Qiao Simei's crying, making trouble, and complaining like this instantly made the three Cao family members in the banquet feel embarrassed, but the direction of the embarrassment was slightly different.

As Qiao Simei's own sister, Cao Lili's embarrassment is the simplest, that is, she simply thinks that this sister is too embarrassing, and she actually quarrels with a group of children on this occasion, and she still runs to cry and make trouble when she loses, which is too unreasonable.

Cao Zhiqiang's embarrassment was a little complicated, but he didn't think too much about it.

He just felt that it was his own nephew who bullied Qiao Simei, and his nephew's mother was watching here, the palms and backs of his hands were full of meat, and it was not appropriate for him to help anyone.

In other words, if it was other adults who bullied Qiao Simei, and Qiao Simei was reasonable, Cao Zhiqiang would have stood up and vented his anger to Qiao Simei.

But it was his two nephews who bullied Qiao Simei, the most important of which were children, and they were just verbal bickering, and they didn't do anything, so it was difficult for them to come forward.

It's not that Cao Zhiqiang has any special feelings for those two nephews, and he looks at those two nephews.

But Cao Zhiqiang thinks that this is a problem between a group of bear children.

It is best for children to solve their own problems, and it may only be counterproductive for adults to intervene rashly.

Although Qiao Simei behaves like a little adult all day long, she is a ten-year-old child after all.

Such a child, if you listen to her words as adults, then there is really something wrong.

Compared with Cao Lili and Cao Zhiqiang, Cao Jiajia's embarrassment is a little more complicated, or the most complicated.

Because Qiao Simei's accusations are against her two children, and it seems that she is still her own child talking nonsense, saying that outsiders are not outsiders, and making others cry, which makes Cao Jiajia a little unbearable.

You must know that Cao Jiajia's two children are not sensible, which does not mean that Cao Jiajia is also not sensible.

Yes, in terms of blood relationship, Cao Jiajia and Cao Zhiqiang are indeed sisters and brothers, theoretically speaking, the relationship between Cao Zhiqiang and Cao Jiajia should be better than the relationship with Cao Lili and that Qiao Simei.

But in fact, the relationship is not counted like this.

In addition to blood kinship in this world, there are other similar feelings, which are not necessarily worse than blood relations.

To put it bluntly, Cao Jiajia hasn't been back for more than ten years, and she is a girl who married outside, in a sense, she is no longer a serious Cao family, and it is no worse to say that she is an outsider.

Why did Cao Jiajia insist that this family banquet should be performed by the Cao family surnamed Cao? Isn't it just to use this way to highlight that he is the Cao family and pull in the relationship with Cao Zhiqiang?

To be more precise, although Cao Lili and Cao Zhiqiang are not related by blood, they have lived together for a long time, take care of each other and care about each other, and they have long been not brothers and sisters, but better than brothers and sisters.

is aware of this, Cao Jiajiacai praised Cao Lili in various ways, in fact, she wanted to get Cao Zhiqiang's affirmation and consolidate her position through the way of recognizing her relatives.

In this sense, although Qiao Simei is not a member of the Cao family, she has also lived here for a long time, and her relationship with Cao Zhiqiang is definitely deeper than her own sister, not to mention the two nephews.

Therefore, if you look at the distance of the relationship, one of the people here is counted as one, it must be Cao Lili and Cao Zhiqiang who have the closest relationship, followed by Qiao Simei, and then her sister.

As the saying goes, if you don't want it, you are strong.

If Cao Jiajia has nothing to ask for Cao Zhiqiang, of course she doesn't have to care about this.

But the problem is that Cao Jiajia has something to ask for Cao Zhiqiang, and now the plan is to rely on this younger brother.

Whether it is Cao Jiajia's food, clothing, housing and transportation, or work arrangements, or her husband's job transfer and children's schooling, now she has to count on Cao Zhiqiang.

This pile is one by one, and none of them is easy to do.

Why did Cao Zhiqiang have to work so hard to do this? Isn't that just thinking of that family affection?

But if there is a problem with this family relationship, Cao Zhiqiang feels that his sister does not know what to do, then it will be troublesome.

If Cao Zhiqiang really left it alone, then Cao Jiajia's family would be in big trouble, and there would be no way out.

Thinking of this, Cao Jiajia immediately put the chopsticks on the table, and stood up violently with a blue face.

At this moment, Qiao Simei, who was crying, was startled, and instinctively leaned towards her sister.

Sure enough, at the really critical time, Qiao Simei trusted her sister the most.

"It's too much!"

After Cao Jiajia said this sentence with a blushing face, she immediately looked at Qiao Simei: "Simei, don't be afraid, Auntie asked you, did Wen Fang and Wen Xuan really say that about you?" Are you really an outsider? Not from the Cao family? ”

"Hmm!" Qiao Simei's face was full of tears, and she nodded cryingly, "That's what they said!" They also said, my surname is Qiao, not Cao, and I can't come here to eat with you, so I'm not from the Cao family, I'm an outsider, and I'm not as good as them. ”

As soon as she heard this, Cao Jia patted the table angrily, and then began to slowly roll up her sleeves: "Okay, dare to say that?" You wait, I'll give you a breath, I'll beat these two bunnies to death! ”

After speaking, Cao Jiajia, who rolled up her sleeves, was about to rush out.

