Listening to what she meant, it should be to ask about feelings.

has known each other for so long, and she still knows a little about He Jiuniang.

At the beginning, He Jiuniang was bought back by the Lu family, which is not a good thing, the only thing to be thankful for is that the Lu family is very good, and they have never treated her harshly since they bought her back.

Her husband went with someone on the second day of his wedding, and after many years, the Lu family did not blame her for this fault.

reunited with Lu Baichuan some time ago, and it seems that the relationship between the husband and wife should be good.

Since it's good, why is she asking herself about feelings at this time?

Jiang Ruoya was a little nervous, this child had no mother by her side to teach her since she was a child, and she didn't know much about her daughter's character, so she really couldn't figure out her thoughts for a while.

"You say."

Despite this, she still responded to He Jiuniang with a smile, no matter what, you have to listen to her first.

He Jiuniang thought for a while and said: "Aunt Jiang, you also know about me and my husband, he left home on the second day of marriage, and over the years, my impression of him is only a little more familiar than that of strangers." When we met again some time ago, I wasn't as happy as I thought, and I even selfishly thought that if he never came back, my life might have been easier. ”

"At first, I was polite and distant with him, and I always felt that he suddenly broke into my world, which made me feel a little uncomfortable."

But he has not been involved in flowers and grass outside for many years, but he has devoted himself to making contributions and adding glory to the whole family. It's also very good to me, no matter what, he will ask my opinion before making a decision, and he will never force me to do what I don't want to do, and even this time I went to the capital for so many days, and I could receive letters from him every once in a while. ”

"I'm in a mess and I don't know what my feelings are for him right now. I was happy and excited to see his letter, but the reply to him has been avoiding some emotional problems. ”

"I don't know how to face him now, I don't know how to express my thoughts to him, my whole person is like that mess, I don't know what to do at all......"

As she spoke, she sighed leisurely, feeling that the problem of this relationship was too complicated.

Jiang Ruoya shook her head and smiled helplessly when she heard her words, she could tell that her heart was indeed very chaotic, and even the words she said were very scattered, which was enough to see how tormented she should be.

However, the problem He Jiuniang said was far better than what she thought, she originally thought it was a serious matter, but she didn't expect it to be an emotional problem between husband and wife.

If this is a bad relationship problem, it is indeed a headache, but listening to the meaning of He Jiuniang's words, it is clearly a good situation.

She thought about the wording and said, "Actually, I think that from the time you opened your mouth to tell me this, and explained so much to him, you already had the right answer in your heart, and there was no suspense, you fell in love with him." ”

"Your feelings for him now are not like when you first got married, just to complete the tasks of life and be together, not because he is the dog's father and has some blood relationship, but really fell in love with him as a person."

"The relationship is indeed gradual, from the beginning, when he came back, you had some resistance in your heart, to slowly get along with him, and then to the current love is uncontrollable, there is a specific process, you are attracted by his advantages and personality charm, in addition to all external reasons, you love this person."

"It's just that you've never had this experience, that's why you're as distressed as you are now. Since you came to me, it means that you trust me enough, so I won't hide it from you. ”

"People say that this life is not long, but it is not short, it is not easy to meet such a sincere person, since you have met, don't miss it."

"He is naturally good to you because he has you in his heart, and if you keep running away, he will mistakenly think that you don't have that kind of mind for him. You also said that he will never force you to do something you don't like, if you keep avoiding and not responding positively, maybe he will secretly hide that love in his heart and never show it again. ”

Jiang Ruoya's meaning is obvious, that is, let her seize the opportunity to let the other party know as much as possible, and don't miss such a beloved.

He Jiuniang originally thought the same way, but now she was relieved to hear that Jiang Ruoya was also so supportive.

"But how do I speak? Let me tell him directly, I really can't tell! ”

He Jiuniang sighed, stopped picking vegetables, and pestled her cheeks with a heavy heart, waiting for Jiang Ruoya to give her an idea.

Jiang Ruoya only thought it was funny, her daughter really didn't understand the relationship between men and women, and she didn't know who she learned from because of her upright nature.

"If you can't say it, you don't have to say it, some things don't have to be said, you can show it with practical actions, let him know that you have him in your heart, and that's okay."

As soon as He Jiuniang heard this, she immediately felt that she had found the right person, why didn't she think of it?

Her mind is full of postmodern confessions and the like, and if she loves him, she has to let him know, and she has to tell him out loud.

If they were a very good couple, she could say those intimate words without any pressure, but now that they are in a conflicted and awkward relationship, it is a bit difficult to say.

Therefore, relying on actions to express itself is the only and best way now.

So what exactly should she do?

This specific approach, He Jiuniang actually already has the answer in her heart.

After all, the special clothes she designed have helped many couples enhance their relationship, and it makes no sense that she, the chief designer, will not use it for herself.

Just kidding, she's an all-rounder in the new era, she hasn't eaten pork, and she hasn't seen a pig run?

It's really not good, it's a big deal to get into the space to make up for a few classic episodes, hehehe......

Thinking about it like this, her mood suddenly brightened, and she no longer had the depression and helplessness she had just now.

"Oh, Aunt Jiang, I knew that this kind of thing should be asked to you, you are so good!"

She hugged Jiang Ruoya and jumped and jumped, feeling that she had never been so happy.

"You're right, Shaohua is fleeting, you should cherish the people in front of you, I don't need to be so annoyed."

Before, she had always had a knot in her heart, and she couldn't get along with herself all day long, but now that she thinks about it, Lu Baichuan is also a high-quality man in this era, if she doesn't express her attitude as soon as possible, maybe another woman will intervene.

Wasn't the previous Yufen a case of Ming Huanghuang?

"It's good if you can figure it out, I also give you a little advice based on my years of experience, Lord Lu is indeed a very good husband, you have to cherish it."