Chapter 971: Messy
Tian Shao knew that there must be something inside, after all, Second Aunt Li still had her grandson and grandson to take care of, how could she go back to Yongning County to take care of the two old people. But this is someone else's family matter, and Tian Shao didn't ask.
Li Aihua treats Tian Shao as his own, and there is no idea that the ugliness of the family should not be publicized: "My grandmother is old and a little confused, and she was sick and hospitalized twice last year, and my mother took leave to take care of her. As a result, she always picks and chooses, and then my aunt bought tonic to see her, and she told people that my aunt is more intimate than her daughter. My mom was so angry that she had a big fight with my dad at the time, but she was angry that she and my dad were in the county, and she still had to take care of something."
Sometimes her father was so busy that he couldn't find anyone and didn't have time to take care of her grandmother, and this matter finally fell on her mother. If you can get two good words, it's worth it to be tired, but the result is still picky.
There's an old saying that smells good and smells good, and this applies to anyone. Tian Shao said, "The problem is that your aunt can't leave, what will you do then?"
Li Aihua sighed and said, "I don't know, when the time comes, let's sit down and figure out a way to solve it together!" Alas, my mother said that if I don't let her go to the district to take care of the children, I will go to the northwest to take care of my brother for a while when I retire. Tian Shao, my grandmother loves me a lot, but I also feel sorry for my mother. Over the years, my grandmother has been my mother Zhang Luo, and my mother has taken care of her when she is sick and hospitalized, but she has never received a good word from my grandmother."
Tian Shao knew that Mother Li did not have a good relationship with Grandma Li when she was young, and the relationship eased only after they lived separately. But I didn't expect that at this age, Mrs. Li was still unforgiving.
"What did your dad say?"
Li Aihua shook his head and said, "My dad naturally disagrees, but it's useless, my mom has already made a decision. During the Chinese New Year, I told my uncle and aunt about it, and my uncle agreed."
Second Uncle Li felt guilty in his heart, after all, it was Li's father and Li's mother who had been taking care of the two elders all these years, so he also wanted to take over the two old people to do their filial piety.
Needless to say, everyone knows that if the old man and the old lady are taken to the provincial capital, Li Yuan's family will definitely have to jump when they arrive. However, Li's mother has a very correct saying, it is all because her son has no reason to let them take care of it all the time.
Tian Shao comforted her and said, "This is the matter of the elders, and it is not easy for you as a junior to interfere. Your mother is willing to take care of the child for you, and you will happily take it, and if she doesn't go, she will hire someone herself."
Li Aihua nodded and said, "Zhao Kang also told me the same. Forget it, let my grandmother go to live in the provincial city for a while, and then she will know who is good."
Tian Shao still said that the matter between the elders has no right to speak as a junior. So it's useless for Li Aihua to be sad and entangled, at most both sides are relieved.
Li Aihua looked at Tian Shao and said, "Xiao Shao, I envy you sometimes."
"What do you envy me?"
Li Aihua smiled bitterly and said, "I envy you for getting along well with the two concubines!" And your sister-in-law is smart and reasonable, there is nothing bad about your mother-in-law's family, and you have the final say in your mother's affairs. Unlike me, my mother's family and my mother-in-law's family are in a mess."
Why is it difficult for Qing officials to judge family affairs, because the public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother says that the mother is reasonable. In a situation like the Li family, even if it is replaced by Tian Shao, it cannot be solved.
Tian Shao said, "This is not something you can solve, and it is useless for you to be annoyed. All you can do now is work hard and teach your two daughters well, so that your mother doesn't have to worry about it." ….
Li Aihua nodded.
After thinking about it, she said, "If your grandmother regrets it in the future, I want your mother to continue to take care of it." Then your dad and your uncle both ask your mom to go back and take care of your grandma, and you have to respect *** decision."
"What?"
Tian Shao explained, "If your mother is willing to go back, it will be good; But if you don't want to go back and continue to take care of your grandma, you can't help your dad persuade her to stay silent. Otherwise, your mother will be sad."
Li Aihua thought for a while and nodded, "I won't persuade you."
Empathy, standing in her mother's position and not wanting to take care of it. After all, it's not just a daughter-in-law, it doesn't make sense that her mother is tired half to death, and the second aunt has to be praised for being so leisurely.
Because Li Aihua's child was at his parents' house, Li Aihua was just about to rush over there for dinner, so the two separated after chatting for more than half an hour.
On the way back, Tan Yue asked, "What did you say for so long? I'll see
Comrade Li's face is not good, could it be that he is still worried that Aunt Zhao will find fault?"
Tian Shao didn't hide it from her, and said, "No, her grandmother and Aunt Yang don't get along, not only do they always pick thorns, but they also deny her efforts over the years and only praise her daughter-in-law. Aunt Yang was cold and didn't want to take care of it anymore, so she asked Second Uncle Li and Second Aunt Li to take over."
Tan Yue shook his head and said, "They can't take care of it."
There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, and the two sons of the Li family have a good income, so they are not worried about medical expenses, but taking care of the patient is a very draining thing. Second Uncle Li's family used to come back for a few days during the New Year's holiday, even if they were very tired when taking care of them, they endured it and passed. But if you are taken care of by your side, the contradiction will definitely increase sharply.
Tian Shao smiled and said, "Aunt Yang retired in September, and she said that she would bring the children to Sister Aihua then. I saw that I was really hurt, and even if Grandma Li regretted it, she would not be able to compromise."
How so? What you plant is what you get, if you don't like Aunt Yang to take care of it, let your favorite daughter-in-law take care of it.
Tan Yue suddenly felt a little emotional when he heard this, and said, "I found that I have to face many problems at this age."
Tian Shao knew what she was talking about: "At this age, when you are old and young, you are naturally tired. I tell you, in the future, you will maintain a united front with me in the matter of my parents. With my mother's temperament, if you don't suppress it, you're going to toss something."
"Okay."
When I returned home, I found that Er Ya and Nie Suozhu had also come over. After dinner, Tian Shao said to Li Guihua, "Mother, you brought the two children into the house!"
Li Guihua saw her posture and knew that she had something to say to the second girl, so she brought the two children into the house.
Tian Shao looked at Nie Suozhu and asked, "What do you have to do with that person named Peng Youcai?" He fights and fights, why are you trying to get people in the name of me and your brother-in-law?"
Nie Suozhu's face turned pale.
Tian Dalin was stunned: "Xiao Shao, what's going on?"
Okay, looking at her father's appearance, she doesn't know about it at all. Tian Shao looked at Erya and said, "Dad, I also want to know what's going on?"
Tian Dalin looked at Nie Suozhu and asked, "Who is this Peng Youcai, and what does it have to do with you?" Why did you call this big girl and your brother-in-law to save him?"
When he knew that this Peng Youcai was Aunt Nie's nephew, Tian Dalin almost fainted. The eldest and daughter-in-law of the Nie family, and the people of Nie Family Village all said that they were kind, but he felt that it was not a good thing. If you were really kind, you wouldn't have left the old man to Nie Suozhu and Erya to take care of, and you wouldn't have contributed money or effort.
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