Otherwise, men like confidantes.

What is a confidante?

The so-called confidante, first of all, you have to be a red face, that is, you have to be good-looking and look eye-catching, that is, the so-called high appearance.

The second is a confidant, that is, you know how to talk about taste, and to put it bluntly, you have high emotional intelligence and can comfort people.

Cao Zhiqiang didn't know if Hao Shuwen was someone else's confidante before, but after chatting and confiding that night, Cao Zhiqiang was sure that Hao Shuwen could be regarded as his confidant.

In terms of appearance, although Hao Shuwen is not particularly amazing, she is a durable type, the more she looks at it, the more she looks at it, and the more she looks at it, the more comfortable she becomes.

In terms of comforting people, the analysis she gave Cao Zhiqiang also gave Cao Zhiqiang a feeling of seeing the light of day.

Cao Zhiqiang in his previous life, because he didn't have the opportunity to be a scumbag, so his feelings for men and women were mostly obtained through news and the like.

At that time, he often had doubts, that is, why some goddesses who seemed to be very smart and sensible, whether they were lively or cold, were always easy to be taken by scumbags.

Cao Zhiqiang used to follow the crowd, thinking that those goddesses had lost their eyes and were deceived by scumbags.

But now that I have a personal experience similar to a scumbag, coupled with Hao Shuwen's enlightenment, I suddenly have a feeling of enlightenment.

Think about it carefully, those goddesses who were deceived by scumbags in their previous lives, especially those cold female stars, were they really just blind and deceived?

Not necessarily.

It is more likely that those goddesses and those scumbags take what they need.

Outsiders look at scumbags and only see the scumbag behaviors of those scumbags, such as messing with flowers and grass and stepping on two boats, but they may ignore the other advantages of the scumbag itself.

For example, he is very handsome, has a very sweet mouth, or is very good at getting things done, and is particularly rich and resourceful, etc.

To put it bluntly, the reason why those scumbags can get the goddess is, in the final analysis, what the scumbag can give the goddess want.

If you think of it as a deal, it makes sense.

It's nothing more than I want something from you, and then I'm going to give something.

After weighing the pros and cons, if you feel that the gain is greater than the pay, and you can bear that kind of pay, then the deal is done.

In the case of Hao Shuwen, she and her current husband originally had no relationship, and even hated each other.

But because the relationship between the two families is good, the parents of the two families think that marriage is more beneficial, and after Hao Shuwen and her husband weigh the pros and cons, they also feel that the benefits of marriage are more, and they can outweigh the differences and disadvantages, so they get married.

But after getting married, Hao Shuwen's husband was unwilling to be lonely, and when he met another woman he liked more, he felt that the original marriage was not cost-effective and not good, so he wanted to end the marriage, or not to end it, so he stepped on two boats, maintained a nominal marriage with Hao Shuwen, and continued to live with the mistress.

After Hao Shuwen found out, she couldn't accept this result, so she began to make trouble with the other party.

Of course, if there is no Cao Zhiqiang, Hao Shuwen may choose to endure it because of her interests and continue to be a nominal husband and wife with her husband.

After all, continuing to maintain that relationship can allow Hao Shuwen to continue to be Mrs. Kuo, and gain the support of the two families, and continue to be proud in front of others. …

But Hao Shuwen met Cao Zhiqiang during this period, and was fascinated by Cao Zhiqiang's handsomeness and talent, fell in love at first sight, and fell in love with Cao Zhiqiang, so the situation was different.

Hao Shuwen's current situation is just like his husband.

Before her husband met the junior, he could continue to maintain a basic marital status with Hao Shuwen and continue to be a qualified husband, because at that time, his recognition of this marriage relationship was at least acceptable.

It is equivalent to saying that Hao Shuwen's husband had no dissatisfaction with this marriage before, nor did he have any expectations, and he was psychologically balanced.

