As soon as she heard Wu Zemin say this, Zhao Meifen immediately frowned.

"I don't like to hear this, how can I call the door not the right one? Xiaocao is also a child of workers, not a descendant of capitalists, and they are all urban hukou, why is it wrong with us? ”

Wu Zemin shook his head: "I didn't mean that, I mean, do you think our family is suitable for the Cao family?" ”

"How is it not appropriate?" Zhao Meifen said, "We are daughters, and women are going to marry high, what's the problem?" ”

"Big problem!" Wu Zemin waved his hand.

After taking a deep breath, Wu Zemin, who sat up completely, frowned and said: "This Cao Zhiqiang, he is young, his parents are dead, although he still has a sister, that is, that Jiajia, but it is reasonable, that Jiajia can't control Cao Zhiqiang at all."

Cao Zhiqiang, like our daughter, is only nineteen years old, but he became famous too early, he is in a high position, and he still has a lot of money in his hand, which is easy to inflate.

We all came from a young age, and you should know that young people are not qualitative.

If you like this today, you might like that tomorrow.

If you like one person and then like another person, you are often unable to do it, and you are constrained by various conditions, so you naturally can't act arbitrarily.

But Cao Zhiqiang is different.

He is young and promising, rich, powerful and famous, and he still lives in the capital, so how many temptations and how many beautiful little girls he has to meet in the future.

Our family is good, but to tell the truth, she is also outstanding in our place.

If she goes to a big city, she will be an ordinary child, nothing. ”

"How can you say that about your own daughter." Zhao Meifen frowned and said, "Also, what do you want to say?" ”

Wu Zemin shook his head and said: "Of course I am towards our family, as for what I want to say, I just want to say, Cao Zhiqiang, this kid is too tall, our Qinghong is a little too high, and if we insist on climbing high, the future may not be good." ”

"You!" Zhao Meifen was about to say something, but when the words reached her mouth, she swallowed back again, and just sat aside and was silent.

Looking at Zhao Meifen's appearance, Wu Zemin nodded: "It seems that you have also thought of it." ”

After sighing, Wu Zemin continued to analyze: "Meifen, do you remember Xiaogen? ”

"Of course I do." Zhao Meifen nodded.

Wu Zemin continued to sigh: "Actually, Xiaogen's child is good, if he wasn't from the countryside, if he wasn't from Shanghai, if I had always hoped that Qinghong would return to Shanghai, I wouldn't have to stop them."

But the fact is that they are really not suitable, if Qinghong follows Xiaogen, she will have to stay in that small county town for the rest of her life, I don't want Qinghong to live that kind of life. ”

"That Xiao Cao is from the city." Zhao Meifen said, "Although he is not from Shanghai, he is also from Beijing, no worse than Shanghai, this is always okay, right?" ”

"Listen to me!" Wu Zemin shook his head.

After spitting out the wine, Wu Zemin continued: "Xiao Cao and Xiao Gen are exactly two extremes.

If Xiaogen is not worthy of our family's Qinghong, then Xiaocao's is not worthy of our family's Qinghong.

This marriage is not child's play, let alone love, but firewood, rice, oil and salt, and human affection, which is a matter of two families, not just two people.

You said that if the situation between the two of us is not much different, I won't say anything, but the gap between Xiaocao and Qinghong is too big.

Xiao Cao is rich, powerful, and talented, and it is not an exaggeration to call him talented, and I have never seen such a brilliant young man as him.

But we are Qinghong, except for being beautiful and obedient, I really can't think of anything else that is outstanding.

Why did Xiao Cao fall in love with Qinghong in the first place? Isn't it because she's beautiful?

can look old, the beauty of the girl, it's only a matter of more than ten years.

After more than ten years, after Qinghong is thirty years old, it is not as young and beautiful as now, can Xiaocao continue to like Qinghong?

At that time, Xiao Cao was still in the prime of life, rich and famous, how many young and beautiful eighteen or nineteen-year-old girls were around him?

Do you dare to guarantee that Xiao Cao will not be tempted by the time, will she not abandon her wife and children, abandon Qinghong, and find a little girl in menopause? ”

Zhao Meifen frowned: "I don't think Xiao Cao is that kind of person." ”

"But he's a man!" Wu Zemin shook his head, "I'm also a man, and I know men best."

Ten men, nine flowers, and one is a fool!

What a good man, that's all constrained by the environment.

If I dare to hook up with other women behind your back, I will definitely be looked down upon, I will definitely not be able to stay in the factory, my reputation will be all stinky, and I will be swept out of the house by you, and I will really have nothing at that time. ”

"Huh!" Zhao Meifen smiled coldly, "It turns out that you don't dare, it's not that you don't want to." ”

"Yes, of course I wouldn't dare." Wu Zemin generously admitted, "Ordinary men, who doesn't want to have three wives and four concubines, isn't that not allowed by the policy, and the conditions are not allowed?"

Even now, even if the policy does not allow three wives and four concubines, if you are rich, powerful and conditional, how many can you not be tempted and not look for a lover outside?

If nothing else, let's just talk about the deputy director of my factory, isn't he just unclear with a young female worker in the factory, and actually took care of others?

And the director of the department in your hospital, didn't he hide from his wife and hook up with a trainee nurse?

There are many other similar things, do you still need me to list them one by one? ”

Zhao Meifen frowned slightly: "There are always good ones, and there are also the kind of dedicated and capable men, do you think everyone is the same as you?" ”

"Don't compare me, I haven't done anything to be sorry for you." Wu Zemin said, "At least I didn't look for a woman outside." ”

"You can't find it." Zhao Meifen said coldly.

"I didn't want to look for it!" Wu Zemin said, "I don't have so many fancy intestines, I just want to be for this family!" ”

"Not really." Zhao Meifen said, "How do you know that people's Xiaocao is spending?" ”

"Why don't you understand?" Wu Zemin shook his head.

"We don't spend flowers, we can keep our hearts, and the most critical factor is that we don't have the conditions to spend flowers.

But that Cao Zhiqiang is different, he is rich, status, and talented, and they are all the types that little girls like.

He can not pay attention for a day, not for a week, but what about a year, ten years? Who can guarantee it?

I think when Xu Zhimo was young, didn't he also love Zhang Youyi, but what about later? Let Zhang Youyi be virtuous and virtuous, won't it end in divorce?

I think this Cao Zhiqiang, his talent is not much worse than Xu Zhimo, and he is young and promising, can he be willing to live alone in this life?

I don't think so! ”

"Not necessarily, not necessarily." Zhao Meifen said, "If there is really that day, divorce will be divorced, anyway, with Xiao Cao's temperament, if you really want to divorce, you will not be treated badly by Qinghong, at least materially, you will definitely eat and drink for the rest of your life." ”

"You're a lake!" Wu Zemin said bitterly, "If Qinghong is an ordinary child, even if it is like Xiaozhen, I won't say anything, but Qinghong is different!" ”

After sighing, Wu Zemin continued: "You also know Qinghong's character, he is stubborn, and he admits death, which is different from ordinary people.

Qinghong knows about Xiaogen, in my opinion, Qinghong's feelings for Xiaogen are just like that, and they are not very deep.

But even so, Qinghong could commit suicide by cutting her wrists in shame because she was almost killed by Xiaogen, and she almost disappeared.

This Cao Zhiqiang saved Qinghong twice, eloped with Qinghong, and then gave what he wanted, he was talented and promising.

I put myself in my shoes, I have to like such a man, let alone Qinghong.

You see, her attitude towards us is completely different from her attitude towards Cao Zhiqiang, it's like a different person.

Qinghong seems to have really fallen into it, and she can't extricate herself from that Cao Zhiqiang.

But I think that Cao Zhiqiang, although he is good to Qinghong, he is not particularly enthusiastic, at least he didn't fall into it, not like he is single-minded.

In other words, Qinghong and Cao Zhiqiang, the relationship between the two is different.

Qinghong gave everything, and that Cao Zhiqiang, hum, his feelings for Qinghong, I will burn high incense if I can have half of it.

If the two of them don't get married, in case they really get married, and that Cao Zhiqiang turns around and doesn't fall in love again, don't be blush, just rely on Qinghong's temperament, she, if she commits suicide again, who will save her at that time? ”

As soon as she heard this, Zhao Meifen stopped talking.

After a long while, Zhao Meifen spoke: "Then, even so, we can't help it." ”

After sighing, Zhao Meifen said, "You just came, you haven't lived here, and you don't understand anything." I've been here for a while, and I've talked to Qinghong many times.

Actually, I haven't thought about it.

No, I thought of it in the first place.

But there is no way, Qinghong is now trapped.

Qinghong, she is now completely a member of the family.

Not only was the body taken away, but the heart was also taken away.

You know, I don't dare to say anything bad about Xiao Cao in front of Qinghong now.

Whenever I say a little bit, such as Xiao Cao's heart is too rough, or spending money lavishly, Qinghong can be angry with me, and she won't see me directly, and I have to lick my face to apologize for my sin, and she will forgive me.

I can't even talk about these small problems, let alone big ones.

You have to tell Qinghong that Xiao Cao is easy to mess with flowers and grass outside, and it is possible to empathize and not fall in love, she will definitely not believe it, and she will definitely turn her face with you. ”

After sighing again, Zhao Meifen said: "Anyway, I'm looking away now, let's take a step at a time, if that day comes, if Xiao Cao wants to abandon Qinghong, it's a big deal that I will kneel in front of him Cao Zhiqiang and beg him to change his mind, otherwise what else?" ”

Wu Zemin silently took out a pack of cigarettes, looked at it, and put it back silently.

Well, red panda, reluctant to smoke.

After clicking his lips, Wu Zemin suddenly said: "I see, otherwise, what about their affairs, let's not stop them first, and say everything."

Then, Qinghong's pre-examination results are not good now, is it a certainty to take the university entrance examination?

That's good, let's just say, don't talk about marriage first, study hard first.

Then after the college entrance examination, if Qinghong is really admitted to university and her grades are not good, she will be in Guizhou, and if her grades are good, she will be allowed to go to Shanghai to go to university.

Anyway, Qinghong can't be allowed to come to the capital to go to college, and try to avoid more contact between the two of them.

As long as the two of them live apart for a long time, if Cao Zhiqiang is really a romantic species, he will definitely not be able to hold back, and he will definitely empathize with other women during this period and get along with other women.

At that time, if Qinghong knew about this situation, even if it was uncomfortable, as long as he didn't see anyone, and we were watching, it shouldn't be a big problem.

Qinghong is now small and has little knowledge.

If she goes to college, gets older and has more knowledge, she may not still admit death and drill the horns of the bull as she does now.

And there are many talents in the university, maybe Qinghong will meet a good young man who is the right person, and he will empathize with him first. ”

"That can't be!" Zhao Meifen said, "My child, I know, Qinghong will never empathize with other lovers." ”

"Not necessarily." Wu Zemin said, "Didn't Qinghong secretly fall in love with Xiaogen before, what happened in the end, didn't she get along with Cao Zhiqiang soon?" It can be seen that this kind of thing is difficult to talk about. ”

"That's different." Zhao Meifen said, "That's Xiaogen who hurt Qinghong first and broke her heart." ”

"It seems to me that it's all pretty much the same." Wu Zemin said, "When the time comes, if Qinghong knows that Cao Zhiqiang has a new love, don't you want her, isn't it the same thing?" ”

"That's what you said." Zhao Meifen said, "What if Cao Zhiqiang doesn't empathize and don't fall in love, he will recognize Qinghong?" ”

Wu Zemin pouted: "If each other has been separated from each other for four years in college, and Cao Zhiqiang has been able to resist all kinds of temptations during this period and never look for other women, it means that this person is indeed reliable."

Such a capable, reliable and dedicated good man, Qinghong wants to marry him, of course I approve of it with both hands, and I will definitely not hold back.

