Chapter 1106: You Should Be Confident and Assertive
Jiang Jiuniang naturally couldn't be that big wrong, and said with a smile: "Don't worry, even if our business is not fully done, someone needs to dart, we are now doing silk and tea business, and it is in great demand, and we will definitely have to go out next month." ”
This made Chen Fei'er feel a lot more relieved, after all, someone would give money while lying down, and she was indeed a little flustered.
"That's good, Mrs. Lu, thank you very much."
Chen Fei'er smiled heartily, feeling that this was the happiest time since her father and brother's accident.
When the matter was over, Xiao Er also began to serve food.
Jiang Jiuniang beckoned her to eat, and then said, "Okay, now that the business is over, let's talk about private matters." ”
Chen Fei'er was stunned and looked at her with some puzzlement.
Jiang Jiuniang said while giving her vegetables: "Mr. Kang is the enlightenment teacher of several children in my family, and he has known each other since we were in Jingzhou, and the two families have a deep relationship. ”
Chen Fei'er's body stiffened for a while, so, did she really come for Kang Chengzhi?
"But don't be nervous, girl, what we talked about before was about business, and it has nothing to do with the friendship between my family and Mr. Kang, I am a person who has a clear distinction between public and private, and I will not mix it up."
In other words, even if she is really not with Mr. Kang, the cooperation between them can still continue.
And I didn't give Mr. Kang such good cooperation conditions for her because of Mr. Kang's face.
Chen Fei'er nodded to indicate that she knew, and said, "It's impossible for me and him." ”
She was a wanton and free woman, but this was the first time she had shown such a little girl for a man, with a sad face and faint sadness, she had too many concerns, and the love of children was not all she had.
Jiang Jiuniang raised her hand to interrupt her and said, "I'm not here to force you to agree to be with him today, this is your marriage matter, and you should make your own decisions." I was entrusted by Mrs. Kang to mention this matter to you, just to let you see your heart clearly and make a choice that suits you. ”
Jiang Jiuniang laid out the dishes for her, and began to make her own, saying while playing: "When I met Mr. Kang, he opened a private school, and he was a teacher in Daling County. At that time, he was sick, and he couldn't live for three years, and it was precisely because of his health that he delayed the road to the imperial examination. ”
Although he was sick and weak, there were many people who asked him to sign up, and the people loved him very much, saying that he was a good gentleman. I was dressed in tatters and came up to talk to him, he didn't dislike me for being poorly dressed, and he didn't think there was anything wrong with me being a woman but showing my head like this, he patiently answered whatever I asked, and then I registered all the children in the family. ”
"After that, the children also liked to listen to his lectures, he was a very honest and humorous person, the lectures were very interesting, and when the children came back to tell us, we didn't expect such a complex lesson to be so interesting and simple for him to explain."
"After getting along for a long time, I began to treat him, and the family told him a family matter, but the other girl had someone he liked, and the marriage was over, and there was no indiscriminate woman around him after that, until I met Miss Chen."
"I've never seen Mr. Kang so interested in any woman, Miss Chen must be excellent, no matter what reason the girl rejects Mr. Kang, I hope the girl can give him a chance to make the unfinished words clear, so that there are no regrets, right?"
Jiang Jiuniang looked at her and found that she had no appetite for so many delicacies in front of her, obviously she had something in her heart.
"Madam, thank you for telling me so much, it's just that I'm a civilian, and this is the case at home, I ...... Not worthy of him. ”
Now that she is cooperating with Jiang Jiuniang, the brothers and sisters in the bureau have a good place to go, and she can rest assured for the time being.
But her mother was the only one left in the family, and she couldn't let her mother live alone.
She used to think about recruiting a son-in-law, but when she met Kang Chengzhi, she didn't have that kind of plan, Kang Chengzhi was an official and the pillar of the family, she couldn't be so selfish.
It's a big deal that I won't marry for the rest of my life, so it's good to guard my mother like this.
Jiang Jiuniang didn't approve of her words, and said: "Miss Chen's words are bad, you can say that you are not suitable, you have different concepts, or you can't be together because of some insurmountable factors, but I don't want to hear you say that you are not worthy of him." ”
"There has never been any such thing as being worthy or unworthy, Mr. Kang is excellent, he won the imperial examination at a young age and became an official in the court, but where are you missing? You are a girl's family, in this era of many restrictions on women, but you can still stand firm in the national capital with your own strength and feed so many people, you are better than many men, how can you not be worthy? ”
Jiang Jiuniang has seen a lot of such unconfident girls, obviously she is very good, but she always likes self-PUA, and she can't raise her head in front of men, and over time, no matter how good the relationship is, it will break.
Chen Fei'er was stunned, feeling that what Jiang Jiuniang said seemed to be right, but she felt that there was something wrong.
She said weakly: "But he is an official master, and I am just a commoner......
"Who doesn't start with civilians? Aren't civilians people? Wasn't Mr. Kang also a commoner before he became famous? Isn't my family also from mud legs? What's in it? Girl, your idea is not right, a girl like you should be confident and open-minded, not self-doubt everywhere because of your life experience and situation, you have to believe that you are the best, the only one, you deserve to be respected, worthy of being liked. ”
Jiang Jiuniang was sincere when she said this, thinking that she could save a girl in this era, even if she was self-reliant and self-reliant like Chen Fei'er, she still couldn't help but feel inferior, not to mention other girls.
Saving these girls is a long road.
Originally, because of the Dog Emperor's inappropriate affairs, Jiang Jiuniang felt that she couldn't do anything, and she felt bored, but now it seems that there are too many interesting things.
She hasn't really realized the great dream of equality between men and women, hasn't built her own chain of medical schools in this world, hasn't gone overseas to really see what the outside has developed at this time, and there is no need to be in the small place of the national capital to get in the eyes of the dog emperor all day long.
Chen Fei'er felt very excited in her heart, an idol deserves to be an idol, a few words can make her mood instantly clear, what she had been puzzled about before, now she can figure it out without Jiang Jiuniang saying more.
"I see!"
She nodded heavily, happy from the bottom of her heart, today's trip is worth it!
Seeing that she was really happy, Jiang Jiuniang relieved herself and took out a wad of paper from her sleeve and handed it to her.