But after her husband went to Shenzhen to meet the junior, he fell in love at first sight and fell in love with that woman, so he began to compare, thinking that the junior was better than Hao Shuwen everywhere, and then he was all kinds of unaccustomed and bored when he looked at Hao Shuwen.

After a long time, Hao Shuwen's husband's heart began to be unbalanced, and he gradually favored the mistress, wanting to restart a family with the mistress, and abandon Hao Shuwen, whom he couldn't look down on.

In this case, you say it's love, maybe, you say it's a ghost, but more, it may be Hao Shuwen's husband, who happens to have a hole in his heart, and happens to meet a woman who can fill the hole.

To put it bluntly, for Hao Shuwen's husband, that junior is the woman he really wants.

Therefore, strictly speaking, there is no right or wrong in this matter, it depends on whose position you stand on.

Standing in the position of Hao Shuwen's husband, he did the right thing, after all, he didn't love Hao Shuwen at all, he was reluctant to combine before, but he was just reluctant to endure, if he didn't meet true love, he would change his mind immediately when he met true love.

But from Hao Shuwen's standpoint, her husband is very wrong, because her husband's behavior is Chen Shimei, which is a betrayal of her and her family, and it is unforgivable.

Originally, before she met Cao Zhiqiang, Hao Shuwen was able to endure it after weighing the pros and cons, but after having Cao Zhiqiang, she couldn't bear it anymore.

Hao Shuwen's logic is very simple, that is, after seeing Cao Zhiqiang, Hao Shuwen can't look down on her husband anymore, and she also falls in love with Cao Zhiqiang and wants to be with Cao Zhiqiang.

But Hao Shuwen is a married woman, and the energy of the two families is not small, it is impossible for her to maintain her marriage with her husband while being good with Cao Zhiqiang, which is harmful to others and herself.

At this time, Hao Shuwen knew that her husband was cheating first, and felt that this was a good opportunity, so she deliberately went to the south to make a big fuss, in fact, she wanted to mess up the marriage, and by the way, she put the hat of cheating on her husband's head, and created herself as a victim, so that she could better get close to Cao Zhiqiang and get Cao Zhiqiang.

That's right, in fact, from the beginning, Hao Shuwen had this idea, and at the beginning, Hao Shuwen was greedy for Cao Zhiqiang.

Otherwise, how could Hao Shuwen have known Cao Zhiqiang for a short time, and she has all kinds of stalking, all kinds of care, and even the group of friends who took him to meet her?

In fact, if Hao Shuwen is replaced with a man and Cao Zhiqiang is replaced by a woman, isn't this a scene where a married bully falls in love with a good girl, and then hooks up with a good girl? …

It's nothing more than Hao Shuwen's husband cheated on her first, and she was caught, and there are many people who know about it, so she suffers even more morally.

As for Hao Shuwen, her cheating was after her husband cheated, and she was not caught and not known to outsiders, so Hao Shuwen is still a victim and has won the sympathy of almost everyone.

But in essence, Hao Shuwen and her husband are the same, and everyone is just half a catty.

However, it is precisely because Hao Shuwen is a married woman, and she likes Cao Zhiqiang very much, and she wants Cao Zhiqiang even more, that she is willing to lower her posture and lower her requirements, even if she is a lover without a name, she is willing.

The reason is very simple, that is, after weighing the pros and cons, Hao Shuwen found that if she wanted to get Cao Zhiqiang, she could only use this method of lowering her profile, if she wanted more requirements, Cao Zhiqiang would run away, and she would not be able to continue to stay with Cao Zhiqiang.

It's like a second-married woman who wants to get married again, and the conditions are often much lower, and Hao Shuwen's situation is like this.

If Hao Shuwen, who has never been married or had children, falls in love with Cao Zhiqiang, then Hao Shuwen may be a different face, and she will ask for more, I am afraid that she will really want to completely dominate Cao Zhiqiang, it is impossible to share it with others, and it is impossible to be an underground lover.

If you don't have enough money and want to eat high-end food, then you have to put yourself in a good position and exchange something else for chips, such as dignity.

