Chapter 36: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law make a move
Xiaoyu looked at Dongdong so rude, and educated: "Dongdong, boys must be broad-minded, you know?" In this way, your road will be wider and wider, and you will have more friends. ”
Dongdong suddenly cried aggrievedly and said, "It was Cheng Cheng who didn't allow me to go to his house to play." ”
After hearing this, Xiaoyu didn't know the specific causes and consequences, but just educated: "Boy, don't be careful, otherwise your mother won't like narrow-minded children, you know?" ”
Dongdong cried aggrievedly, Xiaoyu wiped away Dongdong's tears, sat on the sofa, hugged Xixi in one hand, and Dongdong, who was already a little heavy, in the other hand to watch TV.
After the mother-in-law walked home in the evening, she said: "This morning, you are busy and I don't know, Cheng Cheng's family has guests, and when Dongdong went to visit the door, Cheng Cheng did not open the door and did not allow Dongdong to go in to play, so Dongdong fought back." ”
Xiaoyu said: "It's still not sensible, they have guests at home, and Dongdong is really not easy to play." Although Cheng Cheng has done too much, Dongdong should also be educated well and know what etiquette is. ”
The mother-in-law said, "It's okay, in less than a day, they will be reconciled." ”
Although Dongdong went to the art training school in the morning to pass the time, he still had to be at home in the afternoon.
On the weekend, Xiaoyu originally thought that Weizi was resting and could help herself take care of the baby, but she didn't expect Weizi to say: "I have to work overtime." Then he opened the door and left. The in-laws naturally have to go out for a walk every day, and they have never considered whether Xiaoyu is tired with two babies? Xiaoyu's tiredness and mood, they would never think about it. Of course, if it is his own daughter, then the in-laws may be concerned about everything.
Xiaoyu has a clear understanding and doesn't have much hope for other people's mothers. Anyway, as long as they can get along, anyway, after Xiaoyu goes to work, they will take on the responsibility of taking care of the baby.
Looking at the drizzle outside, it has been a few days in a row, and this bad weather is just like Xiaoyu's depressed mood now, Dongdong is naughty at home, and Xixi is chirping in the cradle and shouting dissatisfied. Xixi, this girl, is different when she is older, in the past, if her needs were not met, she would shed tears and pretend to be pitiful. Now, as you get older, you will shout out your displeasure, just like now.
Xiaoyu is in an irritable mood now, she wants to go out, but she is afraid of freezing Xixi, so she is very irritable when she stays at home. Looking at the ceiling gang and the window and door frames at home, Xiaoyu felt as if she was living in a cage, as if she was about to break free from such a cell.
Xiaoyu thinks why should a woman get dizzy and enter marriage? Is it just to endure the great damage to your body, sacrifice your health and have time to take care of your children? Why do women have to have children, how good it is to not marry and have children. Live a single life, don't have to face men, work as a free paid nanny to take care of the old family, sometimes express dissatisfaction and dissent, and be criticized and blamed by others standing on the moral high ground, or carry out moral kidnapping.
Weizi's previous persuasion to Xiaoyu did not change Xiaoyu's thinking. Xiaoyu later understood, that is PUA, but Xiaoyu has always been firm, and Weizi's machismo can't control Xiaoyu at all, and Weizi gave up after Xiaoyu resisted.
Xiaoyu is especially envious of the young people who have just arrived in the unit, who can live freely and freely whenever they have a holiday, unlike the hard work they are now. Xiaoyu suddenly remembered that she had asked Weizi to wash the pot and wash the dishes before, and Dongdong was very moved and said, "Dad, you have worked hard." ”
Weizi didn't feel much, but Xiaoyu was very surprised, he worked hard every day, and took care of Dongdong's eating, drinking, and Lazar after work, but in Dongdong's opinion, all this was taken for granted, and he wouldn't even have the slightest gratitude. But his father occasionally washes the dishes, but Dongdong is very considerate of his father. Xiaoyu felt more and more that she was simply too failed, too virtuous and diligent, did not tame her husband, but lived herself as a free nanny. Shouldn't you be too diligent, you should put on a lazy posture, and stretch out your hands when you eat.
Xiaoyu remembered a video, a mentally handicapped woman was married by a farmer as a wife, and after giving birth to a child, the farmer did farm work, housework, and took care of the baby. Once, when a family of three went to eat a dam feast, the man carried the baby on his back and vigorously added vegetables to his mentally handicapped wife. Seeing this video, most women, including Xiaoyu, are sighing, damn, the old lady is not as happy as a mentally handicapped woman.
The more Xiao Yu thought about it, the more uncomfortable she became, and immediately called Weizi, who answered the phone, Xiao Yu actually heard the sound of mahjong colliding, Xiao Yu asked: "Is this how to work overtime?" You're quite comfortable, I'm at home with the baby, and you go out to play cards. ”
Weizi said, "Well, I'll come back in the evening, and I'll tell you when I come back." Then he hung up.
In the evening, her in-laws still went home with Shanshan, and Xiaoyu was in a bad mood, so she directly had a bowl of somen noodles for one person, and everyone finished eating.
