Chapter 1361: I Don't Want to Be the Worst
Peng Yuan never thought that she had used the wrong method, and she always felt that her child was so rebellious, and she couldn't listen to good words, but often went against herself.
Thinking about the group of children in the Lu family, they are more well-behaved and sensible than her son when they pull one out, and the more I think about it, the bigger it gets.
"Sister Jiuniang, it's good that you're back, otherwise I wouldn't know if I really did something wrong. As you said, it was my first time raising a child, I had no experience, and I just wanted to teach my child what I thought was good and right, but I didn't think about whether the child could accept it. ”
Peng Yuan seriously reflected on herself, because she was preconceived, and felt that children should be like dogs and a few of them, so she learned according to her son's head, and taught a lesson if she didn't learn well.
Every time I keep saying that it is good for the child, but what is the good?
"It's not too late for you to know now, raising children is also a science, I'll talk to you about it later. In fact, a child as old as Ke'er should mainly focus on play, and don't always force him to learn things, otherwise it will only backfire. ”
Even if it is a dog, at Peng Ke's age, he is still playing in the mud in his hometown in Changzhou, but Peng Ke has been forced to go to school by his parents, so it is strange that the child is willing to learn.
Peng Yuan took a deep breath and understood.
"I'll tell my old Qin when I get back."
Jiang Jiuniang couldn't help laughing, how long has it been, and the title has been changed from Ah Jian to Lao Qin.
"As long as you have such a child, it is inevitable to be nervous about the child's education, take your time and understand."
Everyone has a first time, but fortunately, it hasn't made much of a mistake yet, just correct it in time.
The two chatted about how to raise children, equal to the Qin family, they also joined the discussion together after they were busy, talking about their own experiences in bringing up a baby, Peng Yuan seemed to have opened the door to a new world, why didn't she think about asking a few more people before?
The women often talked about the children, the men drank and talked about the situation in the court, and the whole Lu family laughed and laughed until very late.
Peng Ke had always hated dogs in his heart before, and thought that he wouldn't like to play with dogs, who knew that dogs took him to climb trees and dig birds' eggs, and his movements were fast and handsome, which instantly fascinated him.
It turned out that the dog's brother learned martial arts to make it easier to dig out bird eggs, but Daddy didn't say that!
Daddy had told him this earlier, he must have gotten up early to learn martial arts, and he wouldn't be able to watch his brothers play under the tree now!
A little person, deep in his heart, wants to learn martial arts and become strong for the first time, at least he can't lose by digging birds' eggs!
After playing with the dog for a night, the little guy was already very sleepy when he went back, but he couldn't help sleeping, and said to Peng Yuan with his spirit: "Mother, I will get up tomorrow morning to learn martial arts!" ”
Peng Yuan was very surprised, she decided not to let her son learn these things for the time being, and let him play for two years first.
Unexpectedly, his son, who has always been reluctant to work hard, took the initiative to say that he wanted to learn martial arts.
Even Qin Jian, who had drunk too much, was a little sober when he heard this, and said in surprise: "Son, are you willing to learn?" ”
Peng Ke nodded: "They can all fly up the tree to dig birds' eggs, but I can't climb up, I don't want to be the worst." ”
He clenched his little fists and was scrappy.
In such an instant, Peng Yuan instantly understood why her sister and brother-in-law sent the prince to the Lu family to raise, close to Zhu Zhechi, the children of the Lu family are very good, let them live together, the advantages will naturally appear, even if they are children, they will have some plans in their hearts, and they don't want to fall behind others, so they start to work hard.
This is much more effective than parents saying a thousand things and ten thousand!
If this were normal times, Peng Yuan would definitely be happy to blow up, and she would have to respond to it, but after taking the scriptures at the Lu family tonight, she was a little cautious, not only did she not respond, but also said: "Wait for my mother to ask you what Aunt Jiu said tomorrow." ”
Peng Ke didn't understand so many twists and turns, and he really couldn't hold back his sleep, but Qin Jian became more and more awake and asked, "What do you say?" ”
Peng Yuan told Qin Jian what Jiang Jiuniang said to herself today.
Qin Jian was shocked: "So, we have both taught it wrong in the past two years?" ”
Peng Yuan nodded bitterly, looked at the son Qin Jian was holding in his arms, and only felt that he couldn't stand him.
"I'll just say why other people's sons are so well-behaved and sensible, my son is the same as the one who came to collect debts, it turns out that I didn't teach well."
Speaking of this, he breathed a long sigh of relief, and his heart felt a lot more comfortable.
"It's pitiful for this kid to follow us, let's make up for it in the future."
The damage that I did before is irreversible, and I can only try to make up for it.
Peng Yuan nodded with red eyes, and said, "We don't know how to teach, it's better to send it to the Lu family and grow up with the children of the Lu family, it won't be bad." ”
The eldest prince also came over like this at the beginning, lived with the dog for a while, and now he doesn't have to worry about his sister and brother-in-law.
"This can be had, I'll ask Bai Chuan tomorrow, I just don't know if my younger brother and sister have just come back, do you have time to help teach."
We talked a lot during dinner tonight, and they all knew that there was something unusual about the people of the island country, and it would not be peaceful for a while in the future, and Jiang Jiuniang was probably busy.
"Occasionally, if you have time to teach two sentences, even if you don't have time to teach, it's good to let Ke'er play with the dog more, you see the effect of tonight for a while, it's more effective than the two of us teaching for the past two years."
Qin Jian nodded again and again: "I think you are right." ”
The two discussed it, and took the baby out of the bed early the next morning and sent it to Lu's house non-stop.
The dog just came back and was going to report to Guozijian, and there was no way to take him with him, so the little guy was arranged to play with Xiangxiang.
Xiangxiang wanted to learn to walk recently, but Jiang Jiuniang felt that she was still too young and it was not necessarily good to walk too early, so she still advocated that she climb more.
When Peng Ke came, he saw Jiang Jiuniang holding a small toy to guide Xiangxiang to crawl on the blanket.
It was the first time he had seen such a cute little sister, white and tender, round and round, grinning and laughing while crawling on the ground with his hands and feet.
Seeing him, Jiang Jiuniang beckoned to him and motioned for him to come over.
Peng Ke walked over a little nervously, Jiang Jiuniang handed him the rattle in her hand, and asked softly, "Can Ke'er help my aunt take care of my sister for a while?" Just guide her to climb more. ”
He nodded and said solemnly, "Okay." ”
Although he is young, he also knows that his father's good attitude towards him this morning is because this Aunt Jiu Niang helped him speak last night.
For the first time, his father solemnly told him that he was sorry and that he would not treat him like before in the future.
He likes Aunt Jiuniang and his little sister.
He stood in front of Xiangxiang with a rattle, shook it, and said a little rustily: "Sister, come here." ”
Jiang Jiuniang saw that he was upright, and immediately got up and slipped away.
The family who was going to go on a blind date with Youya came to the door today, I don't know what the situation is, she has to go over and take a look.