Chapter 384: Milk, That's Too Early, Isn't It?
"Songlin~ What do you think, talk to grandma! Xiduo, I look like a good girl, you have to take advantage of it......"
Li looked at his grandson and asked fixedly, his eyes full of love.
In her opinion, when she reaches the appropriate age, she should do what she should do at the corresponding age.
Although there are restrictions on the legal age of marriage for men and women, it is still necessary to prepare in advance.
Of course, not only the two parties, but also her grandmother had to prepare some things in advance.
Wedding quilts, groom's wedding dresses, embroidered insoles, gold and silver jewelry......
Carefully calculated, he is not young and old, and the Li family has to help him prepare slowly, otherwise it will be too late to prepare, but she doesn't plan to tell her grandson in advance.
This is one of the few things she can do as a grandmother for her grandchildren!
Thinking of this, Li couldn't help but be stunned for a while, and he really didn't know how long his time was.
If you leave, you don't have to be a drag on anyone, but after thinking about it, you are very reluctant to this sensible grandson.
His life is just getting on the right track, and she hasn't watched this child get married and have children?
I don't know when the Li family has begun to remember what happened a hundred years later!
There is indescribable warmth in those old eyes, and just looking at it like this will make you can't help but let down your guard.
Not to mention his own grandson, even if he is a stranger, he is very willing to communicate with such an old man, right?
In the face of grandma's inquiry, Li Songlin naturally chatted with her about this topic slowly.
"Grandma, it's too early!"
"Huh? Silly boy, it's not too early! ”
"Actually, we both plan to continue to study, and we both have careers that we want to do, so we may not be so quick to plan what you are talking about..."
The more bluntly I spoke, the firmer my attitude became.
Grandma Li looked at his expression, how could she not know what kind of attitude he wanted to express.
But even so, she still hoped that he would seriously consider it.
I really have to wait until I have success in my studies and careers before I think about it, after both of them have seen the world of flowers, can that kind of relationship continue? Or can it still be the same as it is now?
No matter boys or girls, who can afford their youth?
They are still young and fine, but they can't help but take this matter to heart, otherwise it is unknown what will happen in the future!
Face it as soon as possible, solve it as soon as possible, and decide as soon as possible, so that you can go on better.
So, Li told him his thoughts little by little.
Experience and academic qualifications are not the same, and in many cases, experience can also allow you to learn a lot.
It carries too many other insights other than academic qualifications, which are worth listening to and understanding.
At this moment, Li Songlin was in such a state, listening carefully to his grandmother's words, his eyes were full of seriousness.
This is also a reason why Li is willing to put himself in his shoes and listen to him.
The others would be impatient when she wanted to speak at length, and one of them left in the end.
There are too few people who can endure to listen to her old man's chatter.
"......, but it mainly depends on how you think about it, you also try to understand more about the child's thoughts, and of course her family's thoughts, don't take it for granted......"
To tell the truth, after meeting Yang Xiduo's child and her mother, the Li family is really satisfied with this granddaughter-in-law.
Not to mention being a lady, she is also beautiful and smart, and she is spoiled by her family.
It is not difficult to see that his family atmosphere is good, and he will definitely be able to marry into the family in the future.
It is no exaggeration to say that the child should be pampered at all times.
Some people come to the world to enjoy happiness as soon as they are born, and Yang Xiduo gave Li such a feeling very intuitively.
After watching the two of them get along for a short time, she still hopes that they can think more about the future of the two.
"Why do you think mom is like this?"
The second uncle and his wife sat next to him, looking at the chatting posture of the grandfather and grandson, and couldn't help but be speechless!
Why does my wife do more and is not so intimate with herself, isn't that stinky boy just looking at it now that he can have a little achievement, how can he ......
The second aunt looked at her husband, only to feel that the corners of her eyes twitched and she was speechless.
I couldn't help but sneer: How can this be the same, if it were me, I would have to confess Li Songlin's child.
