Chapter 934: A Realistic Problem!
"I just want to have a house, am I wrong? Gao Feng, why can't you empathize with me, do you understand my true feelings? Xiao Lin spoke again.
"Of course there's nothing wrong with asking for a house, and to be honest, I want it too, but Linlin, we have our own hands and feet, can't we rely on our own efforts? Why ask Ringo to borrow money to help? Gao Feng asked.
"I--" Xiao Lin's face turned red.
"Do you think that Brother Lin has the conditions, as long as I can speak, then Brother Lin will definitely help me, right, but have you ever thought that Brother Lin has helped me a lot, I am friends and brothers with Brother Lin, this is all right, but as Brother Lin's friend and brother, do I have to rely on him? I just want to rely on myself step by step, we have a stable job now and have our own career, isn't it good, why bother Brother Lin? Gao Feng continued.
"Gao Feng, Linlin thinks that we are her own people, so she told me, in fact, this is not wrong, you can have a house here as soon as possible, then you can get married early, it is not easy for you to be together." I said.
"I know, I know Brother Lin, you're good for me, forget it, everything is in the wine." As he spoke, Gao Feng picked up his glass and took a sip.
Looking at Gao Feng and Xiao Lin now, Chu Yin and I don't know what to say, but I feel that Gao Feng and Xiao Lin are too young, so they will speak so straight, or rather, because they drank some wine tonight, that's why they are like this.
Originally, we were very happy to meet, but because of the house, the scene is a little awkward now, even if I open up some topics later, I feel that Gao Feng is just talking to me, and Xiao Lin is already a little absent-minded.
"Gao Feng, I'm tired, I'll go back and rest." Suddenly, Xiao Lin got up.
Watching Xiao Lin leave the restaurant, Chu Yin and I glanced at each other.
"Gao Feng, go take a look." Chu Yin said.
"Forget it, let's keep drinking." Gao Feng forced a smile.
"Don't drink it, I didn't expect you to celebrate the New Year this time, saying that it was to meet both parents, but it was still not smooth." I said.
"Xiao Lin's parents think Xiao Lin is very good, follow me, that's my luck, anyway, the bride price and the house must be had, in fact, her parents' requirements are not very high, they just hope that there is a house in their hometown, but when they come to Linlin, they say that they seem to have to buy a house in Shencheng, which makes me a little embarrassed, Brother Lin, you know my conditions, I have a suite in Jincheng, if this house is sold, it must be no problem to buy a wedding house in my hometown, but this is Shencheng, you said I want to really ask you to borrow money, When will I be able to pay off these millions? Gao Feng said.
"It's okay, in fact, I don't mind here, I can pay it back slowly." I said.
"That's not the case, if it's hundreds of thousands, millions, then I ask Brother Lin, it's okay for you to borrow something, the problem is millions, this is a bit far, and I still have to take out a loan, in my place, I have money, of course I can buy a house, but I don't have money, so why should I slap my swollen face and become fat, do you ask my friend to borrow money and not pay it back? If I can afford to pay it back in a year or two, then of course I will borrow, but I know how many pounds and taels I have. Gao Feng continued.
"I understand what you mean, but brother, we're almost drunk tonight, Linlin is your girlfriend after all, you better go and have a look, she's younger than you, you can be considerate." I said.
"Yes, Gao Feng, you and Linlin are not happy, and you and Brother Lin are not happy." Chu Yin also said.
"If I want to borrow money, then I must have asked Brother Lin in person, how can she make her own decisions, I am angry about this, she didn't have my consent at all." Gao Feng continued.
"Okay, don't be like this, you said that you're not bad now, you're the manager of the gym, and Linlin is with you, you're doing well, you've only been in Shencheng for a few months, don't think too much, if you really love each other, then even if you don't have a house, Linlin will follow you with all her heart, this has nothing to do with your family, you just know it in your own hearts, it's really not good to quarrel, it will hurt you." I said.
"yes, I see." Gao Feng nodded.
Walking out of the restaurant, I motioned for Gao Feng to go home to Linlin first, and I called a substitute driver here.
