Chapter 361: The Concept of Love
The two bowed their heads and ate for a while, and Jingchen suddenly said: "Mr. Lu has had a lot of troubles recently, if you can, you can tolerate him more, the most important thing for two people to be together is to understand each other." ”
Lin Yanyan was stunned, and looked up at him in surprise, she really didn't expect Jingchen to suddenly say such a thing to her.
Jingchen also looked at her, his eyes were deep and serious, the corners of his mouth were slightly hooked, with a very gentle and friendly smile. He looked like he was trying to persuade an old friend.
Lin Yanyan frowned slightly, still very incomprehensible, unable to understand Jingchen's performance.
Jingchen's focused eyes revealed a little sadness, but he still said seriously: "I heard that you got married on May 6, since you have decided to enter the marriage hall, you should all think that each other is the person you want to choose the most in this life, so take advantage of your happiness." ”
Jingchen is in love with her, very, very much in love with her, but he knows that a man expresses his love for a woman, not domineering and possessive, but from her position for her sake, sincerely helping her choose a way that is more suitable for her.
If she chooses another man, and thinks that one man can leave the marriage hall with her, then he will respect her, and will sincerely bless her, when she is in trouble, he should not immediately pounce on her love, but give her more enlightenment and encouragement, unless he is sure that this man is not worthy of her love, that man can not give her happiness, then he will rush desperately to take her back.
Outsiders may think that Jingchen is stupid, because Jingchen can snatch her back, so that he will be happier, but Jingchen doesn't think so, he has his own view of love, and he has his own unique and rational understanding. He knew that if he snatched Lin Yanyan back, it might not be a good thing for Lin Yanyan, when he pushed her to Lu Xintou, he wanted her to live a safe and stable life, at that time he also thought that Lu Xintou was more able to give Lin Yanyan happiness than himself, and Lin Yanyan had also reached the point of talking about marriage with Lu Xintou, which means that her current life is relatively stable, if he rushes up, it will disrupt her rhythm, which may make Lin Yanyan more entangled and painful, and it also violates his original practice of protecting her and hoping to give her the greatest happiness.
A man should do things only if he has done it, since he has done it, he must stick to his original intention and don't change his plan easily, because the fate of others should not be controlled by him, and he can't affect Lin Yanyan's life again and again, so since he pushed Lin Yanyan to Lu Xintou, he can't easily regret it, Lin Yanyan and Lu Xintou have contradictions, he would rather enlighten than pounce easily.
Unless one day he confirms that Lu Xintou is a scumbag and has no way to give Lin Yanyan happiness, then he will snatch Lin Yanyan back without hesitation, and at that time, he can't blame him for being bad, but Lu Xintou himself did not cherish the result. This is Jingchen's concept of love.
However, Lu Xintou can't be judged as a scumbag at all now, and the conflict between him and Lin Yanyan may be due to his personality.
Jingchen said: "Sometimes you are too strong and stubborn, and when you think you are right, you will think that you are right, so that you don't listen to other people's explanations and don't consider other people's feelings. Mr. Lu is the same, you must be more accommodating and run in together. ”
Lin Yanyan still looked at him stunned, really didn't understand why Jingchen would persuade him. Is he selflessly giving of his kindness, or is he no longer loving himself?
Jingchen said again: "Since you have decided to marry Mr. Lu, you should consider him to be your prince charming, for the sake of friends, I sincerely bless you." Yanyan, don't be willful anymore, and don't bring our previous problems to you and Mr. Lu again, we have already failed once, you should think that you can't fail again the second time. ”
"Jingchen, are you really persuading me" Lin Yanyan finally asked, his throat tight, and his heart was bitter.
Jingchen nodded: "As long as you are doing well, I can rest assured, so I sincerely hope that you and Mr. Lu can be happy." But Yanyan, I have a word that I will always keep for you"
He smiled slightly and said gently, "I will stand where I am and wait for you until the day when you don't need it at all, and when the day really comes, I will be at ease." In the process, if you have any changes and feel that the person you have chosen is really not able to give you happiness, then you can always turn back. ”
Lin Yanyan burst into tears, and when he lowered his head, his eyes dripped directly onto the case. Jingchen gave her the gentlest way to advance or retreat, he didn't easily disturb her and Lu Xintou's happy life, but if she confirmed that she and Lu Xintou were not suitable, she could still turn back, and he would always stand where he was and wait for him.
Why didn't she find out that Jingchen was so good before, he didn't force her, he only considered her from her point of view, sacrificed himself, and made a protection that was most beneficial to her. She missed Jingchen, it was really her regret
Lin Yanyan was extremely painful, but still said, "Do you think it is necessary for me and Lu Xintou to continue to scold?"
"Yanyan, every relationship is worth cherishing and working hard, don't deny your judgment of love, since you chose it in the first place, there must be a good reason for it, so when something happens, why easily veto it If you can't insist and give in, every relationship will not last long. ”
"Why didn't anyone persuade me so much in the first place," Lin Yanyan muttered. This sentence is very light, as if talking to herself, maybe only she can hear it, maybe Jingchen also heard it.
