Forty-ninth of the four systems of mourning clothes
The general body of the ceremony, the body of the world, and the four times of the law, then yin and yang, conform to human feelings, so it is called the ceremony. Those who do not know the origin of etiquette are born. Husband's ceremony, auspicious and evil, irrelevant, irrelevant, take yin and yang. There are four systems for mourning, and it is appropriate to change and take four times. There is grace and reason, there is moderation and power, and it is also favorable. The benevolent is also benevolent, the rational is righteous, the thrifty is also courteous, and the powerful are known. Benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, and propriety.
Those who are kind are heavy, so they are the father for three years, and those who are gracious are also. The rule of the door, grace and righteousness; Governance outside the door, righteousness and grace. The father is the king, and the respect, the noble and honorable, and the righteous are also great. Therefore, the king also cut down the decline for three years, and the righteous system is also.
Three days of eating, three days of bathing, periodical and practice, indestructible, not to die or injure. The mourning is only three years, the decay is not mended, the grave is not cultivated, and on the auspicious day, the drum is suqin. There is an end to the people, and there is also a temperance. Fathers and mothers, and love. There are no two days in the sky, no two lords in the earth, no two kings in the country, no two respects in the family, and the land is ruled by one. Therefore, the father is here, and the mother is in the declining period, and there are no two respects.
What is the rod? Jue also. The staff of the son is given on three days, the staff of the doctor on the fifth day, and the staff of the scholar on the seventh day. or it is said to bear the Lord, or it is said to be sick, and the woman and boy cannot be sick without a rod. Hundreds of officials, hundreds of tools, those who do things without saying things, help them up; Those who say and do things rise with a rod; As a deacon and then a walker, his face is just dirt. The bald are not good, the servants are not favoritous, the lame are not enthusiastic, and the old and sick are not only wine and meat. All these eight are also those who are in power.
Beginning to die, three days without slackness, three months unremitting. The period is sad, three years of sorrow, and the killing of grace. The saint is killed to control the festival, the reason why this mourning is three years, the sage can not pass, the unscrupulous have to reach, this mourning is mean, and the king often does. The book says: "Gaozong forgiveness, three years without speaking", good also. The king should not do this ceremony. Why is it good alone? Said: Gaozong Wu Ding. Martial arts, Yin Zhixian King also. When the succession is enthroned and the kindness is in mourning, at this time, the decline and revival, the ritual is abolished and revived, so it is good. Good, so contained in the book and high, so called Gaozong. Three years of mourning, you don't say, "book" cloud: "Gaozong forgiveness, three years without speaking", this is also said. However, those who say that they "do not speak literately" are also called subordinates.
The mourning of the decay is only not right; The mourning of Qi decay is right and not spoken; The loss of great merit is not discussed; The mourning of small achievements is not as good as it is to be discussed.
The mourning of parents, the decay of the crown rope, three days and eat porridge, three months and bath, thirteen months and practice crown, three years and auspicious. Those who are more benevolent can observe their love, those who know can observe their reasoning, and those who are strong can observe their aspirations. Etiquette is to govern, righteousness is righteous, filial sons, younger brothers, and chaste women can all be observed.