As soon as Qinghong's mother finished saying this, Wu Qinghong was next to her and said angrily: "Mom, what are you talking about? ”

"Of course, it's the right thing!" Qinghong's mother glanced at Wu Qinghong.

"Qinghong, since the two of you are in love, I don't want to beat the mandarin duck and be that wicked person.

However, since you both live together, you should get married early.

After getting married and having a name, you will continue to live together, and no one will gossip, will you?

And your dad can also have an explanation, so he doesn't have to worry about this and that all day long.

Now that everyone is here, let's talk about it as soon as possible and give the matter of marriage, this is also the proper meaning, isn't it? ”

Wu Qinghong lowered her head and said softly: "Mom, I, I don't want to get married for the time being." ”

"Why?" Zhao Meifen frowned, "Don't you like him very much, and he likes you too?"

Since you both like each other, why don't you get married? ”

"This, this, I ......" Wu Qinghong's face turned red, but she didn't know how to say it for a while.

How to say it, in fact, in Wu Qinghong's heart, she also wants to marry Cao Zhiqiang as soon as possible.

It's just that she knew that Cao Zhiqiang didn't want to get married, and she didn't want to embarrass Cao Zhiqiang, so she subconsciously defended Cao Zhiqiang and said against her will that she didn't want to get married.

Just asked her to say why she didn't get married, and she didn't know what to say for a while.

"Auntie!" Cao Zhiqiang suddenly said, "Don't be embarrassed, let me talk about it." ”

"Oh?" Zhao Meifen looked at Cao Zhiqiang, "What do you want to say?" ”

Cao Zhiqiang first gave Zhao Meifen a simple and kind smile, and then said: "Auntie, to tell you the truth, as far as I am concerned, I really want to marry Qinghong, and I really want to get a marriage certificate with her immediately."

However, for the sake of Qinghong, I can't marry her, at least not now! ”

"Why?" Zhao Meifen asked, "Why can't you marry her now?" ”

"There are many reasons for this." Cao Zhiqiang said.

"First of all, there's the issue of age.

Auntie, Qinghong and I are both nineteen years old now, and Qinghong is a few months older than me.

Although the age of nineteen is also an adult, according to the new marriage law, neither of us is under the legal age of marriage.

Under the legal age, we can't get a license, so this marriage has no legal effect. ”

"What's this?" Cao Jiajia suddenly interjected, "You two can get married first and go through the ceremony, go back and wait until you are old enough, and then go to reapply for a marriage certificate, we have a lot of them over there." ”

"Yes, your sister is right." Zhao Meifen also nodded.

"It's easy to say what a marriage certificate is, the key is the marriage ceremony, that is, the wedding.

As long as the wedding is held and everyone knows that you are married, then it will be fine, and no one will say anything about you.

After all, the law is the law, but outside the law, there is also a personal feeling, right? ”

Cao Zhiqiang smiled and said: "That's right, that's called a de facto marriage, and that's okay, but this involves what I'm going to talk about." ”

"What's next?" Zhao Meifen frowned and asked.

Cao Zhiqiang smiled: "Auntie, don't worry, listen to me speak slowly." ”

After a pause, Cao Zhiqiang said with a straight face: "Auntie, that's right, if we are just ordinary people who don't have any pursuits, or if we are in the small county where you used to live, then we will get married before we are old, even if we don't get a license, there is no big problem."

The problem is, we don't want to live like this.

Let's not talk about me first, let's talk about Qinghong.

Qinghong is now studying at a high school here, you know that, right? ”

Zhao Meifen nodded: "Yes, I know, thank you." ”

"What's this, it's all as it should be." Cao Zhiqiang smiled.

Immediately afterwards, Cao Zhiqiang said with a serious face: "But Auntie, I spent so much effort to let Qinghong borrow to go to high school, what is it for?" Of course, it's for her to go to university!

Let Qinghong be admitted to university smoothly, which is also what you two want to see, right? ”

Seeing Zhao Meifen nodded, Cao Zhiqiang said again: "You can go to college, there is a hard and fast rule, that is, you are unmarried!"