In the same way, although Yu Yuanyuan's situation is different from Hao Shuwen's, the essence is the same.

Before Yu Yuanyuan met Cao Zhiqiang, of course she felt that Yang Weiguo was better.

Although Yang Weiguo has various faults, such as high self-esteem, selfishness, ruthlessness and unrighteousness, etc., if you put aside these shortcomings, he also has many advantages.

If nothing else, let's just say that Yang Weiguo is a college student at a serious prestigious university, and he plans to continue his graduate studies, which in itself surpasses most men of the same age.

You must know that in 1983, college students were really rare, especially undergraduates, and the gold content was even more powerful than that of later generations of master's students.

And Yang Weiguo's academic performance is good, not to mention, he is also very good at drilling, if such a person enters the society, as long as he doesn't end up overturning, it is certain to be an official.

As far as Yu Yuanyuan's situation is concerned, there is one around her, and simply speaking, there is no one who can compare to Yang Weiguo.

Therefore, Yu Yuanyuan has always been good with Yang Weiguo, not so much because of habit, or not so much as a childhood sweetheart, but after weighing the pros and cons, I feel that Yang Weiguo has the best conditions.

As for Yu Yuanyuan's colleague Sister Sun, the reason why she looks down on Yang Weiguo in various ways is that in addition to really not looking down on her, it is estimated that there are also a lot of jealous elements.

So, before there is no better man, such as Cao Zhiqiang, Yang Weiguo is indeed Yu Yuanyuan's best choice, even if he has various shortcomings, but he reluctantly accepts it, or finds a way to change it, it is not impossible.

In other words, if Cao Zhiqiang doesn't show up, even if Yu Yuanyuan knows that Yang Weiguo is good with other women, she may choose to forgive in the end, continue to be good with Yang Weiguo, and think of getting rid of that woman, instead of letting go directly.

Unless there is no way, Yu Yuanyuan will not give up a high-quality man like Yang Weiguo. …

But Cao Zhiqiang appeared.

Cao Zhiqiang is not as educated as Yang Weiguo, but he is younger, more handsome, more talented and richer, and of course more powerful and powerful.

Yang Weiguo is still kneeling and licking the niece of the school leader for the matter of graduation assignment, and even does not hesitate to be Chen Shimei and give up Yu Yuanyuan, whom he also likes.

At this time, Cao Zhiqiang was already the president of a large publishing house, with a lot of people under him, and he could manage a lot of money, and he ate and drank luxurious meals, went in and out of foreign-related hotels, and his cars were all imported cars, which was completely different.

As for the future, if Yang Weiguo has no one to help him after that, he will be a division-level cadre, and it is impossible to be too high, after all, his ability is limited and the background is limited.

But what about Cao Zhiqiang, if he does it well, his future is limitless, after all, Cao Zhiqiang's backstage is not comparable to Yang Weiguo's backstage, and the order of magnitude is different.

Yang Weiguo's backstage is nothing more than the deputy secretary of his university, and he is a six-grade cadre, that is, he helps in graduation and employment.

And Cao Zhiqiang's backstage, that is a third-grade master, is not at the same level at all.

So Cao Zhiqiang is not as good as his education, but he also kills Yang Weiguo in other aspects, the key is also to know and understand, being with Cao Zhiqiang is far more comfortable than with Yang Weiguo who just wants to take advantage, so what reason does Yu Yuanyuan have not to like it?

It's just that Yu Yuanyuan was used to it smoothly before, and she still had a bit of a temper with the eldest lady, so she wanted to wait but refused to say it directly, she had to wait, wait, wait, wait, and wait, but when Cao Zhiqiang came, he had a new love.

found out that Cao Zhiqiang had a new love, Yu Yuanyuan panicked, and began to accelerate her transformation.

waited until Yang Weiguo's derailment happened, and it was funny that it was a fuse, which made Yu Yuanyuan mature in an instant and truly understand what she wanted.

