Chapter 553: Lin Yu's Abnormality
When everyone was almost finished, Wen Wan suddenly thought of something, and after gently touching Zhou Ziheng beside her with her elbow, she asked suspiciously: "Why didn't Sister Yu and brother-in-law come?" Didn't we send them invitations? It can't be missed, right? ”
Zhou Ziheng also realized that the two of them did not come after listening to her words, and replied after thinking carefully: "In addition to the invitation, didn't you tell them in person?" It stands to reason that as long as they receive the news, even if they don't receive the invitation, they will definitely call you, could it be that there is some unexpected situation on the road that is delayed? ”
"You have a point." Wen Wan nodded approvingly, then picked up her phone and was about to call, "I'd better call and ask, don't look back and do something else." ”
She quickly found Lin Yu's phone and was about to call to ask, but Xu Siye was late with Xiaoyun Shu in her arms at this time, and she hurriedly put down her mobile phone after seeing it, and couldn't help but sigh, "I really said Cao Cao Cao arrived." ”
"Brother-in-law! This way! Wen Wan raised her hands high and called out to him.
Xu Siye followed the voice, and when he saw them, he hurriedly walked quickly, panting and explaining: "Wanwan, I'm sorry, I'm too late for something at home." ”
His eyes were scarlet and bloodshot, and a beard grew on his chin, as if he hadn't slept all night, he looked very haggard, and Xiao Yunshu in his arms was also a rare crying non-stop.
Wen Wan stared at the entrance for a long time, but she didn't see Lin Yu's figure, she looked at Xu Siye's haggard appearance and thought of what he had just said, she suddenly had a bad premonition in her heart, and couldn't help frowning and asking, "What happened?" Did Sister Lin Yu have an accident? ”
Xu Siye kept coaxing Xiao Yunshu who was crying in his arms, closed his mouth and didn't answer anything, just silently looked at the ceiling and sighed, "Hey! ”
"Come on, give it to me." Wen Wan never got a response from him, and she couldn't help but feel a little anxious, she quickly stood up and took Xiao Yunshu, who was crying to the heartbreak, over to coax, "Okay, okay, don't cry, my aunt is here." ”
Zhou Ziheng hurriedly moved to the side, and after vacating a seat, he pulled Xu Siye to sit down, and asked softly, "What happened?" ”
Wen Wan also sat down with Xiao Yunshu in her arms, scratched her ears and cheeks anxiously: "Brother-in-law, I ball ball, hurry up, you are really going to die of obsessive-compulsive disorder, if there is anything difficult, you can just say it, and everyone will give you ideas together, which is better than you being in a hurry alone." ”
Xu Siye kept sighing, and was silent for a long time before finally speaking, "Actually, I don't know what's going on, Yu'er went out a few days ago, and after she came back, her spirit was abnormal, I asked her what happened, and she refused to tell me." ”
Wen Wan frowned and asked suspiciously, "Mentally abnormal?" What kind of anomaly? ”
"She asked me the other day if my daughter is important or she is important in my heart." Xu Siye lowered his head silently when he said this, and then sighed and replied, "Of course I said that it is just as important. ”
"I know that some people think that children are more important than adults, but in my heart, they are just as important, because without Yu'er, there will be no Xiao Yunshu, and both of them are my treasures."
"She didn't say anything at the time, but since that day, she often cried for no reason, and said that I was lying to her before, since the child was born, everyone only paid attention to the child and not her, she lost her temper when she saw Xiao Yunshu, but she was very annoyed after losing her temper."
Xu Siye is now a head or two big, and he keeps rubbing his hair with his hands, as if he can vent his pressure in this way, "I used to read that many people on the Internet said that they didn't like their mother-in-law to help take care of the children, because it was easy to ignore that adults pay more attention to children, so I didn't let my mother come over at all." ”
"I've always told her whether to breastfeed or not, whether you want to take care of the child or not, it's up to you to decide, as long as you're happy, you can do anything, but I just don't know what I need to make her happy, I don't know what she wants, so I'm also very anxious now."
"Today, I was supposed to come to your engagement banquet together, but I was going out, and she said that she didn't want to go, so I could only follow her and put her to sleep before secretly bringing Yun Shu over."
Wen Wan thought about it carefully, and said in a deep voice: "Brother-in-law, have you ever thought about it...... Sister Yu, may she have postpartum depression? ”
Xu Siye was stunned when he heard this, "Postpartum depression? But she was very happy when she was confined, and she wasn't like this when she went to see your concert. ”
Wen Wan explained to him: "I don't think postpartum depression is only in confinement, don't you say that she started to change after she came back from a trip, maybe she met someone, and then something unhappy happened, it just so happened that she just gave birth not long ago, and her hormone level was unstable, so she was depressed." ”
Xu Siye said with a sad face, "I don't know who she saw and what happened, anyway, no matter how I asked, she just didn't say, I also said before that I would take her to the hospital, but she refused to go, I was really sad to death." ”
"If it's my fault, then I have to tell me where I was wrong so I can change it, I have to know why she's unhappy, I can find a way to make her happy! But I don't know anything now, and she doesn't say anything! ”
"I feel so useless right now, I can't even make my wife happy, I really want to share it for her, but I don't know what to do."
Wen Wan sighed silently after listening, Xu Siye is indeed a good man, there are many men in the world who think that it is nothing for a woman to give birth to a child, how tiring it can be to take care of the child at home and do housework, where is he tired from work, and he doesn't even take postpartum depression seriously, he thinks it's all done by women.
Having said that, it can't all be generalized, there are actually many good men like Xu Siye, who know that it is not easy for their wives to get pregnant and give birth, and they also want to help their wives share the burden, although they may not know what to do, but at least they have the heart to do it.
"Brother-in-law, don't be too anxious." Wen Wan hurriedly comforted him, then thought about it and said, "Why don't I go to your house to see Sister Yu later, I'll try to talk to her, after all, some words may be easier to say between people of the same sex." ”
"Is that okay? You've just gotten engaged, isn't that too much of a bother? Xu Siye asked a little embarrassed.
Wen Wan said disapprerovingly, "What's there to bother with?" Do you think there's a difference between the two of us getting engaged or not? ”
Then without waiting for him to respond, he made a decision, "Okay, it's so happily decided, after the banquet is over, I'll go with my brother to your place to have a good chat with Sister Yu." ”
Xu Siye sincerely thanked her, "Thank you, thank you for being tactful." ”
Wen Wan: "It's all a family, what's the politeness, hurry up and eat, wait for the end of the meeting and leave together." ”
After the banquet was over, Wen Wan changed her clothes and said goodbye to her family, and then took Zhou Ziheng to Xu Siye's house together.