After going down, Wen Yi went straight back to the back garden.

There is a larger pond in the back garden than the backyard of Langhu Lake, and when it was relocated, the koi fish in Langhu Lake were not all transported.

I only selected some wild carp with higher appearance and unique color, and put some wild carp from the wild to increase genetic diversity.

Of course, the big red carp was also brought along.

In Xie Daoyun's eyes, this carp is a symbol of her good fortune, and it is more important than anything else, and it is impossible to leave it alone.

After a year of breeding, the koi in the pond have grown a little bigger.

At this time, Xie Daoyun was sitting in the gazebo, holding a book in one hand and a long bamboo board in the other.

The little carp, which is already one year old and four months old, runs around in the gazebo, occasionally grabbing a handful of fish food and throwing it in the water, watching the fish grab food with great interest.

Feeling that this little by little feeding was not enough, he couldn't help but pick up the fish food jar and prepare to throw it down.

"Smack." A bamboo board was accurately slapped on the back of the hand, and a shallow red mark immediately floated on the white and tender little hand.

The little carp's aggrieved little mouth pursed out, but his hand honestly put the fish food jar away.

Xie Daoyun's face was expressionless, and his eyes were always fixed on the book in his hand.

The nurse standing next to her was trembling, she wanted to help him rub it but didn't dare, her distressed tears were about to flow out, and she didn't know that she thought she was her own mother.

happened to see this scene, and the corners of Wen Yi's mouth twitched.

At the beginning, I joked that she was not a mother's material, but I didn't expect it to become a prophecy. With this stern attitude, some people believe it when it is said that it is a stepmother.

Wen Yi told her that the child is still young, don't be so strict, give him a little more maternal love.

Xie Daoyun's attitude was resolute, and she did not allow the foundation they had laid to be corrupted in two generations. She can't control what happens a hundred years later, but she must manage the two generations of her son and grandson.

Wen Yi reasoned with her, and she told Wen Yi about the fate of the faint monarch and the dead monarch in history. In the end, neither of the husband and wife could convince anyone, so they could only put it on hold for the time being.

At the moment, the two have reversed their roles, Wen Yi is a loving father, and Xie Daoyun is a strict mother.

Therefore, Xiao Li's eyes lit up when he saw him coming.

"Daddy, Daddy......" stepped out of his calf and ran over.

Frightened, the nurse and the maid hurriedly followed to protect them.

After all, he was only one year old and four months old, and he couldn't walk very steadily, let alone run, and he fell before he ran far.

Wen Yi hurriedly ran over and picked him up.

"Daddy, Daddy...... See. Xiao Lili didn't cry at all, but just stretched out his chubby little hand to Wen Yi to see.

It means to be beaten.

Wen Yi pretended to be angry and walked to Xie Daoyun's side, grabbed the bamboo board, lifted it high and gently fell on Xie Daoyun's body.

"Giggle......" Xiao Carp grinned happily, as if he was very proud.

Xie Daoyun said helplessly: "You just get used to him." ”

Wen Yi put the little carp on the ground and said, "Children can't be blindly strict, sometimes they should be petted." ”

"Otherwise, the lack of family affection will only make him insecure, and if he leaves psychological defects, the consequences will be more serious than if he is not successful."

He's not, there have been similar examples in history.

Xie Daoyun didn't understand what a lack of family affection was, but she knew that continuing the discussion would only turn into endless arguments, so she said:

"Okay, okay, you're right."

Wen Yi could only shake his head helplessly.

How to raise a child in a previous life is a matter of endless debate, take the simplest child should not be helped if he falls.

In the 90s and 00s, the whole country studied the West together and belittled its own culture.

I don't know where a saying came out that Western children fall and their parents don't help them, so they get up on their own, so Western children are more independent from an early age.

Chinese parents helping their children has become a bad habit, it is spoiling or harming children, so Chinese children are more dependent on their parents, and then the whole country advocates that children fall and do not help.

Many writers' literary works mention that there are similar episodes of raising children, the child falls and does not help, and then how independent and brave their own children are.

In the late 00s, China's national strength increased, and national self-confidence gradually returned.

Everyone knows that Chinese are no worse than foreigners, and China's new generation also has advantages that foreign children do not have.

It turns out that Chinese-style education is not useless.

Coupled with the popularization of the Internet, people also know the truth that whether children should be helped if they fall has always been debated in the West.

But most Western parents will help them, and only a few will not help them.

There are also psychological laboratories that have done sampling surveys, and children who fall and do not help are more insecure and more likely to have emotional deficits.

In fact, if you think about it, you know that when the child doesn't understand anything and needs love, what you give him is blindly strict.

It's like a person dying of thirst, and you give him a phoenix liver and gentian to have a hair.

There was so much controversy about parenting knowledge in previous lives, let alone in ancient times.

Wen Yi didn't know if his method was right, but he knew that Xie Daoyun's blindness was definitely wrong.

is still the same sentence, since Xie Daoyun wants to be a strict mother, then he can only be a loving father to make up for some shortcomings.

Youwen Yi put down the books in Xie Daoyun, and he didn't play the role of Yan's mother - the main thing was that he couldn't play it, and the family of three played in the garden.

Although Xiao Carp is very young and doesn't know much, he knows that he won't beat him if he has a father in his mother, so he is called happy, and he plays like a crazy child, so he almost rolls on the ground.

After playing for almost an hour, the child began to yawn, and Wen Yi carried him back to the gazebo to put him to sleep.

The nurse left with the maid very interestingly, leaving only a family of three.

Xie Daoyun sat down next to him and said, "You came back so early, is there something wrong?" ”

Wen Yi nodded, and said the matter of Mo Jun's suggestion that he be king: "I don't know if I should be the king at this time, you are well-informed, so come and ask your opinion." ”

Xie Daoyun didn't expect such a thing, and he also fell into thought. After analyzing the world situation and the situation in the Tang Kingdom, she gradually had the answer:

"I think you can be king, and you must be king now."

"Oh? Why? ”

Xie Daoyun replied: "In the past, you didn't call the king because the Tang Kingdom was weak at the beginning of the country, the people were few and the strength was not strong, and even if you were called the king, it would not be recognized by other countries. ”

"However, after two years of development, there are more than 100,000 people under the rule of my Tang State, hundreds of miles of jurisdiction, money and grain are piled up, and there are more than 7,000 elite soldiers under my command...... In terms of strength, you are already qualified to be king. ”

"Not long ago, you defeated the Yan Water Division, burned the Bohai Sea Division's camp, and captured nearly 30,000 Yan people...... The world was shaken. ”

"The Tang Kingdom has been officially recognized by all countries in the world, and at this time, you will definitely be recognized by all countries when you appear as the King of Tang."

"Next, my Tang Kingdom will officially interact with various countries, if you still use the identity of the head of the country, it is inevitable that you will be despised by other countries......"

"If you miss this opportunity, if you want to be the king, I am afraid that it will be much more difficult to gain the recognition of all countries...... That's why I thought it was the right time for you to reign at this time. ”