Chapter 283: The Gap
At this moment, the little guy in Xu Xiaoai's house also woke up, babbling and crying, Chu Yu went to the next door and took a small bottle to feed him some water, and after a while he fell asleep again.
Lin Xin'er asked strangely, "Don't you eat milk at night?" β
Chu Yu shook his head: "We have gradually broken the habit of breastfeeding, otherwise the child will not be able to sleep at night, and the adults will also suffer." β
Compared with these two, Lin Xin'er's gap is even greater, why is the child of Chu Yu's family so good, and her family has been repeatedly punished.
Zhou Ye also felt the lack of experience in raising children in his family, but now is not the time to be entangled, the most important thing is that his son is still burning.
They stayed in the guest room, and it was convenient to stay and take care of the child, and sure enough, the child had a fever all night, and they threw the little one into the water again, and when the fever subsided, they picked it up again, and took medicine again, and in the early hours of the morning, the little one's fever finally subsided.
They didn't bring clothes to change, Xu Xiaoai brought them a few sets of their own children's clothes to change for him before going to bed.
And just like that, this exhausting night is finally over.
When the family got up in the morning to prepare for dinner, Xu's mother found that there were a few more people in the family.
The aunt came early, made several more breakfasts, and a large bowl of porridge was drunk.
Lin Xin'er felt that even this aunt's cooking was better than what their part-time workers cooked.
Early in the morning, the little guy finally had a fever, his spirit improved significantly, he didn't cry or make trouble, and even the corners of his mouth showed a smile, Lin Xin'er's heart finally let go.
A child doesn't lie, when he is not in good health, he must be in bad spirits, languishing and crying, and as long as he is not too uncomfortable, then he will immediately jump alive.
Chu Yu and Zhou Ye went to work separately, Zhou Ye didn't sleep all night, and drove out of the car tiredly with dark circles under his eyes, while Chu Yu got up in the middle of the night, but it didn't seem to have the slightest effect, he was full of energy, and he got up in the morning and went to run 5 kilometers.
Xu Xiaoai simply asked Lin Xin'er to stay at her house for a while to observe the situation, and the two little guys also had fun together.
Then Lin Xin'er finally felt the joy of Xu Xiaoai with the child, and she was really a day and a place, she and the nanny were busy in the child's eating, drinking, and Lazar every day, and Xu Xiaoai was different, three meals a day were prepared by the aunt, Xu's mother was responsible for playing, and Xu Xiaoai was mainly busy with her own weight loss, as well as reading, and then taking the little guy to play in the garden or in the park outside.
"Why don't you even bring a bag when you go out?" Lin Xin'er watched Xu Xiaoai push the stroller and was about to go out.
"There's all under the stroller, diapers, and cups are ready."
"Where's the milk?"
"No, we don't usually go out for a long time, and the little ones only go out to play when they are full. If he's really hungry outside, I'll find a nursing room to feed him. β
Lin Xin'er sighed, Xu Xiaoai is exclusively breastfed, and she is a mixture of breast milk and milk powder, so it is particularly troublesome to go out.
Xu Xiaoai also found a stroller for Lin Xin'er's little guy to use, and the two pushed the cart and walked slowly on the small square outside.
They found a place with sun, Xu Xiaoai turned the child directly over and let him bask there, untied the diaper on the little buttocks, and let the sunlight shine directly on his buttocks, while the child's face was placed on his side, and it was blocked by a veil.
Lin Xin'er did the same: "Why are you so much? Aren't you also bringing children for the first time? β
Xu Xiaoai smiled: "I won't, it's all Chu Yu told me, and Chu Yu's mother and father lived here for a month, I learned from them, and they took the children very well." At first, I was quite uncomfortable, the way to take the child is completely different from what is written in the book, but they said that this is to stimulate the child's nature, develop his intelligence, and also improve his physical fitness, and then I followed them, and now it seems that the little guy is really developing very well, they are a family of traditional Chinese medicine, not only children, but even my body has given them a good condition. β
Lin Xin'er was so envious, she sighed: "Now I really envy you for having a good husband and mother-in-law." @*~~β
Xu Xiao.
Ai nodded, and the smile on his face never stopped: "Yes, Chu Yu is really good, with him, it seems that all the problems have been blocked for me." β
The two of them were talking, and after a while, Lin Xin'er's little guy began to cry again, and this time he was hungry.
Lin Xin'er began to make milk for him, and after the milk was fed to him, the little guy began to be happy.
Xu Xiaoai watched her and the nanny busy, one was in charge of making milk and the other was responsible for coaxing, while the little guy on his side watched his hands dance and giggled happily.
Lin Xin'er's son seems to have a bad temper, before he drank the milk, he was a dry number, and he yelled there desperately without tears, Lin Xin'er had to urge the nanny to hurry up and flush the milk, and she picked up the child from the car and walked back and forth. I kept interrupting the child, asking him to look at the flowers here and the grass over there, but the little guy in his arms didn't listen to her at all, and he was still trying to pick off her clothes.
