Chapter 34: Rules
Sure enough, after a while, Weizi called back and said, "An expert came over today, and he won't come back for dinner at noon." ”
The mother-in-law was a little disappointed, Xiaoyu had to send a screenshot of herself and Dongdong wishing her father-in-law a birthday, and Weizi remembered today's day and replied: Let's go out to eat tonight.
Xiaoyu replied: Okay.
At noon, although I made dry pot shrimp, steamed abalone and lobster, and braised pig's trotters, because Weizi's son did not react, and my sister did not react, my father-in-law was somewhat disappointed.
It should be that the mother-in-law reminded her sister in private, and her sister sent a big red envelope in the family group to celebrate her father-in-law's birthday. At the same time, he also sent an exclusive red envelope to his father-in-law.
It just so happened that her father-in-law didn't know how to authenticate with her real name, so Xiaoyu helped solve it and found that her red envelope was more than twice as much as her sister's, and it seemed that her daughter-in-law was doing well. Xiaoyu said Weizi's plan, and her father-in-law said: "The food outside is not clean and too spicy, so let's eat porridge and side dishes at home." ”
Xiaoyu nodded in agreement.
When Weizi came back in the evening, Weizi, who was not good at words, didn't say anything, probably thinking that his wife Xiaoyu said it anyway and gave a gift, which means that his son has expressed filial piety.
Xiao Yu felt that Weizi sometimes married himself too much, since he got married, he didn't worry about their family's relationships, and Xiao Yu handled it perfectly. If it weren't for Weizi buying a car for herself, Xiaoyu couldn't help but scold Weizi for having a bad memory.
remembered the red envelope I sent to my father last time, and my father resolutely refused to accept it. But even if he honors Weizi's parents so wholeheartedly, if he divorces Weizi one day, they will become strangers, and he probably can't stop accusing himself behind his back. Xiaoyu also knows that her in-laws will rarely be able to treat her daughter-in-law as her own family, and Xiaoyu herself does not have much hope. Now Xiaoyu is quite satisfied, she is filial to her in-laws, and her in-laws help take care of the children, Xiaoyu is already very content in such days.
But there is still a lot of disgust that people are worried about. Dongdong inherited the genes of the ancestors of the children who ate a small amount of food and ate slowly, so at noon, the grandparents and the father went to take a nap, Dongdong was still eating, Xiaoyu had been sleepy for days, and Xixi in his arms couldn't help but fall asleep. Xiaoyu was very irritable, and said to Dongdong: "Your sister is asleep, you can't waste my time like this, I'll hold your sister to sleep first, you hurry up and finish eating, I'll check if you're done eating in a while?" You know? ”
Dongdong nodded, Xiaoyu hugged Xixi back to the room, took off Xixi's coat, and just put Xixi to sleep, he heard the sound of the bathroom door opening, Xiaoyu secretly said that it was not good, and got up immediately. Dongdong heard his mother's footsteps, and immediately flushed the toilet with some weakness, but he was still seen by Xiaoyu. Sure enough, I saw that there was food in the toilet that Dongdong had just poured in and had not yet flushed. Xiao Yu was angry, angry, and remembered the brown sugar steamed buns at the foot of the bed when she was cleaning some time ago, the moldy, smelly and spoiled milk in the coffee table cabinet, and the stiff egg whites under the disinfection cabinet.
Xiaoyu also remembered that when Dongdong was three years old, he took the initiative to help Xiaoyu take out the garbage, but in the end, Xiaoyu found that the garbage bag was also Dongdong's unfinished lunch. Thinking of Dongdong's bad deeds, Xiaoyu came up angry, locked the door directly, pushed Dongdong to the bed, and hit Dongdong's ass hard with a hanger stick, Dongdong has always had a hippie smile, and today he finally noticed that his mother was angry, and he screamed and quickly apologized: "Mom, I was wrong, I don't dare anymore." ”
Xiaoyu hit down and asked, "What do you say you are wrong?" ”
Dongdong touched his buttocks and said with tears in his eyes: "I shouldn't have poured my rice in the toilet." ”
Xiaoyu hit it down and said, "Do you dare to do it again in the future?" ”
Dongdong shook his head: "Woo, mom won't dare in the future." ”
At this time, the mother-in-law who heard the voice knocked on the door vigorously and asked, "What's wrong with Xiaoyu?" Don't hit things hard, don't slap them in the face and in the head. ”
Xiaoyu didn't open the door either, and said, "Mom, don't worry, I know how to measure, you go back to your room and have a good rest." ”
Xiaoyu put down the hanger stick and said, "I'm tired, you said that you take a nap with clothes." ”
Dongdong's buttocks were beaten, but because of his mother's majesty, he kept tears, endured the physical pain, undressed and went to bed, far away from Xiaoyu, and soon fell asleep.
In the afternoon, Xiaoyu and her mother-in-law sat in the living room and chatted, and her mother-in-law said, "Don't beat Dongdong hard, I feel uncomfortable listening to it, and I can't sleep." ”
Xiaoyu said: "Mom, don't worry, I know how to measure, child, just to catch his mistakes, clean up a good meal, and let him remember it for a long time." The old saying in the countryside is not that the golden stick makes good people. Besides, children just want a stick and a candy, and they can be used together to educate them. ”
The mother-in-law corrected: "However, the child is still young, just slowly correct his habits, you can't all be educated with sticks, so that in the future, Dongdong's skin will be thickened and beaten, and he will not listen to the teachings more and more, what should I do?" ”
Xiaoyu nodded: "I also know this, and educating children can't be blindly stick education, but I'm so angry today that I can't help it." Dongdong went home from vacation and was too self-indulgent, and he was about to let himself go. Mom, don't worry, he is my son, and I want to educate him better than anyone else. ”
At night when the family had dinner, Dongdong was still playing with his toys and didn't go to the table, Xiaoyu walked in, Dongdong habitually avoided it, Xiaoyu said: "Now we can't get used to you." In the past, when we ate, you played with toys, and when we slept, you poured the food.
Now the rules must be changed, first of all, we must go to the table to eat, and secondly, your grandfather is the last to end our family's meal, from now on, before your grandfather finishes eating, you must eat. There are no rules, this is the rule of your future meal, you know? Otherwise, it's the noon treatment today, you know? ”
Dongdong's butt is still hurting, and he is very obedient to the table. While eating, Dongdong kept staring at the food in his grandfather's rice bowl, for fear that he would be beaten. Sure enough, in less than ten minutes, Dongdong finished eating.
After Dongdong finished eating, he wiped his mouth and watched cartoons, Xiaoyu looked at Weizi and said, "Look, children's habits are corrected in this way." Now he sleeps until four o'clock every afternoon before getting up, hoping that he will grow more this winter vacation. ”
Weizi agrees with Xiaoyu's approach.
At noon the next day, Dongdong also went to the table with the adults, ate in a big gulp, and played with his grandfather, staring at his grandfather's bowl all the time, and chatting with Weizi: "Dad, my classmate's mother also sent my classmate to the art training school today, and she said that my classmate was too annoying at home, so she sent my classmate over to learn eloquence." ”
Xiaoyu asked, "Dongdong, do you know why your mother sent you to learn the drums?" ”
Dongdong lowered his head and replied, "Because I'm annoyed." ”
The whole family laughed, and Xiaoyu said appreciatively, "Well, you are still quite self-aware. ”
At this time, Cheng Cheng suddenly ran in, carrying his little goldfish, ready to play with Dongdong, Dongdong looked at his mother's face, and finished eating quickly.
After eating, Dongdong consciously followed Xiaoyu to take a nap. Cheng Cheng stayed at Xiaoyu's house and didn't leave, Xiaoyu asked, "Cheng Cheng, don't you take a nap?" ”
Cheng Cheng shook his head: "I don't take a nap, I just play at your house." ”
Xiao Yu's head was big, and he pulled Cheng Cheng to the door, and said softly: "Cheng Cheng, how about playing with you after I wake up from a nap?" ”
At this time, Cheng Cheng's grandfather was looking for Cheng Cheng at the door and sent Cheng Cheng away, so Xiaoyu could take a nap with peace of mind.
The originally big bed, Xixi moved in the direction of Xiaoyu, and moved in the direction of her sister, and Xiaoyu could only sleep sideways on the side of the bed, listening to the breathing of the two children, Xiaoyu felt happy and helpless.
After Xiaoyu woke up, it was already half past three, her head was a little confused, and she stayed in bed for a while, Xixi had woken up, babbling and singing, Xiaoyu was afraid that Xixi would wake up her brother, so she quickly put on Xixi and carried Xixi to the living room. The two stayed for a while, and at four o'clock Dongdong also woke up, Xiaoyu hugged Xixi and said, "When you wake up, you will get up and get dressed by yourself, and we will go out for a walk and exercise." ”
Dongdong: "Well, Mom, it's nice to take a nap in the afternoon." ”
Xiaoyu smiled: "You now know the benefits of napping, and the benefits of napping are even more." ”
Xiaoyu took the two babies to the community, and Cheng Cheng's grandparents next door also came out and greeted Xiaoyu: "My family Cheng Cheng wanted to play with your family at noon, and I knocked on the door for a long time, but no one opened the door." ”
Xiaoyu apologized: "I forced Dongdong to take a nap at noon, we are all asleep, no one should hear it." Even if the in-laws heard it, they didn't want to open the door at noon.
Grandma Cheng Cheng said: "Your family is obedient and fine, my family Cheng Cheng doesn't sleep, and I'm worried that he is running around in the community, there is a pool in the community, you said that if the child accidentally falls in, how terrifying it should be, I can't think about it."
I was also afraid that Cheng Cheng would run outside the community, and there were many cars outside, so I was afraid of both cars and traffickers. Grandpa Cheng Cheng and I can only take turns watching Cheng Cheng play at home or in the community at noon every day, so tired. I thought it would be good if Cheng Cheng was still in kindergarten. I haven't slept well since I got home, and my eyelids are still fighting. Watching the children at home is much more tiring than working outside the factory. ”
Xiaoyu said: "It is best to cultivate a good habit of taking a nap in children, which is not only conducive to the growth of the body, but also safe and secure." Habits for little ones are easy to cultivate.
A former family child in my hometown also didn't sleep at noon and did some things like stealing chickens. was disgusted by others, and was invited to drink at home by someone with a heart, and later became mentally retarded. A lifetime is ruined, and the children of your own family, especially at noon, when adults are easy to rest assured and vigilant, should be optimistic. ”
When Cheng Cheng's mother-in-law heard this, she was frightened and said, "If Cheng Cheng doesn't sleep tomorrow, I will spank his ass, and I must let him sleep." ”
After chatting, Xiaoyu took the two children out for a walk.