It was already late when I returned to the villa, Ling Xiaoxiao and Lan Feifei had already rested, and Chu Yin and I took a hot bath at night and lay on the bed.
"Husband, I didn't think this would happen tonight." Chu Yin said.
"Me too, it's just, I always feel like I can't say it." I said helplessly.
"What's wrong husband?" Chu Yin asked.
"It's that many times, when a couple is together, there are always some other reasons that will cause them to break up, such as the high bride price, and for example, there must be a wedding room, preferably the location of the house is better, how to say, this marriage is really difficult." I said.
"There are also places where the requirements for the bride price and the house are not so high, in fact, it mainly varies from person to person." Chu Yin said.
"The one that Gao Feng talked about before is also a bride price and a house, otherwise he won't get married, but after having a house and a bride price, he has to hold a luxurious wedding, and he has to buy a big diamond ring, the problem is that everyone is an ordinary person, how can there be so much money to fix these, why does this face have to be so good-looking, that later it was more chaotic outside, just because the man can sleep with the man because he sent a bag, I really don't understand what the woman is thinking sometimes, especially at that time when the peak and the woman are going to hold a wedding banquet, Invitations were sent out. I said.
"Gao Feng is also a bumpy relationship, after such a period of experience, now he may be a little disgusted with what bride price and house requirements, you said that Gao Feng really wants to buy a house in Shencheng, do you think Xiao Lin's name is not added to the real estate certificate, Xiao Lin will not be happy, after all, if you don't get married and buy a house, it is a pre-marital property, will Xiao Lin be sure to add it? Husband, are you thinking about this? You must know that the suite in Jincheng is Gao Feng's personal, but if you buy another set, it will be different if you add the name, especially if Xiao Lin asks you to borrow money If you don't know, then your money will pass through Xiao Lin's hands and then buy a house, can this be calculated? Chu Yin asked.
"No, I didn't think about it just now, it's a bit far away." I said.
"Yes, but if you think about it, it always feels a little wrong, as for what kind of way to say, you can pay individual income tax and social security for more than three years at one time, this Xiao Lin obviously inquired about these not for a day or two." Chu Yin continued.
"Could it be that Xiao Lin really wants to be with Gao Feng, so she just wants to be stable, and if she has a house, her parents at home can agree that she and Gao Feng are together?" I asked.
"There is no doubt about this, no matter how Gao Feng says that he also has a suite, and now he is still the manager of the gym, Xiao Lin came to Shencheng, at first he should have taken refuge in Gao Feng, and slowly developed into boyfriend and girlfriend, the two of them knew each other in Jincheng before, it was a gym, this is more thorough, if Gao Feng has nothing, and he is not a manager, will Xiao Lin come to Shencheng? Husband, have you thought about this? Chu Yin continued.
"I understand what you mean, I know that this society is very realistic, if there is no capital, then why should a man make a woman like? Of course, there are also many true loves that don't look at the conditions. I said.
In fact, sometimes I sigh in my heart, because many times, a pair of boyfriends and girlfriends, they are very affectionate together, but often because the conditions in reality are limited, the man cannot meet the conditions on the woman's side, aside from the woman, the woman's elders must not agree, that is, they are afraid that their daughter will suffer, and this is actually human nature.
How difficult it is to marry a wife now, there is no house, unless you are handsome, or have other conditions, such as self-motivation, such as a good career, basically ordinary people don't have a house, and marriage is really a big problem.
The real world is like this, many people look forward to love, but sometimes love is really worthless in reality, some people fall in love is not married, in fact, it also depends on the conditions, only if the conditions can be met, then they will choose.
In fact, to be precise, I think it is to choose the best, want to pick one that you are satisfied with, and the conditions are not bad in all aspects, and once you can't pick it, then your age will get older and older, of course, among them, in fact, there will be struggles, and the standard of mate selection will decline with age, but it often comes to this point, and it is difficult to find love in the end, of course, there will be exceptions.
For ordinary people, love is a luxury, many times everyone is facing reality and choosing to live a life in the future, as long as the other party can be good to themselves, or as long as they can live together in a down-to-earth manner, then it is enough.