Xu Xiaoai hurriedly stepped forward to help pick up the little guy, but he was even more unhappy, and desperately leaned back, wanting to go back to his mother.
And Xu Xiaoai's son saw his mother hugging others, he was not happy, and began to desperately call in the stroller, meaning to let his mother come and hug him.
After a while, the two little guys began to quarrel, and Lin Xin'er had a headache in the quarrel. @Β·error-free start~~
Xu Xiaoai looked at the little guy in the stroller with a smile and howled, she just didn't hug it.
Sure enough, after a while, the little guy sitting in the car saw that his mother didn't pay attention to him at all, and he put away the tears he didn't have at all, and began to giggle again.
Lin Xin'er shook her head and sighed: "I said Xiao Ai, how can you not be led by his nose?" β
Xu Xiaoai said with a smile: "The child's needs do not mean that they must be met, they must be taught to be patient and wait, which is also what Chu Yu told me, all things are not solved by crying, and he must exercise his ability to solve problems by himself."
Just like just now, he is not hungry or urinating, and there is no other discomfort, that is a simple emotional problem, and he spoils him all the time when there is no need, which will give him a hint in his heart, that is, as long as he cries, someone will take care of him immediately, but in the future, no matter what the occasion, no matter what the matter, it will be solved by crying, which is not conducive to his growth.
So it's best to let him know that not all adults revolve around him. β
Lin Xin'er looked at the little guy in her hand again, smashed her mouth after eating, with a satisfied expression, she didn't make trouble now, but as soon as he put him back in the stroller, he started to make trouble again, only when he picked it up and kept walking, he would feel happy.
Lin Xin'er realized that it seemed that there were many wrong ways to take care of her children, and she had to learn from Xu Xiaoai.
She put the little guy in the stroller, and sure enough, she immediately began to cry, she hardened her heart and was not ready to pay attention to him, Xu Xiaoai even pulled her aside and let the nanny watch the two children.
Xu Xiaoai took her to the side to buy two ice creams, one for each person, and she was very happy to eat, Lin Xin'er was still a little uneasy, and looked back from time to time.
When they finished eating the ice cream and returned to the stroller, sure enough, the two little ones were having a good time, and no one was crying.
Lin Xin'er breathed a sigh of relief, it seems that what Xu Xiaoai said was right, let it go when people said it was time to let go, she just managed too much, and she was very tired of managing herself.
Until the afternoon, Lin Xin'er's son had recovered his health and had no fever for a day, and she went home with the nanny and the child in the afternoon.
Before leaving, Xu Xiaoai gave her a large package of traditional Chinese medicine and told her which medicines to take under different circumstances. Lin Xin'er wrote it down, and more importantly, she asked Xu Xiaoai a lot of ways to take care of the child, and she would immediately adjust it when she went back, strive to raise the child better, and free herself from hard work.
After returning home, Lin Xin'er put the child aside and found the gym clothes she hadn't worn for a long time.
She was stimulated by Xu Xiaoai, originally she had a better figure, but now she can only cover it with wide clothes, which is a lot worse than Xu Xiaoai.
The most crucial thing she learned from Xu Xiaoai today is that she will insist on exercising every day, so she can recover so well.
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After Lin Xin'er changed into gym clothes, she ran around her community for a full 10 laps, and her running speed was not very fast, and the distance was only about 5 kilometers, but this lap made her tired and out of breath.
The physical strength obviously can't keep up, as if his body has aged very much, like an old cow dragging a broken car, tired and can't do it.
But Xu Xiaoai is different, she told her that she will find time to run 10 kilometers every day, and when she comes back, she is still in the yoga room, and she will practice aerial yoga for another hour and a half, so she can recover so well.
She is going to start from 5 kilometers and exercise when she has free time, and she must return herself to her previous state, not only for herself, but also for her children, and for the relationship between her and Zhou Ye.
Chu Yu's affairs in the hospital are very complicated, and he, the dean, has a lot of opportunities.
Because of his own reasons, the funding for their hospital has increased to a certain extent compared to before, but the pressure has also followed, and several research topics have been placed in their hospital.
Chu Yu united a local university to build a joint laboratory, where talents from both sides can be shared and the laboratory can be built together, which will be very convenient for the research of the subject.
Chu Yu and they have recently set some topics, and the most relevant aspect of obstetrics and gynecology is the study of the characteristics and risk factors of incision infection after cesarean section of scar uterine pregnancy.
This topic was personally participated in by Chu Yu and led the research.
Recently, his main research is related to cesarean section.
Cesarean section is an abdominal incision of the uterus to remove the fetus, which is an important operation in the field of obstetrics, and it is also an effective means to solve dystocia and some obstetric complications and save the lives of mothers and perinatal babies. _o_m
Obstetrics and gynecology is one of the main disciplines of clinical medicine and is very closely linked to surgery, internal medicine and pediatrics.
As a very experienced doctor, Chu Yu has been involved in all aspects, and it is most suitable to be the leader of the project.
And he worked with a female doctor who came back from abroad, named Ye Qin, who has also published many very famous academic articles in international journals, and is a senior talent specially introduced by Chu Yu.