Han Shen: "With me, you don't have to worry about money." ”

Zhou Mo: "It's different. You know my character, I can't be a housewife like a dodder, as a woman in the new era, I want to realize my value in work and society. Otherwise, I have been reading for so many years, and I have not read it in vain? ”

Han Shen: "I know. I just thought, don't put too much pressure on yourself. We...... In fact, there is no shortage of money. ”

Zhou Mo: "This is also something I am glad about, my life has not reached the point of lack of money now, but ...... It's just now, the days ahead are still long, who can say for sure what will happen in the future? It's certainly not a good idea to save a lot of money for a rainy day. ”

Han Shen: "Hmm. I will also work hard and work hard to earn money. ”

Zhou Mo turned over and faced him.

She smiled with satisfaction on the corner of her lips, "I admire my mentor the most, her current living state should be the ideal living state for many people, and she lives completely for herself." ”

Han Shen: "How do you say it?" ”

Zhou Mo: "He has a high degree of education, he is still a university professor, he has the ability, he can make his own money, and his career is still booming." When outsiders look at her, they may feel pitiful, and they will regret that she has been divorced and is still alone. But I think it's the people who pity her who are really pitiful. My tutor, to have a degree of education, to work to have a job, marriage, divorce, single she has experienced. Women don't say that a happy marriage is called happiness, most marriages are actually improvised, they are just firewood, rice, oil and salt. Like my mentor, you can give yourself what you want, and you don't have to worry about the relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She has a daughter, and she is not unaccompanied. Isn't it a kind of happiness for her to be like this? ”

Han Shen smiled, "Yes." It's good to be happy, there are not so many standard answers in life. Those who pity others either have hidden jealousy in their hearts and feel that if they are not doing well, others must be doing badly too, or it is the siege effect of marriage, and those who are married feel that it is better not to get married, and vice versa. People always like to talk about things that they have not experienced or are not familiar with, either extremely demeaning, or brainless worship. ”

Zhou Mo raised his eyes to look at him, his eyes were resentful and suspicious, "Why do you feel that you are saying that I am brainless?" ”

"How dare you. Whoever I say, I won't say you. ”

"Just say it, I'm not afraid of what people say. There is controversy, which shows that I have used my brain, and in my life, I would rather die clearly than live in a daze," Zhou Mo said: "I often think that the marriage system is just a product of social development, and it can even be said to be a product of the development of agricultural society, which has been left to the industrial society." It may be that in the early stage of industrial society, the marriage system, as the smallest economic unit, is conducive to social stability and economic development, but if the industrial society is developed enough, the existing marriage system cannot match social development, and even restricts personal development, the so-called marriage system will also collapse. ”

Han Shen was surprised: "I didn't think about this. Your point of view is worth pondering. ”

"Don't blame me for mentioning violence, I've really thought about it. I'm even thinking about why women attach so much importance to marriage, and most people think that a woman's life is only happy when she has a happy marriage. Men will feel that their careers are successful and their lives are complete, and they don't have such high expectations for marriage. It's a complex sociological question, but the best explanation I've ever heard is from a genetic level. The 'selfish' gene makes men and women make different choices. ”

"In order to perpetuate his genes, a man will cast a wide net, and the more he spreads, the more likely his genes will be passed on widely, similarly, eggs cannot be put in one basket. In the same way, in order for her offspring to grow up safely, she needs a stable family environment to support her in raising her offspring, so she attaches more importance to the stability of her marriage. ”

Han Shen: "In the final analysis, animal instinct. Some people also say that all human social behaviors are actually xi

G-driven, and what you call the 'selfish gene' theory, are similar. ”

Zhou Mo looked at him with a smile, "I didn't expect you to do this kind of sociological thinking." ”

Han Shen: "If you learn more, you will inevitably extend, summarize and generalize, and go to a higher philosophical level." That's learning. ”

Zhou Mo said excitedly: "Yes! I also think it's really interesting and fresh to read new research every day, to see the violent theories put forward by various people, and to see their search for theoretical basis and thinking process. It's much more interesting than playing games and watching videos. ”

Han Shen smiled at the corner of his lips and looked at her deeply, "What I like is that you have always been so wise." ”

It's not superficial intelligence, but wisdom that penetrates into it.

Clever and wise, not one thing.

Everyone has wisdom, but wisdom is not.

Zhou Mo: "Do you know that there is a kind of love orientation called intellectual sexuality?" It's about using the IQ standard as the love orientation, I feel, you're a bit alike. ”

Han Shen was stunned for a moment, and said in a trance: "Really? ”

Zhou Mo: "I remember that there is a very classic passage about intellectual sexuality, you search to see if it resonates with you." ”

Han Shen was curious, reached out and took his mobile phone, and searched according to Zhou Mo's guidance.

That passage is saying: I don't care if it's a high C or not, I want a sharp, perceptive, uninhibited mind. I wanted to have someone with whom I could discuss philosophy as a Q play. I want to sometimes satisfy me because of their wit and wicked sense of humor. I want someone I can touch with my fingers. I wanted someone I could hug whenever I wanted. I decided all of this, meaning that I am intellectual. I want to have a relationship with people's minds.

Han Shen finished reading it with a smile, and he said, "It does resonate, but ...... There is no man who doesn't want to find a smart wife. What's more, the term intellectual sexuality is still controversial. From a psychological and sociological point of view, it is more concerned about the other party's IQ than its appearance and economic status, and it is not a sexual orientation. ”

Zhou Mo: "What about you, why did you take a fancy to me at a glance?" Just because I'm good-looking and white? ”

Han Shen thought back to the past and said seriously: "You ...... It's so white that you can't take your eyes off it, and you think it's good-looking. ”

Zhou Mo smiled: "No matter how good-looking I am, it's not a gesture of the country, right?" At most, because it's white, it's pleasing to the eye. ”

Han Shen pondered for a moment, "Maybe...... I'm really intellectual. ”

The first time he saw Zhou Mo was after moving and was about to go downstairs.

I happened to meet Zhou Mo talking to someone at the corner of the stairs.

They are arguing about one of Marx's points: the process from commodities to money is a "thrilling jump", and this jump is unsuccessful, and it is not the commodity that is broken, but the owner of the commodity.

The other party didn't understand, and Zhou Mo was explaining the meaning of this sentence to the other party.