Chapter 1231: Concept Infiltration
This is the most realistic and effective method.
Now the family is reluctant to raise their daughters well, but they feel that they have to marry when they are raised, and they are from other families when they are married, and there is really no need to spend money on training, after all, there is no money in the family.
But now Jiang Jiuniang has directly opened up their new ideas, and cultivating her daughter well will not only have a good reputation, but also marry someone with better conditions in the future, and then the bride price can be higher.
Daughters can be cultivated well, and their reputation is outstanding, so it will be much easier for the kid in the family to say that he is a daughter-in-law in the future.
It's a great idea to set it off!
Moreover, what Jiang Jiuniang said is reasonable, the most intimate thing is still the girl, and when she gets older, she can still have a girl to remember, it seems that she is not a bad Yazi.
Several people present were immediately moved, but there were also people who were unmoved, Jiang Jiuniang couldn't care so much, anyway, they reminded so much, whether they were willing or not was their business.
At this time, a person next to him spoke: "I think what Mrs. Lu said is very reasonable, just like the little girl in Sister-in-law Zhang's family, isn't she following the master as an accountant in the city now?" This good day is still to come! We women are not necessarily worse than men! ”
"Oh, that's true! Another day, I will go to the city to see if there are any shops recruiting female workers, and I will send my girl to learn something from me, and it is good to have a long experience! ”
"This is good! Let's make an appointment to go and see it together! ”
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Everyone is very interested, although it is not necessary to send the girl to study, but learning a skill is also the foundation of life, and it can be more valued when you go to your in-law's house in the future.
They are ordinary people, and they don't pay attention to the saying that women can't show their heads in big families, as long as they can make money and support their families!
At this time, an elderly woman said, "All the girls in the house have gone out, so who will do the affairs of the house?" Is it possible for the gentlemen to come back from the field and do things at home? So who's in charge of this family? ”
Jiang Jiuniang knew that there would be such a person, and said with a smile: "Whoever has time to do the things at home will do it, they are all their own family, there is no need to be so clear, the family unites and works together, so that the days can get better and better." ”
"Our family has set up a few workshops in the village of Jingzhou that only accept female workers, and the gentlemen of the family take the initiative to take over the work, feed the chickens and ducks at home in the morning and then go to work in the fields.
"Whoever goes home first at night will cook first, and the people who go home later will wash the dishes after eating, don't care so much, this can also improve the status of our women at home, the in-laws like it, and the husband is also friendly, what's so bad?"
She spoke softly and gently, without any targeted meaning, which made people feel that she was speaking from the bottom of her heart, after all, the life her family is living now is the best proof.
"Yes, yes, I think Mrs. Lu is right! What a majestic general General Lu is outside, when he comes home, he still cooks for Mrs. Lu, what General Lu can do, why can't those men in our family do it? We should learn from the Lu family, so that our days can be better and better! ”
As they spoke, the woman who had just spoken was speechless for a moment, but apparently still disapproving of it, got up and left after a while.
Jiang Jiuniang didn't mind and continued to laugh with the others.
Although everyone didn't say anything more, they made up their minds in their hearts, and after they went back, they told this point of view to the master, and said that it was taught by Mrs. Lu, so that the children can become more talented!
Although it is a bit unkind to let Mrs. Lu take this pot, only in this way can they listen to it.
After all, the little sons of the general's family still do laundry and cook every day, are their children from poor families more expensive than the little boys?
What's not to do?
After bragging about going home, Jiang Jiuniang was in a very good mood, and when the dog saw her coming back, he quickly brought out the washed fruit and said, "Mother, the meal is not good yet, eat a few fruits to pad your stomach first." ”
Jiang Jiuniang nodded and said, "Don't worry, eat late today, wait for your father." ”
"Okay."
The dog didn't ask Daddy if he would really come back for dinner, but his mother said so, and he did so.
Jiang Jiuniang sat in the yard to eat, and the dog practiced martial arts next to her, and she could hear her mother's call at any time.
Jiang Jiuniang saw that her son had to choose a convenient place for her to practice martial arts, her heart was warm, and she remembered bragging to those women today, and couldn't help asking: "Son, when you go out these days, will the children in the village laugh at you for being a boy who washes and cooks at home every day?" ”
The dog is not always doing things at home, and when he is fine, he also goes out to play with the children in the village, although he is now a noble little boy, but he has no temper at all, and everyone is happy to take him a.
"No," the dog shook his head, "they would wonder why I did everything at home, and I told them that it was because my father was not at home, and my mother's pregnancy was very hard, and I needed to take care of it, and I also told them to help my mother do more things, and to protect my sister and sister at home, which is what a man should do." ”
After speaking, he also looked at Jiang Jiuniang showing a row of small white teeth: "Mother, do you say that what I said is right?" ”
"That's right!"
Jiang Jiuniang did not hesitate to give him a thumbs up, and praised him: "It's right, you have read a lot of books and understand a lot of truths, and you need to use it at these times." There are many sons and daughters in the village, and you are already great if you subtly correct these children's ideas and let them try to be good to their mothers and sisters at home. ”
"And usually if they ask you any questions, you can also tell them if you know, many of them don't have the opportunity to go to school, and the knowledge they have learned is also very one-sided, you can take advantage of this time to teach them more correct concepts, as for whether it is useful or not, it can't be controlled by us."
Jiang Jiuniang knows that she can't do much, but this can be regarded as infiltrating some ideas of equality between men and women in these people's lives, and when they want to bully the women in the family, they can remember what they said at this time.
"I know my mother."
Gou'er nodded, during the time he came out with his parents, he had seen many people and things, and finally understood why his mother had always insisted on doing something for women in this era.
In difficult families, some girls are abandoned at birth, and some sell their daughters to rich people as maids, sell them to rich old men as concubines, and even sell them to Qinglou.
The woman has a bad fate, and she still doesn't get preferential treatment at home, let alone what is her fate after being sold?
Because of this, the dog has always thought that if his mother can give birth to a little sister, he will definitely hold the little sister in the palm of his hand and pet it, so that no one dares to bully it.