But such a man, how much do you think this is possible? ”

"Ugh." Zhao Meifen sighed.

"Don't be so disappointed." Wu Zemin smiled slightly, "Maybe this Xiao Cao is really different, and maybe Qinghong really finds a good man." ”

"It's you, it's you, it's you, it's you, it's you, it's Zhao Meifen squinted at Wu Zemin, "Everything you said." ”

"I'm not planning for a rainy day!"

Speaking of this, Wu Zemin got up from the bed and walked back and forth in the room.

Suddenly, Wu Zemin stopped and said to Zhao Meifen: "No matter what happens in the future, at least for now, Xiao Cao is really good to Qinghong."

We can't do nothing either, just in case.

In this way, while Xiao Cao is now obedient to Qinghong, we can ask for a little bit.

For example, this courtyard, didn't you say that Xiaocao once said that when Qinghong University graduates in the future, he will be transferred to Qinghong?

Discuss with him, don't graduate from college, it's best to transfer to Qinghong now.

has a house in hand, at least there is a guarantee, even if Qinghong is kicked by Cao Zhiqiang in the future, it will not be a loss.

Also, on the issue of our work, since Xiao Cao is so capable, he will transfer us to Shanghai to work.

That's right, you have to go back to Shanghai, not in the capital.

Let's go back to Shanghai, and in case Qinghong is abandoned in the future, there will be a place to go back.

If you and I are in the capital, after Xiao Cao abandons Qinghong, if he sees that we are not pleasing to the eye and takes our work away, there will really be no reason at that time.

And when people are under the eaves, they have to look at his face for everything, and I can't stand it.

It's better to go back to Shanghai, our family is there anyway, and there are still some old relationships, and he Cao Zhiqiang may not be able to do so much. ”

"What a fallacy." Zhao Meifen frowned, "I think you want to go back to Shanghai, right?" ”

"Yes, I want to go back, you don't want to go back?" Wu Zemin asked.

"I don't want to." Zhao Meifen shook her head, "Where Qinghong is, I am there." If Qinghong is in the capital, I will be in the capital, at least there will be a response. ”

"Lake Tu!" Wu Zemin said, "You are here, but it makes Qinghong uncomfortable, and there is no reason for us to let Qinghong go to Shanghai to go to college at that time."

Besides, you don't have only Qinghong, but also Qingbai, you can't think about him? ”

"Even if it's for Qingbai's sake, why can't you stay in the capital." Zhao Meifen said, "The capital is the capital anyway, and it's good here." ”

"What's good." Wu Zemin said, "The climate, diet, and habits are different everywhere, how can Beijing be compared with Shanghai?"

Don't forget, we are Shanghai Yin, not from Beijing, we will go back sooner or later! ”

"Anyway, I'm talking about going back to Shanghai again." Zhao Meifen frowned and said, "In the end, you only think about yourself!" ”

"Hey, I don't like to hear what you say, why do I only think about myself?" Wu Zemin said, "Let's go back to Shanghai, it's a way out, it's better than a family in the capital, all of them have to look at his Cao Zhiqiang's face, right?" ”

"Then I don't have the ability to go to Shanghai by myself." Zhao Meifen said, "Don't let Xiao Cao help." ”

Wu Zemin was furious: "He slept with Qinghong, I didn't settle accounts with him, what's wrong with letting him help with this?" ”

"Shh Zhao Meifen frowned, "Be quiet, not afraid of being heard?" ”

Wu Zemin pressed the fire, lowered his volume and said:

"You see, that's what people do under the roof!

Let's be here, we don't even dare to speak loudly, if the whole family comes to live here in the future, don't you have to look at his Cao Zhiqiang's face?

When the time comes, he will have to be even more fearless, and he will not take us Qinghong in his eyes.

It's better to go back to Shanghai, far away, and then Qinghong will go to Shanghai for college.

This is also a test, a test of Xiao Cao's character.

If the two places are separated for four years, Xiao Cao can still lose his will to Qinghong......

I swear, if they still want to be together at that time, I will never stop them! ”