Seeing this situation, Cao Lili was the first to be anxious, and she also stood up and said, "Sister, don't!" It's not a trivial matter. ”

Cao Zhiqiang blinked, and immediately stood up, just blocking Cao Jiajia's way: "Sister, don't go, children are making trouble, what are you adults making trouble with?" ”

"Zhiqiang, get out of the way!" Cao Jiajia blushed, looked at Cao Zhiqiang who blocked the door, and said, "The so-called godson before people, and the so-called habitual son is like a murderer!"

These two bunnies dare to talk like that, I have to clean them up in public!

Otherwise, they don't know how to remember!

Get out of the way, I'm going to beat them to death this time! ”

Cao Zhiqiang did not leave, but directly held Cao Jiajia's shoulders with both hands and did not let Cao Jiajia go.

Immediately afterwards, Cao Zhiqiang persuaded: "Sister, I understand your intentions, but the old saying is not necessarily true."

Let's just talk about Wen Fang and Wen Xuan, if you really said those words, it would be inappropriate, but the lesson in public will be over.

Although they are small, they also have self-esteem, and if you teach them in front of so many of us, they will definitely feel embarrassed and uncomfortable, and their self-esteem will definitely be hit. ”

"Huh, shame? It's uncomfortable, that's it! Cao Jiajia said loudly, "When they gang up to bully Simei, why don't they want to think about the feelings of other Simei?"

Hmph, all of them are bigger than Simei, but they gang up to bully a little girl, is this like a word?

I see, it has been out for a long time, and the temperament is wild.

Zhiqiang, you dodge, don't worry about this!

There are filial sons under the stick, I have to clean them up today, otherwise how can I explain to the little girl? ”

Cao Zhiqiang once again tried hard to stop Cao Jiajia from continuing to go out.

"Sister, you sit down first, sit down and say!"

After forcibly pressing Cao Jiajia on the chair he was sitting on, Cao Zhiqiang said:

"Sister, what you said is right, the child has a problem, it must be educated, and sometimes it has to be beaten.

But I still have to say that it is okay to educate children, but we must also pay attention to ways and means, especially not to beat children in front of us.

Why?

Because this will give children a deep psychological shadow, make them hate us, and may even backfire, causing them to rebel. ”

"What then?" Cao Jiajia said indignantly, "Could it be that they bullied Simei and didn't care?" ”

"Of course you can't ignore it." Cao Zhiqiang looked at Qiao Simei, who was no longer crying, "But you can't beat the child in public." ”

After a pause, Cao Zhiqiang said: "That's it, sister, you are here to dissipate your anger first, I'll go out and have a look and ask about the situation."

If it's really their fault, then I'll try to persuade them first and let them come and apologize.

If I don't listen to these two children, you wait for us to leave, and then you can beat them as much as you want, you can open the flowers when the buttocks see blood, but just don't beat us in front of us, how about it? ”

Hearing this, Cao Jiajia frowned, and then nodded: "Okay, you are their uncle, you can try, if they don't listen to you, I will beat them up when I turn around, and I will definitely give you an explanation to Simei!" ”

As soon as Cao Zhiqiang heard this, he understood that the main reason why Cao Jiajia was so excited and angry, or the reason why she did this, was to give herself an explanation.

To put it bluntly, Cao Jiajia is so angry because she is afraid of offending herself, and it is also for her own face, never for the sake of her children.

But that's normal, isn't that what the adult world is like?

But Cao Zhiqiang didn't want to let a few children suffer a fat beating that they shouldn't have because of these things.

What kind of person is a godson before, a filial son under the stick, in Cao Zhiqiang's opinion, it is all bullshit.

Cao Zhiqiang also came from a child, and when he was a child in his previous life, he was also beaten by his father in front of a group of people.

Cao Zhiqiang still remembers the situation at that time, and the unforgettable shame is really uncomfortable.

The so-called godson in front of people, to put it bluntly, is just for the face of adults, but it ignores the hearts of children.

Educating children is not like this.

Cao Zhiqiang can't control others, but his own relatives, he still wants to try to save it.

At the very least, we must first ask people about the real situation, and then we should be reasonable, and it will not be too late to fight if the reason does not make sense.

Qiao Simei's previous remarks were just her words, and they may not necessarily be the truth of the matter.

Others don't know Qiao Simei, but Cao Zhiqiang understands her too well, this is a product who has not been worried since childhood.

So the more this time, the more you have to calm down, figure things out first, and then what to do, you can't just assume that what Qiao Simei said is right.

Sure enough, being persuaded by Cao Zhiqiang, Cao Jiajia was also temporarily discouraged.

Also, speaking of which, if it weren't for her own face and Cao Zhiqiang's thoughts, Cao Jiajia would be reluctant to beat her own children.

Now that Cao Zhiqiang said so, Cao Jiajia is of course willing to borrow the slope to get off the donkey.

In this way, Cao Zhiqiang asked Cao Jiajia to continue to sit and comfort Qiao Simei, and he himself went out of the house and came to the small table where Xia Wenfang and Xia Wenxuan's sisters and brothers were.

Seeing Cao Zhiqiang suddenly appear, Xia Wenfang and Xia Wenxuan were a little uneasy.

Also, although they looked calm before, they also knew that this uncle could not be offended, and they also knew that Qiao Simei had gone to sue before.

It's just that they thought that their mother would help them settle down like in the past, but they didn't expect that it was their uncle who came out now, and their mother didn't come out, which was a little unsettling.

Seeing the scared expressions of the two children, Cao Zhiqiang smiled first: "Don't be afraid, I just came to find out the truth of the matter." “

Speaking of this, Cao Zhiqiang, who had already walked in front of the two children, took the initiative to sit down on a stool, and then smiled at Xia Wenfang and Xia Wenxuan, who were standing opposite:

"In this way, you will tell your uncle the cause and effect of the conflict between you and Qiao Simei just now, okay?"

Seeing Cao Zhiqiang's kind face, not like he had come to Xingshi to ask for guilt, Xia Wenxuan and Xia Wenfang glanced at each other and nodded.

Immediately afterwards, Xia Wenxuan, the younger brother, was the first to speak, and Xia Wenfang added beside him, telling what happened before bit by bit.

Of course, these two children are not stupid, they focused on saying that Qiao Simei was looking for trouble first, forcing them to call her aunt, and they had to be inferior to her, they were not happy, so they ridiculed each other.

As for saying that Qiao Simei is an outsider, he skipped it lightly, not because he didn't talk about it, but he only said it just to anger her, because he couldn't get used to her arrogant appearance.

After listening to the cause and effect, Cao Zhiqiang probably understood.

Speaking of which, this is indeed Qiao Simei's first fault.

Obviously, Qiao Simei is younger than these two children, and it is the first time they have met, and the relationship is not deep, but they have to call themselves aunts and want to be elders.

In the eyes of children, this must be a great shame, of course, not happy.

"I see." Cao Zhiqiang nodded, "Qiao Simei said that as soon as she came up, it was a bit too much for you to call her aunt, but if you don't call her, how can you bully her and say that she is an outsider?" ”

"I'm not wrong." Xia Wenxuan was unconvinced, "Her surname is Qiao, not Cao, she is not from the Cao family, of course she is an outsider!" Is it wrong to tell the truth? ”

Cao Zhiqiang smiled slightly: "That's right, she is not surnamed Cao, but she is my sister's sister, and I have always regarded her as my own sister, so from this point of view, Qiao Simei is my family, not an outsider."

Your mistake lies in not understanding the truth, and then you define others without authorization, and label others without authorization, which is a mistake!

If you are wrong, you must admit your mistake.

In this way, you go back with me to apologize to her, admit your mistake, and this matter will be over, okay? ”

Xia Wenxuan frowned and said, "Then isn't it wrong for her to ask us to call her aunt?" Hmph, we have to be our elders and be a head above us, right? ”

Cao Zhiqiang smiled: "Strictly speaking, it's not wrong for Qiao Simei to ask you to call her aunt, because in terms of seniority, she is my sister and I am your uncle, so she thinks she is your aunt, there is nothing wrong with this." ”

Speaking of this, seeing Xia Wenxuan's face flushed, and he seemed to be a little unconvinced, Cao Zhiqiang said again:

"Of course, although this is the case in theory, Qiao Simei is indeed younger than you and is not very familiar with you, but as soon as they meet, she shows off the prestige of her elders and has a bad attitude towards you, which is indeed her fault.

Her fault lies in her disrespect for you and her arrogant attitude, which is also the trigger for this conflict.

So, one yard is one yard, you have to admit your mistakes, and you have to admit her mistakes.

And I personally think that Qiao Simei's mistake is a little bigger, after all, she found fault first.

But after all, she's the youngest, isn't she?

The younger you are, the more ignorant you are, and the easier it is to say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing.

You're a big kid, so you can't be like a child younger than you, right?

In this way, you go and apologize to Qiao Simei first, and then I will ask her to apologize to you.

The two sides apologized to each other and got back together, okay? ”

Xia Wenxuan frowned and pouted, as if he was still a little unconvinced.

But Xia Wenfang, who was older and more sensible, tugged Xia Wenxuan's sleeve at this time, and then shook his head at Xia Wenxuan.

Seeing his sister like this, Xia Wenxuan took two deep breaths, and then nodded reluctantly: "Okay, since my uncle said so, I, I'll just listen." ”

"Good!" Cao Zhiqiang smiled and touched the top of the two children's heads.

"Come with me, it's better to settle the dispute, it's just a little conflict, apologize to each other, and we'll still be good friends in the future!"

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