Chapter 4: No Home at Night
The mother-in-law thought about it, and what the daughter-in-law said was also reasonable, so she no longer bothered about the dismissal of the nanny. After her mother-in-law left, Xiaoyu was really depressed, the trivial things in this family were comparable to getting along with colleagues in the workplace, bothering brain cells. I have just given birth to my second child now, and I have to manage the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, otherwise, how can I go to work after my maternity leave is over.
People are getting older, using their brains more, interests first, rationality more than emotion, and they will always solve problems.
After dealing with the nanny's affairs, Xiaoyu can finally rest with peace of mind. In the evening, as soon as Sister Zhang arrived, Weizi sent a WeChat message to Xiaoyu: There is a dinner party in the evening, and I won't come back.
Xiaoyu replied: Yes.
came to the kitchen and said, "Sister Zhang, my husband won't come home for dinner tonight, you won't do his share." ”
Sister Zhang nodded and began to get busy. When he finished eating, Dongdong was still rubbing as usual, and when everyone finished eating, Sister Zhang was almost done washing the dishes, Dongdong was still eating, and now the weather is getting colder, and the food in the bowl is cold, so it's no wonder if you eat like this.
Xiaoyu was taking care of Xixi in the bedroom, and Sister Zhang yelled: "Sister Wang, you still supervise your family's meal, otherwise he won't be able to finish eating." ”
Xiaoyu had no choice but to put Xixi on the bed and pour the food in Dongdong's bowl back into the pot to reheat it. Xiao Yu, who came out again with a bowl, threatened Dongdong: "Hurry up and finish the meal, otherwise I will serve on the hanger." ”
After speaking, he hurriedly went back to the room and hugged Xixi, who was crying loudly, and came to the dining room.
Dongdong habitually feared his mother and asked, "Mom, can I eat as much as I want?" ”
Xiaoyu directly took out a hanger stick and said, "Don't ask me, just ask the hanger stick if you agree?" You haven't eaten well now, do you know, I haven't had much time to care about you in the past six months, and you haven't gained much weight. How can you eat so little every day to be nutritious and how to grow your body? It's not that we owe you less food and clothing, it's your own poor appetite, who is to blame for this in the future? I'm a mother, I've done everything I need to do, and when you grow up, you won't be able to grow more than 1.8 meters by yourself, don't complain about me. Eat quickly, or I'll not move my mouth. ”
After speaking, Xiaoyu looked at Sister Zhang, who was taking off her apron, and said, "Sister Zhang, go back when you're done, I'll take care of his bowl and table, otherwise I'll wait until the Year of the Monkey." ”
Sister Zhang nodded, carried the kitchen waste in the kitchen, changed her shoes to open the door, and said, "Okay, Sister Wang, I'll go first." ”
At this time, her in-laws happened to go out for a walk and went to the supermarket to buy some daily necessities, Xiaoyu said cruelly to her son: "Your grandparents are gone, now I am the only one at home, if you are disobedient, I will clean you up." ”
When Dongdong heard this, he remembered the last time he was repaired by his mother, and stepped up to eat. Xiaoyu walked around the house with her daughter Xixi back and forth, and came over for more than ten minutes to supervise her eldest son Dongdong to eat.
After Dongdong finished eating, he ran to the neighbor's house to play, Xiaoyu calculated the time, and after half an hour, he finally put Xixi to sleep, so he went to the neighbor's house, pulled Dongdong back, and did homework.
Before she finished writing a notebook, Xixi was fine, and Xiaoyu had to accompany her daughter back and forth again, supervising Dongdong's homework from time to time. At about half past eight, Dongdong finally completed the task, Xiaoyu found Dongdong's autumn clothes and pants, turned on the hot water, and let Dongdong go to take a bath by himself. While Dongdong was taking a bath, he changed his clothes and fed Xixi, and after Xixi was arranged, he blew his head to Dongdong, looked at the time, it was just nine o'clock, and he quickly washed himself, and forced to turn off the lights to let Dongdong sleep. But Dongdong still wanted to play, so he said, "I'm going to wait for Dad to come back and sleep with Daddy." ”
Xiaoyu said: "Your dad is out for dinner, God knows when he will come back." Hurry up and go to bed. ”
Dongdong said: "Mobile phone, give me the phone." I called my dad. ”
Xiaoyu nodded, Dongdong took the mobile phone and dialed Weizi's phone, the voice on the other end of the phone was very lively, Dongdong asked, "Dad, when will you come back?" ”
"We haven't finished eating yet, I guess it will take more than an hour."
Dongdong was dissatisfied: "Dad, come back quickly and sleep with me." ”
"Okay, I'll do it as soon as possible." Then Weizi hung up the phone and continued to eat.
Xiaoyu was breastfeeding, and as soon as she took her mobile phone, Dongdong said, "I want to sleep with my grandparents and wait for my father to come back." ”
Xiaoyu was busy taking care of Xixi and nodded: "Hmm." ”
Dongdong immediately jumped up, opened the door and walked out.