Lin Yanyan regretted it very much, no one persuaded her so much when she broke up with Jingchen, if someone persuaded her like Jingchen at the beginning, she might have persisted longer, and she might not have accepted Lu Xintou easily.
Lu Xintou would never persuade her to treat Jingchen sincerely, Lu Xintou would only take it by force, but Jingchen was different, Jingchen was still persuading her to be good to Lu Xintou at this time, people are really different compared to people.
"Try first, if you change and Lu Xintou doesn't change, then it's not your problem. I won't look at you unhappy. Jingchen said again.
Lin Yanyan covered her mouth and wept silently, but did not speak.
When he returned to work in the afternoon, Lin Yanyan thought when he went to make coffee that it would be good if Jingchen could really think more about himself, he was so selfless that he missed too many things.
Lin Yanyan was thoughtful, not noticing that Wu Kai walked in, and when she found out, she was startled: "Secretary-General, when did you come in?"
Wu Kai smiled: "I passed by and saw you here in a daze, so I approached to see, what are you thinking?"
Lin Yanyan felt embarrassed, although she had a good relationship with Wu Kai in private, but Wu Kai was the leader of the group in the company after all, and as a subordinate, she should not let the leader catch a bad working state.
Lin Yanyan smiled and said: "It's nothing, how did the secretary general come to the company today, are you ready for a meeting?"
"No, I'm going back tomorrow, so I'll come and have a look today. ”
"You're going back tomorrow, what about the chairman?"
Wu Kai sighed: "The chairman will go back tomorrow, it is better for him to be treated in Beijing, there are better hospitals and more powerful experts in Beijing." In fact, at the beginning, we didn't agree with the chairman going back and forth, but the chairman's hometown is here, and he always likes to go back to City A to recuperate, but he really can't continue to run around in his current situation. ”
Lin Yanyan was sad and asked him in a low voice: "Will the chairman come back in the future?"
"It's hard to say. ”
Lin Yanyan thought that if Xing Penghui didn't come back, would she stay in Beijing in the future, and she would never be able to see him until the end of her life
Wu Kai said hello and went to get busy, but Lin Yanyan was still thoughtful. The relationship between her and Xing Penghui is rather awkward, and she has always avoided the relationship between father and daughter, but some problems cannot be avoided for a lifetime, and when one day she needs to face them, she must face them after all.
Lin Yanyan deliberately waited for Wu Kai after work, and when she saw Wu Kai go down to the parking lot to pick up the car, she followed him and called him: "Mr. Wu Kai"
Wu Kai turned around and said with a smile: "Yanyan, I haven't gone back yet, what's wrong?"
"Can I accompany you to visit the chairman" After she finished speaking, she lowered her head, not daring to face Wu Kai's eyes.
Wu Kai smiled and asked, "Your general manager arranged for you to visit in the name of the company."
"No, it's me" Lin Yanyan thought about it, and felt that it was not appropriate, so he made an excuse, "The chairman has helped me, and he is my mother's old friend, so I should visit him because of my feelings."
Wu Kai nodded, and didn't force her to ask: "Okay, it just so happens that I'm also going to report to work, you can just go with me."
Lin Yanyan got into the car and followed Wu Kai's car to Xing Penghui's villa.
On the way, Lin Yanyan passed by the flower shop, stopped to buy a bouquet of flowers, there were jewelry to buy peace charms next to the flower shop, Lin Yanyan wanted to buy a string of sandalwood beads and peace charms to Xing Penghui, but hesitated, felt that it was not suitable, and the sandalwood beads bought on the side of the road were fake, and the grade was too low to send away.
Wu Kai came over and said, "If you want to buy it, you can buy it, the chairman will be very happy." ”
Lin Yanyan said: "I'm afraid it's not suitable, so forget it." ”
"There is nothing inappropriate, this is also your heart, courtesy is light and affectionate, the chairman will be very happy. ”
Under Wu Kai's advice, or Lin Yanyan also wanted to give Xing Penghui something different in private, so he still bought it. She felt that on such a day that might be the last day of meeting, even if she was entangled in her heart, she should leave something different for Xing Penghui, instead of flowers, which would be gone for three or two days, and she couldn't take them away.
After Lin Yanyan bought the sandalwood bead peace charm, she returned to the car with flowers and continued to hurry, and when she arrived at Xing Penghui's villa, it was already more than 8 o'clock.
Xing Penghui's villa is in the suburbs, close to a natural hot spring scenic spot, surrounded by mountains and rivers, the environment is particularly good, the air is also very fresh, it is far away from the city, and the conditions here may be very suitable for people recuperating from the disease.
Xing Penghui had heard Wu Kai say that they were coming, so he had been waiting for them to eat together. Mobile Visit: