Since a few babies came to school in the national capital, Jiang Jiuniang rarely took care of their studies, after all, the teaching resources here are the best, and the babies are also working hard, so she doesn't need to say anything more, but now, she has to take action.

She decided to take a few babies out for a walk and have a good enlightenment.

specially explained that they put on brocade clothes and went out to the market together.

A few babies were a little puzzled, but they did so.

Jiang Jiuniang took them around the city, and then went to the poor villages in the countryside to see how different people lived, and did not go home until the sun went down.

"After watching it all day, what do you think?"

Finally, it was time to summarize, and the three of them were a little nervous, they really didn't see any connotation in the third aunt's approach today.

Several people lowered their heads in embarrassment, which was never the case.

Jiang Jiuniang knew that they were educated by the masters in the Guozi Prison, and they had to test their fame and fame, otherwise it would be meaningless to study.

Seeing them like this, Jiang Jiuniang didn't expect them to say anything good, so she changed the question and asked, "Do you remember what I sent you to school for from the beginning?" ”

Jiezi immediately replied: "Auntie said that only by studying can you have a future." ”

Xiaohuzi said: "It's to let everyone live a good life!" ”

Leizi thought about it and said cautiously: "Auntie just wants us to read and write, so that we can have one more way to make a living than others in the future." ”

Jiang Jiuniang nodded: "You are all right, I have said a lot of things, but I have never asked you to be famous, right?" ”

Several people stopped talking, Xiaohuzi was fine, but Leizi and Jiezi were visibly depressed. Jiang Jiuniang continued: "The most important thing in reading is to improve people's self-cultivation, know etiquette and etiquette, and speak with self-cultivation, rather than being like a second-rate person on the street, who will only spray feces when he opens his mouth. As for the test of fame, it is only on the basis of these, if you have the ability, you can try it, and if you don't have the ability, you don't need to force it. ”

"Some people have been testing for fame all their lives, but they have not paid attention to other things around them, and this kind of life is meaningless. Examining fame is only a small stage in a long life, you are going to take the test for Xiucai, and then you have to take the exam for people and jinshi, how should you deal with yourself at that time? Relax, it's not a big deal. ”

Jiang Jiuniang said, patting them on the shoulder, and now, there is not much I can help them.

"Auntie, I want to take the top prize and fight for Lotus and my mother to come back."

Leizi clenched his fists, and his face was very serious.

Originally, he was quite confident in himself, but after he went to school in Guozijian, he heard from the people around him that it was difficult, and the gentlemen repeatedly told him to be careful in reviewing the questions, and after a long time, he gradually lost his confidence.

"Leizi, although I know that you mean well, my aunt still has to make things clear to you. You are taking the merit test for yourself, to fulfill your own ambitions, don't say it's for your mother and Lotus, don't impose such ideas on your mother and Lotus. ”

Jiang Jiuniang was very worried about his thoughts, and in the future, whenever she quarreled over a trivial matter, she said: "If it weren't for you, I wouldn't ......."

Leizi was a little confused, before this, he didn't think there was anything wrong with thinking like this, but when he heard the third aunt say this, he seemed to feel very reasonable.

It has always been his own wish to gain fame, how can it be said that it is for Lotus and his mother?

The people around him are obviously piggybacking, but how can he push these onto them?

"I understand, Auntie, I won't say that next time."

He lowered his head, looking a little guilty, which made people feel unbearable when they looked at it.

But Jiang Jiuniang still said: "Although I know you don't have that idea, it's not right to say so, everything you do is for yourself, and you benefit the most, never do things under the pretext of 'for whom', so not only will your own thoughts change, but the people around you will also be affected by you and have been living in self-blame." ”

"I'm not just saying this to Leizi, but also to the two of you, understand?"

They are all children who have grown up by themselves, Jiang Jiuniang doesn't want them to grow crooked, otherwise the prosperity of the Lu family will not last for a few years.

"We got it."

The three babies nodded again and again, only to feel that every time they chatted with the third aunt, they had a different harvest.

Their parents will not have this awareness, and even if they do, they don't know how to talk to them, so they feel that these are all right, and even go all the way to the dark.

Jiang Jiuniang said again: "You are still young, even if you don't take the exam this time, you can take the exam again next time, in recent years, the court has lacked capable people, and the emperor will increase the number of scientific examinations, you have the opportunity to toss, why bother with these two failures?" If you can't even accept such a failure, it means that your endurance is very weak, and it will be difficult for you to achieve great things in the future. ”

After saying this, the carriage slowly stopped at the door of Lu's house, Lu Baichuan had been waiting for a long time, and when he saw the carriage stop, he took the initiative to step forward to help his daughter-in-law get out of the car.

The three boys in the back followed with a sneering face, although it was not suddenly bright, but the mood was indeed much better than before.

The three of them eagerly followed Jiang Jiuniang and Lu Baichuan all the way, and sent them back to the main courtyard, and then went back separately.

Lu Baichuan felt sorry for her and went out for a day while pregnant, and said: "They are all older, they have their own ideas, and many things are slowly understood, why do you bother with this heart?" ”

Jiang Jiuniang didn't answer his question directly, but asked: "You ran away from home back then, for yourself or me?" ”

Lu Baichuan looked at her, the expression on his face was indescribable, she was not the current her at that time, and the two had just gotten married, how could it be for her?

"For myself, I want to go out and see the outside world and find a chance to get ahead."

"Well, you have a normal idea, but what Leizi said today is that he took the merit test for Lotus and his sister-in-law, but this is not what Lotus and his sister-in-law asked him to do at all, he himself thinks so, and he also opened his mouth to say that it is for them, maybe it doesn't mean anything in your opinion, but in my opinion, it is a very serious matter, this is the beginning of shirking responsibility, when a person begins to shirk responsibility, that person is not far from failure."

Jiang Jiuniang knew that maybe Lu Baichuan couldn't understand her thoughts, and Leizi thought like that was also a sign of concern for her family, but the hidden dangers were really hard to say.

But she underestimated Lu Baichuan's ability to understand, as soon as she said this, Lu Baichuan understood her good intentions, details determine success or failure, and in terms of parenting, he still has to follow his daughter-in-law to learn hard.