When Xixi also fell asleep, it was half past nine, and Weizi still didn't come back. Xiaoyu finished her phone for a while, it was past ten o'clock, and her husband still didn't come back. Xiaoyu thought about it, shouldn't there be a situation? Could it be that my husband is having an extramarital affair outside and having an affair with other young little sisters, so he hasn't come home for so long? If so, what should I do? Definitely will not categorically divorce, cheap that pair of dogs man and woman. I am now in my thirties, and I have become more rational in doing things, and I rarely act rashly.
Situation one, if the husband is really cheating outside, but he doesn't know it. The husband deliberately concealed the words of divorce, or he would turn a blind eye and pretend that he didn't know. If the husband mentions divorce, he will spend to maximize the benefits, and let the mistress's non-stop pregnancy let the non-stop abortion of people, until she is old and decrepit and has no fertility, her own children are also older, and she doesn't need the help of her in-laws, and when her husband is also sick, she will appeal first to recover the mistress's money, and then divorce and divide the family property, and directly kick their family, think about relieving your anger. Dog men and women who betray and hurt themselves will definitely be punished, but it is only a matter of time. If the scumbag junior is true love at that time, give her a half-old man.
Situation 2, what is the man doing outside, does it have anything to do with him? I don't seem to need a man, but children need a father. remembered that when he was about to give birth to a second child, Weizi hugged Xiaoyu and complained: "You are finally willing to take the initiative to find me, and you only remembered to look for me when you want to have a second child." Although it is full of resentment and joy, it actually shows that in fact, except for giving birth to a baby, women don't need men at all.
How many middle-aged men have feelings for their wives? Don't they know that most wives don't love them anymore. But it's just for the sake of the child. In the eyes of most men, the wife is a free nanny and a low-cost tool for inheritance, in fact, women only need to see men as long-term workers, working for themselves and their children. When it is useful, it is necessary, and when it is not useful, it is discarded, so it is nothing.
But I am afraid that the man will cheat and change his mind, thinking of the suspicious arson case of the nanny in Hangzhou, and the biological father of Chongqing who threw a pair of children from the window and killed them. A man's heart is a bet. If it is true that Weizi cheats one day, Xiaoyu thinks that for the sake of a pair of children, it is better to divorce decisively to save her life and safety, and the money is easy to discuss. Even if you are willing to consume it, I am afraid that it will cost you an hyperthyroid cancer or something, and the gains outweigh the losses.
But what about children, living in an incomplete family, will their hearts be hurt, will they be discriminated against by other classmates when they go to school, and will it affect their success and future life? My financial ability must be stretched, do you have the energy to raise a pair of children, will it affect your parents?
It's really the news reported in the media, which is scary. A man who cheats on his wife and asks for a divorce is stabbed. If a man cheats on his wife and resolutely refuses to divorce, he is pinched. When a man divorces from domestic violence, he sees that his ex-wife is comfortable, but the narrow-minded man still burns his ex-wife's family with gasoline. Now when I see these news, I despair of Chinese men's conscience and morality.
Why don't you buy a tracker online to track your husband's walk and better monitor Weizi's behavior? No, if you are a liberal arts student, why bother with an axe and play tricks in front of the husband of a science student, it will definitely not work. If you don't use mobile phone positioning software, think about it and shake your head directly, the last time I paid IQ tax, I was deceived by an app for more than 80 yuan, and in the end I still had to come back by relying on my dead face, and I still need the consent of the other party to locate the mobile phone after paying the money. It's.,It's better than a certain German map software.。
The more I think about Xiaoyu, the more I feel that I can't sleep, for a man who may not care about him at all, why bother? Xiaoyu feels that she must correct her mentality now, women must eat and sleep well, dress well, protect their bodies and children, be financially independent, have money in their hands, and care what other men do. He wants to get over with you, but he pulls it. If you get divorced, you can still usher in a second spring. Why do you think about it so much, men don't deserve to bother themselves so much, hurry up and go to bed.
Xiaoyu, who has completed the psychological construction, fell asleep, and got up at night to feed twice, as for whether her husband doesn't return at night, whether he meets a female ghost or something, it's my business.
When Xiaoyu was sleeping in a blur, she looked at the light outside the window and remembered that today was Saturday, Saturday and Sunday, so she didn't have to get up early. I continued to sleep peacefully, and suddenly the door opened, Dongdong walked in wearing autumn clothes and pants, lifted the quilt and slept next to Xiaoyu, and said very sadly: "Woo, Mom, Dad didn't come back last night." ”
Little corn paste, asked, "Where are your grandparents?" ”
Dongdong: "They went out to buy things, and I was the only one in bed, and I was scared. ”
When Xiaoyu heard this, she instantly sobered up, Xu Wei, what a scumbag, he dared not to return at night, I must make a big noise in front of your parents when I go home tomorrow, and force you to sleep in that vixen. Be sure to check your phone, confiscate your money, and ask you to write a letter of guarantee, otherwise you will be divorced and you will be forced out of the house, and you will have to pay child support.
Xiao Yu picked up the phone angrily and called and asked, "Where are you?" ”