
"How can we not be angry, what kind of person is this, is your mother-in-law still alive in the last century, I think she is my daughter-in-law for many years, and she has been suffering for too long, and she has been psychopathic.
I also want to take the suffering of those mothers-in-law she suffered back then.
Let you experience it too.
I don't want to see if she's worthy ......."
After all, it is her own child who hurts, Huang Pinjuan originally did not have a deep understanding of what happened to her daughter after marriage because she didn't get along with her son-in-law or even her mother-in-law, but now after completely tearing her face with this mother-in-law, she can be regarded as having a deep understanding.
But it is precisely because of the deep understanding.
is even more worthless for his daughter.
And I no longer resist the idea of my daughter wanting to divorce in my heart, because with such a mother-in-law, if she really compromises, even if she will not be rubbed to death, she will have to be tossed enough, and even die of anger in advance.
And what is the son raised by this mother-in-law.
That's something you can guess without investigating.
"Okay, what's the use of talking about that now."
Liu Zeguo also interrupted his daughter-in-law in a bad mood at this time: "It's not the path that our daughter chooses by herself."
Lin Guihua's words just now, I think the two of you have heard it, in my opinion, the possibility of their compromise is already very low, so we still discuss what we should do if they don't compromise?
Is it true that you want a divorce? ”
"Divorce, absolutely divorce!
If I don't get divorced, I don't dare to imagine what hardships my daughter will suffer in the future, and you won't listen to what Lin Guihua just said, what is a woman, she should stay at home and teach her husband and children, she should pass on the family to her husband, she should take care of all the housework, and let her husband rest assured that she will struggle, what are these words?
Yes, in ancient times, there was such a rule, but in ancient times, the daughter-in-law was in charge of all the money in the family, which ancient family was not the master and mother who was in charge of the family's assets and daily expenses.
Isn't this the same as the fact that the man now gives the salary card to his wife, but it turns out that Lin Guihua and her son think it is very beautiful, they want a daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law who are the same as in ancient times, and they don't want to hand over the salary card.
Why don't you kill them......"
"To put it mildly, spend your wallet to raise a little white-faced little fresh meat or something, then the little white-faced little fresh meat still has to please the money owner who spends money, they are good, they don't spend a penny, and they want people to make them slaves.
and even having children for a lifetime.
OMG.
The Great Wall is not as cheeky as theirs......"
Huang Pinjuan is really completely angry, the girl she spent more than 20 years raising is not a waste for other people's families.
It's a pity that it's useless to regret it now.
I can only try to look forward.
Since we know that we are in a sea of suffering, there is no reason to compromise on this, and if we can break free, we still have to break free quickly.
The last thing you can have now is soft-heartedness, if you are soft-hearted and hesitant now, if you look back at the birth of the child and think about giving the child a complete family or something, then you must continue to be wronged for more than ten or twenty years.
Wait until the end of the child's college entrance examination to get divorced, then you have to wait until the Year of the Monkey and the month of the horse, and how much suffering you have to suffer in the process!
"Ahem...... You're a little more restrained.
In front of the children, don't talk about those little white faces and little fresh meat, it seems that you are quite proficient and understandable, so you mean, we have to support the divorce of the girl, what do you mean now? ”
After coughing dryly twice, after interrupting his daughter-in-law to continue to let go of herself, Liu Zeguo asked Ding Yun again.
If your own daughter-in-law and daughter are all of this idea.
Then he wouldn't have said anything more.
Can only be supported.