"You, you don't want to be like this, you listen to me, falling in love is not just a matter of the two of us, I don't dislike you, I'm not that kind of person, I'm just thinking about my parents' feelings, I don't know if they can accept you!"

Guo Shaoyang no longer affectionately calls Caixia's name, what he says is true, if the whole purpose of their life is only personal happiness, and personal happiness is only in love, then life will become a truly dark wasteland full of absurdity, boredom and broken hearts, refining into a terrible hell.

Also, all the truly great people, whether they are ancient or modern, as long as their names are forever etched in the memory of mankind, there is no one who is crazy because of love. Therefore, they all need to think calmly and seriously.

"Really? Are you here to tell me this? Then you can go now. You go, I'll go right away......" Qin Caixia said and got up and pushed Guo Shaoyang out.

Guo Shaoyang understood Qin Caixia's mood very well at that time, so he let her punch and kick, he just stood still.

"Let's go! Don't you hate me? Don't you want me? What else are you doing here? I don't want to see you again! I'm not worthy of you, I'm just a stinky woman, a broken woman's ......" Qin Caixia said and cried and fell into Guo Shaoyang's arms, like a child.

"Who said you were a broken woman? Although you have suffered setbacks in your marriage, you have given birth to children, to put it mildly, and you have shared a bed with others, but you are still very kind in your heart, and your soul is beautiful, and you are a thousand times better than those who seem to be pure, but their hearts are dirty.

However, we are a product of the 80s, and our way of thinking and thinking is very different from that of our parents.

I myself want to find a girl I like, who is kind-hearted, supports my career, and can help me take care of my parents as my lifelong partner. Didn't think much more.

The only thing I care about is the feelings of my parents, because everything I have comes from them, and with the blessings of my parents, we can live a happier life. ”

Guo Shaoyang looked at Qin Caixia lovingly, he thought that the saddest thing in life is that when you meet someone special, but you understand that you can never be together, sooner or later, you have to give up.

"Then why do you have to find a girlfriend yourself, let your parents find one for you directly, why do you want to hurt me?" Qin Caixia looked at Guo Shaoyang with a resentful expression. Guo Shaoyang couldn't help but be stunned for a while, he knew that true love was to know that it was fruitless, but he still had to blindly persevere.

Guo Shaoyang didn't speak, but just hugged Qin Caixia tightly in his arms. He didn't want to give up this relationship from the bottom of his heart, he just thought about too many worldly things, and he kept looking for a reason for himself to be able to carry out his love to the end.

Guo Shaoyang's first consideration when looking for a girlfriend is whether his parents will like it, he always thought that he would definitely like what his parents liked, and he wouldn't like what they didn't like. Now, it seems, he was wrong.

Qin Caixia has not been at work for a few days, he has become more and more clear that he has fallen incorrigibly in love with her, and he must now make a decision, whether his parents like it or not, he will be with Caixia, of course, it is best to convince them.

A few days later, Guo Shaoyang called home and told his parents about the incident. Dad's attitude is resolute and clear, he feels that this matter is unreliable, it is not that Caixia said that her mother-in-law is not good to her, he believes it, you must know that a slap does not make a sound, no matter what the reason, a woman who can abandon her family and children is undoubtedly a femme fatale.

In this regard, he firmly objected, saying that even if they insisted on being together, they would divorce again in the future. If Guo Shaoyang doesn't listen to them, he will definitely regret it in the future.

Mother's words are even more absolute, what kind of woman is saying that we don't want to post 100,000 yuan, we can't do things to break up other people's families, not to mention that she also pretended to be Shaoyang's girlfriend before. Regardless of whether they got a marriage certificate or not, in fact, they were already married, for the sake of the children, for everyone, and for herself, Qin Caixia's best way out now is to remarry.

Guo Shaoyang made a difficulty, and his parents' words were not unreasonable, but they were also biased, because he knew that Caixia and Zhou Ping had turned against each other, and it was impossible to remarry. So, he decided to write a letter to his family, explaining why he wanted to be with Caixia, and trying to get their understanding and support.

Dear Mom and Dad,

You've done a great job!

This is the first time I have written a letter to my family. First of all, I want to say that I am very sorry, because I have not achieved anything so far, especially since I have been working outside the home all the year round, and I have not been able to help my family for anything, and I have seriously failed your expectations.

The ancients said: "Unfilial piety has three nos, and the queen is great", which is what you have been worried about me, but unfortunately I have always disappointed you.

It is said that marriage is a lifelong event, but I now see it very lightly. No one would have thought that when I first roughly understood the meaning of marrying a daughter-in-law, I did not think about marrying a beautiful, intelligent and capable girl, but I thought that I would marry the ugliest and most undesirable woman in the world in the future, and give her a happy life.

