1369 Foresight
Jiang Jiuniang can actually understand her thoughts, although the whole family has been greatly improved now, but in her bones she still feels that she is from the countryside, and she has a little inferiority, such an inferiority complex cannot be eliminated for a while, and can only be slowly relieved in a long time.
And the eldest son is indeed more responsible, and being the housewife is not so easy to be, not every family is as simple as the Lu family, and if you don't have that mind, then you can't force others.
"You think about it well, as long as you are a sister-in-law, your identity will not be bad, and you don't have to bear the pressure of the eldest son, you two can live your own life with peace of mind. Wait, I'll send someone to check the details of these families, and how to talk about it later. ”
Jiang Jiuniang touched her head, preparing to take this list to the Sun family and the Qin family to see.
Especially the Qin family, she is a mother, and this kind of thing can't get past her.
Jiang Jiuniang went to the Sun family's courtyard, the Yu family and the Qin family were here early, and when they saw her, they were very excited, and asked, "How is it, does that girl have a fancy to her?" ”
Jiang Jiuniang handed over the list: "I have selected these few for the time being, I have already sent someone to check the background, family background and everything is secondary, the main thing is that the family background is simple, the backyard is clean, and the girls of our Lu family can't stand that family." ”
Although she didn't say it explicitly, if she wants to marry a girl from the Lu family, she must not have a concubine, not for anything else, just because she is a modern person, she can't stand these three wives and four concubines, and naturally she doesn't want to watch the little girl who grew up go to her in-law's house to be angry.
This should be made clear to the other party when negotiating later, if you can accept it, you will get married, and if you can't accept it, you will find the next one.
The two-legged man is still easy to find.
No matter how bad it is, it's the same to find a scholar from a poor background to come to the door, anyway, the Lu family can afford it.
"The third brother and sister are right, the girls in our family have all grown up with love and love, and they have not suffered any grievances since they were children, and there is no reason to be bullied when they grow up and get married, this background check can be more careful."
Qin nodded again and again, and said with a smile: "Thank you third brother and sister, with your help, I can rest assured." ”
She doesn't know those people in the court, and people don't necessarily give her this face when she comes forward, but Jiang Jiuniang's appearance is different, many families will give her face, and they are willing to marry the Lu family, so you can have more choices.
"It's okay, I also grew up watching Youya, I naturally hope that she can marry a good family."
Jiang Jiuniang couldn't help but sigh in her heart, this person is really selfish, she is reluctant to let the girls in the family get married, and even wants them to recruit sons-in-law, so that the family does not have to separate.
But this is obviously impossible, and you can only think about it.
At this time, Leizi came, and he saluted the elders present, and then asked Jiang Jiuniang: "Third aunt, is there a scholar named Yang Fei on the list?" ”
Jiang Jiuniang just read the list, remembered it vividly, and nodded: "Yes, what?" ”
She also thought that Lei Zi was going to say that this Yang Fei was not a good match, don't think about it, but she didn't expect Lei Zi to introduce him immediately: "This Yang Fei is the nephew of the Guozi Priest Wine, and the family has been clear for generations, and I am also a friend of the same class......
Balabala said a lot and explained Yang Fei's details all over again.
Hearing him say that Yang Fei's father also has only one wife in his family, and there is no Yingying Yanyan in his own backyard, several people present instantly have a good impression of this Yang Fei.
Sun said: "In this way, the conditions of this little boy are very good, but I don't know what other people's families think, but if you want to marry us, you have to find someone to inquire privately." ”
"It should be willing, these are what he personally told me today, and he also said that his mother in the family let him have more contact with me from the beginning, hoping to marry a girl from our Lu family."
Leizi brought the words and continued: "Although I have a good relationship with Yang Fei in private, but this involves my sister's marriage, I think we should check it carefully, I can't listen to all his words, and delay my sister for a lifetime." ”
If this is the case, he will be uneasy as an elder brother all his life.
"I think what Leizi said is right, although this Yang Xiaogongzi is full of sincerity, but we still have to find out and say, it is a matter of the girl's life, but we must not be hasty."
Yu Shi also spoke, although he was already convinced by the conditions that Leizi said, and felt that the Yang family was a good destination, but he couldn't make a decision easily.
"Okay, anyway, I'll send someone to investigate, and the results will be available soon, and then we'll ask you what the girl means, if both sides have no opinions, you can let the Yang family come to the door to propose."
Jiang Jiuniang still has a little impression of the sacrificial wine of the Guozijian, a very interesting little old man, usually very good to dogs, and the Yang family has never been against the Lu family in the court, there is no hatred, they get along well, and it is still very good to be in-laws.
The reason why things have become so simple is that Yang Fei's kid has a high level of understanding, knows the requirements of the Lu family, can basically do it, and takes the initiative to do it, he is very good, and the Lu family is also easy-going, so he has some meaning of hitting it off.
Everyone was very happy, but they didn't tell the news to Youya for the time being, and they were going to wait until they carefully checked the background of the Yang family, otherwise it would be meaningless to know in advance.
And the first thing Yang Fei did after returning home was to talk to his mother about it, Mrs. Yang Bai is a relatively hearty woman, as soon as she heard her son talk about the marriage of the Lu family girl, she immediately clapped her hands and said: "Good guy, fortunately I let you deal with the Lu family in advance, otherwise how could you know about this in advance!" Since the Lu family is interested, then we also have to prepare the things that should be prepared, and it is much more sincere to prepare in advance than to cramming temporarily. ”
Bai Shi said and arranged for the maids around him to prepare, Yang Fei was a little anxious, and shouted: "Mother, don't you go to the matchmaker first?" You haven't even scratched these eight words, why do you have to prepare things! ”
He felt that his mother must be so happy that she was doing things upside down.
"Harm, since you have told the son of the Lu family, then he will definitely tell the elders in the family, maybe someone has been found to investigate our family's background at this time, let's prepare now, and after waiting for someone to find out, show the meaning, let's bring the gifts prepared in advance to the door and invite the matchmaker to the door, so wouldn't it be one step faster than others?"
Bai was complacent, feeling that he was really prescient.
When I told my son that I wanted to find a girl from the Lu family as my daughter-in-law, my son didn't care about it, but now that kid is more anxious than anyone else, what does this mean?
It shows that she has a good eye!