In this world, even his own son can't be relied on, and there are really few people who can do Li Songlin's part.
I don't have to say how much I eat and drink, and I will ask my brother to help take care of it.
How many people can do this?
It's all false to say that you don't envy it, but this method of exchanging sincerity for sincerity is not effective for everyone;
"Alas~"
Thinking of this, the second wife's wife couldn't help but think of what she looked like when she got old, and for a while she didn't even want to pay attention to her husband who was waiting for the explanation.
The second child was still waiting for his wife to chat with him, but he didn't accept it directly, which was very embarrassing.
Ahem, cough~
Not only the second husband and wife, but also the other four brothers and their wives are also on the matter.
In two and a half years, they can be said to have witnessed a whole change in the attitude of the old lady.
Now they don't dare to say anything at all, and they won't pay attention to the old lady when they say it.
If it weren't for the sisters and relatives in the village, everyone would have followed Li Songlin's guy to Shanghai to retire!
At that time, when their group of people came back to the village, it would really be a cold pot and a cold stove.
It's funny to say, obviously I didn't do anything, and I didn't think the old lady could help me, but after the comparison, it was simply awkward.
I'm really afraid that this kid will really do that, and when the time comes, the five of them will probably be laughed at by the people in the village.
As vested interests, they will always consider themselves naturally.
You can not care about the ones on the side;
This is probably also a common inertia of most people who are out and about.
Of course, many people are actually selfish by nature and don't have so many twists and turns.
Li is not disappointed in his five sons, but what is the use of being disappointed?
When the husband was still there, he was more filial than the other, and the husband changed completely within a few years of leaving!
To say that Li is not uncomfortable in her heart is all fake, and the resentment in her heart can be described as a lot.
Later, under Li Songlin's relief and arrangement, he slowly stopped affecting his mood for these things and these people!
To be honest, she didn't expect all five sons to be like this;
Li asked herself that she had fulfilled the responsibilities and obligations that a mother should fulfill, and she had a clear conscience.
Since there is no son, it is also excellent to have a grandson.
If you are tired of staying in the village, you can also go to the pine forest to stay at home in the city, and dance the square dance with the old sisters there;
Not to mention, when it comes to square dancing, the Li family is really moved by the carefulness of Li Songlin.
Knowing that she was going to stay for a few days, he asked Wang Lei to take her to Guilin, and he contacted the leading aunt of the square dance over there early to pay the fee!
Money is not money is secondary, but this child's behavior is really nothing to say.
In this life, when you are young, you can be spoiled by your husband, and when you are old, you can have grandchildren to protect you, this kind of life is already the best, and I don't feel that there is anything to be dissatisfied with.
When their grandparents and grandchildren were seriously discussing the matter of marriage, Li's father and mother Li Muchen also saw this scene.
For Li Muchen, this is undoubtedly an extremely test for him.
In short, this year may be the same as chewing wax for him!
A person who obviously wants to ignore it, but when the other party's sense of existence becomes more and more intense, he can't help but compare with it, and that feeling is simply not too uncomfortable.
This is probably the most intuitive tangled mentality he has had in more than two years!
"Are you alright? Tatsuko~"
Mother Li subconsciously looked at her youngest son, her eyes full of worry.
"It's okay, I..."
opened his mouth, he wanted to say something, but looking at the well-behaved appearance of the young man opposite, he couldn't stop it for a while.
All of a sudden, I don't want to say anything!
"You, what did your mother tell you on weekdays;"
Father Li watched his wife talking to his son in a low voice, and couldn't help but look over curiously.
"What kind of lawsuit are you two fighting, can't you say it loudly? I want to hear about it too! ”
“……”
“……”
The voice was so loud that everyone else couldn't help but look over, and at this moment, Li Mu and Li Muchen were speechless.
You don't have to be so loud, the two are not deaf.
For a while, I didn't want to speak!