In other words, Yu Yuanyuan actually cheated on her soul a long time ago, and she had long been in love with Cao Zhiqiang, but at that time, she was tender and embarrassed to say it, and she was embarrassed to break up with Yang Weiguo directly, and then find Cao Zhiqiang separately.

It wasn't until after Yang Weiguo's derailment incident that Yu Yuanyuan let go of her psychological baggage and could find Cao Zhiqiang with peace of mind.

But at this time, Cao Zhiqiang already has a new love and a girlfriend.

What to do?

At this time, Yu Yuanyuan was faced with two choices, either give up or lower her body and chase hard.

Yu Yuanyuan decisively chose the same choice as Hao Shuwen, that is, to lower her body and chase hard.

Obviously, the two daughters serve a husband together, which is not only what Yu Fangfang said, but also a step for Yu Yuanyuan.

Because under normal circumstances, when Cao Zhiqiang already has a new love and is relatively upright, Yu Yuanyuan has no chance.

But Yu Yuanyuan has already given up Yang Weiguo, if she gives up Cao Zhiqiang again, wouldn't it be empty-handed?

That's why Yu Yuanyuan wanted to fight hard, and even didn't hesitate to play tricks that couldn't be put on the table, such as forcibly sleeping after getting drunk, to get Cao Zhiqiang.

It's a pity that this trick was resolved by Cao Zhiqiang.

After it is resolved, Yu Yuanyuan faces a bigger problem, that is, after the matter of fake drunkenness, I am afraid that Yu Yuanyuan will not even have the possibility of being a godsister and brother with Cao Zhiqiang. …

Because of his heart, Cao Zhiqiang definitely didn't dare to accept a woman who wanted to get him drunk and sleep with him by force, and then use this method to get him and force him to give up his current girlfriend.

Women who like to play tricks on conspiracies, and how many men like it.

And the link between Cao Zhiqiang and the Yu family is mainly Yu Yuanyuan, if Yu Yuanyuan and Cao Zhiqiang have a quarrel, not only Yu Yuanyuan will not get Cao Zhiqiang, but Yu Fangfang's work and household registration will also be in vain.

Therefore, Yu Fangfang decisively said the words "two daughters serve one husband together", on the surface, it was for her sister's good, so that her sister would have a chance to catch up with Cao Zhiqiang, but in fact, the essence was for herself.

For Yuanyuan, the two daughters serving a husband together is indeed her only chance.

Because the two women serving a husband together are very attractive to men, and Yu Yuanyuan's willingness to be small can also make up for her shortcomings in tricks to a certain extent.

For Yuanyuan, as long as she still wants to stay by Cao Zhiqiang's side and want to be favored by Cao Zhiqiang, she can only abandon a certain dignity and stay by Cao Zhiqiang's side by being willing to be a lover.

Only in this way can she have the opportunity to fight with Wu Qinghong, who has temporarily become the mother of the main palace.

And even if he fails, he can't get a complete Cao Zhiqiang, but Cao Zhiqiang has too many advantages, even if it is only half, or even a little, it is better than most men.

Not to mention, it may be the relationship between the people who came over, Hao Shuwen's analysis, the analysis of the regulations, immediately solved Cao Zhiqiang's confusion, and he came out of the original confusion in an instant.

As for whether her saying this will make Cao Zhiqiang doubt Hao Shuwen's purpose.

Well, Hao Shuwen said it herself, of course she also has a purpose, of course she also wants to get a complete Cao Zhiqiang, but she is more self-aware, so she is not afraid to say it openly.

Hao Shuwen believes that Cao Zhiqiang is very smart, and when he talks openly, he can open up to each other more and become each other's confidants.

Hao Shuwen even said that she no longer expected Cao Zhiqiang to marry her, she only hoped that Cao Zhiqiang would not abandon her so early, and secondly, she hoped to give Cao Zhiqiang at least one child.

That's right, being able to secretly stay by Cao Zhiqiang's side as a lover and give Cao Zhiqiang a child is Hao Shuwen's biggest request.

