Chapter 38: Quarrel
The relationship between Xiaoyu and Xiaolei is very good, Xiaoyu and Xiaolei are husband and wife, and they happily go home with their three babies.
After returning home, there were already a lot of elders helping to prepare the banquet, and after saying hello to the elders at the door, Xiaoyu came to the room left by her parents. It's a good feeling to be back home. Although her parents were still very kind to Xiaoyu, Xiaoyu soon felt a sense of alienation.
Because he has already married, this is no longer his home, this is the home of Xiao Lei and his younger siblings and nieces, and Xiaoyu is already an outsider. The house was newly built after Xiaoyu got married, although the parents reserved the room for Xiaoyu, but the master bedroom facing the best was left to the younger brother and younger siblings, so it was nothing, after all, he married out.
But seeing that her parents are surrounding her younger siblings and nieces, and basically ignoring Xiaoyu with two babies, Xiaoyu still feels unspeakably lonely in her heart. Although it is human nature, the granddaughter is her own family after all, and the grandson is someone else's child after all. Xiaoyu is also acceptable.
Contrary to the feeling of loneliness in Xiaoyu's heart, Dongdong felt as comfortable as a dragon swimming in the sea, mainly because his uncle Xiaolei prepared a new set of Transformers robots for Dongdong, and Dongdong had a lot of fun.
The Transformers robot played for a while, and Dongdong found that his grandmother's warehouse was more fun, and Dongdong plunged into the warehouse treasure hunt game, and Xiaoyu was also happy. The younger siblings bought Xixi a luxury one-piece suit, which made Xiaoyu, a dirt bun who only talks about affordable things when buying things, gain insight. Although Xiaoyu did not prepare a gift for her nephew, gifts and red envelopes are indispensable. Etiquette is still exchanged, and my sister and younger brother and sister also have a good relationship.
Originally, when I went back to my parents' house, I wanted to eat a few ready-made meals, and Xiaoyu easily achieved this goal, but Xiaoyu faced new troubles. Because he was busy with Xiao Lei's wedding, everyone was very busy, Xiao Yu took care of Xixi alone, her mother's family did not have a cradle, Xiao Yu did not bring a stroller, and she held Xixi almost all day long and did not let go.
Dongdong and Xiaolei boy are very close to each other, Dongdong either followed his uncle to the supermarket to buy snacks and toys, or followed his uncle to set off fireworks and fireworks, anyway, Dongdong also had a lot of fun, and even found out the piggy bank when his uncle was a child.
Xiaoyu was bored and talked to her younger siblings, saying: "When I first went to work and went home for the New Year, my mother squeezed me, saying that she gave birth to me at the age of nineteen, and I have a younger brother at my age, and I don't even have a boyfriend, so I was so angry that I packed up and left home." ”
The younger sibling said: "My mother is even more excessive, I started to work in Chengdu, and the salary is good. My mother was afraid that I would become a leftover girl, so she had to call me back to look for a job in my hometown again, and when I came home, she scolded me at the door of my room every day, 'You have not married my wife, you know that you are waiting to die at home, right?' If you can't get married, get out of here as soon as possible. Don't make people laugh or anything like that. ’
I couldn't stand it at the time, so I didn't go on a blind date. ”
Xiaoyu: "It's cheaper Xiao Lei, my attitude towards my family Xixi is that it doesn't matter if you get married or not in the future, so as not to be angry with your husband, as long as you have your own offspring in the future and are not lonely, if you don't get married, you will be safe." ”
The younger brother and sister nodded: "I think so too." ”
Xiaoyu took the baby alone for more than two days and chatted with relatives and elders, telling Dongdong not to eat food indiscriminately, and to honor her grandmother with a big red envelope, and time passed quickly. On the day of Xiao Lei's wedding, Weizi asked for leave and brought Xiaoyu's in-laws to eat and drink, and Weizi suggested: "This parents-in-law's house is too cold, and it is snowing." You better go back with us with your two children, don't let them catch a cold. ”
Considering the child, Xiaoyu agreed, and after eating the wedding wine, she told her parents, younger brothers and sisters, and went home with her husband Weizi, Dongdong and Xixi received a big red envelope and went home happily, but Xiaoyu was not happy when she got home.
When Xiaoyu was cooking dinner, her mother-in-law suddenly floated into the kitchen like a ghost and said, "Xiaoyu, do you want to invite your parents and younger siblings to our family for the New Year?" ”
Xiaoyu was cutting shredded radish, startled, and said: "My younger brother and sister said that they would go back to duty on the first day of junior high school, and I guess they can't come, besides, there are so many people, it's too troublesome to cook, it's not realistic." ”
The mother-in-law said, "It's okay, your sister's family also came back at that time, and you discussed making a reunion dinner together." ”
Xiaoyu said: "There are so many people, let's go to the hotel to eat, save trouble." ”
The mother-in-law said, "Let's do it at home, it's lively, and there are many people, so let's discuss it together." Suddenly, he dropped another sentence: "Anyway, I have a cold, and I can't cook." ”
After saying that, he floated away like a ghost.
Xiaoyu understands her mother-in-law's calculations, and you don't want to cook a reunion dinner, so in the name of the reunion, invite my mother's family to come to your house for dinner, and let them help you cook the meal by the way. You're shameless, you want to have a good reputation, but you don't want to contribute money and effort.
