On Sunday morning, Chen Wenhai returned to his parents' home.

After a while, Chen Chunmei's object, Li Guoqiang, came.

After sitting down, Li Guoqiang asked Chen Wenhai with a smile, "You don't have a partner yet, right?" ”

Chen Wenhai nodded.

"Would you like me to introduce one to you?"

Chen Wenhai smiled.

"What kind of girl are you looking for?"

Chen Wenhai still smiled.

At this time, Shen Rulan came into the house, and she said to Li Guoqiang with a smile:

"Our family Wenhai is now a college student, you should know what kind of object you should be looking for!"

Li Guoqiang thought about it, and then said to everyone with a smile:

"I know a girl, she works as a nurse in the hospital, and she doesn't have a partner yet, if Brother Wen Hai doesn't dislike it, I can introduce her to Brother Wen Hai."

"Then why don't you hurry up and bring her here!" Chen Chunmei couldn't help but shout happily.

"Then I'll bring him next Sunday!" After speaking, Li Guoqiang went out with Chen Chunmei.

They didn't come back until the afternoon.

After breaking up with Li Guoqiang, Chen Chunmei returned to her parents' home.

After entering the house, Chen Wenhai said to her with an unhappy face:

"Mom is so annoying, and let someone else introduce me to someone! You're too, follow the foolishness! ”

"How do you call it a fool?" Chen Chunmei shouted with a grin, "It's not bad to find a nurse!" Then he asked, "Isn't the nurse worthy of you?" Does getting a nurse lower your status? ”

"What?" Chen Wenhai was even more angry, "You don't know my feelings for Xiaoyan!" If Xiaoyan knew about this, what would Xiaoyan think! ”

"She can think whatever she likes!" Chen Chunmei said with a grin, "Anyway, there is no hope for the two of you, what do you care about her?" ”

"How can you do that?" Chen Wenhai's eyes widened angrily, "You are despising the relationship between me and Xiaoyan!" Speaking of this, Chen Wenhai's tears couldn't help but flow, "I almost died of illness for her, and you don't know about this!" ”

"I'm sorry!" Seeing that Chen Wenhai was so uncomfortable, Chen Chunmei hurriedly apologized to her brother. "But what's the point of meeting with that nurse? I didn't force you to marry her! Chen Chunmei talked about her views.

"Except for Xiaoyan, I don't want to fall in love with anyone at all right now!"

"I know that!" Chen Chunmei said to her brother with a smile, "You don't understand Xiaoyan's feelings for your mother, Xiaoyan's father doesn't understand either, and now there are a lot of discussions about you outside, you have to make a show to gag their mouths and calm down public opinion!" Society is so ridiculous and callous that we sometimes have to make certain compromises! ”

A week later, Mr. Chen met with the nurse at home.

After a few of them talked together, the nurse followed Li Guoqiang.

After Li Guoqiang left, Chen Chunmei asked her brother with a smile:

"What do you think this girl looks like?"

"It's okay." Then he added, "It's not pretty and it's not ugly." ”

"Worthy of you, right?" Chen Chunmei joked with her brother.

"So-so, it's okay."

"Then you can marry her home!" Chen Chunmei continued to joke with her brother.

"Do you think that I can't marry my daughter-in-law and have to marry her?"

"I didn't think so! Who is my brother? Talented, with great ideals and ambitions, how can you marry such a girl and spend this life mediocre! ”

"You've learned to flatter me, too!" Chen Wenhai couldn't help laughing.

Later, the nurse never came to see Chen Wenhai again, and Chen Wenhai happily said to his sister:

"Amitabha, it's a good thing she didn't come to me again, otherwise, I really don't know how to send her!"

"Listen to your voice, you don't seem to like her?"

"Although she is not pretty, her appearance and speaking demeanor are still quite cute!" Chen Wenhai said with a smile, "If you change to someone else, maybe you will really marry her." ”

"You get along well with a lot of girls, and if this nurse were your classmate or colleague, I thought: you can get along with her too!"

"It's okay for such a girl to be an ordinary friend, but if I want to live with her, then it's hard for me!" Chen Wenhai asked his sister with a smile, "Do you know why?" ”

"Then you need to ask? Because there is no love between you! ”

"If there is no love between a man and a woman, how can they live together?" Chen Wenhai said to his sister seriously, "Actually, this truth is very simple, but unfortunately: some people want to 'beat the mandarin ducks and scatter' and interfere in other people's marriage problems!" Isn't such a person hateful? ”

"It's hateful indeed!"

Li Guoqiang came to Chen Wenhai's house again, and Chen Chunmei said to him with a smile:

"You're weird to be early, have you had breakfast?"

