Chapter 1305 It is said that the husband is the sky
In these years, everyone is persuading and not persuading people to leave, and the status of women is low, once they have a bad reputation, they will be even more sad in the future, and even affect the future of their children.
Even her mother persuaded her to endure it, but she was blind and deceived by this man, and now it is a foregone conclusion, and there is no good way to endure it.
But the noble person I met on the road today asked her why she didn't get along?
Listening to the accent of this family is not local, coming from out of town, has it become easy to be away from other places?
"I ...... I ......"
She opened her mouth, not knowing what to say for a moment.
Jiang Jiuniang looked at the entanglement and embarrassment on her face, guessed what she was hesitating about, and said: "It's cheaper to say that he is leaving, you are a son-in-law, just like a man marrying a daughter-in-law, but you marry a man, this man has bad conduct and harms the family, you can completely divorce your husband." Even if your family is in the middle of the road, but this family is still your master, this man bullies you like this, you can sue people in court, and the government will deal with you directly, and the children are all yours. ”
"Without this gambler, you can fully rely on your own skills to support your mother and children, you don't have to think too much about it, and this is good for everyone in your family."
If a man marries a woman home, if a woman commits seven sins, she can divorce her wife directly, why can't a woman divorce her husband?
"Yes...... But then my reputation will ......."
The woman was very moved, but when she thought of her reputation and the two daughters in the family, she couldn't be so selfish, and she couldn't find her in-laws' family after her daughter, and she lost her mind in an instant.
"Reputation is spread and can be changed artificially. And even if you don't get along, when the daughters reach the age of discussing marriage, people will hear that they have a gambling ghost father in their family, and he will gamble on everything valuable in the family. ”
"On the contrary, if you reconcile with the gambler, live a good life with your children alone, save some dowry for your daughters in a few years, and marry decently in the future, who will say more?"
The woman grasped the point of her words and asked eagerly, "You say that reputation can be changed, how do you do that?" ”
Her face was full of urgency, and you could see that she was very excited.
If there was a way to keep her reputation and dump that useless gambler, she would definitely leave.
Jiang Jiuniang thought about it and felt that she couldn't say a word or two, so she said, "If you believe me, I can help you." ”
The woman looked at her and was a little apprehensive, after all, she was just a stranger with a relationship, what if she was trapped?
Jiang Jiuniang saw her concerns and took the initiative to explain: "Our family is out to play, take a look at the scenery along the way, and are not in a hurry to go to the next place. We're both women, so we'll help some if we can. ”
Anyway, it's just out to play, so why stay here for a few more days?
You can't ruin her plan to travel for a treasure that will not exist in a high probability, right?
Maybe Jiang Jiuniang was too good-looking, somewhat confusing, or Jiang Jiuniang smiled too kindly, which made the woman feel very secure, and the woman hesitated for a while and nodded.
"Madame, you are right, if it were not for him, I would have taken care of my mother and three children at home, fed and clothed them, and even saved for the children's bride price and dowry, but with this person as a drag, nothing can be done."
Her hands were clenched into fists, and her gaze was very determined.
Her attitude made Jiang Jiuniang very pleased, as long as she wanted to change, it would be much easier to do things, but she was afraid of encountering the kind of self-contained and obsessive.
The group entered the city and went to eat together, Danniang originally didn't want to go, but Jiang Jiuniang warmly invited, she still went to eat some with her, and finally the rest, Jiang Jiuniang asked her to pack it back for the children to eat.
Danniang was very grateful, wrapped all the food without soup in oiled paper, and went back to her old mother and a few children, whose family had not eaten for a long time.
This is the best meal she has ever had since her family fell behind.
After eating and drinking, Lu Baichuan took the two children to the inn to settle down, and Jiang Jiuniang accompanied Danniang to buy rice noodles and fabrics.
She bought as much as she could, spent all her few coins and broken silver, and the rest was five taels of silver given by Jiang Jiuniang.
Jiang Jiuniang taught her: "After you go back, you break this silver and hide it in different places, don't tell anyone, it can save your life at a critical time." ”
Danniang nodded, she is now obedient to Jiang Jiuniang's words, whether she can live the life she wants in the future depends on Jiang Jiuniang's help.
After buying the things and putting them in the inn temporarily, Danniang wanted to take Jiang Jiuniang to the gambling house that her men often went to, Lu Baichuan was not at ease, and wanted to go by himself, but Jiang Jiuniang refused: "We two women go shopping, what are you doing with a big man?" ”
Lu Baichuan was speechless, so he could only take the baby at the inn.
After coming out, Danniang said enviously: "Your husband is so good to you." ”
As long as her man is half as good as Lu Baichuan, their life will not become like this.
Jiang Jiuniang took the opportunity to impart experience: "As long as you teach yourself well, you can have any kind of man you want." ”
Danniang doesn't understand, she can only teach her own children, how can she teach her husband?
It is said that her husband is heaven, and it is good that she is not taught by her husband, how can she have the courage to teach her husband?
"If the hard doesn't come, the soft one will come, you have to master the method and use it flexibly."
Jiang Jiuniang's face was full of indifference, and she said again: "But your man can't come soft, you have to come hard, just take a few beatings." But you're no match for him, and you're still off once and for all. ”
Her man is a foreigner, and once the two of them reconcile, the man will be sent back to his hometown, and there will be no more opportunities to disturb their mother and son.
Jiang Jiuniang actually thought about beating the man directly, so that she didn't have to bother to save her reputation, but it was Danniang who suffered like this.
She is still young, maybe she can marry again in two years, if she only cripples the man and does not get along, then she has to take care of the man for a lifetime, so it is not cost-effective.
Danniang nodded, feeling that Jiang Jiuniang was right, as long as she could keep her reputation, harmony was the best choice.
It can be said that the road is narrow, as soon as I arrived at the door of the gambling house, I saw that the man also limped in, but I didn't see them, Jiang Jiuniang pulled Danniang to hide and watched the man go in.
After a while, the man was beaten and thrown out with a blue nose and swollen face, and a big man stepped on his chest and warned: "If you don't pay off the debt you owe before in three days, Lao Tzu will unload a leg!" ”
"Two masters, you borrow me more, I will definitely be able to return to my original ...... today"
The man clenched his hands into fists and begged bitterly, and then he thought of something, and hurriedly said: "My daughter-in-law has made a fortune today, and she has obtained five taels of silver, I will bring it tomorrow to pay off the debt, and the two masters will lend me again!" ”
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