Grandma Li and Li Songlin also noticed the movement of Father Li's side, but they tacitly ignored the past.
I wasn't affected by that side at all, and I still talked about whatever I should have said.
At this time, after listening to his grandmother's experience, Li Songlin unconsciously had more ideas that he had never had before.
Of course, Li didn't blindly put pressure on him, but let him think about it himself.
As soon as this topic was raised, Li Songlin had a different kind of thought.
Maybe...... (omitted~~~)
Next, the Li family and the whole family spent the New Year together and spent a complete New Year together.
Not to mention, there is nothing lacking in the countryside, that is, there is no shortage of food and fruits.
Because of the large number of people, drinking and playing cards together, it seems that this year is lively and enjoyable
However, on the third day of the Lunar New Year, everyone began to leave one after another, and the general trend was to go to the outside first, and finally go directly back to the city to start the new year.
Take a break in the city for a while, and then wait for the start of work, which is about the same every year.
Since the Chinese New Year of the second year, Li Songlin has not gone to visit his grandmother's house with Li's father and Li mother, basically he goes alone.
As Father Li hoped, each one should go his own way, and no one should disturb the other.
It can be said that as long as they don't come to him, Li Songlin will never take the initiative to touch the mold.
That's almost as far away as you can get, after all, no one wants to be unhappy, does it?
After coming and going, Grandma also knew something.
But in the end, they couldn't resist their daughter, so they could only act as if nothing had happened, but their guilty eyes and more intimate attitude proved that they knew!
After both sides confirmed that they had nothing to do with each other, Li Songlin was also very single, and he didn't have the slightest idea of covering them up.
This is the case, and there is really nothing to hide;
He can't hide it for a lifetime, let alone hide it for a lifetime, it's really enough to isolate himself, and he doesn't want to make himself uncomfortable like that.
There is no need to embarrass yourself for the so-called "family harmony", which is too tiring.
Even if it was the lobbying of the elders of the foreign family in the back, he basically listened to it.
didn't follow their intentions at all, and in the end it can be said that they dispersed without panic.
For Li Songlin, it's good to pass that stage, anyway, no one will stare at other people's homes twenty-four hours a day, right?
This time after the Chinese New Year, it is the beginning of a new year.
Naturally, he is also ready to face his brilliant future life with a new look.
With the passage of time, it is not difficult for Li Songlin to find that his social circle is getting bigger and bigger!
How do you know?
Probably after returning to the magic capital to go to school, I never stopped to have dinner with friends.
It's also possible that the chat prompts on your phone have been interrupted.
Rao has been streamlined a lot, but it still looks like it's too much.
Of course, he carefully read the New Year's greetings of others one by one, and then replied with blessings.
Being able to know a game itself is fate, so why not be careful?
Treating people with sincerity, living seriously, and living your life well is a very comfortable state in itself.
If he could, Li Songlin hoped that he could remain so pure.
Being able to keep it simple and pure is also a skill in itself.
There is never a shortage of people who have been smoothed out in life, and it is not impossible to have the ability to live wantonly.
Li Songlin also has a clearer plan for his future with the passage of time.
As for the ones that Grandma Li talked about with him, he planned to take another look.
Although he likes Xiduo very much at this stage, that kind of liking has not yet reached the step of getting married early.
It's only been a semester together, there's no need to talk too much about everything, let's talk about it everywhere!
Yes, in his opinion, whether it is study, career, or love, you should not be in a hurry.
People who work too hard may not be able to go far, and many times they just tighten their strings too tightly, that's all.
Relax when it's time to relax, work hard when it's time to work hard, and relaxation is just right.
This is true of everything, and it is undoubtedly a process of seeing the details.
Li Songlin also knows that he is still far from it, and there are still many aspects to learn.
Thinking of this, he arranged his time more reasonably than before.
And with the company of Xiduo, the relationship between the two of them is getting better and better!
I also had a clear understanding of each other's intentions, and then we worked together.