"Of course I did!" Then he added, "I'm not in the habit of sleeping in, and besides, aren't we going out today?" Then he urged, "Let's go!" ”

"Shall we both talk to my brother for a while before leaving?"

"Of course!" Walking on the road, Li Guoqiang asked Chen Wenhai with a smile, "Does your school have a suitable one?" ”

"Not yet." Chen Wenhai said with a smile, "I have only been working at the school for a few months, and I don't know anyone. ”

"Didn't you tell me that Zhang Xuemei from your school is very beautiful?" Chen Chunmei interjected with a smile.

"So what?"

"Do you have a crush on her?"

"A little."

"Then you take the initiative to approach her!"

"She's as proud as a princess, and I don't bother to bother with her!"

"She's the commander's daughter, isn't she?"

"You remember it quite well!"

"Let's go out and talk, it's not convenient to talk here!" Seeing that her parents were at home, Chen Chunmei said this to Chen Wenhai and Li Guoqiang.

Outside, the three of them walked along the factory road.

"I think: although Zhang Xuemei is very arrogant, you should still take the initiative to approach her." Li Guoqiang said.

"Why?" Chen Chunmei asked.

"Because generally speaking, all beautiful girls are very arrogant, especially the children of cadres!"

"If I take the initiative to approach her, will others say that I am climbing a high branch?" Chen Wenhai asked worriedly.

"What's wrong with climbing high branches? Who doesn't want to climb high branches? People go to high places, and water flows to low places! ”

"And where is the dignity of our manhood?"

"If you want to marry a daughter-in-law and have the dignity of a man, it's a bit difficult!"

"I'd rather have the dignity of a man!"

"Then you're ready to fight for the rest of your life!" Chen Chunmei joked with her brother, and then, with a restrained smile, said to her brother, "Aren't you the most annoyed that others will introduce you to someone?" You take the initiative to approach Zhang Xuemei, if the two of you become it, won't you save this trouble? ”

"My sister has a point!" Chen Wenhai smiled and said, "Then I'll take the initiative to approach her?" Or to put it bluntly, I'm going to chase her? Then he smiled and said, "But I've never been in the habit of chasing girls!" ”

"Do you think chasing girls is detrimental to your manly dignity?"

"If you catch it, it's worth it, I'm afraid you won't be able to catch it!" Chen Wenhai said worriedly, "Especially in a situation like me, if you can't catch up, some people will be able to say anything ugly!" By then, I'll probably be ruined! If it really leads to such consequences, then my fate will be miserable! ”

"What do you want to do so much? Take one step at a time! Chen Chunmei said to her brother, "Aren't you the most annoyed that my mother asks someone to introduce you to someone?" If your marital problems are not solved for a day, your troubles will not be resolved for a day! ”

"Chinese like to 'mess with mandarin duck scores', and I am most annoyed by this!"

"What's the use of you being annoyed? Who made you Chinese! ”

"Marriage should be based on love, marriage without love is very painful, why do some Chinese not understand this truth?" Speaking of this, Chen Wenhai couldn't help laughing, "It's no wonder that China was once a country with a history of more than 2,000 years of feudal society, and the feudal society's concept of 'parents' orders, matchmakers' and 'door-to-door matches' has been deeply ingrained in people's minds!" ”

After returning to school, Chen Wenhai still felt very embarrassed on the question of "should he take the initiative to approach Zhang Xuemei", this is because: he still lacks understanding of Zhang Xuemei, if he takes the initiative to approach her, will it attract gossip? If she doesn't like herself, will taking the initiative to approach her cause her misunderstanding? What's more serious is that if this move of oneself is taken advantage of by some guys with ulterior motives, then it is very likely that there will be resentment between them and become enemies! This is the last thing Chen Wenhai wants to see!

Should I approach her at all? If you should approach her, then in what way should you approach her? For several nights in a row, Chen Wenhai was thinking hard about this question!

For more than 20 years, he has suffered a lot on love, marriage and family issues, and some people have belittled, slandered and hurt him in the most vicious and dirty language in the world, as if Chen Wenhai is the most shameless guy in the world!

In the face of all kinds of foul language against him, Chen Wenhai often feels difficult to argue and painful!

Faced with the basins of dirty water that people poured on him, Chen Wenhai was heartbroken!

How many people know: Chen Wenhai once hesitated and hesitated on the question of "should he take the initiative to approach Zhang Xuemei"?

How difficult it is for Chen Wenhai to take the step of "taking the initiative to approach Zhang Xuemei"!

Some people will only shake their heads and shake their lips to spread all kinds of bizarre lies and rumors, without ignoring what kind of psychological feelings Chen Wenhai has! They only want to show their own momentary pleasure, no matter how painful others are in their hearts! They build their own happiness on the pain of others!

This is the inferiority of the people!

Revised February 22, 2022