In other words, if you are married, you are not allowed to go to college, even if you are admitted.

And this unmarried is not only for legal marriage, but also for de facto marriage!

So, if I and Qinghong are married now and have a wedding ceremony, then we have a de facto marriage.

In this way, if Qinghong is admitted to college in the future, then she will not be able to go to college. ”

"Is there such a rule?" Cao Jiajia frowned and said, "Can't you?" I remember a colleague who got married, and then went to college after he was admitted to college. ”

Cao Zhiqiang smiled: "Sister, you are the old yellow calendar, and you are talking about seven or eight years and seven or nine years, mainly about the two years after the resumption of the college entrance examination."

But in fact, as early as the 80s, there was a new rule in the college entrance examination, that is, only unmarried people can go to college, and married people cannot go to college.

Therefore, if I marry Qinghong now, even if I only have a de facto marriage and do not get a license, it will be the same, neither of us can go to college.

I'm okay, I'm happy with my current job, and it doesn't matter if I don't go to college.

But Qinghong can't do it, she must go to college.

So for the sake of Qinghong, for the sake of her future, even if I am anxious, I have to endure it first. ”

Cao Jiajia was stunned, and turned her head to look at Zhao Meifen, who was speechless: "Meifen, is it really not allowed to get married when you go to college now?" ”

Zhao Meifen frowned: "I don't know much about this, I haven't inquired about the specifics." ”

Cao Zhiqiang smiled: "That's okay, you can inquire." It's easy to inquire about this, and then you'll know if I'm lying. ”

"Mom." Qinghong suddenly said, "Zhiqiang didn't lie, this thing is true." Now in the college entrance examination, unmarried is a rule, and the university does not admit married people, even if you pass the test, it is useless.

In addition, if you hide the fact that you are married and reluctantly sneak into the university, if you are reported afterwards, after being found out, you will not only be deprived of your identity as a college student, but you may even go to jail. ”

"So serious?" Zhao Meifen asked.

"It's that serious." Qinghong said, "This is the capital, it's the capital, the rules are strict, it's not our small place, you can just find someone to fool around, it's different." ”

"Okay." Zhao Meifen sighed, "Even so, but you live together unclearly, no name or division, what does this look like?" ”

"Auntie, times have changed!" Cao Zhiqiang said with a smile.

"The old-fashioned concept is no longer feasible for us young people."

"Now there is innovation and opening up everywhere, and there are new people, new things and new atmosphere everywhere.

What you take for granted today may become a thing of the past when you get up tomorrow.

The key to Qinghong and I being together is a good relationship, not a marriage contract or a wedding.

In other words, whether the two can be together for a long time is not to see whether they are married, but whether the two people are willing to be together.

If the relationship between the two of us is good, even if we don't get married, we still envy others.

But if the relationship between the two of us is not good, even if we get married, can we still divorce?

So, what is married or not, that's a formality.

You say that marriage is important, it is very important, but if you want to say that it is not important, it is really not important.

Just like those educated youths who went to the countryside, many of them not only got married in the countryside, but also had children.

But once I heard that I could go back to the city, but I couldn't take my wife and children with me, didn't I leave my wife and children behind, and I went back to the city alone, became a city man again, and married a new wife?

So this marriage, now it can't bind people, only feelings and conscience can bind people.

It's like me and Qinghong.

Although Qinghong and I are not officially married, we are like an ordinary couple.

Look at this big house, it's good, the location is good, and the furniture and appliances are complete.

Qinghong is here for me, except for eating and lodging.

I give Qinghong personal pocket money every month, at least 500 yuan!

In these years, how many people can get 500 yuan of pocket money every month?

Isn't that enough to show my love and sincerity?

In addition, I can also make a package ticket with you here in front of my sister.

When Qinghong is admitted to college and graduates from college, regardless of whether I am married to Qinghong at that time, I will immediately transfer the house to Qinghong.

My love for Qinghong, plus a set of furniture and electrical appliances, in the courtyard within the second ring of the capital, is not more reliable than any marriage ceremony? ”

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