Later, when I knew that there were many more men than women, I thought that I would not get married in this life, so that I could give others one more chance.

Of course, I'm not saying how great and kind your son is, in fact, I have been very picky in the process of finding a partner in recent years, and I can't look down on ordinary girls at all, until I met Zhang Yating, I thought that she would not marry in this life, but unfortunately we broke up in the end.

That breakup hit me hard, made me lose confidence in dating for a while, and I missed out on many good girls. However, a life without experiencing a broken love is not a real life, and everything must be lost, and since then I have gained more understanding of life.

To be honest, in the eight years since I broke up with Zhang Yating, others introduced me to several objects, but I didn't care about them until Qin Caixia appeared. Her misfortune and sincerity touched me deeply, and I slowly fell in love with her. Of course, at first I didn't trust her very much, and I was more worried that you wouldn't agree, so I didn't dare to approach her, and even tried everything to refuse her.

In just a few months, we were conflicted and broke up several times until we broke up completely during the Chinese New Year. However, Caixia has never given up on me, she did not hesitate to put down her self-esteem, came to the door again and again, and refused to associate with those friends who were not indiscriminate for me, her feelings for me were the same as I did for Zhang Yating, but the sacrifices and changes she made for me were something that Zhang Yating could not do anyway.

Why do people live so hard? It's all about face. For ordinary men, the standard for marrying a daughter-in-law is nothing more than that she is not too ugly, can do laundry and cook, can take care of her husband and children, does not dress up as a demon, does not hook up with others, and even goes out of the wall, and is filial piety to the elderly.

I can't say Caixia has all of these, but she is much better than I knew and imagined. I don't know who else can take feelings so seriously after the setbacks of marriage! Caixia is willing to sleep on the road with me, am I going to refuse her because of the disgraceful things she has done in the past? So what's the difference between me and others?

"Everyone scolds virgins for being intemperate, and evening prostitutes praise them all." Being a man has to look at the second half. Do you still remember the great earthquake of that year, which caused thousands of people to lose their precious lives in an instant, and also gave me a deeper understanding of life?

As the so-called goose has left a voice, people have left a name, as long as you are upright and worthy of the conscience of heaven and earth, everything else is not so important. I'm sure you know better than I do, "The best is not necessarily the best for you, but the best for you." ”

Through repeated observation and understanding, I feel that Caixia and I will live very happily together, she can make up for some of my character defects, as well as the lack of treatment of people, please don't dislike her because of her disgraceful things in the past.

If everything is as Dad said before, we insist on being together and will divorce, then I can only borrow a superstitious saying: all this is predestined, and no one can change it.

In short, with your support and blessings, we will live a happier life. My personal affairs are small, and your health is the most important thing. Dear mom and dad, my son is not by your side, you must eat well, drink well, dress well, rest well, don't be too tired yourself, I have grown up, it stands to reason that it is time to honor you well, but unfortunately I have more than enough strength to do so, I can only apologize, that's all.

Unfilial son: Shaoyang respects

It was this letter that completely changed the old man and his mother's view of the whole thing, they accepted Guo Shaoyang's choice, so they decided to go to Qin Caixia's house to meet the future father-in-law and mother-in-law.

What Shaoyang didn't expect was that they didn't dislike Qin Caixia, but the two adults, father-in-law and mother-in-law, disliked him.

Actually, it's not that he dislikes it, he just hopes that his daughter can marry a good family, so his father-in-law proposed that if he wants to be with Caixia, he must first buy a house in Qincheng, and secondly, he must have a stable job, and Guo Shaoyang has neither of these things.

After coming back from Caixia's house, Guo Shaoyang hadn't figured out how to tell his family about the conditions they proposed, but his father-in-law found Qin Cheng and beat him up, and resolutely did not allow him to be with Caixia.

Guo Shaoyang was cold at that time, so he turned against his old man, and Caixia was also determined to be with him for the rest of her life, but who would have thought that her mother suddenly became seriously ill and needed 200,000 yuan for surgery, Caixia had no choice but to break up and promise to marry a very rich mine owner.

During this period of time, Guo Shaoyang couldn't take out 200,000 yuan to save his mother-in-law, and watched Caixia leave him, ready to marry a bad old man she didn't like at all.

Guo Shaozheng secretly blamed himself for being useless, but he didn't expect the news of Caixia's pregnancy to come suddenly, he was really surprised and happy, and immediately asked for leave to go home to explain the situation to the old man, and asked him to come forward to Caixia's house to propose.