Xiaoyu, who was wearing an apron, walked out and said to her mother-in-law: "Mom, since you said that you can't cook a reunion dinner, then don't invite anyone, it's so convenient." After all, there is no diamond, no porcelain work. ”
When the mother-in-law heard Xiaoyu say this, her face turned black and said, "Your sister is coming tomorrow night, you can cooperate, I have a cold, and I can't do anything." ”
Xiaoyu smiled and said, "You have to catch a cold a few times every year, and it was before and is now and will be in the future." You should understand your own physical condition, since you are not feeling well, don't call your sister's family back for the New Year, isn't this causing trouble? ”
The mother-in-law looked at Weizi and said with some grievances: "I didn't mean that you should cooperate in cooking together." ”
Which time did you catch a cold, didn't it mean that you cooked together, and in the end it became me cooking alone, this kind of Xiaoyu was fooled a few times, but it doesn't mean that Xiaoyu will compromise this year, if you compromise this year, can Xiaoyu turn over in the future?
Xiaoyu said: "Cooperate with cooking, just like you earn a share in the commune together, some people are lazy and some are cheating and cheating, so the responsibility is not clear, it is not good." I think it's best to have a clear division of responsibilities, for example, I will do it at noon on Chinese New Year's Eve, Weizi will do it in the evening, and my sister and wife will do it on the first day of junior high school. ”
The mother-in-law heard Xiaoyu's words and stopped talking, Weizi saw that her mother was wronged, Xiaoyu said in an aggressive tone, and said angrily: "Okay, you don't have to cook for the New Year in the future, just me and my sister cook, you eat ready-made, do you want it?" ”
Xiaoyu thought about it for a moment and said, "Well, that's good, so let's do it in the future." ”
After saying that, Xiaoyu continued to go back to the kitchen, leaving the family to sit in the living room and watch TV. In the evening, her in-laws went for a walk, Xiaoyu was watching TV, Weizi walked in with Xixi in her arms and smiled and said to Xiaoyu: "If you have anything in the future, you can tell me in private, you can't let people get off the stage today, how bad it is." "Xiaoyu knows that Weizi is talking big words, and it is estimated that it is difficult to cook the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner by himself, and now he wants to please Xiaoyu.
Xiao Yu said, "Didn't I just discuss it with you?" For your sake, I don't do it either, but I won't do it all, it's going to be a reunion year, it's okay, everyone takes turns cooking together, how good. ”
Weizi said: "You see, my sister only comes back a few times a year, so let her rest at home. ”
Xiaoyu asked rhetorically: "How many times a year do I go back to my parents' house?" ”
Weizi stopped talking, and Xiaoyu replied for him: "Your sister goes back to her parents' house seven or eight times a year, and the last time she quarreled with her brother-in-law, I cooked to comfort her, and I only went home once in two years, and you hurriedly took me back to be your family's paid nanny." Don't you think you're not excessive?
The daughter of your family who married out goes home every year for the New Year, and I have never returned to my parents' house for the New Year in the years since I married into your family. ”
Xiaoyu is on fire, and the vulgar Weizi is also angry, and said: "Is this good, I will send you back to your parents' house for the New Year immediately." ”
Xiaoyu nodded: "Yes." ”
Weizi had nothing to do with Xiaoyu, but he didn't act immediately, and hugged Xixi silently.
Xiaoyu complained: "Even if I go back to my parents' house to be lazy, I never have a reason to let my brother and daughter-in-law cook for me." Your family is good, I used to have a good heart, you can bully me, this year I will definitely not work hard in the kitchen alone, your family shares a family in the living room, Lao Tzu does not do. ”
Weizi quarreled: "Yes, our family's conditions are too poor, I'm sorry for you, why didn't you find a family with good conditions in the first place." ”
Xiaoyu replied: "Your family is okay, my condition is right with your family, and no one should dislike anyone." If it weren't for my mom urging me to get married, I would have married you so soon.
But what is the significance of this marriage, except for a scar on his stomach, Lao Tzu has undergone surgery and stitches twice, and has given birth to two babies, what is the meaning? Your mother calculates me every year, and Lao Tzu already knows that he would rather not get married than be angry with your family for the rest of his life.
You used to treat me as an outsider, but now you don't treat me as a person at all, I remember giving a red envelope to your family's birthday, Lao Tzu passed away, and your family can't get a word.
My younger siblings have never even served food at home, they play their own games, and the babies are all in charge of my mother and Xiaolei. It's like your family, you treat your daughter-in-law as a coolie at all, don't help with the baby, don't talk about it, and calculate that your daughter-in-law cooks a big meal, Lao Tzu was blind at the beginning, and he shouldn't marry you. ”
After saying that, Xiaoyu wiped her tears aggrievedly, Weizi felt guilty and said, "Didn't I buy you a car?" ”
Xiaoyu replied: "You use the joint property of the husband and wife to buy me a car, what kind of mind is it." Our first car was also bought together, and in the end it didn't become your own car. This marriage is meaningless, divorce is over. ”
Weizi said, "You have a problem with your braincase. ”
Xiaoyu replied: "According to what you say, thousands of women in China have problems with their brains, and only virtuous and virtuous people who are bullied by their in-laws and do not resist or squeak are normal."