In the evening, Weizi explained: "I was busy, and my colleagues said together to play, but I couldn't push it, so I had to play." ”
Xiaoyu was suspicious: "Really? Then he threw Xixi to Weizi, went out to pick up the courier to buy fruit, and by the way, he took a breath and straightened out his somewhat chaotic mood
Originally, Xiaoyu was already depressed, but her mother-in-law's calculations made it even worse. Originally, it was agreed, the mother-in-law was in charge of lunch, Xiaoyu was in charge of dinner, and breakfast was self-destructive. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law did it again, lying directly on the sofa, squinting her eyes and saying, "Hey, I have a headache, I have a cold, I can't smell the smell of oil, Mofa is cooking, what do you say?" ”
At this time, there are only Xiaoyu Xixi and her mother-in-law at home, and her father-in-law is playing chess outside as usual, and Dongdong is practicing, and her mother-in-law must have done it for Xiaoyu to see, and Xiaoyu listened to it. Xiaoyu thought that her mother-in-law was still alive and well this morning to square dance, and now she can't afford to be sick? I can't help my husband, and I feel sorry for my son, so I think about calculating my daughter-in-law, an outsider.
Xiaoyu didn't hear it, so she closed the door in the bedroom, this trick has long been outdated, and I don't accept it yet, girl.
In the past, when many relatives were present, my mother-in-law often lay down on the sofa and shouted: "Oh no, my head hurts, it's bad, I don't want to move." ”
Then she was kidnapped morally and forced Xiaoyu to cook for her family, when she first got married, Xiaoyu had a good heart and a kind temperament, for the sake of Weizi's face, for the Spring Festival, her husband who was still working day and night had a hot meal to eat, Xiaoyu was forced to fall into the trap of her mother-in-law. One cooking is half a month, and after several years of holidays for the New Year, Xiaoyu has become a family cook, busy in the kitchen. They are a big family, but they are happy in the living room, enjoying the joy of family.
Xiaoyu wanted to pick a son and quit at that time. But for the sake of Weizi's face, Xiaoyu compromised and sought perfection.
Obviously, Xiaoyu hired a nanny this year, and they had to kick the nanny out, who is to blame? When I took away the nanny, didn't I think of this, people should be responsible for their own actions. You should also understand what it means to think twice.
Obviously, Sister Zhang is still cooking for Xiaoyu's family at this time, if you have to drive it away, you can only be responsible for yourself.
In the past, Xiaoyu was soft-hearted, but now Xiaoyu doesn't want to condone her mother-in-law's treachery, she is really good at being bullied and ridden immediately.
Xiao Yu didn't want to be on the set. Seeing that Xiaoyu didn't accept the invitation, her mother-in-law had no choice, seeing that it was almost time to eat, and her son was about to go home, she felt sorry for her son's failure to squeeze her daughter-in-law, so she had to get up and continue to cook in the kitchen. While cooking, he scolded and scolded, I don't know if he was scolding Xiaoyu's ancestors, or greeting Weizi's ancestors. Anyway, Xiaoyu felt that her mother-in-law was a little psychopathic at this time.
In fact, Xiaoyu also said before that you can actually go back to your own house at night. Xiaoyu's subtext is that there must be a certain distance between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't look at each other and get bored. You can come over for lunch and dinner, and go back to your house in the evening, so that we can have some space for each other, and it's good.
The mother-in-law didn't know if she didn't understand or deliberately pretended not to understand, so she didn't go back to her home anyway, and moved a lot of her clothes. Xiaoyu felt the suffocation of her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law under the same roof again, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to come again, and Xiaoyu was in a bad mood. Whatever, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are only here when they see it.
I thought that my mother-in-law would stop in moderation, but I didn't expect that the next day, Xiaoyu just went to buy clothes for Dongdong and went home, and there was no one at home. Xiaoyu called to ask Weizi, and Weizi said: "My mother and they went back to their own house, knowing that it was inconvenient for you to take the baby, and said that you should cook the rice first, and they will come back to stir-fry." ”
As soon as Xiaoyu heard it, she knew that her mother-in-law was playing tricks again, obviously she wanted to be lazy, when she didn't go to get something, she had to go to get something when she had to make lunch, and she actually made a virtuous appearance, understanding that it was inconvenient for Xiaoyu to take the baby.
Xiaoyu muttered in her heart, since you know that it is inconvenient for me to take the baby, and there is no one behind, I ran far away when I was cooking, and said that I would come back to stir-fry the vegetables, and I guess I would only know about coming back after dinner.
Xiaoyu nodded: "Yes." ”
Xiaoyu will do what she wants, just make the meal and take the baby to wash the clothes by herself, but she is not diligent and does not do it for her, I will do what you ask me to do.
When the in-laws came back at twelve o'clock, they saw that the rice in the rice cooker was ready, but Xiaoyu did not cook as diligently as expected, and her mother-in-law's face was very ugly. Xiao Yuquan didn't see it, and put down Xixi to dry his clothes. The mother-in-law reluctantly came to the kitchen to cook, and asked her father-in-law to peel the garlic in an unkind tone, but the father-in-law was very reluctant to work, and peeled the garlic while complaining.
Xiaoyu saw this pair of treacherous and lazy in-laws, and thought about how she had really fallen for eight lifetimes, how could she get into such a family, she had long wanted to divorce and get rid of their family, but Weizi just didn't want to, she really regretted it.