Chapter 1000 Marriage is a second reincarnation!
"Woo, county lord, it would be nice if I didn't get married! I want to be with you all the time, I want to be so happy all the time, woo, I regret it, I regret it! ”
Gu Qingqing's tears crackled and fell, seeping into Jiayin's neck, and she was a little stunned.
Everyone also stopped in mid-air with chopsticks, not knowing what was going on.
is still the little birthday star of Baozhu, who reacted first, quickly drove away all the maids and mothers-in-law, told them not to say a word, and then closed the doors and windows of the water pavilion tightly.
Xu Xi and Mei Lan stepped forward to help Gu Qingqing, which can be regarded as rescuing Jiayin.
The third princess was a little frightened, and leaned over and pulled Jiayin's hand, her face full of surprise.
Mei Lan has a more stable temperament, and she has more contact with Gu Qingqing, so she was afraid that everyone would be unhappy at this time, so she couldn't help but say a few more words for her.
"Don't blame Sister Gu, her life is too bitter. Originally, her mother-in-law had passed away, and her father-in-law was seriously ill, thinking that life would be better without the elders to stir up in the future.
Where did she think that as soon as she got married, she found out that her father-in-law was pretending to be sick, and soon remarried a stepmother-in-law. The family property was almost lost by his father-in-law, but he wanted to save face, and the family expenses were huge.
"Sister Gu was appointed to be in charge of the family, and she wanted her to fill the hole with her dowry.
"Sister Gu's husband thinks that he has no talent, drinks all day long, and recently forced Sister Gu to sell the Zhuangzi for marriage, but Sister Gu refused, so he beat people.
Sister Gu's step-mother-in-law also blamed Sister Gu for not giving birth to children, and tried to torture her in different ways...... This time, Dean Gu took her home for two days before she had the opportunity to come. ”
As he spoke, Xu remembered that he was about to get married, and Mei Lan also wiped her tears.
A woman's marriage is the second reincarnation, and if she is unlucky, she will be ruined in the rest of her life.
Gu Qingqing is definitely not a minority.
It's just that some people are willing to speak out, and some people endure until death.
Xu Xi also hung his head and sighed.
The third princess has a hot temper, and she has never been wronged since she was a child, so she shouted at the time, "Marrying someone is not selling yourself into slavery, why should you endure such grievances?" Why don't you know to go back to your parents' house for help! ”
When Gu Qingqing heard this, she cried even more.
Xu Xi pulled the veil and explained in a low voice, "The Gu family is a scholarly family, with a century-old reputation and extremely strict etiquette. Let's talk about Dean Gu, who has been widowed for half his life and has not remarried. In fact, it was not that no one proposed marriage at the beginning, but the family did not allow it.
"Of course, Sister Gu also complained, but the family would not support Sister Gu and leave at all, but urged Sister Gu to spread the branches and leaves of her in-laws as soon as possible, and the situation will be better in the future."
Everyone was angry when they heard it, this was really stuck in the mud, and there was nothing they could do.
"Then you can't bear it like this, in the end, you will either be tortured to death, or you will die of grievance. It's not easy to be reincarnated as a human being, and it's not to suffer for a lifetime! ”
The third princess stomped her feet angrily, and she even said, "Where is your mother-in-law's house?" I'll go back with you and help you scold them!" ”
Gu Qingqing's eyes lit up, and she was about to speak, but Jiayin pulled the third princess and stopped her, "No, the princess will scold, Sister Gu's in-laws may be restrained, but the princess can't support Sister Gu for a lifetime."
"Moreover, Sister Gu is a junior, and she didn't have children, and when it spread, her in-laws don't have to speak, everyone has to scold Sister Gu for being unfilial and disrespectful, and the princess has also lost her reputation."
Hearing this, the light in Gu Qingqing's eyes went out again, and his face was full of death.