She said her purpose, but she could live with Cao Zhiqiang without estrangement, without suspicion.

This is exactly where Hao Shuwen is smart.

A lover must have the consciousness of a lover, and if he wants to be on the throne rashly when the heat is not ready, he will only be empty.

Hao Shuwen's self-knowledge is her cleverness.

Moreover, Hao Shuwen not only analyzed the current situation for Cao Zhiqiang, but also taught Cao Zhiqiang what to do.

Originally, Cao Zhiqiang thought that Hao Shuwen would let Cao Zhiqiang stay away from Yu Yuanyuan and give up Yu Yuanyuan.

Who knows, Hao Shuwen's suggestion was actually to let Cao Zhiqiang accept Yu Yuanyuan and accept Yu Yuanyuan as a child.

This surprised Cao Zhiqiang.

However, what Hao Shuwen said next made Cao Zhiqiang even more surprised, or shocked.

Because Hao Shuwen said, judging from Yu Yuanyuan's current performance, she already loves Cao Zhiqiang's death, and she has lost Yang Weiguo's spare tire, if there is no Cao Zhiqiang, she will really have nothing, and her face will be gone. …

People like Yu Yuanyuan, once they are cornered, they can really do anything.

If it's an ordinary woman, it's fine, after all, no matter what, Cao Zhiqiang hasn't slept too much Yuanyuan, which is invincible.

But I was afraid that Yu Yuanyuan would give up on herself and frame Cao Zhiqiang for sleeping with her.

There is no DNA testing in these years, and things like Qiang Jian rely more on women's reports.

If the woman herself is not a virgin, and she is determined to sue Cao Zhiqiang, and the process of saying that there is a nose and eyes, then in Yuanyuan's situation, Cao Zhiqiang has a high probability of going to lawsuit.

When the time comes, it will be really difficult for Cao Zhiqiang to prove his innocence.

And this kind of thing is not good to say, even if Cao Zhiqiang can finally get out at the legal level, everyone will think that Cao Zhiqiang is a scumbag, and he really has something to do with Yu Yuanyuan.

This is the gold of all mouths, and then there is sympathy for the weak.

Because most people will think that a good woman like Yu Yuanyuan, if she is not really scum by Cao Zhiqiang, it is impossible not to sue with shame, which is a devastating blow to a woman's reputation.

At that time, even if Cao Zhiqiang can win the lawsuit, he will lose his reputation, not to mention that he may not be able to win the lawsuit.

Therefore, in order not to make Yu Yuanyuan desperate and not let her die and break the net, the best way is to appease, that is, to accept Yu Yuanyuan.

As long as Yu Yuanyuan is accepted as a small, Yu Yuanyuan is appeased, and then slowly trained in the future, there is always a way to train Yu Yuanyuan well, so that she can't toss it, and obediently be an obedient and well-behaved woman.

Even Hao Shuwen said that the task of training Yu Yuanyuan could be handed over to her in the future.

She promised to make people like Yu Yuanyuan low and pleasing to the eyes, and promised not to cause trouble to Cao Zhiqiang.

Cao Zhiqiang listened to Hao Shuwen's words, so he spent money to buy a courtyard house near Taoranting Park, which was specially given to Yu Yuanyuan.

The reason why I bought it near Taoranting Park is because the environment here is good, quiet enough, suitable for Jinwu Zangjiao, not to mention, and it is not far from the First People's Hospital where Yu Yuanyuan works.

In other words, although Cao Zhiqiang is in the golden house, he is not completely captive, but lets Yu Yuanyuan continue to work.

Not to mention, after doing this, at least in the past half a month, Cao Zhiqiang has been a lot cleaner, anyway, Yu Yuanyuan has never taken the initiative to provoke him or trouble him.

"Although Sister Hao's method is wonderful, it is not a way to go on like this."

Thinking of this, Cao Zhiqiang couldn't help but pinch his chin.

"You can't keep being so unclear about the golden house, you have to have an explanation after all."