Lu Baichuan nodded and said, "We will definitely support you if you want to go out, but now that the second sister-in-law is still pregnant, I suggest that you wait until she gives birth before going." ”

"Okay, then listen to you!"

Lu Lao Er was persuaded, although he felt that his daughter-in-law had already given birth to two children, and there should be no problem this time, but he was still willing to listen to the third brother and wait for her to give birth before leaving.

Lu Baichuan said again: "Second brother, I remember your character, you are not the kind of person who loves to be aggressive, why did you suddenly want to go out?" ”

In fact, he can probably guess some of the specific reasons, but he still wants to hear Lu Lao Er say it himself.

Sure enough, when asked about this topic, Lu Laoer's face sank, and there was a look of chagrin on his face.

"You're right, I'm really not the kind of person who loves to be aggressive, I want to be content with the status quo, and even think that our family's life is very comfortable now, I don't want to go anywhere in this life, just stay by our father's side, I should eat, drink, work, and work, and it's the same as before."

He adjusted his emotions and opened his mouth with a wry smile.

Lu Baichuan felt that there was nothing wrong with this, nodded and said, "Yes, this is the real you, why do you suddenly want to go out?" ”

"Because our family is better now, everyone can do what they want. The third brother and sister once asked us all what our dreams were, the eldest brother wants to be a goldsmith, and now he has gone to learn from a teacher, and the sister-in-law wants to open a restaurant, and now she also goes to the chef of the restaurant to be an apprentice, not to mention you and the third brother and sister, each has its own ability. Just our second room, it seems that there is no growth, no dreams, I am in a hurry......"

"Seeing that my third child is about to be born, but I still can't achieve anything like this, not as good as my eldest brother and even worse than you, I feel that I have disgraced my family, and I will disgrace my children in the future......"

Speaking of this, Lu Lao Er wiped his face and sighed again, feeling that life is really difficult.

I used to feel difficult when I was poor, but I thought that it would not be difficult to live a good life in the future.

But now that life is better, people have other pursuits, and people's hearts seem to never be satisfied, and they will always be greedy.

And if he doesn't want to make progress, he will be left last by his brothers.

"I don't understand," Lu Baichuan interrupted him loudly, "You are obviously a person with dreams, how can you say that you don't have dreams?" ”

Lu Lao Er didn't understand, and turned his head to look at him.

Lu Baichuan continued: "Your dream is to be content with the status quo, stay at home, accompany your parents and wife, and take care of the family's fields, you just need to follow your own heart to do it, so why bother so much? Even if you go to the grassland against your heart, you will not be happy in this process, and you will even feel more stressed, what is the meaning of living like that? ”

"Everyone has their own ambitions, the eldest brother wants to be a goldsmith, I want to be a general who protects the family and defends the country, and you just want to be yourself, there is nothing wrong with this."

"What's more, my eldest brother and I will leave the house for our own reasons, and our parents will have no one to respect at home, don't you stay at home just help me and my eldest brother?"

Speaking of this, Lu Baichuan patted him on the shoulder, his face was very gentle, and continued: "Being a role model for children does not have to be a big achievement, in the eyes of children, your words and deeds can become the object of his imitation, you are his father, as long as you love your wife, honor your parents, take on the responsibility of a father, and raise them, you can already become their role model." ”

"For example, I was absent from the most important four years of my dog's life, and I didn't participate in his development, but he felt that I was his father, so he still regarded me as a role model. Of course, this is inseparable from Jiu Niang's teachings, there is no doubt about it. ”

He knew that the second brother was now in a dead end, and began to doubt himself, this is a normal phenomenon, as long as he figured it out himself, he would actually find that it was really not a big deal.

Lu Lao Er was indeed surprised by his words, he always thought that people must be like the eldest brother and the third brother, have dreams and pursuits, so that they can become a role model for children, but the third brother told him that this is not the case, and if he does his own things seriously, he can also shine.

Just a few words, the things that he had been entangled in for a long time suddenly became clear, with tears in his eyes, he wiped his face to cover up the past, how could the old man shed tears casually? Isn't it a joke to be seen by children?

"Okay, I see, it turns out that I haven't figured it out myself!"

He cracked his mouth and laughed, "I'm not afraid of being laughed at by you, I'm actually quite scared, just like you said that the road is difficult, maybe you will encounter horse bandits, I can't be literate and can't be martial, going out is a burden to others, and I don't want to go out and drag people down." ”

The two brothers said that they were hurtful and sensational, and Sun came over from afar, pointed at the two brothers and scolded: "Didn't the old lady ask you to buy mutton?" Why are you still grinding here for so long, don't you want to eat tonight! ”

The two brothers glanced at each other, hurriedly jumped up from the ground, faced Sun with a hippie smile, and then ran out numbly: "I know, I know, let's go buy it!" ”

"Third child, you stop me! Don't go out and be scary, stay at home and kill chickens and ducks! ”

After arriving home, Lu Baichuan took off the mask, and naturally he was watched by everyone in the family for a while, but his current appearance is much better than at the beginning, not so scary, everyone said a few words of relief, and they didn't think about it anymore.

But Sun was still worried that he would scare the villagers by going out like this, and when the villagers began to chew the root of his tongue again, she didn't bother to explain to those people one by one, so she tried not to let him run out like this.

Lu Baichuan, who ran to the door, glanced at his second brother, and after smirking at his second brother, he touched his nose and came back in a gray way.

"Mother, how many chickens and ducks do you want to kill?"

As he spoke, he began to look for chickens and ducks in the yard, but found that the yard was clean, not to mention chickens and ducks, not even a piece of chicken poop.

Sun looked at him like that and wanted to scold, but it seemed that this was the first time he came back, and he was not very familiar with these at home, so he said: "The chickens and ducks are all raised outside, let Leizi take you to catch them, there are many people in the family tonight, and you will come to the rich brother, four chickens and ducks are almost the same." ”

Lu Baichuan nodded again and again, and called Leizi to catch chickens and ducks together, while Lu Lao Er also drove the carriage to buy mutton.

Lu Lao Er, who untied the knot, hummed a little tune all the way, he thought about it, this is the end of his life, listening to the third brother, accompanying his wife to take care of his parents at home, and also optimistic about these industries in the family, just like they planned at the beginning.