Xu Xi and Mei Lan were also frustrated, Mei Lan choked up, "Why does a woman have to get married, can't she be in her mother's house for the rest of her life?" ”
Baozhu was soft-hearted, and she was even more sad, "I don't want to get married anymore, it's really terrible." ”
Jiayin doesn't want to wade into troubled waters, after all, things are complicated at home now.
But after all, the little sisters for many years get along very closely.
And from a woman's standpoint, she can't look past it.
So, after thinking about it, she pulled everyone to sit down and said, "I have some ideas, you can listen to it for the time being and see if it is feasible?" ”
"It's doable, it's definitely doable!" The third princess was the first to respond, and praised proudly, "Jiayin is the smartest, as long as it is the way you think, it will definitely be done!" ”
Jiayin glared at her with disgust, and said helplessly, "Don't put a high hat on me, I haven't been married, it's all nonsense, you guys listen to it first." ”
With that, she poured a cup of tea to moisten her throat and organize her thoughts.
"Sister Gu's situation, my mother-in-law does not agree, my mother-in-law does not support it, and it is definitely impossible to reconcile. Then let's follow the idea of discord and separation, and let Sister Gu live a good life.
"A woman marries and obeys her husband, and her husband dies and obeys her son. In fact, in the final analysis, it still depends on the son. Only with a son can we really gain a firm foothold in my in-law's family, so let's start from this point!
"Sister Gu has never been happy, first of all, she must determine if there is something wrong with her body. In this way, if you can still stay at your mother's house for a few days, I will ask my master to help you, diagnose your pulse, and prescribe a prescription to recuperate your body. ”
Gu Qingqing wanted to nod, but when she remembered something, her face was a little embarrassed, she glanced at everyone, and whispered, "I want to recuperate my body and have a baby as soon as possible." But...... The man doesn't come to my house, and I don't like him. ”
When everyone understood, they all blushed, and they lowered their heads and did not dare to raise them.
Jiayin didn't care, and said, "This is not a problem, you are well recuperated, there are many ways to let him come to your house, and I will talk to you in private."
"You endure it for a night or two, and when you have a child in the future, you will have a lifelong dependence, and no one will have to accommodate you."
Gu Qingqing nodded vigorously and clenched his fists, "Okay, I've endured it for so long, and it's not too long." ”
"And what about the dowry, those people are going to destroy Sister Gu's dowry, what should I do?" The third princess was anxious and asked.
"This is easier to do," Jiayin smiled narrowly, and responded, "Sister Gu, after you go back, you will say that you have been taught a lesson in your mother's house." Your mother's family blamed you for relying on the rich dowry and not taking your in-laws' family seriously, so you took the initiative to return the dowry to your mother's family for safekeeping, and took the initiative to share the joys and sorrows with your mother-in-law's family.
"Even, you have to reflect on how many shortcomings you had in the past, and you directly meditate behind closed doors for two months, copying Buddhist scriptures and praying for the blessing of the whole family. In this way, you naturally don't need to be a housekeeper, and you don't need to make up for it with a dowry. ”
"Then take care of your body, you have to go out, right?" Xu Xi frowned.
But Mei Lan said, "That's two months later, and when the time comes, if you don't need Sister Gu, her mother-in-law's family will stick it up and coax Sister Gu to add silver."
"I'm still worried that her husband won't be able to enter the house, wouldn't it be easier to conceive a child?"
"Yes, yes!" The third princess shouted excitedly, "As long as you are pregnant, you will use the excuse of being pregnant, and you have no energy to take care of the dowry and no energy to take care of the house." Until the child is born, and then the child is small, you have to take care of the child......"
Xu Xi also opened his mind, and nodded again and again, "It's best to let people publicize these things from the beginning, and everyone praises Sister Gu for being virtuous."
"If it drags on like this for three or five years, there are only two results. Either Sister Gu's in-laws can't hold it and tear their faces, so that everyone will find out that they are plotting Sister Gu's dowry and will be spurned by everyone.
"Either the whole family pleases Sister Gu, and obediently expects Sister Gu to live."